Hurt feelings and four letter words: Swearing alleviates the pain of social distress

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______➔ POST-PRINT and Open Data at: http://dx.doi.org/10.6084/m9.figshare.1243547 ________________ Methods for alleviating physical pain are increasingly found to attenuate social pain. Recent evidence suggests that swearing may attenuate sensitivity to physical pain. This study examined whether swearing similarly attenuates two consequences of social distress: social pain and exclusion-induced hyperalgesia. Sixty-two people wrote about an autobiographical experience of exclusion or inclusion. Then they repeated a swear or neutral word for 2 minutes followed by measures of social and physical pain. Excluded non-swearers reported feeling more social pain and greater sensitivity to physical pain compared with included non-swearers. Excluded swearers reported less social pain than excluded non-swearers and no heightened sensitivity to physical pain. The findings suggest that social and physical pain are functionally similar and that swearing attenuates social pain.

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  • ... Swearing, defined as the use of taboo language conveying connotative information (Jay and Janschewitz, 2008), is a near-universal feature of language (van Lancker and Cummings, 1999). Research has shown that repeating a swear word can be an effective way of increasing tolerance for the physical pain of an ice water challenge (Stephens et al., 2009;Stephens and Umland, 2011;Robertson et al., 2017) and the social pain associated with ostracism (Philipp and Lombardo, 2017). ...
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    Previous research showing that swearing alleviates pain is extended by addressing emotion arousal and distraction as possible mechanisms. We assessed the effects of a conventional swear word (“fuck”) and two new “swear” words identified as both emotion-arousing and distracting: “fouch” and “twizpipe.” A mixed sex group of participants (N = 92) completed a repeated measures experimental design augmented by mediation analysis. The independent variable was repeating one of four different words: “fuck” vs. “fouch” vs. “twizpipe” vs. a neutral word. The dependent variables were emotion rating, humor rating, distraction rating, cold pressor pain threshold, cold pressor pain tolerance, pain perception score, and change from resting heart rate. Mediation analyses were conducted for emotion, humor, and distraction ratings. For conventional swearing (“fuck”), confirmatory analyses found a 32% increase in pain threshold and a 33% increase in pain tolerance, accompanied by increased ratings for emotion, humor, and distraction, relative to the neutral word condition. The new “swear” words, “fouch” and “twizpipe,” were rated as more emotional and humorous than the neutral word but did not affect pain threshold or tolerance. Changes in heart rate and pain perception were absent. Our data replicate previous findings that repeating a swear word at a steady pace and volume benefits pain tolerance, extending this finding to pain threshold. Mediation analyses did not identify a pathway via which such effects manifest. Distraction appears to be of little importance but emotion arousal is worthy of future study.
  • ... Or, swearing might be a display of honesty (Feldman et al., 2017), which may be more common in men with high levels of T (Wibral, Dohmen, Klingm€ uller, Weber, & Falk, 2012). It is also possible that swearing is a method of tempering negative emotions during conflict (Philipp & Lombardo, 2017) that might have some beneficial effects on intimate relationships. We expect that examining the link between T, swearing, and relationship quality will be a fruitful next step, and given the general finding that laboratory-based research tends to underestimate differences between nondistressed and distressed couples (Fincham, 2003), these data point to the EAR as a more precise and ecologically valid methodology for analyzing intimate relationship discontent. ...
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  • ... Thus, swearing is not always used in an aggressive way. The psychological and physical consequences of social distress have been found to be attenuated by swearing (Philipp & Lombardo, 2015). Researchers have indicated that swearing can help patients to express their emotions, and sometimes skillful swearing by clinicians helps to maintain a therapeutic relationship with patients (Zimmerman & Stern, 2010). ...
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