Just over a decade ago, when we were high school students attending neighbouring Catholic schools in Ontario, Canada, we found ourselves embroiled in a highly publicized controversy about sexuality and education. As teenagers, we used media publicity as a central strategy in our organizing for the right to form gay–straight alliances in our publicly funded religious schools. At the same time, the media—and, later, sexuality scholars and educational researchers—used us, drawing on our experiences to tell particular kinds of stories about sexuality, youth, and religious schooling. Using autoethnography, queer theory, and critical studies of childhood and youth, we deconstruct these various uses of the Ontario Catholic school GSA controversy and their impact on our lives from our current vantage points as emerging scholars. First, we interrogate how notions of queer young people’s risk and resilience shaped our activism and its reception. Second, we explore how framing queer young people as heroes or victims produces exclusions. Finally, we consider what it has meant for us personally to grow up alongside representations of our activism as teens. We aim to trouble the idealization of LGBTQ young people’s activism by showing how the limited stories and subject positions available to LGBTQ youth, the stigmatization of meaningful intergenerational dialogue between LGBTQ adults and youth, and racist and anti-religious sentiment may prevent adults from understanding, supporting, and welcoming young people into LGBTQ activist movements.