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Actor, partner, and similarity effects of personality on global and experienced well-being

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The current study examined actor, partner, and similarity effects of personality on a variety of well-being indices, including both global and experiential measures of well-being in 2,578 heterosexual couples (N = 5,156 individuals; M age = 51.04, SD = 13.68) who completed the 2016 Wellbeing and Daily Life supplement to the Panel Study of Income Dynamics (PSID). Among actor effects, those for conscientiousness, agreeableness, extraversion, and neuroticism were the most robust predictors of well-being. Among partner effects, conscientiousness and neuroticism were the most robust predictors of well-being. Consistent with past research, similarity effects on well-being were generally small and not always significant. The results are discussed in the context of experiential conceptualizations of well-being and operationalizing similarity in relationship research.

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... The word "well-being" can be translated either as happiness or (literally) as good conditions (National Academy for Educational Research 2012). It is influenced by many factors, including health, income, age, environment, personality type, and propensity (Archbold et al. 2018;Castellacci and Tveito 2018;Chopik and Lucas 2019;Etxeberria et al. 2019;Lu 1998Lu , 2010Mínguez and Vírseda 2019;Ku et al. 2008;Tay et al. 2015;Ting 2016;Shen 2013;Lin 2015). Among these factors, subjective happiness is the most studied category that usually includes happy emotions and life satisfaction (Heintzelman and Diener 2019;Tay et al. 2015;Tenney et al. 2016). ...
... Kubzansky et al. (2018) also found that boosting the happiness level could effectively improve the conditions caused by cardiovascular diseases and related health indicators. Health is an important indicator of subjective happiness that is included in many questionnaires (Chopik and Lucas 2019;Diener and Tov 2012;Eid and Diener 2004;Heintzelman and Diener 2019;Lucas and Diener 2004;Ku et al. 2008;Lu 1998). Massey et al. (2019) reviewed 34 academic studies of the effects of diabetes on happiness interventions, which showed that the latter could effectively improve the health of diabetic patients. ...
... Diener introduced "The Satisfaction with Life Scale" in 1985 and "The Scale of Positive and Negative Experience" in 2009 to assess subjective well-being. Subsequently, many related studies based on these two scales have been conducted, and another subjective happiness scale has been developed (Chopik and Lucas 2019;Diener et al. 2009;Etxeberria et al. 2019;Heintzelman and Diener 2019;Joshanloo 2018;Mínguez and Vírseda 2019;Shen 2013). Lu (1998) revised the Oxford Happiness Scale and examined the existing qualitative research methods to determine the Taiwanese definition of happiness. ...
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... The literature has shown that the analysis of data from both romantic partners (i.e., couples) is most appropriate to account for the dyadic nature since personality traits do not only account for one's own satisfaction (actors) but also their partner's since they are interdependent (i.e., each partner affects the respective others' satisfaction; see Online Supplement A). Moreover, each couple is characterized by their partners' similarity in personality (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010; see also Luo, 2017), which can uniquely contribute to satisfaction. It has been suggested that similar couples share a similar understanding of their environment and partners' similar experience and reaction to their environment reduces the likelihood of conflict/disagreement and thereby increases relationship satisfaction and -stability (e.g., Luo, 2017;Rammstedt, Spinath, Richter, & Schupp, 2013). ...
... This study extends previous research on the association between playfulness and RS in several ways: Firstly, collecting data of heterosexual romantic couples allows us to utilize Actor-Partner Interdependence Model (APIM; Cook & Kenny, 2005) analyses and estimating associations between playfulness and RS within-(actor effect) and between-partners (partner effect; i.e., how does playfulness contribute to the partner's RS?). Although partner effects are typically smaller than actor effects, they provide an important incremental source for couple members' satisfaction (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019; see also Weidmann, Ledermann, & Grob, 2016). Secondly, earlier research did not take facets of RS and playfulness into account. ...
... For example, Brauer and Proyer (2018) found similarity coefficients of r = 0.24/0.51(raw/distinctive) in partners' configurations of dispositions towards ridicule and being laughed at. In line with earlier research (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Rammstedt et al., 2013), we will test whether partners' similarity in the facets and profiles of playfulness is uniquely associated with RS and, thus, adds to the understanding of the associations. ...
