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Practicing psychologists’ accounts
of demand avoidance and
extreme demand avoidance in
children and adolescents
LaurenHaire
1
*, Jennifer E.Symonds
1
*†, JoyceSenior
1 and
UgoPace
2
1 School of Education, University College Dublin, Dublin, Ireland, 2 Human and Social Sciences, Kore
University of Enna, Enna, Italy
The construct of pathological or extreme demand avoidance (EDA) is used to
describe the experience of avoiding demands and having an extreme need
for control. However, the EDA construct is contested by researchers and
educational psychology practitioners. To investigate the utility and validity of the
construct of EDA, this qualitative study explored psychologists’ experience and
conceptualisation of demand avoidance and extreme demand avoidance, and
their approach to working with children and adolescents who avoid demands.
Online semi-structured interviews were conducted with 12 psychologists
(female = 9) working in private, education and disability services. Thematic analysis
yielded six themes: (i) reason for the psychologists’ involvement, (ii) psychologists
understanding of child’s presentation, (iii) psychologists’ focus in supporting
the child, (iv) challenges for psychologists, (v) enablers for psychologists and
(vi) success for psychologists. Results indicated that psychologists do not view
the construct of EDA as necessary for their work and achieve success with
children who avoid demands by drawing on range of approaches focusing on the
underlying needs of those children.
KEYWORDS
adolescence, children, demand avoidance, extreme demand avoidance, pathological
demand avoidance
Introduction
e construct of extreme demand avoidance (EDA) was created to refer to children and
adults who persistently and vigorously resist ordinary demands owing to their need for control
(Newson etal., 2003). However, the evidence base supporting EDA is small, the construct does
not appear in diagnostic manuals upon which psychologists rely, and dierent diagnostic
thresholds are described in the existing research (Woods, 2022c). Disagreements exist as to
whether EDA occurs within autism (Stuart etal., 2020), across proles (Gillberg etal., 2015), as
a collection of symptoms in autism and beyond (Green etal., 2018) or is a distinct developmental
prole (Newson etal., 2003; Woods, 2020).
Whilst some psychologists, e.g., Phil Christie have authored books discussing likely helpful
approaches for demand avoidant children, empirical studies have not investigated how
psychologists support children with demand avoidant behaviour or whether the construct of
EDA is relevant to psychologists’ work (Kildahl etal., 2021). is lack of research into practice
has resulted in a lack of clinical guidance for psychologists about how to support children with
OPEN ACCESS
EDITED BY
Richard Woods,
London South Bank University, UnitedKingdom
REVIEWED BY
Judy Eaton,
King's College London, UnitedKingdom
Devon Price,
Loyola University Chicago, UnitedStates
*CORRESPONDENCE
Lauren Haire
lauren.haire@ucdconnect.ie
Jennifer Symonds
j.symonds@ucl.ac.uk
†PRESENT ADDRESS
Jennifer E. Symonds,
Faculty of Education and Society, University
College London, London, United Kingdom
RECEIVED 27 May 2023
ACCEPTED 23 November 2023
PUBLISHED 18 December 2023
CITATION
Haire L, Symonds JE, Senior J and
Pace U (2023) Practicing psychologists’
accounts of demand avoidance and extreme
demand avoidance in children and adolescents.
Front. Educ. 8:1230014.
doi: 10.3389/feduc.2023.1230014
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DOI 10.3389/feduc.2023.1230014
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EDA, which is signicant, owing in part to the high levels of stress
experienced by those children (Gore Langton and Frederickson, 2016;
Doyle and Kenny, 2023).
e aims of this study were thus to (a) explore how psychologists
conceptualise, experience and approach demand avoidance in
children, (b) determine if any accounts of demand avoidance are
conceptualised by psychologists as extreme, i.e., EDA and (c) identify
if there are parallels between psychologists’ accounts of EDA and the
construct of EDA presented in the literature. e study of
psychologists’ accounts will help to identify useful practices in
supporting children with demand avoidance and will advance the
conceptualisation of EDA by identifying if the construct of EDA is
something that is relevant to psychologists’ work. Such contributions
to the knowledge base are critical to support vulnerable children.
Extreme demand avoidance (EDA) is a behavioural prole
characterised by an extreme anxiety driven resistance to ordinary
demands and was rst described by Newson a clinician, and her
colleagues in the 1980s as a pervasive development disorder. Features
were identied by Newson etal. (2003) (see Table1), when children who
were referred for autism assessment were qualitatively dierent than
autistic children but similar to each other. e topic has garnered much
media and parent attention predominantly in the U.K., but the evidence
base on the features of EDA is lacking (Kildahl etal., 2021). Research
that does exist is informed by a variety of perspectives largely clinicians,
namely clinical and educational psychologists (e.g., Judy Eaton, Phil
Christie, Judith Gould, Norah Frederickson) and psychiatrists (e.g.,
Christopher Gillberg, Johnathan Green) as well as academics interested
in the eld (e.g., Richard Woods, Elizabeth O’Nions, Alison Moore).
Owing to the broadening of criteria for autism in the DSM-5,
researchers now see more commonality between what weunderstand
as autism and Newson’s description of EDA (e.g., Kildahl etal., 2021).
Eaton and Weaver (2020) describe that though there were non-autistic
people in Newson’s research, they would now likely meet DSM-5
criteria. Autism makes a unique contribution in predicting EDA
(White etal., 2022) and many UK authorities such as the Department
of Education and charities recognise EDA as a prole within autism.
us, in explaining EDA, features of autism have been used including,
sensory sensitivities, phobias, extreme rigidity, need to conform with
expectations (O’Nions etal., 2018), inertia (Milton, 2019), reduced
importance of social feedback (O’Nions and Noens, 2018) intolerance
of uncertainty (Stuart etal., 2020), cognitive inexibility (Malik and
Baird, 2018), executive function diculty (O’Nions and Eaton, 2020)
and monotropism (Woods, 2018). A dierent understanding of
hierarchy (Moore, 2020) and the role of trauma have also been noted
(Woods, 2019). O’Nions and Eaton (2020) concluded that features of
EDA are common in autism but that EDA appearing at the level
described by Newson described is rare.
Others reject the acceptance of EDA as occurring in autism,
describing a lack of consideration for possible alternative explanations
recognising that it instead represents a positive source for vulnerable
people, reecting power dierences at play (Woods, 2020). Research
indicates EDA may occur outside of autism, within other proles
(Daern etal., 2007; Reilly et al., 2014; Gillberg et al., 2015), as a
collection of symptoms (Green etal., 2018) or as a distinct prole,
tting within the obsessive-compulsive related disorders (Woods,
2022c). Some people have compared EDA to ADHD (Egan etal., 2020),
anti-social personality disorder (Trundle etal., 2017) and attachment
disorder (Milton, 2018). Malik and Baird (2018) acknowledge that for
EDA to beconsidered a distinct entity, it would require that all features
are not suciently explained by other disabilities or disorders. In trying
to elicit common experience, Kildahl etal. (2021) notes using existing
criteria of, for example anxiety, may be helpful, particularly when
aiming to provide early support. O’Nions etal. (2014) cautions that
attention should bepaid to common underlying mechanisms. Much of
the existing research does not focus on underlying mechanisms and
instead relies on Newson’s criteria (White etal., 2022), the validity of
which has been questioned (Kildahl etal., 2021).
