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The Positive Side of Close Relationships

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Research has unequivocally shown that close relationships are strongly linked to health and well-being. This chapter reviews work that has focused on processes that promote high-quality relationships and the role that these processes play in health and well-being. It then discusses areas that are ripe for future research on positive processes in close relationships that are likely to shed light on important links to health and well-being.

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... The way children relate to their caregivers predicts how they behave in their adult relationships as well (Peterson, 2006). Strong, positive social connections increase physical health and overall wellness (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). People with close friendships recover faster from illness and trauma (Umberson & Karas Montez, 2010), have a lower rate of dementia (Cacioppo et al., 2011), and even live longer (Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010). ...
... A range of activities qualify as social support, from offers of help or advice to expressions of affection. When we share good news within our dyadic relationships and receive an engaged and expressive response, we can capitalize on the positive experience and enhance our overall well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Furthermore, positivity can be contagious and infect close relations with the joy one shares, which in turn strengthens the connection between the two (Fredrickson, 2009). ...
... Relationships provide meaning and even boost happiness (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). They are a source of intimacy and closeness, relieve stress, and provide accountability to help achieve improved health and fitness (Tay et al., 2012). ...
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... At friendship initiation, and at the initiation of relationships of all kinds there is a bout of passionate love, which has high levels of intense attraction (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Following passionate love is companionate love. ...
... Companionate love is a hallmark of friendship. It is the emotion that confirms that a secure attachment exists and the friend will attend to the other's needs (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). The need for companionship can be seen through the social costs of loneliness, which is the absence of companionate love. ...
... The enthusiastic and constructive response to a friend's good news is likely a disclosure of a deeper truth -an affirmation that they have their friend's best interest and goal pursuits in mind. If friends have interdependent goals, or goals that are partially and entirely correlated or reliant on each other, their closeness and success will rise with each other's tide (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Rusbult and colleagues (2009) offer the "Michelangelo Effect", where the sculpture represents your friend, and your affirming words and actions of their ideal self are the chisel. ...
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... A robust and replicated finding in positive psychology is that the capacity to love and be loved is a central human tendency and that positive, healthy social relationships are highly predictive of well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Peterson, 2006). While it's possible for individuals to influence and increase their well-being without interacting with others, in order to function adaptively people cannot solely have regard for themselves (Haidt, 2006). ...
... As In the study of well-being and relationships, social support has been noted as particularly important (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Social support is thought to boost well-being by decreasing the prevalence of stressors (or perceived stressors) and through shielding individuals from the negative effects of stressful events when they happen (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... As In the study of well-being and relationships, social support has been noted as particularly important (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Social support is thought to boost well-being by decreasing the prevalence of stressors (or perceived stressors) and through shielding individuals from the negative effects of stressful events when they happen (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Social support is a process in relationships that involves one person seeking support and the other providing care (Collins & Feeney, 2000). ...
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... Positive emotions can serve as a currency to form social bonds, spreading among individuals and groups in a viral manner similar to health conditions and behaviors (Fowler & Christakis, 2008). Positive processes inherent to close relationships, such as the expression of gratitude and love, can provide a buffer to negative external stimuli (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Close relationships can have a counteracting FLOURISHING PARTNERS: A PEER SUPPORT MODEL FOR RECOVERING ADDICTS effect on stress, positively affecting decision-making and cultivating meaning, engagement and a sense of accomplishment in the individual (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... Positive processes inherent to close relationships, such as the expression of gratitude and love, can provide a buffer to negative external stimuli (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Close relationships can have a counteracting FLOURISHING PARTNERS: A PEER SUPPORT MODEL FOR RECOVERING ADDICTS effect on stress, positively affecting decision-making and cultivating meaning, engagement and a sense of accomplishment in the individual (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... One strategy for building high quality connections is the process of capitalization, or the sharing of positive experiences between individuals (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). When an individual recounts a positive event, the listener may build on the positive emotion experienced by the narrating individual by reacting enthusiastically, asking questions and sharing the joy regarding the importance and meaning of the event, in a style termed active-constructive responding (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... Research from several sources support the link between close relationships and physical health (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Studies have linked social isolation with substantial increase in mortality risk, as well as poorer functioning cardiovascular, immune, and endocrine systems (Cohen, 1988). ...
