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The Prioritization of Women's Orgasms During Heterosex: A Critical Feminist Review of the Implications for Women's Sexual Liberation

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Orgasm is considered by many to be an essential part of women's ideal sexual experiences. As a result, sexual liberation narratives have often advocated for the prioritization of women's orgasms - particularly during heterosex - framing them as a central indicator of "good," healthy, liberated sex. However, scholars have increasingly critiqued these narratives, arguing that they result in an orgasm imperative that has negatively impacted women's sexual lives. Perspectives that promote the prioritization of women's orgasm and those that warn against the negative repercussions strive for the same thing - to draw attention to women's sexuality in ways that will lead to more pleasurable, enjoyable, and equitable sex for women overall. Yet, together, they offer contradictory messages about the role that women's orgasms can or should play in women's sexual liberation. For example, one could argue that it perhaps makes sense to prioritize women's orgasms given that they often are highly pleasurable for women, center a unique form of embodied pleasure, and offer a supposedly clear objective for women and their men partners. On the other hand, such narratives frame women's orgasm absence as abnormal, concede to men's sexuality in problematic ways, and constrain more comprehensive possibilities for women's sexual pleasure. In this critical feminist review, I offer a summative outline of these and other contradictions, focusing on how narratives prioritizing women's orgasms can have simultaneous benefits and negative repercussions when it comes to (1) women's sexual pleasure, (2) the medicalization/pathologization of women's orgasms, and (3) heterosex norms.

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... These results correspond with social scripting theory, which suggests that, while sociocultural scripts implicitly prescribe gender roles, normative behaviors, and expectations by default (as observed in Study 1), sexual partners can resist and reconstruct their interpersonal scripts to better align with their sexual needs and relational dynamics (Lamont, 2017;Masters et al., 2013;Wiederman, 2005)-for example normalizing clitoral stimulation and shared orgasm pursuit (as we did in Study 2). Considering that adaptations at the interpersonal level still occur within the constraints of broader sociocultural narratives that maintain gendered sexual expectations (e.g., Chadwick, 2024), the remaining variability in women's orgasm expectations may represent the individual-level of scripting-one's internal, intrapsychic experience negotiating the sociocultural and interpersonal (Simon & Gagnon, 1984, 1986Wiederman, 2015). ...
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