Explanatory information about EDA could be garnered by
eliciting lived experience, biographies such as that co-authored by
Fidler and Daunt (2021) are helpful, however, the inclusion of such
voices in research studies has been lacking (Kildahl etal., 2021).
Some autistic people are highly critical of the construct, rejecting it
entirely, viewing it as undermining autistic self-advocacy (Moore,
2020) and as part of an agenda to make autistic people more
neurotypical (Milton, 2013). Demand avoidance, considered in this
way, sees autistic people as logically avoiding demands set by
neurotypical people who have dierent experiences of
communication, sensory information, and anxiety. Whilst the term
extreme describes the level of avoidance in this paper as used by
Gillberg (2014) and Reilly et al. (2014), Woods (2022c) describes the
avoidance as rational in conveying the autistic perspective.
Lack of consensus means that the construct does not appear in
diagnostic manuals such as the ICD-11 or the DSM-5, upon which most
psychologists rely (Raskin etal., 2022). It remains however, that some
children systematically avoid demands and parents and those identifying
with the prole feel that the EDA label is functional (Egan etal., 2020),
in helping individuals make sense of their lives (ompson, 2019).
Diculties with school (Gore Langton and Frederickson, 2016), as well
as high levels of family stress (Ozsivadjian, 2020) including parental
blame (Doyle and Kenny, 2023) have been documented.
e lack of validation of the construct of EDA means an absence
of clinical guidance about how to support children. e existing
guidance remains mostly neutral, documenting the divergent views
which exist concerning EDA, and largely does not address useful
practices. e National Institute for Health and Care Excellence
(2011) autism diagnostic guidelines and those from the Royal College
of Psychiatrists (2020), the Australia Autism CRC (2018b) and the
British Psychological Society (2021) all reference the absence of EDA
from diagnostic manuals and a lack of consensus on the construct.
Signicant interest in EDA was identied by both NICE in their 2020
review (National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, 2020) and
the Autism CRC (2018a) public consultation, however associated
guidance documents remain succinct on the topic. e National
TABLE1 Features of extreme demand avoidance described by Newson
etal. (2003).
• Passive early history
• Use of social manipulation
• Appears sociable but lacks sense of shame, pride, and social identity
• Switches mood quickly and is impulsive
• Appears comfortable with pretence and role play
• Language delay and unusual content
• Obsessively resists demands or focuses on people
• So neurological signs, e.g., clumsy, late to crawl, ts
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Institute for Health and Care Excellence (2013) also produced a
document specic to support strategies for autistic individuals, but it
does not reference avoidance of demands or how to support
experience of such. Both the National Institute for Health and Care
Excellence (2011) and RCP guidance note managing the presentation
as part of formulation and planning for the individual, whilst the RCP
version suggest avoiding confrontation but otherwise, do not specify
what may be helpful, aside from highlighting that avoidance of
demands is a common human feature. Interestingly, the National
Institute for Health and Care Excellence (2011) guidelines associate
EDA with oppositional deance disorder which may emphasise a role
of volition in avoiding demands, inconsistent with viewing avoidance
as a stress response. As well as publishing guidelines regarding
assessing for PDA (PDA Society, 2022), the PDA specic charity have
written at large regarding helpful practices for individuals experiencing
demand avoidance, with authors highlighting their annual conferences
are oversubscribed (Trundle et al., 2017). It remains however that
empirically based evidence as to what is helpful for this group
is lacking.
e research that does exist indicates that behaviourist-based
practices are unhelpful in EDA (Gore Langton and Frederickson,
2018), and may even becounterproductive (Duncan etal., 2011). is
is of interest, as some practices traditionally used in supporting
autistic individuals are derived from behaviourism, e.g., applied
behaviour analysis (Lovaas, 1987). e use of unhelpful practices in
schools, particularly those using a traditional autism lens may explain
why children experience such diculty and why the EDA prole has
garnered so much parent attention. oseractices identied by
researchers and clinicians as helpful in EDA include increasing
certainty (Stuart et al., 2020) or developing ways to manage
uncertainty, increasing demand tolerance, teaching alternative skills
(Grahame et al., 2020), masking demands, promoting interests,
oering choice (Duncan etal., 2011), using agreed upon rewards,
using low demand, avoiding reinforcing avoidance, using low arousal,
picking battles, using indirect language, focusing on non-verbal cues,
managing adult expectations (Eaton and Weaver, 2020), avoiding
head-on confrontation (Fidler and Christie, 2015), using variety,
mystery and novelty, complex language, anxiety reduction strategies,
role-play, visuals to depersonalise demands, providing a safe space,
building self-awareness and self-esteem and having a keyworker
system who is calm and where the relationship is based on trust,
intuition, exibility and adaptability (Christie, 2007). Fidler (2019)
notes an emphasis on whole-school wellbeing is important. O’Nions
and Eaton (2020) identied that in the specic context of completing
an assessment with a child, psychologists benet from being adaptable,
following the child’s lead, inviting the child to help, and including
humour and choice. Interestingly, critics argue that such helpful
practices are not conned to EDA, but instead can beunderstand as
good practice based on current understanding of how to support
neurodivergent individuals (Woods, 2019).
Regarding professional practices that are helpful for families,
authors highlight collaboration (Moh and Magiati, 2012) availability,
empathy, openness to a variety of perspectives (Gore Langton and
Frederickson, 2018) and ability to assess dynamics of relationships
(Green et al., 2018). Despite children experiencing EDA being
involved with many professionals, the most common group of
professionals they are involved with is educational psychologists (Gore
Langton and Frederickson, 2016; Gore Langton and Frederickson,
2018). However, clinical psychologists are also involved in working
with children with EDA, showing support is needed outside of school
(Gore Langton and Frederickson, 2018).
Even though children who systematically avoid demands are in
receipt of psychological support, little literature appears to exist that
explored psychologists’ perspectives or experiences of working with
children with demand avoidance. Doyle and Kenny (2023) found that
psychologists working with this population were keen to access
training and, specically, to learn more about diagnostic practices.
