To ‘will as God wills’ is expected of Christians: ‘Thy will be done.’ But does this imply that one is expected to be content, even pleased, with whatever happens, since whatever happens is in some sense what God wills? Eleonore Stump labels such an expectation a ‘stern-minded attitude,’ and she claims to find it in the work of Meister Eckhart. Contrasting it with the positions taken by Bernard of Clairvaux and Thomas Aquinas, Stump rejects sternmindedness as too harsh on natural human feeling and based on a faulty concept of the will. I argue that Stump fails to situate some of Eckhart's admittedly extreme claims in the framework of his metaphysics and the larger context of his writings, which show he is clearly not stern-minded. Finally, I offer an explanation of Eckhart's injunction to ‘live without why/will.’