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The authors examined age differences in shame, guilt, and 2 forms of pride (authentic and hubristic) from age 13 years to age 89 years, using cross-sectional data from 2,611 individuals. Shame decreased from adolescence into middle adulthood, reaching a nadir around age 50 years, and then increased in old age. Guilt increased from adolescence into old age, reaching a plateau at about age 70 years. Authentic pride increased from adolescence into old age, whereas hubristic pride decreased from adolescence into middle adulthood, reaching a minimum around age 65 years, and then increased in old age. On average, women reported experiencing more shame and guilt; Blacks reported experiencing less shame and Asians more hubristic pride than other ethnicities. Across the life span, shame and hubristic pride tended to be negatively related to psychological well-being, and shame-free guilt and authentic pride showed positive relations with well-being. Overall, the findings support the maturity principle of personality development and suggest that as people age they become more prone to experiencing psychologically adaptive self-conscious emotions, such as guilt and authentic pride, and less prone to experiencing psychologically maladaptive ones, such as shame and hubristic pride.
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Running head: SHAME, GUILT, AND PRIDE ACROSS THE LIFE SPAN
Tracking the Trajectory of Shame, Guilt, and Pride Across the Life Span
Ulrich Orth
University of Basel
Richard W. Robins
University of California, Davis
Christopher J. Soto
Colby College
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Orth, U., Robins, R. W., & Soto, C. J. (2010). Tracking the trajectory of shame,
guilt, and pride across the life span. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology,
99, 1061-1071. http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/a0021342
Ulrich Orth
Department of Psychology
University of Basel
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Abstract
The authors examined age differences in shame, guilt, and two forms of pride (authentic and
hubristic) from age 13 to 89, using cross-sectional data from 2,611 individuals. Shame decreased
from adolescence into middle adulthood, reaching a nadir around age 50, and then increased in
old age. Guilt increased from adolescence into old age, reaching a plateau at about age 70.
Authentic pride increased from adolescence into old age, whereas hubristic pride decreased from
adolescence into middle adulthood, reaching a minimum around age 65, and then increased in
old age. On average, women reported experiencing more shame and guilt; Blacks reported
experiencing less shame and Asians more hubristic pride than other ethnicities. Across the life
span, shame and hubristic pride tended to be negatively related to psychological well-being, and
shame-free guilt and authentic pride showed positive relations with well-being. Overall, the
findings support the maturity principle of personality development and suggest that as people age
they become more prone to experiencing psychologically adaptive self-conscious emotions, such
as guilt and authentic pride, and less prone to experiencing psychologically maladaptive ones,
such as shame and hubristic pride.
Key Words: shame, guilt, pride, age differences, life span, psychological well-being
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Over the past two decades, interest in the self-conscious emotionssuch as shame, guilt,
and pridehas grown dramatically (Tracy, Robins, & Tangney, 2007). These emotions are
important given their significant influences on moral judgment, social behavior, and subjective
well-being (Tangney, Stuewig, & Mashek, 2007; Tangney, Wagner, Fletcher, & Gramzow,
1992; Tangney, Wagner, & Gramzow, 1992; Tracy, Cheng, Robins, & Trzesniewski, 2009).
Despite the importance of these emotions, we know relatively little about their developmental
course across the life span. Such knowledge would inform interventions that are designed to
promote the moral, social, and affective well-being of individuals. Research on the development
of self-conscious emotions has focused on childhood (Hart & Matsuba, 2007; Lagattuta &
Thompson, 2007; Lewis, 2007). Although childhood is clearly an important developmental stage
with regard to self-conscious emotions, it covers only a small portion of the human life course.
The goal of the present research is to fill this gap and to provide knowledge on the life-span
trajectories of self-conscious emotions. Specifically, we used data from a large cross-sectional
study to examine: (a) age differences in shame, guilt, and two forms of pride from age 13 to 89;
(b) whether these age trajectories hold across gender, education level, social class, and ethnicity;
(c) relations between self-conscious emotions and indicators of psychological well-being; and (d)
whether the trajectories of self-conscious emotions can be accounted for by the trajectories of
indicators of psychological well-being.
Before reviewing the empirical and theoretical background with regard to the
development of shame, guilt, and pride, we shortly provide definitions of the constructs. Shame
is an unpleasant emotion that individuals experience when they fail to meet internalized social
standards, including standards of morality, competence, or aesthetics (Tangney, 1999; Tracy &
Robins, 2004). Shame implies the perceived or feared loss of social status and a failure to live up
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to one’s own standards of excellence, with an attributional focus on internal, stable, and
uncontrollable causes (e.g., I am a bad person; see also Janoff-Bulman’s, 1979, concept of
characterological self-blame). Guilt likewise is an unpleasant emotion experienced when failing
to meet internalized social standards (Tangney, 1999; Tilghman-Osborne, Cole, & Felton, 2010;
Tracy & Robins, 2004). Guilt often implies a real or imagined moral transgression, with an
attributional focus on internal, unstable, and controllable causes (e.g., “I did a bad thing”). Pride,
in contrast, is a pleasant emotion in response to meeting internalized social standards (Tangney,
1999; Tracy & Robins, 2004). Recent research suggests that two forms of pridespecifically,
authentic and hubristic pridecan be reliably distinguished (Tracy & Robins, 2007). In both
forms of pride, the attributional focus is on internal causes. However, whereas authentic pride
implies attributions to unstable and specific causes (e.g., specific accomplishments or prosocial
behaviors; “I did a good thing.”), hubristic pride results from attributions to stable and global
aspects of the self (e.g., “I am a good person”). Whereas authentic pride has been proposed as the
affective core of self-esteem, hubristic pride is theorized to be the affective core of narcissism
(Tracy et al., 2009).