Authors have highlighted gaps in knowledge answerable by future
research, including how to improve wellbeing for children
experiencing EDA (Eaton and Weaver, 2020), whether identication
of EDA is helpful (Truman etal., 2021), how demands might bemade
more tolerable (O’Nions and Eaton, 2020), the developmental
trajectory of EDA and helpful practices (Kildahl etal., 2021; Mols and
Danckaerts, 2021). It seems that those psychologists working closely
with children, schools and families may to contribute to answering
these questions.
is study takes a constructivist approach in exploring
psychologists’ accounts of demand avoidance and extreme demand
avoidance in children. Examining EDA provides a rare opportunity to
explore how psychological constructs evolve from their origin, giving
a voice to psychologists who play a key role in supporting children and
who are well placed to advance our understanding of psychological
phenomena. Acknowledging that the denition of EDA is contested
in the literature, this research holds the a priori standpoint that the
construct of EDA is open to investigation. Similarly, the literature is
unclear on whether EDA is conned to autism (Egan etal., 2020),
thus, this study does not require psychologists to beworking with
autistic children. e present study aimed to address the following
research objectives.
1. To describe how psychologists conceptualise, experience and
approach demand avoidance in children. is objective
informs us about how psychologists have understood and
approached such presentations in the absence of clear guidance.
2. To determine if any of the psychologists’ accounts of demand
avoidance were conceptualised as EDA. is objective helps us
to better understand the utility of the construct of EDA.
3. To explore if there are parallels between psychologists’ accounts
of extreme demand avoidance and the construct of EDA
described in the literature. is objective examines whether
psychologists’ accounts of extreme demand avoidance align
with what is described as EDA in the literature as per Newson
etal. (2003).
ese objectives were addressed using a small-scale qualitative
study of practicing psychologists from the UnitedKingdom, Australia,
and the Republic of Ireland.
Materials and methods
Participants and procedures
A sample size of 10–15 psychologists working with children and
adolescents was anticipated to comply with pragmatic time
constraints, psychologists’ likely interest in being interviewed about
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the niche area of demand avoidance, to create a diversity of
perspectives, and recognising the depth of data likely generated by
psychologists (Braun and Clarke, 2021). Sample size is acknowledged
as a single factor when using reexive TA in a constructivist paradigm.
Data quality was monitored during transcription and following the
12
th
interview, it was deemed there were sucient data to tell a
complex and rich story (Sim etal., 2018).
Table2 gives a summary of participant details grouped to ensure
anonymity. Most psychologists identied as female (n = 9) and a
diversity of ages was achieved. Most psychologists (n = 8) had been
teachers before becoming a psychologist, and others worked in early
years or psychology services. Most psychologists had been trained as
educational psychologists (n = 11). Of the psychologists practising in
Ireland, most were working in one geographical location within
Ireland. ree psychologists were employed by the National
Educational Psychology Service (NEPS), one by the Education and
Training Boards, ve by the Health Service Executive (HSE) Disability
service and, one was in a private service. One practitioner from
Australia and one from the UnitedKingdom also practised privately.
All participants had more than 6 years in practice (n = 12) and most
(n = 11) described their role as senior.
Exemption from a full ethical review was obtained from the UCD
Human Research Ethics Committee on the basis of the research being
on standard professional practice, and research approval was granted
from the Research Advisory Committee of NEPS in June 2022.
Psychologists were recruited via a snowball approach using word of
mouth, social media (Twitter), a Whatsapp networking group of
practicing psychologist across Ireland, and NEPS channels, where a
manager sent an email to a specic geographical area of Ireland. A
leading PDA specic organisation, the PDA Society shared the call for
participants on Twitter. An information sheet detailing the nature of
the research was made available online. All participants were informed
that their anonymity would be respected, and there would be no
identiers (including by service) in the write-up. Participants were
informed that they could withdraw from the study up to 2 weeks
post-interview.
Participants completed informed consent and submitted their
contact details and demographic information (self-identied gender,
level of professional experience, age category, and occupational status)
via a Google form. A pilot test of the semi-structured interview
schedule was conducted with a practicing psychologist in July 2022.
e 12 interviews were conducted by the primary investigator via
Zoom between July and November 2022. Each interview lasted
between 45 and 70 min. Interviews were audio-recorded, transcribed
into Microso Word, de-identied and stored on a secure, encrypted
laptop. Once transcribed, the audio les were destroyed.
Semi-structured interviews
e semi-structured interview schedule was designed based on
the research questions and was adjusted with feedback from
psychology experts and from the pilot study. Table3 describes the
TABLE2 Participants demographic information.
Characteristic Detail Number
Identifying gender Female 9
Male 3
Age Category 30–39 4
40–49 3
50–59 3
60–69 2
Pre-psychology
experience
Primary or post-primary teaching 8
Early years or adult psychology 4
Psychology training Educational 11
Other 1
Years practising 6–10 3
11–15 4
21–25 2
31–35 1
36–40 2
Psychology service Disability 5
School or further education 4
Private 3
Role in organisation Senior 11
Main grade 1
TABLE3 Topics, interview questions, and rationale for inclusion.
Topic Initial question Rationale
Experience with children
presenting with demand
avoidance
Can yourecall a professional experience of working
with a child who avoided demands?
is identies psychologists’ experience of demand avoidance in practice
Psychologists’ conceptualisation
of the presentation
Can youexplain the nature of the demand avoidance
in more detail?
is explores psychologists’ understanding of demand avoidance
Do youfeel this was an example of extreme demand
avoidance?
is explores psychologists’ understanding of what constitutes as extreme
demand avoidance
Psychologists’ approach to
supporting the child
What approaches did youtake supporting the child? Very little is known about how psychologists professionally approach
supporting children presenting in this way
How equipped did youfeel? is explores psychologists’ condence in their work in the context of a lack
of clinical guidance
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interview schedule, detailing each question with the associated
underlying topic and rationale. e interview schedule was designed
using three topics incorporating ve main questions and associated
probes: (a) psychologists’ experience with children presenting with
demand avoidance, (b) psychologists’ conceptualisation of the
presentation and whether the case represented extreme demand
avoidance, and (c) psychologists’ approach to supporting the child.
ere was a degree of exibility within each interview, in that the
order of questions and the time spent exploring each topic were
determined by participants’ contributions, allowing the researcher to
explore issues raised by participants, in line with the constructivist
approach. Initial questions were deliberately broad so as not to
constrain responses, for example, in the approaches section,
participants were asked “What approaches did you draw on in
supporting the child?” followed by probes to gain more information
“can youexplain why youchose those approaches?” and to funnel to
specic topics raised by the participant, e.g., “How was the use of
novelty new for the child’s carers?”
