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DOI 10.1007/s11195-019-09565-8
Dating and Courtship Behaviors Among
Those with Autism Spectrum Disorder
Melanie Clark Mogavero & Ko-Hsin Hsu
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BRIEF REPORT
Dating andCourtship Behaviors Among Those withAutism
Spectrum Disorder
MelanieClarkMogavero1· Ko‑HsinHsu2
© Springer Science+Business Media, LLC, part of Springer Nature 2019
Abstract
There has been growing concern among stakeholders about individuals with autism spec-
trum disorder (ASD), their sexual and intimate relationship experience, and their ability to
pursue and maintain interpersonal relationships in a healthy manner. ASD is characterized,
in part, by communication and socialization deficits, which may lead to miscommunica-
tions, inappropriate communications, or inappropriate actions towards romantic interests.
This study sought to describe the romantic experiences of a small sample of individuals
with ASD and explore any inappropriate courtship behaviors while pursuing a romantic
interest.
Keywords Autism spectrum disorder· Sexuality· Dating· Stalking· Harassment· United
States
Introduction
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a complex neurological disorder characterized in part,
by limited verbal and non-verbal communication and social interaction [1]. Such deficits
may lead to miscommunications when pursuing romantic interests and when attempting
to maintain romantic relationships. Studies have demonstrated that individuals with ASD
have communicated interest in relationships and marriage [17], and displayed sexual inter-
est or engaged in sexual behavior [7, 8, 23, 33] at a similar rate to their peers without ASD
[10, 13, 14, 30]. Research by Mehzabin and Stokes [20], Stokes and Kaur [30], Stokes and
Newton [31], and Stokes etal. [32] noted inappropriate courting behaviors among individ-
uals with ASD, some of which resembled “stalking-type” behaviors. In a literature review,
Mogavero [21] linked many deviant courtship and sexual behaviors exhibited by those with
* Melanie Clark Mogavero
mmogavero@georgian.edu
Ko-Hsin Hsu
hsu@kutztown.edu
1 Department ofCriminal Justice, Georgian Court University, 900 Lakewood Ave, Lakewood,
NJ08701, USA
2 Department ofCriminal Justice, Kutztown University ofPennsylvania, Kutztown, PA19530, USA
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ASD to their social and communication deficits and noted there was often no malicious
intent.
Literature Review
Interpersonal relationships are an important aspect of one’s quality of life and this is no
different for individuals with ASD [2, 18]. An important social interaction for one’s overall
well-being includes dating and romantic relationships with others. Research has demon-
strated that adults with ASD in romantic relationships, compared to those who were not,
had a greater sense of social/community belonging [24] and a greater sexual well-being
[7, 8]. Byers etal. surveyed adults with ASD and reported that, in general, they had good
sexual functioning and most have been in a romantic relationship for at least 3months [7,
8]. However, individuals with ASD often have delayed social and emotional maturity than
those without ASD and studies that compared the two groups demonstrated that individu-
als with ASD experienced more difficulties with social and sexual functioning [9, 25]. Bal-
lan [4] interviewed parents of children with ASD and reported that some believed that their
children would be unable to achieve romantic or sexual relationships, and avoided discuss-
ing topics such as dating, sexual intercourse, and birth control. Stokes etal. surveyed par-
ents of adolescents and adults with and without ASD and noted that having difficulty read-
ing social cues was a contributing factor to their children’s relationship difficulties [32].
Studies that compared the sexual knowledge among individuals with and without ASD
revealed that those with ASD had less sexual knowledge and received less sexual education
from social sources (e.g., peers, parents) and more from non-social sources (e.g., televi-
sion, Internet) [6, 20, 23]. Because they have fewer opportunities to obtain dating and rela-
tionship knowledge from peers, they often do not have the same sexual outlets throughout
their development as their peers without ASD [3, 5, 6, 11]. Research has also shown higher
percentages of those with ASD identifying as lesbian, gay, bisexual, asexual or other/
unknown sexual orientations [7, 8, 10, 13], which may also hinder opportunities for roman-
tic relationships [7]. Gender differences were also noted in the research, with females hav-
ing more experience with relationships but lower sexual functioning than males [7, 8].
Individuals with ASD often gain social skills with age, but if they enter adulthood with
decreased social/emotional functioning, they may lack the appropriate skills, knowledge,
and scripts to initiate relationships, and maintain romantic relationships. Some adolescents
with ASD have engaged in inappropriate sexual conversations and behaviors when pursing
romantic interests [26, 29, 31].