Changes in Self-Conscious Emotions Across the Life Span
The extant literature includes very few studies that have directly examined age
differences in self-conscious emotions. Two studies examined age differences in shame in
samples with limited age ranges. Crystal, Parrott, Okazaki, and Watanabe (2001) found that
older college students reported less shame than younger college students. In a longitudinal study,
De Rubeis and Hollenstein (2009) found that shame decreased slightly over a one year period
during early adolescence. Thus, very little is known about the life-span development of shame,
and almost nothing about the development of guilt and pride.
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Despite the dearth of research on age differences in self-conscious emotions, there is a
large literature on the development of (a) general affective dispositions and (b) personality traits.
Interestingly, these two bodies of research support two general principlesthe positivity
principle and the maturity principlethat lead to competing sets of hypotheses about age
differences in self-conscious emotions.
Changes in Affective Dispositions Across the Life Span:
The Positivity Principle
The available data suggest that positive affect remains relatively stable from young to
middle adulthood (Carstensen, Pasupathi, Mayr, & Nesselroade, 2000; Charles, Reynolds, &
Gatz, 2001), possibly increasing in adulthood (Helson & Soto, 2005; E. M. Kessler &
Staudinger, 2009; Mroczek & Kolarz, 1998), and then slightly decreasing in old age (Charles et
al., 2001).1 In contrast, negative affect decreases from young to middle adulthood (Gross et al.,
1997; Helson & Soto, 2005; E. M. Kessler & Staudinger, 2009; Mroczek & Kolarz, 1998), but
the decrease levels off in old age (Carstensen et al., 2000; Charles et al., 2001). Likewise,
neuroticism, a construct closely related to negative affectivity, decreases from young adulthood
to midlife and remains low into old age (Donnellan & Lucas, 2008; B. W. Roberts, Walton, &
Viechtbauer, 2006; Terracciano, McCrae, Brant, & Costa, 2005). Also, older adults report having
better emotion regulation than younger adults (Carstensen et al., 2000; Gross et al., 1997).
Other constructs related to well-beingsuch as life satisfaction, self-esteem, and
depressionshow life-span trajectories similar to positive and negative affect. For example,
Mroczek and Spiro (2005) found that life satisfaction increases from young adulthood to midlife,
reaches a peak at about age 65, and then declines during old age. Studies using samples of old
and very old individuals corroborate the decline of life satisfaction in old age (Gerstorf, Ram,
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Estabrook et al., 2008; Gerstorf, Ram, Röcke, Lindenberger, & Smith, 2008). Likewise, self-
esteem follows a quadratic trajectory across the life span, increasing during young and middle
adulthood, reaching a peak at about age 60 to 65, and declining in old age (Orth, Trzesniewski,
& Robins, 2010; Robins, Trzesniewski, Tracy, Gosling, & Potter, 2002). Depression, a negative
indicator of well-being, shows the opposite pattern, decreasing from young adulthood to middle
adulthood and then increasing in old age (R. C. Kessler, Foster, Webster, & House, 1992;
Lewinsohn, Rohde, Seeley, & Fischer, 1991).
This previous research can be summarized by what might be called the “positivity
principle”—the principle that the experience of pleasant affect tends to increase, and the
experience of unpleasant affect tends to decrease, across adulthood. This principle would lead us
to expect that pleasant emotions, such as authentic and hubristic pride, tend to increase with age,
whereas unpleasant emotions, such as shame and guilt, tend to decrease with age.
Changes in Personality Traits Across the Life Span:
The Maturity Principle
An alternative to the positivity principle is suggested by research examining age
differences in personality traits across the life span. The available cross-sectional and
longitudinal data indicate that agreeableness increases across the life span (Allemand, Zimprich,
& Hendriks, 2008; Donnellan & Lucas, 2008; B. W. Roberts et al., 2006; Terracciano et al.,
2005); conscientiousness increases throughout the adult life span (Allemand et al., 2008; B. W.
Roberts et al., 2006) or increases from young adulthood to midlife and then decreases during old
age (Donnellan & Lucas, 2008; Terracciano et al., 2005); empathy remains stable across the life
span (Grühn, Rebucal, Diehl, Lumley, & Labouvie-Vief, 2008); and narcissism decreases from
young adulthood to midlife (Foster, Campbell, & Twenge, 2003). Overall, these life-span
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trajectories reflect movement toward higher levels of maturity with increasing age, a
phenomenon Roberts and his colleagues have labeled the “maturity principle” (B. W. Roberts &
Mroczek, 2008; B. W. Roberts, Wood, & Caspi, 2008).
The maturity principle suggests that the psychologically adaptive emotions should
generally increase with age, whereas maladaptive emotions should show age-related declines.
Regarding self-conscious emotions specifically, previous research has shown that shame is
linked to low psychological well-being and dysfunctional interpersonal behaviors, whereas guilt
is unrelated to psychological well-being and linked to prosocial, well-adjusted interpersonal
behaviors (McMurrich & Johnson, 2009; Orth, Berking, & Burkhardt, 2006; Tangney, Wagner,
Fletcher et al., 1992; Tangney, Wagner, & Gramzow, 1992; Webb, Heisler, Call, Chickering, &
Colburn, 2007, but see also Harder, Cutler, & Rockart, 1992). Moreover, this divergent pattern
of relations is even larger when shame and guilt are simultaneously examined and mutually
controlled in their relations with intrapersonal and interpersonal adjustment (Orth et al., 2006;
Tangney, Wagner, Fletcher et al., 1992; Tangney, Wagner, & Gramzow, 1992), indicating a
pattern of suppression effects (Paulhus, Robins, Trzesniewski, & Tracy, 2004).