Analysis
Descriptive statistics are presented regarding participants’ self-
identied gender, number of years practicing, role in organisation, and
age category. e semi-structured interviews were analysed using the
six-phase reexive thematic analysis (RTA) approach as outlined by
Braun and Clarke (2019) for identifying, analysing, and reporting
patterns with a dataset. ough sequential phases are identied, the
RTA process is recursive and iterative, requiring the researcher to
move back and forth in a exible way, as necessary. RTA was chosen
as it is exible in approach, and views researcher subjectivity as a
resource, whilst staying close to participants’ own accounts which ts
with the constructivist paradigm informing this study. Identifying
meaning in participants’ responses in RTA is a combination of the
researcher’s judgements of which data answer the research question,
and the importance ascribed to experiences by the participants. While
recurrence of meaning is noted, it is not the focus. e researchers
took a critical orientation to the data, acknowledging that though
meaning was created in the interactions between researcher and
participants, and is inuenced by researcher subjectivity, participants’
accounts of their personal reality remain a valuable means of
understanding their experiences.
Data were transcribed by the rst author into Microso Word
documents and NVivo12 soware (QSR International Pty Ltd, 2018)
was utilised to code and organise data. Transcription was viewed as a
useful part of the familiarisation phase, which also included reviewing
each transcription and noting of items of interest, conicts, initial
ideas, and assumptions (Braun and Clarke, 2019). e research
questions formed the criteria for a rstly deductive approach to coding
material, where the researcher coded the data into three key areas of
experience, conceptualisation, and approach. e predominate
approach for the remainder of the process was inductive, and
prioritised participant meaning, as all interview data were coded
multiple times across dierent key areas to ensure nothing was missed.
Note-taking was used throughout to ensure consistency of approach,
and to track the evolution of codes through various iterations. A
comprehensive approach was taken, meaning many ner grain codes
were created which sought to carry sucient detail to stand alone
from the data (Braun etal., 2016). A mixture of semantic and latent
coding was used, in many cases both, semantic codes reected the
meaning communicated by the participant and latent codes reected
the interpretation of the analyst.
emes were generated from initial codes where the focus was
then on ensuring meaning across the entire data set was reected as
well as how meaning is interpreted to answer the research questions.
Initial codes and themes (phases two and three) were reviewed by the
second author and the corresponding discussion led to further
reection on potential themes in phase four. Discussion did not seek
to achieve consensus but was used as a platform to check assumptions.
A record was kept of several iterations involving codes, subthemes and
themes being removed, revised, and restructured. Original transcripts
were regularly referred to in checking the broader coding context. A
revised thematic map was developed, and some further adjustments
were made, including naming of themes and subthemes. In preparing
for phase six, both authors considered the order in which to report
themes. Data were contextualised in the results section as advocated
for by Clarke and Braun (2013).
Results
Child details
During interview, psychologists were asked to recall their
experiences with one child presenting with demand avoidance.
Children in psychologists’ accounts were typically aged 5 to 9 years
(n = 6) or 12 to 14 years (n = 6), with eight boys and four girls. Most
children were previously identied as neurodivergent (n = 10), with
nine identied as autistic. Whilst accessing the psychologist, four
children were also involved with other allied health professionals,
typically psychiatry (n = 4). Eight children had experienced or were
contemplating an educational placement move, one had experienced
school exclusion. ree were currently in mainstream education, four
in a “special” setting, four in alternative education or were not
accessing any formal education. e following were perceived to
bestrengths of the children described: average cognitive ability (n = 6),
involved in local community (n = 3), seeking social connections
(n = 5), well-developed communication skills (n = 4), and coping with
academic learning (n = 2).
Thematic analysis
ematic analysis yielded six salient themes emerging from
subthemes. e corpus of themes summarised psychologists’
experiences, conceptualisation, and approach in working with
children with demand avoidance (see Figure1). e themes and
subthemes are described in this section, supported by relevant
excerpts from the interviews.
Psychologists’ understanding of child’s
presentation
is theme relates to participants’ accounts of reasons given for
psychologists to become involved with children, oen known as the
referral question. Psychologists noted that reasons given by referrers
were oen removed from a full understanding of the child’s experience.
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References were made to demand avoidance which presented as
externalised emotional responses directed toward self, others, or
material objects. Some psychologists used broad-stroke descriptions,
such as “physical outbursts,” perhaps owing to psychologists receiving
this information second-hand. One psychologist (female) was more
explicit having witnessed a response rst-hand, “he lay on the oor,
rolled himself up in the rug and started kicking to the point where
I was concerned because the walls were glass.” One psychologist
(female) recalled the caring adults felt “targeted” when children “make
comments, about weight, accent and skin colour.”
Disengagement as a feature of demand avoidance was a likely
indicator for psychological involvement, viewed as an internalised
emotional response. One psychologist (female) feared that cases of
internalising demand avoidance were not reaching psychologists as
much as she might expect. Each child described was experiencing
daily demand avoidance, however, the most common reason for
involvement was individuals failing to leave the house. Another
psychologist (female) noted, “he spent a lot of the previous 4 years in
his bedroom.”
e idea that individuals’ regulation went “from 0 to 100” was
another common referral question. Whilst few psychologists had
witnessed this themselves, one (female) who had, recalled the child
“screeching, but the next minute switching into high-
quality conversation.”
Challenges for psychologists
is theme describes three main challenges for psychologists
which include, an ill-dened construct of EDA, working with varying
levels of understanding of the child amongst adults and additional
professionals, and service boundaries which require management.
Participants acknowledge the contested EDA construct has
implications for professional understanding, practice, and
relationships. One psychologist (female) recalled a frustrating
conversation with a colleague who questioned, “aren’t they all demand
avoidant by adolescence?.” One psychologist (female) noted, “I feel
nervous, because it’s not in the DSM, yet something has to exist to
reach the threshold.” Others questioned the value that EDA would
add, with one psychologist (male) describing a risk of, “getting caught
up in the high grass, instead of focusing on the actual practical
implications,” whilst another psychologist (female) added, “what
matters is getting this person out of their bedroom!.” Psychologists
expressed frustration that although a needs-based rather than a
diagnosis-based focus exists in some educational systems, a focus on
diagnostics remains, “on the one hand youdo not need a diagnosis to
get support along the continuum, but, if youhave requested special
treatment, then youneed a reason” (female psychologist).
One expressed concern that with growing awareness, over-
identication of the prole could occur. Many participants disliked
the language used in the construct title and denition, rejecting the
term pathological (a synonym for extreme in the construct title),
based on the medical model of disability. One participant’s experience
was that the construct encouraged them to focus solely on the
language of demands and avoided generating a fuller understanding.
e term manipulative was also problematic because this was not felt
to accurately reect the child’s experience.
Psychologists describe a key challenge relates to families and
schools’ level of understanding of the child’s experience. Many
acknowledge the inuence of parents’ experience of being parented.