Courtship involves subtle communication. Therefore, impairments with social interac-
tion and verbal or non-verbal communication may lead some to engage in inappropriate
behavior [5, 26], including harassment and stalking [3032]. Only one empirical study to
date has examined this stalking phenomenon [32]. Stokes etal. [32] revealed that individu-
als with ASD continued to pursue the person of interest longer after the person of interest
did not respond or provided a negative response to their display of interest than those with-
out ASD. Dating becomes extremely difficult when one cannot understand the views and
intentions of others [5]. Hurlbutt and Chalmers [15] interviewed an adult male with ASD
who stated that while pursuing women, he often “drove them away” by calling them too
often and not recognizing their feelings of being harassed. Having the desire for relation-
ships and intimacy, while perceiving these goals as unachievable, may lead to frustration
and hinder one’s overall level of romantic functioning [17]. The result is a concern that the
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communication difficulties may escalate to harassment or stalking charges. Therefore, the
current study sought to describe the romantic experiences of a small sample of participants
with and without ASD and to explore any “stalking-type”/persistent or inappropriate court-
ship behaviors while pursuing a romantic interest in hopes to discover ways to improve
their well being and romantic relationships.
Current Study
The participants for this study were drawn from online advertisement posts on the social
media site, Facebook®. After receiving approval from the University’s Institutional
Research Review Board, the lead author contacted the administrators of ten autism-related
Facebook groups/pages to obtain permission to use their group/page as a forum to dis-
seminate the survey. Four granted permission (Asperger Syndrome Awareness; ADHD,
Asperger’s, and Autism-Support Network for Families; Asperger’s Syndrome; Autism Risk
& Safety Management). The authors also posted the ad on their personal Facebook pages
and requested contacts (i.e., friends) to share the survey ad in order to obtain a wider and
diverse sample of individuals with and without ASD. The authors increased the response
rate by periodically reposting the survey ad or “bumping” the ad in the groups/pages to
obtain more responses. This was repeated every three to 4weeks, at various times of day
and days of the week until reposting or “bumping” the ad ceased to bring any additional
responses. The current study explored the following research questions:
Question 1 Do adults with ASD have less knowledge and understanding of romantic
relationships compared to adults without ASD?
Question 2 Do adults with ASD engage in more inappropriate or “stalking-type”/persis-
tent courting behaviors than adults without ASD?
The participants were administered a modified version of the Courting Behaviour
Scale1(CBS) [32], in which the items were constructed in accordance with previous
research that identified specific issues and behaviors relevant to this research [12, 19, 29,
30]. The survey included questions about demographics, participants’ knowledge and
behaviors related to dating and romantic relationships, and included open-ended questions
about their knowledge and experiences, including any contact with the criminal justice sys-
tem. To measure romantic functioning (i.e., relationship knowledge and experience), nine
items on the CBS were combined, similarly to Stokes etal. [32] (see Appendix Table3.)
Most of these items were dichotomous (0 = no, 1 = yes); item-9 was reverse coded so that
higher scores indicated higher functioning levels. The “stalking-type”/persistent court-
ing behavior was measured using eight behaviors from the CBS (see Appendix Table4:
4, 5, 6, 11, 12, 13, 18, 19), which were recoded as dichotomous (0 = no, 1 = yes). Higher
scores indicated higher levels of “stalking-type”/persistent courting behaviors. Inappropri-
ate courting behavior was measured using three behaviors from the CBS (see Appendix
Table4: 14, 15, 16), which were recoded as dichotomous (0 = no, 1 = yes), where higher
scores indicated higher levels of inappropriate behavior.
1 Omitted questions regarding social relationships. For CBS, see Stokes etal. [32]. Because the current
study sought a self-report, the questions in the CBS were reworded to a self-perspective.