The findings for authentic and hubristic pride generally parallel those found for guilt and
shame, respectively. Authentic pride has been linked to well-being and prosocial interpersonal
behavior, whereas hubristic pride has been linked to low well-being and maladjusted
interpersonal behavior, and these divergent relations become even stronger when authentic and
hubristic pride are mutually controlled (Tracy et al., 2009; Tracy & Robins, 2007). The maturity
principle would therefore lead us to expect that levels of authentic pride, and perhaps guilt,
should generally increase with age, whereas hubristic pride and shame should decrease.
Goals of the Present Research
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Thus, our first goal for the present research was to examine age differences in self-
conscious emotions. Specifically, we will test whether self-conscious emotions show linear or
non-linear trajectories across the life span, and whether these age trends are consistent with the
positivity or the maturity principle. A pattern of age-related increases in authentic and hubristic
pride, but decreases in shame and guilt, would be consistent with the positivity principle. In
contrast, a pattern of increases in authentic pride and guilt, but decreases in hubristic pride and
shame, would be consistent with the maturity principle.
Our second goal was to test whether the mean levels and age trajectories of self-
conscious emotions differ as a function of demographic characteristics, such as gender,
education, social class, and ethnicity. Previous research suggests that women experience more
shame and guilt (T. A. Roberts & Goldenberg, 2007; Tangney & Dearing, 2002a). Men report
experiencing more hubristic pride than women, but the two sexes do not differ in authentic pride
(Tracy & Robins, 2007). There is relatively little research examining the effects of education,
social class, and ethnicity on self-conscious emotions. Given that education and social class are
associated with self-esteem (Robins et al., 2002; Twenge & Campbell, 2002), and that self-
esteem is positively related to authentic pride and negatively related to shame (Tracy et al.,
2009), we expect mean levels of shame to relate negatively with level of education and social
class, and mean levels of authentic pride to relate positively with education and social class. To
our knowledge, no previous studies have examined whether demographic characteristics
moderate age differences in self-conscious emotions, and so the present research provides initial
tests of these relations.
Similarly, no previous research has examined the relations between self-conscious
emotions and psychological well-being from a life-span perspective. Therefore, our third goal
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was to examine whether these relations differ across the life span, using depression and self-
esteem as our indicators of well-being. We will also test whether shame and guilt and the two
forms of pride show mutual suppression effects in their relations with depression and self-
esteem, as typically found in previous research, and whether these suppression effects vary
across the life span.
Our fourth and final goal was to test whether the trajectories of self-conscious emotions
can be explained by age differences in psychological well-being or whether the age trajectories
of self-conscious emotions hold even after controlling for psychological well-being (i.e.,
measures of depression and self-esteem). It is possible that age differences in specific emotions
such as shame, guilt, and pride simply reflect age differences in the general positivity or
negativity of the participants’ self-conceptions (as captured by global self-esteem) or generalized
negative affect (as captured by depression).
Method
The data were collected via the Internet, using a noncommercial website that provides
access to a wide variety of psychological studies (http://www.personalitylab.org). Participants
were recruited using several strategies. First, the website has been online for several years and
receives a continuous stream of visitors every day. Second, we announced the study on websites
that list information about psychological surveys on the Internet (e.g.,
http://www.socialpsychology.org). Third, we directly requested participation from several
thousand persons, stratified by age, using the Study Response Project
(http://studyresponse.syr.edu). Immediately after the survey, participants were provided
individualized feedback (i.e., how their scale scores compared to population norms) in exchange
for participation in the study.
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Participants
The sample consisted of 2,611 individuals (69% female). Mean age of participants was
33.6 years (SD = 17.4, Range = 13 to 89). For a subset of the analyses (i.e., correlations between
self-conscious emotions and psychological well-being), we divided the sample into age groups:
13−17 years (n = 488), 18−21 years (n = 519), 22−29 years (n = 385), 30−39 years (n = 339),
40−49 years (n = 302), 50−64 years (n = 403), and 65 years and older (n = 175). Seventy-four
percent of participants were White/Caucasian, 10% were Asian/Asian ancestry, 6%
Black/African ancestry, 4% Hispanic/Latino, 1% Native American/American Indian, and 5% of
other ethnicity. Seventy-three percent reported living in the United States, 8% in Canada, 8% in
another Western English-speaking country (Australia, Ireland, New Zealand, United Kingdom),
and 11% in another country (with largest numbers from India, the Philippines, and Singapore).2
Measures
Shame and guilt. We used the Test of Self-Conscious Affect-3 (TOSCA-3) to assess
proneness to shame and guilt (Tangney & Dearing, 2002b). The TOSCA is one of the most
frequently used measures of shame and guilt (Robins, Noftle, & Tracy, 2007) and its validity has
been repeatedly confirmed (e.g., Tangney, Miller, Flicker, & Barlow, 1996; Tangney, Wagner, &
Gramzow, 1992). The TOSCA includes 16 scenarios from everyday life and measures the
likelihood of several common reactions to those situations. By using a set of widely varying
hypothetical scenarios, the TOSCA corresponds to the recommendations by Tilghman-Osborne,
Cole, and Felton (2010) for the design of trait measures of guilt (and, consequently, shame).
Responses were measured on a 5-point scale ranging from 1 (not likely) to 5 (very likely). In the
present sample, the alpha reliabilities were .83 for the 16-item shame scale and .80 for the 16-
item guilt scale.