One psychologist (female) appreciated her recommendations were
novel for parents, “it was just so unusual initially…encouraging her
FIGURE1
Themes and subthemes.
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14-year-olds to do these things.” Another psychologist (female) noted
parents’ commitment to traditional education pathways impacts upon
progress, “she pushed him beyond what hecould reasonably achieve.”
One psychologist (female) felt the impact of working with parents who
are neurodivergent made aligning goals dicult, “the parent had
challenges with communication and executive functioning, making it
very dicult.”
At school, social and learning expectations, the number of adults
and other children involved were also reported as barriers.
Psychologists explained that cultural norms were sometimes
mismatched with the needs of the child. For example, in relation to a
common school rule in the UK and Ireland regarding uniform, one
psychologist (female) found a uniform rule exasperating, “Why do
youhave to wear a skirt? Just beexible!.” Participants described that
many of the children they met had rst been identied as autistic and
were supported with traditional autism approaches which might not
beuseful, resulting in dicult experiences. Parent and school sta
understanding could be mismatched, oen resulting in blaming
parents. For example, one parent a psychologist (female) worked with,
was told she was “a ridiculous mother seeing problems where there
were none.” is lack of consensus in how to support children with
complex needs contributes to adult exhaustion, which, in turn causes
diculty for psychologists, as it reduces adults’ capacity to build on
psychologists’ work.
e psychologists also encountered challenges with several
professional issues. Psychologists described a lack of control over
many factors within systems in which the children existed. Some
psychologists found it dicult when parent agency meant a poorer
perceived outcome for the child, for example regarding school choice,
“ultimately, Icannot make that call, but it was very dicult holding
that because Iamworried about the long-term implications” (female
psychologist). Not being privy to relevant contextual factors was also
acknowledged: “psychologists operate in an imperfect process, weare
reliant on information relayed to us but that’s subject to the perception
of the narrator” (female psychologist). A further challenge was delay
in accessing the latest research, which caused guilt for some
psychologists, “it’s tough when yousee this young person in distress,
and youthink, weshould have known what was going on” (female
psychologist). Service boundaries involving time was also seen as a
challenge, with many noting this type of work is time consuming.
Others noted being restricted in who they could work with, e.g., not
being allowed to work directly with parents.
Enablers for psychologists
A key sense of togetherness was communicated in relation to
psychologists collaborating with others to bring change for the
children. Shared experience, supervision, and expertise from other
disciplines including occupational therapy, speech and language
therapy and psychiatry, was reported as being valuable. Having follow
up from professionals from other services was useful, owing to
services boundaries. Psychologists referred to a need for both formal
and informal fora, noting, “you need to besitting in a room, here’s a
case study, this is what transpired, these are the approaches” (male
psychologist). Learning alongside colleagues was seen as important,
“we trained together, so we implemented our learning together”
(female psychologist), another described team meetings which
included reecting on “what wescrew up and what weget right”
(female psychologist). Whilst one psychologist noted relying heavily
on academic research, another acknowledged a time barrier, “I do not
have the luxury to belooking through research, I’d love someone to
point me in the direction of something practical” (female
psychologist). Twitter was noted as an ecient method to connect
with the autistic community.
Some psychologists noted the approaches associated with the
EDA construct had been supportive. One stated “I still draw on the
information for when youneed an alternative approach” (female
psychologist), noting the construct can oer an explanation as to why
more traditional strategies have failed. Another psychologist described
using EDA approaches daily. Psychologists welcomed the addition of
the current research, hoping that it would yield practical implications.
Psychologists’ understanding of the child’s
presentation
is theme illustrates the ways in which psychologists
conceptualised the child’s presentation. is theme is connected to the
other theme of psychologists’ reason for involvement, as it describes
how psychologists conceptualise demand avoidance and other
inuencing factors. In addition, this theme includes data pertaining
to psychologists’ descriptions of when demand avoidance is
considered extreme.
Psychologists mainly attribute demand avoidance to autism or
ADHD and anxiety at “exceedingly high” (female psychologist) levels
resulting in autonomic bodily responses. Experience of autistic
trauma, inertia, intolerance of uncertainty, burnout, or a mismatch
between autistic and neurotypical understanding, were all named as
inuential. One psychologist noted that “children who are autistic
have been traumatised numerous times before there is an
understanding of where their autonomic nervous system is at”
(female). Another explained, “demand avoidance might lead
backwards to something that happened which was frightening, and
nobody explained it” (female). Whilst some psychologists felt that
demand avoidance was natural and adaptive, others described it as
resulting from a “complex interweaving of family stu” (male
psychologist) or described it as involving many factors, a “curious
mix” (female psychologist).
Such complexity was reected in the range of challenges
psychologists described children facing at biological, cognitive,
behavioural, aective, and family/school/community levels, with the
latter two appearing most inuential in contributing to the child’s
presentation based on psychologists’ accounts. Aective factors
included negative experiences of expectations (of time, social
encounters and abilities, health, and school), feeling a lack of
physiological safety owing to not being seen or heard “he was at that
top end of the ght or ight, in a really heightened state of anxiety all
the time” (female psychologist), being punished for things outside of
their control, and not having trusted connections, resulting in
emotional responses communicated in a dierent way.
Family, school, and community factors noted by psychologists as
challenges for children included relationship dynamics, as well as
cultural norms about how people experience the world. One
psychologist (female) described family expectations, they had another
child, and they were applying the same rules to her, but wesaid “look,
this is dierent”. Ruptures across key relationships was also reported
as being common.
Psychologists described demand avoidance as extreme when it
was evident from early childhood, occurred in another
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neurodivergence, included externalising, and internalising emotional
responses precipitating harm to others, linked to strong interests in
individuals, appeared as the child having a “denite view” (male
psychologist), evidenced a mismatch between age expectations and
the child’s tolerance, and impacted on the child doing what they
needed or wanted to do.
Psychologists’ focus in supporting the child
is theme describes psychologists’ focus in supporting the
children they described (See Table4) via improving adult practices.
e focus on working with the adults involved with the child rather
than the child themself highlights the truly systemic nature of the
psychologists’ role. Psychologists empower adults by validating their
experience, bringing awareness of assumptions, building
understanding, and supporting them in tuning in to individual need,
whilst considering environmental factors. “Taking a step back” (female
psychologist) from culturally inuenced expectations was referenced.
“Tuning in” (female psychologist) oen involved giving the child a
voice. One psychologist (female) recalled thinking “you [parents]
might know a lot about autism, youmight know a lot about ADHD,
and youobviously know loads about [medical condition] but youdo
not know what it’s like to bethis girl.” Openness to regularly adjusting
the type of support is deemed important, with a psychologist (female)
noting, “I was under no illusions it would belong lasting.” Supporting
children presenting in this way was deemed to be“quite skilled” work
by one psychologist who noted, “I think it is down to subtlety in
approach and it is very, very individualised” (male psychologist).