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Results
Descriptive Statistics
One hundred forty-eight individuals responded to the survey, and two were removed for
not completing the survey. Twelve participants reported that they had ASD but did not
receive a formal diagnosis and were removed from the sample. A final sample consisted
of 134 participants, 46 with ASD and 88 without ASD. Table1 displays the demographic
Table 1 Demographic
characteristics (N = 134)
*** p < .001 ** p < .05 * p < .10
ASD No ASD
N (%) N (%)
46 (34.3) 88 (66.7)
Age*** Range 19–57 Range 18–55
Mean (SD) Mean (SD)
33.16 (9.8) 26.23 (9.4)
Country/region*** N (%) N (%)
North America 24 (53.3) 78 (96.3)
Europe 15 (33.3) 3 (3.7)
Australia 6 (13.3) 0 (0.0)
Gender*
Male 21 (45.7) 26 (29.5)
Female 19 (41.3) 55 (62.5)
Transgender/non-binary 6 (13.0) 7 (8.0)
X2 = 5.49 df = 2 p < .06
Race/ethnicity
White/caucasian 39 (84.8) 66 (81.5)
African American 0 (0.0) 4 (4.9)
Hispanic 2 (4.3) 5 (6.2)
Asian 4 (8.7) 3 (3.7)
Others 1 (2.2) 3 (3.7)
Sexual orientation**
Heterosexual 28 (60.9) 72 (81.8)
Bisexual 2 (4.3) 6 (6.8)
Lesbian/gay 4 (8.7) 2 (2.3)
Others 6 (13.0) 1 (1.1)
Declined answer 6 (13.0) 7 (15.2)
X2 = 13.9 df = 4 p < .016
Education attainment**
Less than HS 2 (4.3) 0 (0.0)
High school 4 (8.7) 9 (11.1)
Some college 24 (52.2) 49 (60.5)
College 11 (23.9) 6 (7.4)
Grad./professional 5 (10.9) 17 (21.0)
X2 = 11.98. df = 5; p < .035
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characteristics of the sample. The ASD group was approximately 8years older, and had a
higher percentage of males, those who identified as transgender/non-binary, and a minority
sexual orientation than the non-ASD group.
Table2 displays the relationship knowledge, experience, and courting behaviors among
the sample. Almost all reported having knowledge about sex and relationships but there
Table 2 Relationship knowledge, experience, and courting behaviors
***p < .001 ** p < .05 * p < .10
ASD No ASD
N (%) N (%)
Possess knowledge of
Sex 36 (87.8) 78 (94.0)
Relationships 41 (89.1) 83 (94.3)
Initiate relationships *** 25 (54.3) 72 (85.7)
X2 = 15.4 df = 1 p < .001
Mode of learning how to initiate romantic relationships
Parents* 12 (26.1) 36 (40.9)
Teachers 4 (8.7) 15 (17.0)
Peers*** 14 (30.4) 69 (78.4)
Siblings 3 (6.5) 11 (12.5)
Media** 14 (30.4) 47 (53.4)
Social observation*** 23 (50.0) 66 (75.0)
Parents: X2 = 2.3 df = 1 p < .09 Peers: X2 = 29.49 df = 1 p < .001
Media: X2 = 6.4 df = 1 p < .01 Obser: X2 = 8.40 df = 1 p < .004
Currently in relationship** 19 (41.3) 53 (60.2)
X2 = 4.3 df = 1 p < .04
Length of current relationship
< 1year 3 (17.6) 14 (29.8)
1–5years 7 (41.2) 24 (51.1)
> 5years 7 (41.2) 9 (19.1)
Average length of previous relationships
< 1year 22 (48.9) 31 (35.2)
1–2years 4 (8.9) 13 (14.8)
> 2years 19 (42.2) 44 (50.0)
Number of relationships
0 9 (19.6) 9 (10.2)
1 6 (13.0) 23 (26.1)
2–3 14 (30.4) 29 (33.0)
4 + 17 (37.0) 27 (30.7)
CJS involvement 3 (7.3) 2 (2.6)
Mean (SD) Mean (SD)
Romantic functioning** 10.9 (3.0) 12.1 (2.5)
F = 5.7 df = 1 p < .02 n = 123
Stalking-type behaviors*** 10.5 (4.9) 7.8 (3.7)
F = 12.1 df = 1 p < .001
Inappropriate courting 0.50 (1.4) 0.24 (0.7)
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was a statistically significant difference between the percentages who reported they knew
how to initiate relationships (54.3%, 87.7%). Individuals with ASD reported smaller per-
centages in each category as to how they learned to initiate relationships, with statistically
significant differences among parents, peers, media, and social observation. With regard to
relationship experience, fewer with ASD reported currently being in a romantic relation-
ship (41.35%, 60.2%) and they tended to have fewer and shorter relationships, but these
differences were not statistically significant. Individuals with ASD appear to overall, have
a lower level of romantic functioning than those without ASD (means = 10.9; 12.1), and
are engaging in more “stalking-type”/persistent courting behaviors (0.50; 0.24). Although
those with ASD reported more inappropriate courting behaviors, the differences were
not statistically significant. No significant gender differences were found with any of the
knowledge, experience, and courting behaviors.