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Authentic and hubristic pride. Participants completed the trait version of Tracy and
Robins’ (2007) authentic and hubristic pride scales. The validity of these scales has been
confirmed in several studies (Tracy et al., 2009; Tracy & Robins, 2007). The authentic pride
scale includes items such as “accomplished” and “productive” and the hubristic pride scale
includes items such as “arrogant” and “egotistical.” Responses were measured on a 5-point scale
ranging from 1 (strongly disagree) to 5 (strongly agree). In the present sample, the alpha
reliabilities were .91 for the 7-item authentic pride scale and .90 for the 7-item hubristic pride
scale.
Depression. Depression was assessed with the Center for Epidemiologic Studies
Depression Scale (CES-D, Radloff, 1977). The CES-D is a frequently used 20-item self-report
measure for the assessment of depressive symptoms in non-clinical, sub-clinical, and clinical
populations, and its validity has been repeatedly confirmed (Eaton, Smith, Ybarra, Muntaner, &
Tien, 2004). Participants were instructed to assess how frequently they experienced each
symptom within the preceding seven days. Responses were measured on a 4-point scale (0 =
rarely, less than one day; 1 = some of the time, 1−2 days; 2 = a moderate amount of time, 3−4
days; 3 = most or all of the time, 5−7 days). In the present sample, the alpha reliability of the
CES-D was .92.
Self-esteem. Self-esteem was assessed with the 10-item Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale
(RSE, Rosenberg, 1965). The RSE is the most commonly used and well-validated measure of
global self-esteem (Robins, Hendin, & Trzesniewski, 2001). Responses were measured on a 5-
point scale ranging from 1 (strongly disagree) to 5 (strongly agree). In the present sample, the
alpha reliability of the RSE was .90.
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Education. Education was assessed using 6 categories: 20% reported not having
completed high-school, 15% having high school diploma, 31% some college, 21% college
degree, 9% masters degree (M.S., M.A., M.B.A.), and 4% professional degree (e.g., J.D., Ph.D.,
M.D.).
Social class. Social class was assessed using 5 categories: 19% categorized themselves as
working class, 17% as lower-middle class, 46% as middle class, 17% as upper-middle class, and
1% as upper class.
Results
Life-Span Trajectories of Self-Conscious Emotions
Table 1 shows the means, standard deviations, and intercorrelations among the measures.
Our first goal was to examine the trajectories of self-conscious emotions across the life span. For
the analyses of trajectories, the measures of self-conscious emotions were converted to z-scores,
so that trajectories can be readily compared across the different emotions. Age was centered for
the analyses. We regressed each of the emotion measures hierarchically on linear, quadratic, and
cubic age, and tested whether each step explained a significant amount of incremental variance
(p < .05). Note that in all analyses of trajectories reported, age was modeled as a continuous
variable (i.e., individual age), not as a categorical variable (i.e., age cohorts). The analyses
suggested quadratic trajectories for shame, guilt, and hubristic pride, and a linear trajectory for
authentic pride. Cubic age did not explain incremental variance in any of the emotion measures.
Figure 1 shows the predicted trajectories. Shame decreased by about a one-half standard
deviation (d = −0.55) from adolescence to middle adulthood, reaching a minimum at about age
50, and then increased by about a one-half standard deviation (d = 0.54) from age 50 to 89. Guilt
increased by about a one-half standard deviation (d = 0.56) from adolescence to old age,
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reaching a plateau at about age 70. Authentic pride increased steadily from adolescence to old
age by about three-quarters of a standard deviation (d = 0.74). Hubristic pride decreased by about
a one standard deviation (d = −1.01) from adolescence into middle adulthood, reaching a
minimum at about age 65, and then increased by about a one-quarter standard deviation (d =
0.19) from age 65 to 89. All of the trends from adolescence through middle age are consistent
with the maturity principle, whereas the decreases in hubristic pride and increases in guilt are not
consistent with the positivity principle. Interestingly, some of the trends in old age (e.g., for
shame) are not consistent with either principle.
Moderators of the Life-Span Trajectories of Self-Conscious Emotions
Our second goal was to test whether demographic variables moderate the age trajectories
of self-conscious emotions. After controlling for linear and quadratic age effects, we regressed
the emotion measures hierarchically on (a) the demographic variable, (b) a term representing the
interaction between the demographic variable and linear age, and (c) a term representing the
interaction between the demographic variable and quadratic age. A significant main effect
indicates that the demographic variable has an effect on the intercept (i.e., overall level) of the
trajectory, whereas a significant interaction effect indicates that the demographic variable
moderates the linear or quadratic slope of the trajectory. Because of the large number of analyses
conducted (i.e., one analysis for each combination of four emotions and six moderators, resulting
in 24 analyses) we adjusted the significance level to p < .002, following the Bonferroni method
(i.e., dividing .05 by 24). The measures of education and social class were centered for the
analyses, and gender and ethnicity were examined as dummy variables.
Table 2 summarizes the main effects of the demographic variables on the trajectories.
Gender had small to medium sized effects on shame, guilt, and hubristic pride: On average,
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female participants had higher levels of shame and guilt, and lower levels of hubristic pride.
Education and social class had, at most, small effects on the level of the trajectories. In terms of
ethnicity, shame was highest among Whites and lowest among Blacks, whereas hubristic pride
was lowest among Whites and highest among Asians.3
We found only one significant interaction with linear age, and no significant interactions
with quadratic age. Figure 2 illustrates the significant interaction between education level and
linear age on authentic pride, with age trends plotted for individuals with high (i.e., one standard-
deviation unit above the mean) and low (i.e., one standard-deviation unit below the mean) levels
of education. As this figure shows, authentic pride showed a more positive age trend for highly
educated individuals than for less educated individuals. With the exception of this interaction
effect, the shape of the trajectories (i.e., the linear and quadratic slopes) largely replicated across
gender, education, social class, and ethnicity.
