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The Lived Experiences of Men Attracted to Minors and Their Therapy-Seeking Behaviors

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This study explored the lived experiences of men attracted to minors who believed they would benefit from therapy but did not seek out or attend therapeutic services; and sought to gain an understanding of how the decision to seek help or not impacted their well-being. Participants included 7 men who were recruited through the B4U-ACT online forum, which provides peer support for the minor attracted community. Participants were interviewed over Skype. Data from these interviews was analyzed and coded according to the interpretative phenomenological method as outlined by Smith et al. (2012). Five main themes emerged, providing insight as to why more therapeutic support is not sought. These themes include: emotional distress, consideration of therapy, actual and perceived stigmatization, expectations of therapist assumptions, expectations of professionalism, and therapeutic support. The findings were compared with existing literature to propose ways mental health professionals can provide easier access to resources and reach the population, which can lead to societal benefits. Improved access to treatment has the potential to provide the population opportunities to better cope with stigma, manage their impulses more effectively, lower their feelings of isolation, and increase their overall well-being. This study helps to fill the current void in the area of research on help-seeking behaviors and the associated challenges that men attracted to minors may face.
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... Recent years have witnessed a rise in treatment options for this particular group in community settings, often with the primary goal of preventing sexual offending (Beier et al., 2009(Beier et al., , 2021. Although our understanding of the needs and treatment experiences for this population is limited, there is a growing body of research exploring various aspects of sexual attraction to children and treatment from their own perspective (Cacciatori, 2017;Lievesley et al., 2023). A better understanding of their treatment needs, experiences, and barriers is essential for providing effective and tailored interventions. ...
... Although pedohebephilic interest is a risk factor for child sexual abuse (Dombert et al., 2016), it does not mean that pedohebephiles are doomed to commit child sex offences. In fact, there are large communities of people with a sexual interest in children that are aware of their interests and take steps to avoid acting on them (Cacciatori, 2017). ...
... Of the 12 that reported on interest, the majority (n = 7) demonstrated moderate (35-70%) to high (over 70%) incidence while only three reported relatively low (under 35%) levels of interest. The highest scores estimate is unreliable due to the small sample size (Cacciatori, 2017;n = 7). A desire to change their sexuality was considered as interest in treatment due to its perception by participants as being a potential goal of treatment. ...
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... Qualitative studies also found that experiences with SIB were common among people attracted to children, even when researchers were not explicitly studying suicidality (Cacciatori, 2017;Shields et al., 2020;Stevens & Wood, 2019;Walker, 2017). Shields (2020) found that, for most participants, the discovery of attraction to their children was accompanied by significant distress; for some participants, this distress led to SIB. ...
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... For example, individuals may exhibit low treatment motivation for a variety of reasons yet engage in help-seeking behavior due to encouragement or ultimatums from loved ones, employers, or the legal system (see Drieschner et al., 2004). The 1 Of note, many people who are sexually attracted to children choose not to seek treatment because they felt they are able to manage their sexual interest and do not express concern about their ability to refrain from childhood sexual abuse perpetration (e.g., Bailey et al., 2016a;Cacciatori, 2017;Goode, 2010;Grady et al., 2018;Houtepen et al., 2016;Levenson & Grady, 2019;Levenson et al., 2017). present study aims to provide a more nuanced examination of the correlates of treatment motivation among individuals who are sexually attracted to children. ...
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... Notably, anticipated discrimination was a pervasive concern, with many participants fearing rejection from others and avoidance by therapists. This aligns with existing literature, which indicates that individuals with stigmatized identities often avoid help-seeking behaviors due to the anticipated negative reactions they might encounter (Cacciatori, 2017;Levenson & Grady, 2018;Link & Phelan, 2001). Inferential statistics revealed significantly higher levels of depression, anxiety, and stress in this sample compared to the general population. ...
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... While the prevention of child sexual abuse is undoubtedly a legitimate goal, the risk-management approach has been criticized for perpetuating social and self-stigma around minor attraction, which implies that individuals attracted to children are inevitably destined to offend unless preventive measures are taken (Jahnke, 2018;Lievesley & Harper, 2021). Some clients may perceive such efforts as incongruent with their needs and expectations, leading them to avoid seeking support to distance themselves from suspicions of being treated as potential offenders 1 (Cacciatori, 2017;Grady et al., 2019;Lievesley & Harper, 2021). ...
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... Almost 20% of respondents noted that this information suggested that services would report paedophilic clients to law enforcement, employers, family, or their community (B4U-Act, 2011). Samples of non-offending paedophilic men have reported distrust of professionals due to feared prejudicial behaviour and concerns about being reported to authorities as primary factors preventing them from accessing treatment (Cacciatori, 2017;Dymond & Duff, 2020). ...
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