Summary ofQualitative Responses ofParticipants withASD
Individuals with ASD reported fewer learning sources as to how they acquired romantic
dating skills and knowledge. When participants were asked, “How did you learn how to ini-
tiate romantic relationships? some participants with ASD selected “other” and responded
with, “haven’t really learnt,” “don’t initiate, don’t know how,” and three participants
reported, “trial and error”. There is nothing intrinsically unusual about trial and error, but
not one participant without ASD responded as such. When participants were asked, “What
is difficult for you to understand,” some expressed problems with verbal and non-verbal
communication (e.g., “difficult to know when a conversation should be ended,” “whatever
isn’t direct,” “misunderstand signals,” “social cues,” “hard to see when they aren’t really
interested,” and, “how to read body language and what a person is thinking or feeling”).
When it comes to initiating and pursuing romantic relationships, such indirect and non-ver-
bal cues provide valuable information as to whether or not to continue to pursue a romantic
interest. Not one participant without ASD provided comments to this question.
Another finding from this study may be the result of a lack of knowledge and under-
standing of relationships, and the lack of acquiring this knowledge from social sources.
Many participants with ASD responded that they did not understand how relationships
work. When one is unaware how relationships work, it becomes difficult to recognize
unhealthy or inappropriate behavior when courting or being courted, and how to handle
various dating situations in a healthy manner. Establishing sexual boundaries is of great
importance, particularly in the early stages of a relationship, to learn respect for one’s
body, to teach others to respect them, and to learn how to avoid being taken advantage of
[22, 28]. For example, one female participant with ASD found it difficult to understand,
“How people are supposed to refrain from sex in the early days of a relationship when it
is so enjoyable”. Despite this belief, the physical and emotional consequences to sexual
intercourse must be taught at an age-appropriate level [5, 6, 11]. Another reported, “Mostly
I was drunk and coerced into being someone’s “girlfriend”. Victimization, as this comment
suggests, is beyond the scope of this paper; but a safety measure that must be explored and
explained through education on dating, relationships, and sex.
Although criminal justice system involvement in this study was rare among both groups
(ASD: n = 3; No ASD: n = 2), safe dating skills are necessary to avoid legal consequences
for one’s behaviors. A male described his reaction when caught engaging in sexual behav-
iors on school grounds with a high school classmate:
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“I lacked emotional maturity at the time and didn’t realize the gravity of the situation
until the police were involved. The incident knocked my confidence and put me off roman-
tic relationships for 10years until my mid 20’s when I began dating again”. Another male
stated he was, “Used by the other person when convenient….couldn’t handle confusion
of on and off again and got angry and aggressive”. This participant reported that he was
arrested and ordered to perform community service.
Conclusion
Many with ASD have successful romantic relationships with others, while others appear to
be struggling with such. Although individuals with ASD appear to be receiving knowledge
about sex and about types of relationships, many are not receiving adequate knowledge
about initiating and maintaining relationships, particularly from social sources such as par-
ents and peers. Therefore, the authors conclude that there is a dire need for dating and
relationship knowledge to be a part of overall social skills and sexual education training.
Such education must not only teach appropriate courting/dating behaviors, but how to do
so safely, particularly if they are meeting potential partners online, as this brings its own
safety concerns [16, 27]. Personal communication with Amy Gravino,2 M.A., Certified
Autism Specialist, noted that there is often a “missing piece” when implementing social
and dating skills training into actual practice, which is often in formal settings. Gravino
stated that it is important for those with ASD to learn the rules of courtship and be taught
how to recognize when someone is not interested, and when someone is feeling harassed
(personal communication, January 21, 2018).
As noted in the current study and others [4, 10, 13], minority sexual orientations have
an increased prevalence among individuals with ASD, which must be addressed and nor-
malized in sexual education programs to reduce sexual anxieties and to allow individuals to
explore their sexuality. The current study also noted a higher percentage of minority gender
identities among those with ASD, which must also be addressed and normalized in sexual
education programs. Therefore, one must not assume a heterosexual orientation, a binary
gender identity, a lack of interest in sex or romantic relationships, and one must not avoid
discussing such topics [4, 22]. Instead, it is important to identify those with ASD who
desire romantic relationships, assist them with identifying the sexual orientation that cor-
responds with their sexual desires, assist them with social and dating skills, and assist with
providing opportunities to implement those skills in non-formal settings.
