Drawing upon the work of John Braithwaite, this article examines the role of ex-combatants in developing community based restorative justice as part of the broader conflict resolution process in Northern Ireland. The article examines the interplay between human rights and restorative justice standards of practice, contests over legitimacy and the role of community based restorative justice programmes as a counterweight to ‘top down’ state formalism in justice delivery. The paper argues that Braithwaite’s personal contribution as well as his scholarship has been a central influence in the ‘respectablisation’ of these ex-combatant led projects.