Success for psychologists
is theme addresses psychologists’ descriptions of success in
their involvement with children. Psychologists communicated that
indicators of success may be small. ey noted that adults’
understanding increasing is a key feature, with one psychologist
(female) describing her involvement as having “shied the parents
thinking about her as deant, to trying to reduce her stress levels.”
Another psychologist (female) noted a parent now “takes steps back
in order to go forward.” Others described increased self-awareness for
parents as important in achieving co-regulation, “she [mother] was
the most regulated she had been ever, and he [child] completely
opened up in a way he’d never done before” (female psychologist).
TABLE4 Practices in supporting the child.
Psychologist’s
Focus
Useful practices for adults
Support adults’ skill
development and coping • Encourage collaboration with other adults
• Increase understanding of child’s perspective, ability, developmental stages, over whelm and anxiety, the autistic perspective, parenting style
• Li age expectations
• Build connections
• Encourage self-care
Encourage a focus on
physiological safety • Increase movement
• Supporting sensory preferences
• Promote emotional safety (increase connections, increase awareness of co-regulation, tune in to emotions; name, validate, give space), in-built
daily emotional regulation (mindfulness, safe spaces)
Encourage matching
ability and demand • Build skills to improve access
• Ensure achievement by taking small steps towards goals
• Be aware of the impact of major transitions
• Match the task to the skill level – do a task analysis and consider reducing demands by increasing supports (dierentiation)
Support regarding
appropriate school choice • Encourage a focus on matching environment to child’s ability to cope with demands including sensory, social, academic
• Get to know all available options incl. Autism classes, special schools, home-schooling, alternative education, and training programmes
Increase awareness of
positively reinforcing
avoidance
• Be aware of access to leisure if there is a lack of functional engagement, e.g., school attendance
Promote increased child
involvement and
autonomy
• Use suggestions and indirect language rather than commands
• View the adult and child as a team working side by side
• Learn about and follow the child’s perspective, preferences, and interests
Promote increased
structure, routine, and
predictability
• Increase predictability via highly consistent and structured use of visuals
• Encourage a present focus by chunking timetable
• Engage in advance planning and thinking
• Provide advance notice of changes and increase support
Encourage regular review
• Be clear about potential short-term impact of support, instead expect changing needs and encourage trial and error, tweaking and renement
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Psychologists also described features of successful change for
children, including relating to other people, seeking others, tolerating
imposed boundaries, or going to necessary places. In relation to
attending therapy appointments, one psychologist (female) noted “she
tolerated me, and she came back,” and another (female) spoke of
increasing ability to tolerate school, “attendance went from 10 min
three times a week, to 90 min every day, massive progress.” A reduction
in signs of child distress was also seen as important.
Discussion
is research aimed to explore practicing psychologists’ accounts of
demand avoidance in children whom they play a large role in supporting
(Gore Langton and Frederickson, 2018). e research sought to explore
how psychologists experience, conceptualise and approach demand
avoidance in children, and, in cases where psychologists conceptualised
the demand avoidance to beextreme, how their descriptions mapped
on to the construct of PDA as originally described by Newson etal.
(2003). Transcripts of semi-structured interviews with 12 psychologists
working with children were analysed using reexive thematic analysis
(Braun and Clarke, 2019). e six themes created provide a rich account
of how this cohort experiences, conceptualises, and approaches demand
avoidance in children. Psychologists appeared to experience demand
avoidance and EDA as a feature of their work. Amidst a lack of clear
clinical guidance, psychologists reported using a range of practices,
overlapping many approaches, in supporting children. e focus was
mostly indirect, emphasising the adults around the child. e features
of demand avoidance described by psychologists as being extreme had
some parallels with those features of EDA described by Newson but also
had key dierences.
Psychologists’ experiences of demand
avoidance in children
Children in need of support
Firstly, psychologists’ descriptions of demand avoidance in
children emphasised their need for support, regardless of their
orientation towards the EDA construct (Woods, 2020). Children’s
need to avoid demands was understood as arising owing to the
dierences between neurotypical individuals and neurodivergent
individuals, which gives rise to complex interactions. Consistent with
Brede etal. (2017) and Doyle and Kenny (2023), challenges were
associated with home and school evidenced by the high prevalence of
school moves and poor health experienced by children and parents.
Such a nding indicates diculty with traditional schooling, which is
likely to have led to negative experiences for families and schools.
Duncan etal. (2011) also refer to the impact of late identication of
such a prole, noting that less helpful approaches may have been used
where a full understanding was lacking. Early support gives children
the opportunity to achieve success.
Common challenges and enablers
Despite controversy surrounding EDA, psychologists did not
experience supporting these children as particularly dierent to other
neurologically divergent groups. One common experience was that of
tensions amongst dierent stakeholders and dierent levels of
understanding. Whilst the department of education model of resource
allocation (Department of Education and Science, 2017) suggests
schools can cater to need without diagnosis, psychologists
communicated that schools still nd it dicult to deviate from the
norm. Doyle and Kenny (2023) also queries the utility of needs-based
models where very novel approaches are needed, such as in
EDA. Insight from young autistic people who had been excluded from
school similarly emphasised the lack of understanding of their needs
as central to their failed school placements. e young people also
cited diculty in understanding how all pupils nding school
challenging could successfully tolerate being placed in the one
classroom. Accounts in the current study also described tensions in
relation to school placement, where psychologists might not see a
placement as a good t for the child. e new progressing disability
service model in children’s disability teams in Ireland also recommends
parent prioritisation of goals (Bradley etal., 2020), which may present
similar diculties for supporting clinicians.
Consistent with previous research, both within the demand
avoidance literature and more broadly within professional psychology
literature, certain factors were seen as enabling success for psychologists.
Psychologists valued learning from peers and from research
disseminated eciently, as has been found elsewhere (Law and Woods,
2018; Hoyne and Cunningham, 2019) as well as through collaboration
with other disciplines (Atkinson etal., 2013; Doyle and Kenny, 2023).
Psychologists in the current study also valued access to neurodivergent
perspectives. Space and time for learning opportunities is likely a
challenge in organisations, but its value cannot beunderstated. Twitter
was acknowledged in the current study as a key avenue to engaging with
neurodivergent individuals. Since NEPS and primary care psychology
are single discipline services in Ireland, it follows that systems may need
to bein place to facilitate multidisciplinary working.
Psychologists’ approach to demand
avoidance in children
Range of (neurodiverse armative) approaches
Despite a lack of guidance about practices for supporting children
with demand avoidance, many psychologists in the current study
approached demand avoidance in a similar way to other psychological
diculties, by focusing on the child’s underlying needs (Astle etal.,
2022), and by building understanding for all involved (Milton, 2018).