Relations between Self-Conscious Emotions and Psychological Well-Being Across the Life Span
Our third goal was to examine the relations between self-conscious emotions and
psychological well-being across the life span (using depression and self-esteem as indicators of
well-being). Table 3 shows the correlations of self-conscious emotions with depression and self-
esteem, separately for each age group and in the full sample. We first consider the correlations in
the full sample and then test whether these relations varied as a function of age. Consistent with
previous research (Tracy et al., 2009), authentic pride was associated with high self-esteem and
low levels of depression whereas hubristic pride was associated with depression and low self-
esteem. Shame and guilt showed similar divergent relations; shame was associated with
depression and low self-esteem whereas guilt was weakly associated with low levels of
depression. Thus, shame and hubristic pride, despite correlating only .15 with each other, both
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seem to reflect a maladaptive pattern, whereas guilt and authentic pride, despite correlating only
.08, both seem to reflect an adaptive pattern.
To test whether the relations between self-conscious emotions and well-being varied
across age groups, we compared the fit of two multiple group path models. The models included
a covariance between two manifest variables (e.g., shame and depression), estimated
simultaneously in seven age groups: in one model, the covariance was constrained to be equal
across age groups and in the other model the covariance was freely estimated. To test for
differences in model fit, we used the test of small differences in fit, which is recommended for
large sample sizes (MacCallum, Browne, & Cai, 2006). For all correlations, cross-group
constraints did not significantly decrease fit (Table 4). Thus, the results suggest that the relations
between self-conscious emotions and well-being do not differ across age groups.
We next examined whether shame and guilt show mutual suppression effects in their
relation with psychological well-being (see the partial correlations reported in Table 3).
Consistent with a suppression effect, controlling for guilt increased the strength of the relation
between shame and low well-being (high depression, low self-esteem). Similarly, controlling for
shame changed the guilt correlations from essentially zero to positive with well-being (low
depression, high self-esteem), a pattern that also indicates a suppression effect. In the full
sample, all partial correlations differed significantly from the corresponding simple correlations
(p < .006).4 To test whether the partial correlations varied across age groups, we again compared
the fit of two multiple group path models. The models included a covariance between the
residuals of two manifest variables (e.g., shame and depression), which were simultaneously
regressed on a third manifest variable (e.g., guilt); again, the models were estimated
simultaneously in seven age groups. For all partial correlations, cross-group equality constraints
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did not significantly decrease fit (Table 4). Thus, the results suggest that the suppression effects
of shame and guilt in their relation with well-being do not differ across age groups.
We also examined whether authentic and hubristic pride show mutual suppression effects
in their relation with psychological well-being (see Table 3). Controlling for hubristic pride did
not alter the correlations between authentic pride and well-being, as indicated by nonsignificant
differences between the simple and partial correlations. Although controlling for authentic pride
did not significantly alter the correlation between hubristic pride and depression, it increased the
negative correlation between hubristic pride and self-esteem, consistent with a suppression effect
(p < .006). Again, the partial correlations did not significantly vary across age groups, as
indicated by multiple group path models (Table 4).
Life-Span Trajectories of Self-Conscious Emotions Controlling for Psychological Well-Being
Our fourth goal was to test whether age differences in psychological well-being account
for the life-span trajectories of self-conscious emotions; for example, does shame decrease from
adolescence to midlife because psychological well-being increases during the same period?5
Therefore, we examined the trajectories of self-conscious emotions controlling for depression
and self-esteem. Figure 3 shows the controlled trajectories. Visual comparison of the controlled
vs. uncontrolled trajectories (Figure 3 vs. Figure 1) suggests that controlling for psychological
well-being alters the trajectories of shame and authentic pride, but not the trajectories of guilt and
hubristic pride. For each self-conscious emotion, we statistically tested the effect of controlling
for well-being by comparing the fit of two path models. In both models, the emotion (e.g.,
shame) was regressed on linear age, quadratic age, depression, and self-esteem (all exogenous
variables were correlated). The first model constrained the trajectory to the values of the
uncontrolled trajectory as shown in Figure 1 (by fixing the intercept, the linear age coefficient,
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and the quadratic age coefficient), whereas the second model freely estimated the trajectory.
Significant differences emerged for shame and authentic pride, but not for guilt and hubristic
pride (Table 5). With regard to authentic pride, controlling for well-being eliminated the positive
linear slope across the life span, and only minor age differences in authentic pride are evident
after controlling for well-being. Thus, increases in authentic pride across the life span are closely
tied to increases in well-being. With regard to shame, controlling for well-being attenuates the
decrease from adolescence to midlife, but it does not eliminate the increase from midlife to old
age. Thus, age differences in psychological well-being are only partially able to explain the life-
span trajectory of shame.6
Discussion
We investigated age differences in self-conscious emotions across the life span, using
cross-sectional data from a large sample of individuals aged 13 to 89. Shame and hubristic pride
decreased from adolescence to midlife and then increased into old age, whereas guilt and
authentic pride increased across the life span, except for a slight decline in guilt occurring in old
age. Demographic variables such as gender, education, social class, and ethnicity mainly
predicted the level of the trajectories (i.e., the demographic variables had main effects), but did
not moderate the slopes of the trajectories (i.e., there was only one significant interaction of
demographic variables with linear and quadratic age). On average, women reported more shame
and guilt and less hubristic pride than men; educated individuals reported more authentic and
hubristic pride than less educated individuals; affluent individuals reported less shame and more
authentic pride than less affluent individuals; Blacks reported less shame than Whites and
Asians, and Asians reported more hubristic pride than Blacks and Whites.7
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Moreover, the self-conscious emotions exhibited a stable pattern of correlations with
psychological well-being. Although shame was related to low psychological well-being, guilt
had essentially no relation. When shame and guilt were mutually controlled for, the link between
shame and low well-being became even stronger, whereas guilt became positively related to
well-beingcorresponding to suppression effects reported in previous research (Orth et al.,
2006; Paulhus et al., 2004; Tangney, Wagner, & Gramzow, 1992). Authentic pride was strongly
related to well-being, whereas hubristic pride was related to low well-being, corroborating
previous studies (Tracy et al., 2009; Tracy & Robins, 2007). Importantly, all of these correlations
and partial correlations did not significantly differ across the life span. Some authors have raised
the question of whether shame is ever adaptive and guilt ever maladaptive (see Tangney, 1999);
the present research suggests that shame was consistently maladaptive and shame-free guilt
consistently adaptive across all stages of the life span.