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... The literature has shown that the analysis of data from both romantic partners (i.e., couples) is most appropriate to account for the dyadic nature since personality traits do not only account for one's own satisfaction (actors) but also their partner's since they are interdependent (i.e., each partner affects the respective others' satisfaction; see Online Supplement A). Moreover, each couple is characterized by their partners' similarity in personality (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010; see also Luo, 2017), which can uniquely contribute to satisfaction. It has been suggested that similar couples share a similar understanding of their environment and partners' similar experience and reaction to their environment reduces the likelihood of conflict/disagreement and thereby increases relationship satisfaction and -stability (e.g., Luo, 2017;Rammstedt, Spinath, Richter, & Schupp, 2013). ...
... This study extends previous research on the association between playfulness and RS in several ways: Firstly, collecting data of heterosexual romantic couples allows us to utilize Actor-Partner Interdependence Model (APIM; Cook & Kenny, 2005) analyses and estimating associations between playfulness and RS within-(actor effect) and between-partners (partner effect; i.e., how does playfulness contribute to the partner's RS?). Although partner effects are typically smaller than actor effects, they provide an important incremental source for couple members' satisfaction (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019; see also Weidmann, Ledermann, & Grob, 2016). Secondly, earlier research did not take facets of RS and playfulness into account. ...
... For example, Brauer and Proyer (2018) found similarity coefficients of r = 0.24/0.51(raw/distinctive) in partners' configurations of dispositions towards ridicule and being laughed at. In line with earlier research (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Rammstedt et al., 2013), we will test whether partners' similarity in the facets and profiles of playfulness is uniquely associated with RS and, thus, adds to the understanding of the associations. ...
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... The literature has shown that the analysis of data from both romantic partners (i.e., couples) is most appropriate to account for the dyadic nature since personality traits do not only account for one's own satisfaction (actors) but also their partner's since they are interdependent (i.e., each partner affects the respective others' satisfaction; see Online Supplement A). Moreover, each couple is characterized by their partners' similarity in personality (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010; see also Luo, 2017), which can uniquely contribute to satisfaction. It has been suggested that similar couples share a similar understanding of their environment and partners' similar experience and reaction to their environment reduces the likelihood of conflict/disagreement and thereby increases relationship satisfaction and -stability (e.g., Luo, 2017;Rammstedt, Spinath, Richter, & Schupp, 2013). ...
... This study extends previous research on the association between playfulness and RS in several ways: Firstly, collecting data of heterosexual romantic couples allows us to utilize Actor-Partner Interdependence Model (APIM; Cook & Kenny, 2005) analyses and estimating associations between playfulness and RS within-(actor effect) and between-partners (partner effect; i.e., how does playfulness contribute to the partner's RS?). Although partner effects are typically smaller than actor effects, they provide an important incremental source for couple members' satisfaction (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019; see also Weidmann, Ledermann, & Grob, 2016). Secondly, earlier research did not take facets of RS and playfulness into account. ...
... For example, Brauer and Proyer (2018) found similarity coefficients of r = 0.24/0.51(raw/distinctive) in partners' configurations of dispositions towards ridicule and being laughed at. In line with earlier research (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Rammstedt et al., 2013), we will test whether partners' similarity in the facets and profiles of playfulness is uniquely associated with RS and, thus, adds to the understanding of the associations. ...
