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26 Greater Good Fall / Winter 2005- 06
Happiness:
Lessons From
a New
Science
BY R ICH A R D L AYA R D
Penguin Press, 2005,
310 pages
Happiness:
The Science
Behind Your
Smile
BY D ANI EL NE TT LE
Oxford University
Press, 2005,
216 pages
a recent macy’s home sale supplement
entices buyers with a simple statement: “It’s
all about the pursuit of happiness.” Their
ad agency must not have read new books
by Richard Layard and Daniel Nettle, who
refute traditional economic views that
equate personal happiness with material
gain.
Since 1950, postwar capitalism has led
to an unprecedented standard of living in
the West. Yet it has not translated into an
equal upsurge in human happiness. Statis-
tics indicate that while higher income does
boost levels of happiness among people at
or below the poverty line, this doesn’t hold
true for the rest of the population.
Layard and Nettle seek out the reasons
behind these trends. Their books are part
of the growing interdisciplinary field of
hedonics (the study of happiness), which
draws on neuroscience, applied econom-
ics, philosophy, sociology, anthropology,
and psychology. The authors reflect this
diversity: Layard founded Europe’s leading
economics research center, at the London
School of Economics; served as an eco-
nomic adviser to the British government;
and also became a member of the House of
Lords. Nettle is a lecturer in psycholog y at
the University of Newcastle. Their books
also reflect a shift in research. For most
of its history as a social science, psychol-
ogy ignored the concept of happiness and
focused instead on pathology. But more
and more, psychologists are interested in
exploring what happiness is, what con-
ditions generate it, why it seems not to
last, and what we can do to cultivate and
sustain it.
According to Layard and Nettle, at
least two forces prevent us from attaining
happiness through material goods. First,
we become habituated to what we get
and then crave more, or something else.
Secondly, we compare what we have with
others. We’re happy with our paycheck
until we find out our brother-in-law’s
paycheck is bigger. We’re content with our
house until we see our neighbor has more
rooms. Nettle calls this a product of our
evolution. The brain systems that control
pleasure (satisfaction) are not identical to
those that control desire (aspiration). So
even when one part of our brain is feeling
satisfaction, another part is urging us to
want even more. The paradox is that we
are conditioned neither for happiness nor
unhappiness, but for pushing ourselves to
tackle new challenges that enhance our
fitness for survival. Happiness is merely an
imaginary goal that gives us direction and
purpose. Without recognizing this ten-
dency in ourselves, he argues, we are prone
to letting it trick us into making choices
that don’t maximize happiness. Buying yet
another pair of shoes, no matter how chic,
won’t bring the fulfillment we may long for.
Layard points a finger at predictable
culprits: Changes in gender roles and
divorce rates, television, geographical
mobility, debased moral values, and the rise
of individualism all undermine happiness,
according to his book. Layard’s arguments
won’t seem new to people who already
prefer going for a hike with friends or shar-
ing dinner with family to watching TV. His
message is akin to what so many spiritual
leaders and philosophers have said for mil-
lennia: Enjoy things as they are, without
comparing yourself to others, and discover
what truly makes you happy. He encourag-
es us to tame our rat-race instinct and train
ourselves—using, for example, cognitive
therapy, education, and Buddhist medita-
tion techniques—to live in a more balanced
way, not simply driven by competition for
status. He also calls for enacting public
policies to help create a different kind of
society. He suggests, for instance, spend-
ing more money on mental health so that
we reduce unhappiness, instead of simply
focusing on getting happier.
The two authors cover similar terrain,
but use different tones and approaches.
Layard’s book is more of an exhortation for
enlightened policymaking, and it can feel a
bit preachy. Nettle’s book provides a clearer
understanding of the pursuit of happiness,
offers more interesting research findings,
and questions whether we can actually
change people’s happiness through public
action. However, both authors write in an
accessible style for the lay reader and reach
parallel conclusions: Happiness comes from
within, and expecting large gains in hap-
piness is unrealistic. But if we broaden our
pursuits beyond the acquisition of wealth
and status, happiness may arrive on its
own. —Mirka Knaster
Positive Psychology
in Practice
ED I T E D BY P. A L E X L INLEY
AND STEP HEN JO SEP H
Wiley, 2004, 770 pages
a s e d it o r s
P. Alex Linley and
Stephen Joseph
note in their
preface, positive
psychology—the
scientific study
of what makes
people feel happy
and fulfilled—is
a burgeoning
discipline. At this
crucial point in the field’s development,
they want their book to be a definitive
resource—not just for colleagues in aca-
demia, but for practitioners as well.
Over 42 chapters, Positive Psychology
in Practice offers plenty of provocative
research findings. Psychologist Tim Kasser,
for example, makes an important contribu-
tion to economics by showing that when
people pursue materialistic values—such
as wanting to be wealthy and attrac-
tive—they report less happiness and lower
life-satisfaction. Kennon Sheldon and Sonja
Lyubomirsky report that simple practices,
such as counting your blessings, may
increase your happiness for a sustained
time. This finding is significant because
previous researchers have long believed a
person’s potential for happiness is more or
less determined by genetics at birth.
This book distinguishes itself by not
only reporting on breakthroughs in positive
psychology, but by emphasizing how these
findings can be applied. A section dedicat-
ed to work includes a provocative chapter
on how “transformative leadership”—char-
acterized in part by leaders who do what
is ethical, rather than what is expedient or
cost-ef fective—may promote employees’
physical and mental health. Another essay
discusses potential applications of positive
psychology to youth organizations.
in print
Fall / Winter 2005- 06 Greater G ood 27
The book is especially relevant to psy-
chotherapists. For example, Chiara Ruini
and Giovanni Fava introduce a technique
called well-being therapy, which draws on
research suggesting that therapists can help
patients not only by addressing psycho-
logical problems but by teaching them to
develop positive characteristics as well, such
as self-acceptance and a sense of purpose.