Psychologists emphasised the individualised nature of this work which
draws on a strengths-based approach to diversity, consistent with
previous ndings (Wilding and Griey, 2015; Doyle and Kenny, 2023).
Clinical guidance produced by National Institute for Health and Care
Excellence (2013) emphasises the individual nature of support in the
case of autistic children and the PDA Society (2022) in the case of
autistic children with an EDA prole. In supporting children,
psychologists drew upon a range of approaches including relational,
with a focus on adult self-regulation (Cunningham, 2022), anxiety-
based, as advocated for by White etal. (2022) and, neurodiversity-
informed, as suggested by autistic children themselves (Goodall,
2018). EDA adults (Johnson and Saunderson, 2023) and autistic
young people experiencing demand avoidance (Brede etal., 2017) also
referenced the role of the relationship with trusted adults around them
in emotional regulation and the role of uncertainty and change in
anxiety. Approaches associated with EDA were also in use, argued by
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Woods (2019) to represent good practice in supporting neurodivergent
children. Behavourist methods described in other studies (e.g., Law
and Woods, 2018) were not oen mentioned in the current study,
perhaps owing to a move towards neurodiverse armative approaches
identied by psychologists as becoming increasingly relevant to their
work. Using a range of approaches makes sense for psychologists as,
regardless of their psychological challenges, children’s minds and
histories are diverse (Allsopp etal., 2019).
Indirect work
In approaching demand avoidance in children indirectly,
increasing adult understanding and managing expectations were seen
by the psychologists as being important, in line with previous ndings
(Law and Woods, 2018; Hoyne and Cunningham, 2019; Eaton and
Weaver, 2020) and clinical guidance (National Institute for Health and
Care Excellence, 2013; PDA Society, 2022). Christie’s (2007) guidelines
placed strong emphasis on the signicant support needs of the adults
working around a child presenting as demand avoidant. In addressing
adults’ own anxiety, psychologists encouraged them to value diversity
and to move away from a within-child decit model inuenced by
psychocentrism (Gruson-Wood, 2016) and developmentalism
(Gabriel, 2021), common in education, towards viewing diculties as
occurring relationally.
Developmentalism results in demand avoidance being
misinterpreted as pathological, as it deviates from what is expected for
children according to age (Moore, 2020). Adults’ experience of being
parented and of education were also seen as inuencing their
expectations, in line with Kerr and Capaldi (2019) and Hornby and
Blackwell (2018). Indirect work with parents and teachers means the
quality of the relationship matters (Hoyne and Cunningham, 2019).
In the context of demand avoidance, parents value good listening,
care, no judgement, and openness (Gore Langton and Frederickson,
2018). e Department of Education model for resource allocation
(Department of Education and Science, 2007) and the Progressing
Disability Service (PDS) model for children’s teams (Bradley etal.,
2020) in Ireland both rely on empowering the adults in a child’s life.
Psychologists also described encouraging adults to regularly
review their practice, noting that this may bedicult as needs change
and develop over time. Previous authors have suggested continuity in
access to psychologists might be helpful (Gore Langton and
Frederickson, 2018; Doyle and Kenny, 2023), with support increasing
and decreasing as needed (Green etal., 2022). In theory, both in
children’s disability teams and in NEPS, children can achieve recurring
support, although this is of course dependent on the limited
availability of psychologists.
Psychologists conceptualisation of
demand avoidance in children
Demand avoidance in autism
Despite its original categorisation as pathological demand avoidance,
and the lack of consensus regarding demand avoidance as occurring
within autism, psychologists have typically observed demand avoidance
in autistic individuals. Demand avoidance as occurring solely within
autism has been strongly campaigned for (e.g., PDA Society UK). A
strong recognition factor described by families upon receipt of the
diagnosis and approaches described as diering from those used for other
autistic people are being cited as evidence for the existence of a sub-type.
Eaton and Weaver (2020) highlight the central feature of EDA appears to
be anxiety, which is itself not a diagnostic feature of autism. Woods
(2022a,b,c) suggests that there are power dierences at play, with the
potential for the autism industry to create an EDA product that would
allow private practitioners to gain nancially by oering a contested
diagnosis. High levels of support for EDA may betherefore explained by
social identity theory which describes disabled people needing to create
in-groups to protect against ableism (Bogart and Dunn, 2019). In the
current study, psychologists’ acceptance of demand avoidance as
occurring mainly in autism shows the power of mass interest and suggests
that care must betaken regarding the social inuence on constructs of
disability (Woods, 2022a). Woods (2023, p. 48) describes how a
“premature communities of practice” can form as a result of campaigning
on social media, in this case relating to EDA as occurring soley
within autism.
Taking a broad perspective
Psychologists viewed children’s presentations broadly, as complex,
and as occurring because of a range of factors, and not solely associated
with demand avoidance. Features included high levels of distress, and
documented impact on health of children and adults, replicating
ndings of Brede etal. (2017), Gore Langton and Frederickson (2018),
and Doyle and Kenny (2023). In line with previous ndings (e.g., Doyle
and Kenny, 2023), psychologists attributed dierences to known features
of neurodivergent individuals. Some psychologists used the language of
neuroscience, describing autonomic bodily stress responses which
happen in the context of imposed demands. is may also align with
the Royal College of Psychiatrists (2020) who highlight avoidance of
demands is a common feature of humans, in a brief note on PDA in
their guidance on the psychiatric support of autistic adults. Adults
experiencing EDA in the study by Johnson and Saunderson (2023) also
reference the role of the autonomic nervous system in explaining their
bodily responses, though some discussed being motivated by stress
which perhaps suggests a role of volition. Stress response explanations
are consistent with models described by Green etal. (2018) and Woods
(2022b) which take the view that stress is transactional with the
environment and occurs when demands exceed coping ability.
Transactional models have implications for environments such as
homes and schools in which children exist. Given the high level of stress
exhibited by children in the current study and previous research, it
seems that demands placed on some children do not appear to match
their coping ability.
Extreme demand avoidance as a construct
Parallels with Newson
All psychologists in this study described the children they worked
with as experiencing extreme levels of demand avoidance. Much of
what is known about demand avoidance is based on Newson etal.’s
(2003) early criteria for EDA. Parallels exist between Newson’s criteria
and the criteria described by the psychologists in the current study,
but key dierences also emerged. Importantly, social manipulation
was not discussed by the psychologists, although it is a central feature
of Newson’s descriptions. In addition, the psychologists described the
impact on what children want or need to do as being important, which
showed respect for the individual, rejecting a developmentalist
perspective (Moore, 2020). Contrastingly, Newson etal. (2003) focus
on children not carrying out actions as desired by adults. In addition,
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Newson does not refer to the transactional context where demands
exceed coping ability. Whilst Newson included developmental
features, e.g., language delays, other authors had removed them
(O’Nions etal., 2016) and one psychologist saw emergence in early
development as important in delineating EDA from demand
avoidance. Other features described by Newson which achieved little
or no coverage by psychologists in this study include passive early
history, comfort in role play and, so neurological signs.