We also examined psychological well-being as a covariate of the trajectories of self-
conscious emotions and the results indicated, except for authentic pride, that the general trends of
the trajectories were unaltered. Thus, age differences in shame, guilt, and hubristic pride are not
simply due to concurrent trends in psychological well-being; the trajectories of these emotions
are largely or fully independent of psychological well-being. Given that we included self-esteem
as one of the indicators of psychological well-being, the results suggest that the trajectories of
shame, guilt, and hubristic pride are not simply due to the general positivity or negativity of the
participants’ self-concepts. Future research should therefore examine other factors that might
explain the age trajectories of self-conscious emotions. Life experiences that might shape these
trajectories include achievements in school and work, attaining social status in family and
workplace relationships, engaging in prosocial behaviors such as charitable activities, and having
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a satisfying and fulfilling (vs. destructive and abusive) romantic relationship. Future studies
should also examine whether age differences in the perceived control over events that elicit
shame, guilt, and pride help explain the life-span trajectories of these emotions. In addition, age
differences in personality characteristics such as narcissism, which plays a central role in
regulating self-esteem and experiences of pride and shame (Robins, Tracy, & Shaver, 2001),
might help explain the age trajectory of self-conscious emotions, as well as individual
differences in the shape of the trajectory.
Overall, the findings suggest that age differences in self-conscious emotions from
adolescence through middle age follow the maturity principle, that people develop higher levels
of adaptive, prosocial characteristics as they age (B. W. Roberts & Mroczek, 2008; B. W.
Roberts et al., 2008), rather than the positivity principle that people develop higher levels of
positive and lower levels of negative affect as they age. Thus, although guilt is a negatively
valenced emotion, it did not follow the trajectory typically found for negative affect, but rather it
showed gradual increases across the life span as is typically found for positive affect,
agreeableness, and conscientiousness, corresponding to the prosocial and adaptive nature of
guilt. Similarly, authentic pride showed a trajectory similar to agreeableness and
conscientiousness, whereas hubristic pride followed a trajectory similar to maladaptive
personality traits such as narcissism, corresponding to the adaptive and maladaptive
characteristics of authentic and hubristic pride, respectively.
The present research suggests that the largest age differences in self-conscious emotions
occur in adolescence and young adulthood (with large differences in all constructs examined)
and old age (with large differences in shame and smaller differences in guilt and hubristic pride).
These trends might be related to important transitions in social roles and relationships during
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these life periods, and suggest that adolescence, young adulthood, and old age are critical periods
in the development of self-conscious emotions. Therefore, these periods might be of particular
importance for interventions aimed at reducing maladaptive self-conscious emotions (i.e., shame
and hubristic pride) and improving adaptive emotions (i.e., guilt and authentic pride).
Consequently, future research should focus more closely on adolescence, young adulthood, and
old age and conduct more fine-grained analyses of these life periods, for example with regard to
the possible terminal increase in shame at the end of life (cf. Gerstorf, Ram, Estabrook et al.,
2008; Gerstorf, Ram, Röcke et al., 2008).
One limitation of the research is the cross-sectional study design. Trajectories that are
based on cross-sectional data confound aging and cohort effects (Baltes, Cornelius, &
Nesselroade, 1979). For example, it is possible that the age-dependent increase in guilt observed
in the present study does not reflect actual developmental change but rather a tendency for
individuals raised in the middle of the twentieth century to be more prone to guilt than those
raised in more recent decades. It should be noted, however, that research using cohort-sequential
longitudinal data on related constructs such as self-esteem (Orth et al., 2010) and the Big Five
personality traits (Terracciano et al., 2005) typically shows weak, and often non-existent, cohort
differences, as does research tracking secular changes in narcissism, self-esteem, and self-
enhancement using data collected over the past several decades (Trzesniewski & Donnellan,
2010; Trzesniewski, Donnellan, & Robins, 2008). Therefore, to the extent that cohort effects are
assumed to be minimal, the pattern of age differences observed in cross-sectional studies may be
a reasonable starting point to examine age trajectories. Nevertheless, future research on the life-
span development of self-conscious emotions should use longitudinal data to directly test for the
possible bias caused by cohort effects.
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Another limitation of the present research is the exclusive reliance on self-report
measures. Age differences in shame, guilt, and pride could reflect age differences in people’s
ability and/or willingness to accurately report on their emotional experiences, rather than actual
differences in emotional experience. Future research should include informant-based measures as
well as measures of non-verbal displays (of shame and pride; for guilt, however, no recognizable
non-verbal display exists). Using multiple methods would help control for possible self-report
biases and for the effects of shared method variance on the correlations between self-conscious
emotions and psychological well-being.
The data were collected via the Internet, which raises concerns about sample selectivity.
