This study explored the lived experiences of men attracted to minors who believed they would
benefit from therapy but did not seek out or attend therapeutic services; and sought to gain an
understanding of how the decision to seek help or not impacted their well-being. Participants
included 7 men who were recruited through the B4U-ACT online forum, which provides peer
support for the minor attracted community. Participants were interviewed over Skype. Data from
these interviews was analyzed and coded according to the interpretative phenomenological
method as outlined by Smith et al. (2012). Five main themes emerged, providing insight as to
why more therapeutic support is not sought. These themes include: emotional distress,
consideration of therapy, actual and perceived stigmatization, expectations of therapist
assumptions, expectations of professionalism, and therapeutic support.
The findings were compared with existing literature to propose ways mental health professionals
can provide easier access to resources and reach the population, which can lead to societal
benefits. Improved access to treatment has the potential to provide the population opportunities
to better cope with stigma, manage their impulses more effectively, lower their feelings of
isolation, and increase their overall well-being. This study helps to fill the current void in the
area of research on help-seeking behaviors and the associated challenges that men attracted to
minors may face.