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Sind verspielte Paare die zufriedeneren mit ihrer Beziehung? Verspieltheit wird als eigenständiges Persönlichkeitsmerkmal verstanden, durch das Personen alltägliche Situationen in für sie unterhaltende, intellektuell stimulierende und/oder persönlich interessante Situationen (um)definieren können (Barnett, 2007). Unter Einbezug eines neuen Strukturmodells mit den Facetten „auf andere ausgerichtete“, „leichtherzige“, „intellektuelle“ und „extravagante“ Verspieltheit (Proyer, 2017) wurde an N = 77 heterosexuellen Paaren untersucht, inwieweit sich die selbstberichtete und vom Partner eingeschätzte Verspieltheit auf die Beziehungszufriedenheit auswirkt. Die Ergebnisse zeigen, dass sich Männer in allen Facetten verspielter als ihre Partnerinnen einschätzen (d > .20) und die selbsteingeschätzte Verspieltheit positiv mit der eigenen Beziehungszufriedenheit zusammenhängt. Die Übereinstimmung zwischen selbst- und vom Partner eingeschätzter Verspieltheit weist hohe Werte auf (r ≥ .55), mit Ausnahme der intellektuellen Facette (r = .34). Unter Anwendung des Actor-Partner-Interdependence-Model (APIM; Kenny et al., 2006) findet sich zudem ein signifikanter Zusammenhang der eigenen Verspieltheit mit der Beziehungszufriedenheit des Partners/der Partnerin (z.B. sagt die globale Verspieltheit der Frau die Beziehungszufriedenheit des Mannes vorher, r = .29; sexuelle Zufriedenheit: r = .33). In Ergänzung zu früheren Studien wurden auch die Partnereinschätzungen mittels APIM ausgewertet. Es zeigen sich höhere Korrelationen zur Beziehungszufriedenheit beider Partner im Vergleich zu den Selbstberichten. Weiterhin steht insbesondere die sexuelle Zufriedenheit im positiven Zusammenhang mit der gegenseitig eingeschätzten Verspieltheit. Die Ergebnisse stehen im Einklang mit früheren Befunden zum positiven Zusammenhang von Verspieltheit und Beziehungszufriedenheit. Implikationen für die Bedeutsamkeit des Persönlichkeitsmerkmals sowie der Wahrnehmung des Partners für das Wohlbefinden in romantischen Beziehungen werden diskutiert.
... The literature has shown that the analysis of data from both romantic partners (i.e., couples) is most appropriate to account for the dyadic nature since personality traits do not only account for one's own satisfaction (actors) but also their partner's since they are interdependent (i.e., each partner affects the respective others' satisfaction; see Online Supplement A). Moreover, each couple is characterized by their partners' similarity in personality (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010; see also Luo, 2017), which can uniquely contribute to satisfaction. It has been suggested that similar couples share a similar understanding of their environment and partners' similar experience and reaction to their environment reduces the likelihood of conflict/disagreement and thereby increases relationship satisfaction and -stability (e.g., Luo, 2017;Rammstedt, Spinath, Richter, & Schupp, 2013). ...
... This study extends previous research on the association between playfulness and RS in several ways: Firstly, collecting data of heterosexual romantic couples allows us to utilize Actor-Partner Interdependence Model (APIM; Cook & Kenny, 2005) analyses and estimating associations between playfulness and RS within-(actor effect) and between-partners (partner effect; i.e., how does playfulness contribute to the partner's RS?). Although partner effects are typically smaller than actor effects, they provide an important incremental source for couple members' satisfaction (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019; see also Weidmann, Ledermann, & Grob, 2016). Secondly, earlier research did not take facets of RS and playfulness into account. ...
... For example, Brauer and Proyer (2018) found similarity coefficients of r = 0.24/0.51(raw/distinctive) in partners' configurations of dispositions towards ridicule and being laughed at. In line with earlier research (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Rammstedt et al., 2013), we will test whether partners' similarity in the facets and profiles of playfulness is uniquely associated with RS and, thus, adds to the understanding of the associations. ...
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Playfulness is partly defined as trait that allows people to frame or reframe everyday situations in a way such that they experience them as entertaining, and/or intellectually stimulating, and/or personally interesting. A new structural model of adult playfulness (Proyer, 2015) proposes four facets; namely other-directed, lighthearted, intellectual, and whimsical. Using a sample of 83 romantic couples, the (dis-)similarity in playfulness among partners and its impact on relationship satisfaction was tested. Preliminary results show that partners tend to be similar in their self-reported playfulness (otherdirected: β =.40; whimsical: β =.41). Contrary to other research concerning relationship satisfaction a greater dissimilarity in playfulness among partners predicted several facets of relationship satisfaction positively. Further analyses using the Actor-Partner Independence Model (Kenny et al., 2006) are in progress. Overall, preliminary data show that adult playfulness influences relationship satisfaction. Further research on this understudied personality trait in context of romantic relationships seems warranted.