Sometimes, web-based studies are critiqued because the participants are necessarily limited to
people who have Internet access. In the past, Internet users tended to be individuals with higher
socioeconomic status (SES), but more recent studies suggest that Internet samples are relatively
diverse in terms of SES (cf. Gosling, Vazire, Srivastava, & John, 2004; Soto, John, Gosling, &
Potter, 2008), which is also true of the present sample. Moreover, the available evidence suggests
that data collected via the Internet are generally as reliable and valid as data collected via paper-
and-pencil methods (Chuah, Drasgow, & Roberts, 2006; Gosling et al., 2004). However, a
possible disadvantage of Internet samples is that the observed age differences may be
confounded by age-varying sample selectivity; for example, although Internet users at age 20 or
30 might be relatively representative for their age groups, older Internet users might deviate
more strongly in important characteristics from their age group. Therefore, future research on
age differences in self-conscious emotions would benefit from using probability samples.
The present sample included participants who were primarily from the United States and
other Western English-speaking countries. Future research should therefore examine age
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differences in self-conscious emotions in samples from more diverse cultural contexts, such as
Asian and African cultures (cf. Arnett, 2008). Individuals from Asian and Western cultures show
different self-construal styles and different tendencies toward self-enhancement (Heine, Lehman,
Markus, & Kitayama, 1999; Markus & Kitayama, 1991), which may have important
consequences for the level and shape of age trajectories of self-conscious emotions. Therefore, it
is unknown whether samples from other cultural contexts would show the same or entirely
different trajectories of self-conscious emotions compared to the trajectories found in the present
study.
In conclusion, the present research contributes to our understanding of the life-span
development of self-conscious emotionsan almost entirely neglected topicby providing
empirical evidence documenting age differences in shame, guilt, and pride across the life span,
and examining the generalizability of these trajectories across gender, education level, social
class, and ethnicity. Moreover, the research provides evidence that the relations of self-conscious
emotions with psychological well-being are stable across the life span: shame and hubristic pride
are linked to low well-being, whereas guilt and authentic pride are associated with high well-
being. An important task of future research is to examine possible causal associations between
self-conscious emotions and well-being, and to better understand the interplay between the
development of self-conscious emotions and psychological well-being across the life span.
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Author Note
Ulrich Orth, Department of Psychology, University of Basel; Richard W. Robins,
Department of Psychology, University of California, Davis; Christopher J. Soto, Department of
Psychology, Colby College.
This research was supported by Swiss National Science Foundation Grants PA001-
113065 and PP00P1-123370 to Ulrich Orth, and NIH grant R01-DA017902-6 to Richard W.
Robins.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Ulrich Orth, Department
of Psychology, University of Basel, Birmannsgasse 8, 4055 Basel, Switzerland. E-mail:
ulrich.orth@unibas.ch.
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Footnotes
1 E. M. Kessler and Staudinger (2009) suggested that while low-arousal positive affect
increases across the life span, high-arousal positive affect remains stable.
2 We re-ran the basic analyses (life-span trajectories, moderator analyses, and relations
with psychological well-being) using the subsample of participants living in the United States (N
= 1,895). The results were essentially the same as in the full sample, and all significant effects
remained significant.
3 The tests for ethnicity effects were constrained to Whites, Asians, and Blacks, due to
low frequencies for other ethnicities (i.e., sample sizes below 100).
4 For comparing partial and simple correlations, we used the following test (Finn, 1974):
z = (Zpr Zr) × SQRT (N q 3). Zpr and Zr are the Fisher-Z values of the partial correlation pr
and the simple correlation r, and q is the number of variables controlled (beyond the two
variables included in the simple correlation; thus, in the present case q = 1). We adjusted the
significance level to p < .006, following the Bonferroni method (dividing .05 by 8, given that we
conducted the test for each combination of four emotions and two indicators of well-being).
5 The life-span trajectories for depression and self-esteem indicated that well-being
generally increased with age. Depression linearly decreased from adolescence to old age by
about one standard deviation. Self-esteem increased from adolescence into adulthood (by about
three quarters of a standard deviation), reached a peak at about age 75, and then declined slightly
in old age.
6 We also examined whether the trajectories of the self-conscious emotions were altered
when we controlled for the complementary emotion (i.e., the shame trajectory controlling for the
guilt trajectory, and vice versa, and the authentic pride trajectory controlling for the hubristic
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pride trajectory, and vice versa). In all four cases, the trajectories were similar to the uncontrolled
trajectories shown in Figure 1.
7 Although this pattern is counter to what one might expect given research on Asian self-
effacement (Heine et al., 1999), it does seem to be a replicable pattern. In an independent sample
of several hundred UC Davis undergraduate students, Asian-American students score
significantly higher than Black and White students.
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Table 1
Means, Standard Deviations, and Correlations of Measures
Measure
M
SD
1
2
3
4
5
6
1. Shame
2.99
0.74
--
2. Guilt
4.04
0.56
.42*
--
3. Authentic pride
3.53
0.89
−.38*
.08*
--
4. Hubristic pride
1.95
0.86
.15*
−.24*
−.06*
--
5. Depression
0.93
0.64
.41*
−.04*
−.62*
.26*
--
6. Self-esteem
3.57
0.88
−.52*
.02
.83*
−.20*
−.71*
--
Note. Response scales ranged from 1 to 5 for all measures, except for depression with a range
from 0 to 3.
* p < .05.
