The Mind of a Peacemaker

Abstract

Understanding the process of resolving conflicts through mediation has been most often viewed from the perspective of the law, from which it originated. The Mind of a Peacemaker brings together a psychological understanding of mediation, current thought in the field of conflict resolution, and guidance for future peacemakers. Through reviewing current research, interdisciplinary practices, and personal exercises, individuals seeking to become mediators can develop a deeper understanding of their role in the peacemaking process.

The peacemaker's journey includes learning the impact of a positive attitude; developing awareness of the emotional components of conflict; understanding the value of attending, listening, and being mindful; appreciating the complexities of building connections and relationships; and valuing the abilities needed to establish a culture of peace. These elements can lead those seeking to make a difference by resolving conflict, to develop skills and perspectives that include the role psychology has in mediation. Each chapter not only presents the background of psychology, mediation, and the process of conflict resolution, but also guidance for future mediators. The material helps individuals to reflect on what brings them to this calling and what personal issues they will need to address. Using a global perspective, the book provides the benefits that psychology can contribute to the field of mediation and peacemaking.

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The Mind of a Peacemaker: The
Psychology of Mediation
Author(s): Mary Lou Bryant Frank
Edition: 1
Copyright: 2019
Pages: 114
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OVERVIEW
TABLE OF CONTENTS
AUTHOR BIO
Understanding the process of resolving conflicts through mediation has been most often viewed from
the perspective of the law, from which it originated. The Mind of a Peacemaker brings together a
psychological understanding of mediation, current thought in the field of conflict resolution, and
guidance for future peacemakers. Through reviewing current research, interdisciplinary practices,
and personal exercises, individuals seeking to become mediators can develop a deeper
understanding of their role in the peacemaking process.
The peacemaker's journey includes learning the impact of a positive attitude; developing awareness
of the emotional components of conflict; understanding the value of attending, listening, and being
mindful; appreciating the complexities of building connections and relationships; and valuing the
abilities needed to establish a culture of peace. These elements can lead those seeking to make a
difference by resolving conflict, to develop skills and perspectives that include the role psychology
has in mediation. Each chapter not only presents the background of psychology, mediation, and the
process of conflict resolution, but also guidance for future mediators. The material helps individuals
to reflect on what brings them to this calling and what personal issues they will need to address.
Using a global perspective, the book provides the benefits that psychology can contribute to the field
of mediation and peacemaking.

Related ISBN's: 9781792410901, 9781 The Mind of
a Peacemaker: The Psychology of
Mediation
Author(s): Mary Lou Bryant Frank
Edition: 1
Copyright: 2019
Pages: 114
OVERVIEW
TABLE OF CONTENTS
AUTHOR BIO
Dedication
Contents
Preface
To the Future Peacemaker
Chapter 1 Background and Overview
Peace Was Seen as the Answer Across Cultures
Making Peace: A History of Mediation in the United States
Law and Mediation
Styles of Mediation
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Resources for Chapter 1
Exercise 1 A Life of Conflict and Resolution
Chapter 2 Psychological Concepts in Mediation
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Resources for Chapter 2
Exercise 2 Facing Unresolved Conflicts within Ourselves
Exercise 3 The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument or TKI (Kilmann
Diagnostics, 2018)
Chapter 3 Core Questions about Change and Mediation
What Have We Learned about How People Change and What Have Psychologists Done to Help
Them Change?
Freudian
Cognitive/Behavioral
Humanistic/Existential
Family Systems
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How has Information about Psychology Been Integrated into the Mediation Process and What Are
the Stages in the Process?
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Resources for Chapter 3
Exercise 4 How Do You See Yourself?
Exercise 5 What Type of Mediation Fits Your Personality?

Chapter 4 Approach Mediation with Positivity
Invitation
Intention
Confidentiality
Ground Rules
Shared Goals
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Metaphors
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Resources for Chapter 4
Exercise 6 How Do You Connect?
Exercise 7 What Are the Metaphors that Guide Your Life?
Chapter 5 Sense Emotions and Issues
Self-Awareness
Diversity
Conflict
Sensitivity
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Resources for Chapter 5
Exercise 8 What Messages Were You Given?
Exercise 9 Read about Differences
Chapter 6 Be Attentive, Listen, and Be Mindful
Listen
Empathy and Compassion
Mindfulness
Empowerment
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Resources for Chapter 6
Exercise 10 Listening Is the Key
Exercise 11 Who has Helped You?
Exercise 12 Mindfulness in Mediation Exercise
Exercise 13 Understanding the Imposter in Each of Us
Chapter 7 Build Connections
Honesty
Reframing
Accepting
Forgiving
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Resources for Chapter 7
Exercise 14 Honesty with Myself and Others
Exercise 15 Reframing Practice Sessions
Exercise 16 Forgiving Ourselves
Chapter 8 Establish a Culture of Peace
Systems Thinking
Preventing Conflict
Promoting Peace
A Worldview of Mediation
Assumptions in Mediation
Context and Culture of Mediation
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Resources for Chapter 8

Exercise 17 Systems that Impact My Life
Exercise 18 Promoting Peace
Exercise 19 Assumptions I Live By
Chapter 9 Future Directions in Mediation
Research in Mediation
Ethics for Mediators
Training and Practice in Mediation
Psychology and the Field of Mediation
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References
Index
Related ISBN's: 9781792410901, 9781792413049
The Mind of a Peacemaker: The
Psychology of Mediation
Author(s): Mary Lou Bryant Frank
Edition: 1
Copyright: 2019
Pages: 114
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OVERVIEW
TABLE OF CONTENTS
AUTHOR BIO
Mary Lou Bryant Frank
Dr. Mary Lou Frank is a licensed psychologist and mediator. Her Ph.D. and M.S. in Psychology as
well as her M.Ed. in Counseling and B.A. in Speech (Communication) are from Colorado State
University. Completing training in Advanced Negotiations for Executives at Harvard University, she
received mediation training at Brenau University and Georgia State University. She served as a
mediator for the Board of Regents of the University System of Georgia. A state approved neutral for
the courts in Georgia, she is the President of the International Academy of Dispute Resolution. She
is co-founder of the consulting group, Transforming Mediation and a Fellow at the Institute for Higher
Education at the University of Georgia. She continues to teach psychology at Brenau and Middle

Georgia State Universities. She has served as a professor, department chair, dean, associate vice
president, and interim vice president and consults and trains nationally and internationally on
mediation, mindfulness, diversity, ethics, and leadership. She has published in journals and
textbooks in psychology and counseling. She received the Distinguished Provider Award in
Counseling and has been the recipient of grants and awards in leadership, teaching, diversity, and
community service.
Related ISBN's: 9781792410901, 9781792413049
792413049