... Some perceiver × target moderation accounts of compatibility have recently encountered empirical challenges in the initial attraction and close relationships literatures: Many studies on ideal partner preference-matching, similaritymatching, and mate-value matching reveal small effect sizes (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Eastwick et al., 2019a;Luo & Zhang, 2009;Sparks et al., 2020;Tidwell et al., 2013;Van Scheppingen et al., 2019;Watson et al., 2004;Wurst et al., 2018). But even if all of these particular moderation effects proved to be tiny, the broader meta-theory that romantic evaluations can be explained by perceiver × target effects could still be true. ...
... The first source (called the "feature lens") refers to individual differences in the way certain perceivers evaluate targets based on the targets' features (e.g., traits). This source includes any account suggesting that "certain people evaluate certain other people positively" and encompasses all forms of the meta-theoretical perceiver × target account of compatibility (e.g., ideal preferencematching, similarity-matching, and mate-value matching; Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Van Scheppingen et al., 2019;Sparks et al., 2020;Tidwell et al., 2013;Watson et al., 2004). The second source (called the "target-specific lens") refers to history, narrative, "microculture," idioms, rituals, and other forms of personal knowledge that are bound to one and only one relationship (Bell et al., 1987;Dunleavy & Booth-Butterfield, 2009;Finkel, 2020;Garcia-Rada et al., 2018;Harris et al., 2014;Rossignac-Milon et al., 2021;Rossignac-Milon & Higgins, 2018;Weigel & Murray, 2000). ...
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... Studies testing the associations between similarity and outcomes have provided mixed findings. When controlling for main effects of both partners' personality traits, cross-sectional and longitudinal studies showed positive associations between partner similarity in broad and narrow personality traits and the outcomes of RS and LS, but effect sizes are small to negligible (e.g., Brauer & Proyer, 2018;Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Decuyper et al., 2012;Dyrenforth et al., 2010;Furler et al., 2013;Humbad et al., 2013;Proyer et al., 2019;van Scheppingen et al., 2019; see also Luo, 2017;Weidmann et al., 2016). Rammstedt and colleagues (2013) used an alternative approach to study how similarity relates to break-up, as they compared the similarity of stable and separated couples' big five traits (N total = 4,809 couples) across two assessments over a 4-year interval. ...
... In Study 2, we tested the associations between couples' profile similarities and indicators of satisfaction in APIM analyses (Cook & Kenny, 2005). In line with the majority of studies that tested whether partner similarity in personality traits relates to outcomes beyond actor-and partner effects, we found positive but negligible effect sizes (see e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth et al., 2010;Furler et al., 2013;Humbad et al., 2013;Proyer et al., 2019;van Scheppingen et al., 2019;Weidmann et al., 2016). Thus, although partners resemble each other in their profiles of strengths, similarity is unrelated to satisfaction (i.e., similar couples do not report greater satisfaction than less similar couples). ...
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... Partners matching on similar characteristics has long been observed in the field of relationships science (Byrne, 1961;Byrne & Nelson, 1965;Montoya et al., 2008;Tidwell et al., 2013). People likely match based on similarity for a number of reasons, including racial bias (and any additional inferences about targets, such as their social class; Weeks & Lupfer, 2004) or the perception that finding a similar partner necessarily entails better communication and more responsiveness (Chopik & Lucas, 2019). ...
... Extraversion is not typically linked to partner selection behavior. Aside from the observation that extraverts have larger social networks (Roberts, Wilson, Fedurek, & Dunbar, 2008), they are not more likely to be in a romantic relationship at any given time (Shaver & Brennan, 1992) and links with relationship satisfaction are generally small (Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Malouff, Thorsteinsson, Schutte, Bhullar, & Rooke, 2010;van Scheppingen, Chopik, Bleidorn, & Denissen, 2018). There is quite a bit of evidence that extraversion is associated with more hook-up behavior and casual sex which might lead to a prediction that extraverts would be less selective in choosing potential romantic partners (Gute & Eshbaugh, 2008;Olmstead, Pasley, & Fincham, 2013;Schmitt, 2005). ...