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Table 2
Main Effects of Demographic Variables on Trajectories of Self-Conscious Emotions
Demographic
variable
Guilt
Authentic pride
Hubristic pride
Gendera
.23**
−.04
−.15**
Education levelb
.01
.12**
.09**
Social classc
−.02
.16**
.04
Whited
.02
−.05
−.16**
Asiand
.01
.02
.16**
Blackd
−.03
.07**
.03
Note. The table shows standardized regression coefficients. Self-conscious emotions were
regressed on the demographic variable, linear and quadratic age, and interactions of the
demographic variable with linear and quadratic age. The analyses were conducted separately for
each demographic variable. The significance level was adjusted to p < .002 to account for the
large number of tests, following the Bonferroni method. Only one interaction had a significant
effect, so the table reports only the main effects of the demographic variables (see text for further
information).
a Positive coefficients indicate that women scored higher than men.
b Positive coefficients indicate that more educated individuals scored higher than less educated
individuals.
c Positive coefficients indicate that individuals with higher social class scored higher than
individuals with lower social class.
d Positive coefficients indicate that members of this ethnic group scored higher than members of
all other ethnic groups combined.
** p < .002.
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Table 3
Correlations (and Partial Correlations) of Self-Conscious Emotions with Psychological Well-
Being Across Age Groups
Age groups
Full
Measure
13−17
18−21
22−29
30−39
40−49
50−64
65+
Sample
Correlations with depression
Shame
.43*
.43*
.43*
.39*
.34*
.26*
.33*
.41*
(.47*)
(.50*)
(.46*)
(.47*)
(.39*)
(.30*)
(.36*)
(.47*)
Guilt
.07
−.01
.03
−.06
−.03
−.03
.05
−.04*
(−.23*)
(−.27*)
(−.19*)
(−.28*)
(−.20*)
(−.16*)
(−.14)
(−.25*)
Authentic pride
−.54*
−.53*
−.66*
−.65*
−.63*
−.68*
−.59*
−.62*
(−.58*)
(−.55*)
(−.66*)
(−.66*)
(−.63*)
(−.68*)
(−.59*)
(−.62*)
Hubristic pride
.27*
.21*
.20*
.17*
.11
.12*
.32*
.26*
(.36*)
(.26*)
(.21*)
(.21*)
(.12*)
(.13*)
(.32*)
(.29*)
Correlations with self-esteem
Shame
−.50*
−.55*
−.63*
−.54*
−.46*
−.36*
−.34*
−.52*
(−.56*)
(−.59*)
(−.64*)
(−.62*)
(−.52*)
(−.43*)
(−.43*)
(−.58*)
Guilt
−.06
−.06
−.12*
.03
.01
.08
.06
.02
(.31*)
(.27*)
(.21*)
(.36*)
(.28*)
(.26*)
(.28*)
(.31*)
Authentic pride
.81*
.80*
.85*
.85*
.85*
.85*
.79*
.83*
(.82*)
(.81*)
(.85*)
(.86*)
(.85*)
(.86*)
(.79*)
(.84*)
Hubristic pride
−.12*
−.11*
−.09
−.13*
−.14*
−.15*
−.27*
−.20*
(−.29*)
(−.22*)
(−.05)
(−.24*)
(−.23*)
(−.22*)
(−.30*)
(−.27*)
Note. Values in parentheses are partial correlations controlling for the complementary construct
(shame controlling for guilt; guilt controlling for shame; authentic pride controlling for hubristic
pride; and hubristic pride controlling for authentic pride).
* p < .05.
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Table 4
Test of Differences in Correlations Across Age Groups
Depression
Self-esteem
Measure
2 for simple
correlations
2 for partial
correlations
2 for simple
correlations
2 for partial
correlations
Shame
12.8
13.8
27.9
21.4
Guilt
5.1
8.4
12.3
7.8
Authentic pride
14.3
14.9
13.8
16.1
Hubristic pride
15.1
34.0
2.2
20.2
Note. Differences in correlations across age groups were tested by comparing the fit of two
multiple group path models, one that constrained the correlations to be equal across age groups
(Model A) and another that allowed them to be freely estimated (Model B), using the test of
small differences in fit (MacCallum et al., 2006). The critical 2 value was 45.0, given that for
all tests N = 2,611, dfA = 6, dfB = 0, and number of groups G = 7. For all tests, the observed 2
values indicated that cross-group equality constraints did not significantly decrease fit.
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Table 5
Test of the Effect of Controlling for Psychological Well-Being on the Trajectories of Self-
Conscious Emotions
Measure
2
dfA
dfB
Critical 2
Shame
63.8
3
0
50.7
Guilt
0.1
3
0
50.7
Authentic pride
366.2
2
0
36.9
Hubristic pride
6.3
3
0
50.7
Note. The effect of controlling for psychological well-being was tested by comparing the fit of
two path models, one that constrained the trajectory to the values of the uncontrolled trajectory
(Model A) and another that freely estimated the trajectory (Model B), using the test of small
differences in fit (MacCallum et al., 2006). For all tests N = 2,611 and number of groups G = 1.
The observed 2 values indicated that controlling for well-being significantly altered the
trajectories of shame and authentic pride, but not guilt and hubristic pride.
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Figure Captions
Figure 1. Trajectories of self-conscious emotions from age 13 to 89. Emotion measures were
converted to z-scores for the analyses.
Figure 2. The figure illustrates the significant interaction between education level and linear age
on authentic pride, with age trends plotted for individuals with high (i.e., one standard-deviation
unit above the mean) and low (i.e., one standard-deviation unit below the mean) levels of
education. Measures of authentic pride and education were converted to z-scores for the
analyses.
Figure 3. Trajectories of self-conscious emotions from age 13 to 89, controlling for
psychological well-being (i.e., depression and self-esteem). Measures of self-conscious
emotions, depression, and self-esteem were converted to z-scores for the analyses.
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Figure 1
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Figure 2
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