Utility of the construct
ough the psychologists in the current study reported using a
range of approaches to work with children with demand avoidance,
representing good practice for neurodivergent individuals (Woods,
2019), most rejected the medicalised language and utility of the EDA
construct. Rejection of medicalised language is reected in the variety
of terminology available to describe EDA and has been identied
previously amongst psychologists (Raskin et al., 2022). Few
psychologsists were open to including the prole as part of an autism
identication and had previously done, consistent with suggestions by
the PDA Society UK in their 2022 guidance. Most psychologists focused
on children’s underlying needs, which may be in line with a
transdiagnostic approach as described by Astle etal. (2022). is
approach recognises that some characteristics in children’s proles
occur outside of categories, giving the example of autism and anxiety. A
transdiagnostic model focuses on characteristics, over diagnostic label,
and is in line with Doyle and Kenny (2023) who suggest noting the
presentation of anxiety and demand avoidance in formulation.
Guidelines from the Royal College of Psychiatrists (2020) relating to
autistic adults also advocate for managing underlying factors such as
severe anxiety. Even advocates of PDA question the utility of diagnostic
classications and note that dierent proles can present with similar
features (Duncan et al., 2011). In a foreword to a book from the
perspective of an 11-year-old girl with PDA written by Duncan etal.
(2011), a leading clinical psychologist in the eld, Judy Gould, notes that
its content is likely to be of use to individuals “not conforming to
conventional social rules, who are oppositional, or just dierent” (Fidler
and Christie, 2015, p.10). Rather than adhere strictly to a categorical
approach, a transdiagnostic model may beof value as it allows for early
identication of strengths and vulnerability, potentially reducing
inequality in accessing support, as children do not have to wait for
characteristics to besuciently problematic to reach a threshold.
Limitations
ere are several limitations of this research, meaning that
caution must beused when interpreting ndings. Firstly, because the
research set out to test the EDA contrast, it purposefully did not work
with a precise denition of what is meant by demand avoidance. e
implication of this means wecannot say if the practices pertain
specically to demand avoidance, or if they are useful practices for
children in general or in a specic category. Similarly, wecannot say
whether the practices psychologists identify as useful in supporting
children will work at higher or lower levels of demand avoidance than
what is described. A detailed account of children’s proles or
experiences was not possible meaning any possible intersectionality
is not addressed. Information such as age of child is missing which
may berelevant to ability to learn coping strategies as alluded to by
Johnson and Saunderson (2023).
In addition, by its design, the study relied solely on the views of
psychologists. is is particularly relevant when considering practices
described to be useful or the indicators of success, as psychologists’
perceptions may dier from that of teachers, parents, and children whose
perspectives would give the most reliable account. Psychologists’ views
are likely highly inuenced by the inherent privilege associated with their
role (Stoudt etal., 2012). Since the neurodiversity paradigm has shown
so clearly in its emphasis on the subjective voice, means of achieving
feedback from teachers, children and families in relation to the usefulness
of psychologists’ support would beworthwhile.
In relation to the limitations associated with the recruitment
method, though Twitter and a Whatsapp group were used, it is worth
noting that such platforms cannot reach on all potential psychologists
thus restricting participation from the outset. In addition, the lack of
consensus and keen interest surrounding the topic of EDA, and related
varying diagnostic practices means that recruitment may have relied
on those with a particular view or agenda in relation to the construct
coming forward or being invited by colleagues to participate – thus
biasing the study. is is particularly the case where recruitment was
shared within the network of the PDA Society who present as very
committed to a set outlook on the construct. In addition, although the
recruitment method was designed to recruit non-Irish based
psychologists, most participants who agreed to beinterviewed were
working in one geographical location in Ireland. is possibly resulted
in a restricted overview of practice as there may have been local
arrangements in place to address the lack of formal guidance in
relation to assessment for and support of demand avoidance. Owing
to the limited geographical spread, social desirability in interview
responses may have also been a factor, particularly given the similar
training orientation of the lead researcher and participating
psychologists, use of alternative data collection methods, e.g.,
questionnaire for future researchers may mitigate this risk.
A further consideration is that it was not possible to present a
detailed analysis of the relationships between multiple codes, given the
length limitations of this manuscript. In addition, though
psychologists’ accounts of EDA are compared with the construct as
outlined by Newson etal. (2003), the current analysis was conducted
thematically, and psychologists were not asked to list their criteria
specically. us, it is likely that psychologists’ full understanding as
to what constitutes EDA may not have been obtained. Finally, 11
psychologists described autistic children, this may have been because
they saw the study as associated with the known construct of EDA,
which has come to beattributed to autism, or because their most
prominent experience of demand avoidance is in children who happen
to beautistic. In my view, despite these limitations, this exploratory
study which aimed to explore psychologists’ accounts of their
experiences of, conceptualisation and approach to demand avoidance
advances understanding of the EDA construct, makes important
research to practice links, and highlights implications for practice and
policy of psychologists working with children.
Conclusion
Little is known about how psychologists’ experience, conceptualise
and approach children’s demand avoidance, nor about how they
conceptualise extreme demand avoidance (EDA) in their work. e
current study gives voice to psychologists in relation to the practices
they draw upon and the utility of the construct of EDA as rst
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described by Newson. ough psychologists used EDA aligned
approaches, they rejected the medicalised language and utility of the
construct. Such a nding is timely given the growing impact the
neurodiversity paradigm is having on psychologists’ work. Instead,
psychologists focused on the current characteristics and needs of the
child, an approach which could allow early identication of strengths
and vulnerability, thus reducing inequality in accessing support.
Psychologists drew upon a range of approaches in working
systemically with the adults in children’s lives, shiing the focus to
transactional contexts, and to valuing diversity. It is evident that owing
to of their emphasis on systemic work, psychologists are well placed
to incorporate neurodiversity into practice.
Data availability statement
e raw data supporting the conclusions of this article will
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Ethics statement
Written informed consent was obtained from the individual(s) for
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Author contributions
LH: conceptualisation, data curation, formal analysis,
investigation, methodology, project administration, writing – original
dra, and writing – review and editing. JeS: conceptualisation,
methodology, supervision, and writing – review and editing. JoS:
conceptualisation, methodology, and supervision. UP:
conceptualisation and supervision. All authors contributed to the
article and approved the submitted version.
Conflict of interest
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absence of any commercial or nancial relationships that could
beconstrued as a potential conict of interest.
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