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... In fact, neuroticism has been found to have the strongest association with marital satisfaction when compared to the other four Big Five personality traits (Heller, Watson, & Ilies, 2004). This is also found when examining the effects of partner personality-having a highly neurotic partner is among the largest predictors of life and relationship satisfaction (Chopik & Lucas, 2019). These results may be explained by the tendencies of neurotic individuals to express more criticism, contempt, and defensiveness, which may damage a relationship. ...
... However, it appears that openness is often unassociated or has conflicting associations with relationship quality (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019). Meta-analyses examining the impact of personality on relationship quality has demonstrated that there is often no relation between openness and relationship satisfaction (Malouff, Thorsteinsson, Schutte, Bhullar, & Rooke, 2010). ...
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... In our cross-sectional survey, we asked participants to list a maximum of seven activities (e.g., having breakfast, watching a movie) with each of the other two family members on the previous day. For each activity, participants responded to one-item questions to rate their relationship satisfaction, closeness, and conflict with that family member during that specific activity on a scale from 1 (not at all) to 7 (very much) (for similar applications, see Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Lawley et al., 2019). We computed daily relationship satisfaction, closeness, and conflict levels by taking the averages of reports across all activities. ...
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... For example, extraverts tend to be more satisfied with their relationships (as with other things), though having an extravert as a partner does not seem to matter very much to relationship satisfaction (Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010;Malouff, Thorsteinsson, Schutte, Bhullar, & Rooke, 2010). In sum, despite some associations, it appears that the quantity of social relationships and time spent socializing likely contributes more to the difference between introverts' and extraverts' happiness than differences in the quality of those social relationships. ...
... A number of spousal characteristics influence an individual's life outcomes. For example, the personality traits of one's spouse impact one's own happiness, health, and work success (e.g., Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Roberts et al., 2009;Solomon & Jackson, 2014a). Moreover, research on children and parents show that these dyads that are within the same household impact one another (Wright & Jackson, 2023). ...
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... There was also some evidence for a compensatory effect of need for cognition on ICT use variety, which is occasionally found in the literature on the dyadic effects of personality on health and well-being (Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Nickel et al., 2017;Roberts et al., 2009;van Scheppingen et al., 2019). Specifically, being married to a partner high in need for cognition was more strongly associated with ICT use variety among people lower in need for cognition. ...
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... They represent power balances with respect to sense of power, satisfaction with power, positional power, and the power motive. First, we computed the absolute difference score for each power measure within the couple as is common practice in dissimilarity research (e.g., Brauer & Proyer, 2018;Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth et al., 2010). Then, in line with previous similarity research (e.g., Furler et al., 2013), we multiplied the absolute difference variables by -1. ...
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... Consistent with previous findings (Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Decuyper et al., 2012;Dyrenforth et al., 2010), baseline similarities for several, but not all, personality traits predicted relationship well-being. Higher similarity parameters for the traits of openness, agreeableness, and neuroticism were associated with greater perceived spousal support. ...
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... Also under the umbrella of selective migration are choices that involve remaining in an area when one has a choice to leave. For example, agreeable individuals often have success in romantic and interpersonal relationships, and their migration and immobility has implications not only for themselves but the places to which they would theoretically move (Chopik & Lucas, 2019;Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010;Jokela, 2009Jokela, , 2014. Agreeable people are less likely to migrate to different places over time (and, thus, disagreeable people are more likely to move). ...
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... Secondly, inconsistent findings regarding the association of couple similarity and life satisfaction may be partly due to methodological issues (Chopik and Lucas 2019;Wood and Furr 2016). Different method to calculate similarity may be responsible for inconsistent research findings. ...