Although the results of this study offer valuable information about relationships
and courting behaviors of individuals with ASD, the results must be interpreted with
caution, as this study is not without limitations. This was a purposive and conveni-
ence sample of Facebook® users, and only captured a small percentage of the popu-
lation of individuals with and without ASD. There is also the possibility of response
bias, as individuals who chose to participate may be different from those who chose not
to. Another limitation of this study is that the authors measured experiences by self-
report, and with all self-report studies, participants may not be truthful or may have
faulty memories. Despite these limitations, the results provide a preliminary description
2 Amy Gravino is a woman on the autism spectrum who has become an accomplished international speaker
and author. Amy is also known as "The Dr. Ruth of the Autism World," for her passionate interest in the
area of autism and sexuality.
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and exploration into the relationship experience, dating behaviors, and overall romantic
functioning of individuals with ASD. The ASD group was on average, older than the
non-ASD group; but due to the social and emotional delays noted in the research among
individuals with ASD [2, 3, 17, 25], this may be a “fairer” comparison, as it allowed
those with ASD more time to develop interest in romantic relationships. However, an
aggregated matched sample may offer a more valid comparison of the different courting
and relationship experiences between those with and without ASD. The current research
has found that individuals with ASD have been or are currently in romantic relation-
ships, however, the quality of those relationships was not examined and warrants further
evaluation. Victimization during courtship or victimization by romantic partners among
individuals with ASD would be an important addition to this topic.
Compliance with Ethical Standards
Conict of interest The authors declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect to the research, author-
ship, and/or publication of this article.
Human and Animal Rights All procedures performed in studies involving human participants were in accord-
ance with the ethical standards of the institutional and/or national research committee and with the 1964
Helsinki declaration and its later amendments or comparable ethical standards.
Informed Consent Informed consent was obtained electronically from all individual participants included
in the study.
Appendix
See Tables3 and 4.
Table 3 Romantic functioning items
1 Do you think you have knowledge about sexually related behavior?
2 Are you aware of the different kinds of intimate/romantic relationships (e.g., dating, marriage, etc.)?
3 Do you desire to have an intimate/romantic relationship?
4 Do you know how to initiate intimate or romantic relationships (e.g., ask for a date, resume or maintain
a relationship)?
5 Have you ever attempted to pursue a romantic interest?
6 Are you currently in an intimate relationship?
7 How many intimate or romantic relationships have you had?
8 How long have you maintained an intimate or romantic relationship (on average)?
9 Do you have difficulty understanding what is and is not appropriate (e.g. persistently calling someone of
romantic interest even after that person asked them not to)? (reverse coded)
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In this chapter, the five steps used to conduct the scoping review are outlined. It begins by explaining how the research questions were formulated. The purpose of these questions was to support the focus of this scoping review; namely, to uncover the experiences and insights of autistics about their sexual behaviours, relationships, sexuality, and gender identity. The search terms, academic databases consulted, and the inclusion and exclusion criteria are then outlined. The studies included and excluded from this scoping review are then listed, followed by an explanation of the characteristics that were identified in the studies that could address the research questions and the focus of this scoping review.
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In this chapter, the results of this scoping review are presented. It begins by describing the basic characteristics of the studies collected, such as the study’s publication year or location. It then explains the findings in the literature about the sexual orientation and gender identity of autistic participants. The focus of this chapter then shifts from reviewing the sexuality and gender identify of autistics towards describing their relationship status. It then concludes with a review of the literature about the online sexual activities of autistics.
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During the analysis of the literature about the sexual behaviours and intimate relationships of autistics, several gaps in this body of research were identified, namely experiences of contraception; domestic violence, which largely occurs within relationships; lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex and asexual experiences (LGBTQIA+); parenting; pregnancy and childbirth for autistic adults. In this chapter, several explanations are given as to why not much research in these areas has been conducted along with several recommendations and justifications for why more research should be conducted about these areas in the future. The direction of this chapter then changes to describing autistic-friendly approaches that researchers can use to help participants on the autism spectrum discuss the gaps identified that they might find sensitive and concerning. The main objective of this chapter is to outline a possible a path forward in the creation of new research about the relationship and sexual experiences of autistics.
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