Linely and Joseph have certainly
succeeded in creating a comprehensive
overview of positive psychology. Though
their book is more practically minded than
most academic compilations, the volume’s
breadth, and sometimes its prose, might
put off non-academics. Even so, it is a ter-
rific resource for anyone interested in the
important science of positive psychology.
—Christine Car ter McLaughlin
Field Notes on the
Compassionate Life:
A Search for the Soul of
Kindness
BY M ARC IAN B A R A S CH
Rodale, 2005, 367 pages
ea r ly in hi s book,
Marc Ian Barasch
makes clear that he
has no illusions about
human behavior. He
knows that even the
most well-intentioned
people fall prey to
selfishness and apathy,
and “there are days compassion seems as
notional as a dusting of powdered sugar on
a devil’s food cake.” But he can’t shake the
idea that “a compassionate life is more ful-
filling,” and he finds himself fascinated and
inspired by people who exude empathy.
Field Notes on the Compassionate Life chron-
icles his attempts to better understand
these people who so powerfully embody
the better side of human nature—and to
see if there’s hope for more of us (including
Barasch himself ) to be more like them.
His “search for the soul of kindness”
leads him across a slew of scientific
discoveries into the nature of compassion
and altruism. Some of this research will be
familiar to readers of this magazine, wheth-
er it’s primatologist Frans de Waal’s studies
of empathy in apes or psychologist Richard
Davidson’s research linking meditation
to heightened states of positive emotion.
But Barasch has done all readers a service
by covering so much of this research in a
single volume. In just over 350 pages, he
provides an engaging and very thorough
overview of the tremendous strides scien-
tists have made toward understanding the
roots and the extent of human goodness.
Barasch draws on this science to help
explain and interpret the behavior of some
remarkable individuals. He structures the
book around stories of people who aston-
ish him with their displays of altruism
and empathy. Some of these people, like
the Dalai Lama, are well-known icons of
compassion. But Barasch also encounters
people like Fleet Maull, a convicted felon-
turned-Buddhist social activist who leads
“street retreats,” where people experience a
week of homelessness to attune themselves
to the plights of others. Barasch, a journal-
ist by trade, goes on one of these retreats,
and his account is one of the highlights of
the book—an honest, detailed portrait of
humanity at its best and worst.
Field Notes is most engrossing when Bar-
asch brings us along on his quest not only
to appreciate goodness but to live it—to
face all of his (and our) moral and emo-
tional shortcomings, and work to rise above
them. He’s a likable and helpful guide on
this journey, and though he doesn’t quite
locate the “soul” of kindness, which would
be akin to discovering the meaning of life,
he should convince even the most cynical
readers that there’s good reason to strive
for a more compassionate world. Like all
of us, Barasch is just trying to be a better
person. His book shows that reaching this
goal can be hard, but it is possible.
—Jason Marsh
Unconditional Parenting:
Moving from Rewards
and Punishments to
Love and Reason
BY A LFIE KO HN
Atria Books, 2005, 264 pages
most boo ks a bou t
parenting offer tips
for handling kids
when they act up:
how to get them to
go to bed without
a fuss; how to cure
their picky eating
habits; how to stop
them from talking
back. But Alfie Kohn
wants to dissuade parents from making
obedience their ultimate goal. Instead,
Kohn, who has been writing about parent-
ing and education for more than 20 years,
says that parents need to ask themselves,
“What are your long-term objectives for your
children? ”
“Unconditional parenting” is the term
that Kohn uses to describe a relationship
where the quality and quantity of paren-
tal attention is not limited to punishing a
child’s bad behavior and rewarding good
behavior. Time-outs, positive re-enforce-
ment, natural consequences, and other
commonly prescribed parenting techniques
have no place in unconditional parent-
ing. Kohn argues that when we rely on
external motivators such as rewards and
punishments, we are teaching our children
that their worth depends on their actions.
Unconditional parenting, on the other
hand, assumes the best of the child before
us and tries to address the whole person,
not just the unwanted behavior.
For example, Kohn describes a tantrum
his then four-year-old daughter, Abigail,
had soon after the birth of her brother.
While conventional advice would recom-
mend withdrawing parental attention or
removing privileges as a “natural” con-
sequence, Kohn says the right response
would be to give children like Abigail
more attention—perhaps through a special
storytime—to address the problem behind
their tantrums. He suggests that it is when
our children are at their very worst that
they need us the most. “Unconditional
parenting assumes that behaviors are just
the outward expression of feelings and
thoughts, needs and intentions,” he writes.
If we leap to punish the “bad” behavior,
we are effectively telling our children that
they mean less to us when they act up, and
we miss an opportunity to address deeper
issues.
Kohn has two children and understands
that day-to-day life threatens to overwhelm
even the most conscientious parent. But he
strongly encourages his readers to begin
questioning their methods and motives.
“All of us have considerable room for
improvement,” he writes. “This is as good a
time as any to turn things around.” He bol-
sters his arguments with copious footnotes
and 12 pages of references, as well as by
sharing numerous real-life stories about his
own experiences and epiphanies.
Kohn marshals all this information to
make a persuasive argument. Readers who
are interested in raising moral and compas-
sionate children will be challenged and
inspired by Unconditional Parenting.
—Dawn Friedman