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Online dating sites frequently claim that they have fundamentally altered the dating landscape for the better. This article employs psychological science to examine (a) whether online dating is fundamentally different from conventional offline dating and (b) whether online dating promotes better romantic outcomes than conventional offline dating. The answer to the first question (uniqueness) is yes, and the answer to the second question (superiority) is yes and no. To understand how online dating fundamentally differs from conventional offline dating and the circumstances under which online dating promotes better romantic outcomes than conventional offline dating, we consider the three major services online dating sites offer: access, communication, and matching. Access refers to users' exposure to and opportunity to evaluate potential romantic partners they are otherwise unlikely to encounter. Communication refers to users' opportunity to use various forms of computer-mediated communication (CMC) to interact with specific potential partners through the dating site before meeting face-to-face. Matching refers to a site's use of a mathematical algorithm to select potential partners for users. Regarding the uniqueness question, the ways in which online dating sites implement these three services have indeed fundamentally altered the dating landscape. In particular, online dating, which has rapidly become a pervasive means of seeking potential partners, has altered both the romantic acquaintance process and the compatibility matching process. For example, rather than meeting potential partners, getting a snapshot impression of how well one interacts with them, and then slowly learning various facts about them, online dating typically involves learning a broad range of facts about potential partners before deciding whether one wants to meet them in person. Rather than relying on the intuition of village elders, family members, or friends or to select which pairs of unacquainted singles will be especially compatible, certain forms of online dating involve placing one's romantic fate in the hands of a mathematical matching algorithm. Turning to the superiority question, online dating has important advantages over conventional offline dating. For example, it offers unprecedented (and remarkably convenient) levels of access to potential partners, which is especially helpful for singles who might otherwise lack such access. It also allows online daters to use CMC to garner an initial sense of their compatibility with potential partners before deciding whether to meet them face-to-face. In addition, certain dating sites may be able to collect data that allow them to banish from the dating pool people who are likely to be poor relationship partners in general. On the other hand, the ways online dating sites typically implement the services of access, communication, and matching do not always improve romantic outcomes; indeed, they sometimes undermine such outcomes. Regarding access, encountering potential partners via online dating profiles reduces three-dimensional people to two-dimensional displays of information, and these displays fail to capture those experiential aspects of social interaction that are essential to evaluating one's compatibility with potential partners. In addition, the ready access to a large pool of potential partners can elicit an evaluative, assessment-oriented mindset that leads online daters to objectify potential partners and might even undermine their willingness to commit to one of them. It can also cause people to make lazy, ill-advised decisions when selecting among the large array of potential partners. Regarding communication, although online daters can benefit from having short-term CMC with potential partners before meeting them face-to-face, longer periods of CMC prior to a face-to-face meeting may actually hurt people's romantic prospects. In particular, people tend to overinterpret the social cues available in CMC, and if CMC proceeds unabated without a face-to-face reality check, subsequent face-to-face meetings can produce unpleasant expectancy violations. As CMC lacks the experiential richness of a face-to-face encounter, some important information about potential partners is impossible to glean from CMC alone; most users will want to meet a potential partner in person to integrate their CMC and face-to-face impressions into a coherent whole before pursuing a romantic relationship. Regarding matching, no compelling evidence supports matching sites' claims that mathematical algorithms work-that they foster romantic outcomes that are superior to those fostered by other means of pairing partners. Part of the problem is that matching sites build their mathematical algorithms around principles-typically similarity but also complementarity-that are much less important to relationship well-being than has long been assumed. In addition, these sites are in a poor position to know how the two partners will grow and mature over time, what life circumstances they will confront and coping responses they will exhibit in the future, and how the dynamics of their interaction will ultimately promote or undermine romantic attraction and long-term relationship well-being. As such, it is unlikely that any matching algorithm that seeks to match two people based on information available before they are aware of each other can account for more than a very small proportion of the variance in long-term romantic outcomes, such as relationship satisfaction and stability. In short, online dating has radically altered the dating landscape since its inception 15 to 20 years ago. Some of the changes have improved romantic outcomes, but many have not. We conclude by (a) discussing the implications of online dating for how people think about romantic relationships and for homogamy (similarity of partners) in marriage and (b) offering recommendations for policymakers and for singles seeking to make the most out of their online dating endeavors.