... Studies have linked social isolation with substantial increase in mortality risk, as well as poorer functioning cardiovascular, immune, and endocrine systems (Cohen, 1988). In contrast, positive close relationships are associated with happiness and satisfaction with life (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... When stressors are present, supportive connections can serve as a buffer during stressful events and protect us from their negative effects, if our interpersonal resources are perceived to be available (Cohen & Wills, 1985;Rather & Harter, 2010). There is good evidence that social support can directly reduce the number of stressors in our lives and equip us to better handle them (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Social support is also generally associated with greater meaning in life (Smith, 2017) and an increased sense of self-efficacy and personal goal fulfillment (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... Social activities and communities are necessary for well-being. Studies show that having meaningful relationships is closely tied to happiness and life satisfaction and that feeling connected socially is a major contributing factor to positive well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Research also shows that the number of social ties people have in their lives is positively correlated with increased happiness, well-being, and life satisfaction (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... Studies show that having meaningful relationships is closely tied to happiness and life satisfaction and that feeling connected socially is a major contributing factor to positive well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Research also shows that the number of social ties people have in their lives is positively correlated with increased happiness, well-being, and life satisfaction (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). With this in mind, one of the most prominent factors of posttraumatic growth is an increase in intimate relationships and the ability to relate to others . ...
... Received support is actual support given by someone else, which can either be helpful and comforting or, if unfulfilling and/or neglectful, can be detrimental (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... The wide-array of well-being benefits derived from social connection has been well documented in psychology. At the highest level, close social relationships are strongly associated with psychical health and psychological well-being, while social isolation is associated with an increased likelihood of mortality (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... How exactly do close social relationships drive well-being? Research suggests both a direct association, through an increased sense of belonging and social support, and an indirect association through slightly more complicated mechanisms like self-expansion and capitalization (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). The self-expansion theory claims that individuals are motivated to increase the bounds of their selves by incorporating features of others into their lives, and the closer the relationship, the more overlap between the individuals (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... Research suggests both a direct association, through an increased sense of belonging and social support, and an indirect association through slightly more complicated mechanisms like self-expansion and capitalization (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). The self-expansion theory claims that individuals are motivated to increase the bounds of their selves by incorporating features of others into their lives, and the closer the relationship, the more overlap between the individuals (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). This is essentially the empirical backdrop supporting the popular sentiment of the importance of who you surround yourself with. ...
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... In one study with first-year college students, positive emotions predicted self-other overlap with a new college roommate after the first week of the semester, which then predicted a more complex understanding of the roommate at a follow-up a month later (Waugh & Fredrickson, 2006). Further, sharing and reinforcing of positive emotions by partners (i.e., positive capitalization) is found to be predictive of relational satisfaction (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Thus, positive emotions can help enhance positive relational processes and outcomes. ...
... In general, most people are fortunate to experience positive events more often than negative events (ratio of 3:1; Gable & Haidt, 2005). The act of making the most out of, or capitalizing on, these positive events, that is, positive capitalization, is a positive dyadic relational process that predicts positive affect, well-being, and self-esteem (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Langston, 1994). Specifically, the process of positive capitalization occurs when an individual tells another about a positive event, and is met with a response that reinforces and validates the individual and the event as being positive and worthy (Gable, Gonzaga, & Strachman, 2006;Gable, Reis, Impett, & Asher, 2004). ...
... Specifically, the process of positive capitalization occurs when an individual tells another about a positive event, and is met with a response that reinforces and validates the individual and the event as being positive and worthy (Gable, Gonzaga, & Strachman, 2006;Gable, Reis, Impett, & Asher, 2004). In a daily experience study, it was found that there is a 70 to 80 percent chance that an individual would disclose to another about a positive event in their day, and 97 percent of people who share positive events do so with close relationship partners (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Gable et al., 2004). Although disclosure of positive events to close relationship partners is important, the specific response is equally important for the effects of relational well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... Research from the field of psychology indicates that close relationships are strongly linked to both physical health and emotional well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Individuals who report having a greater number of social ties also report having higher levels of well-being, regardless of the presence of life stressors (Cohen & Willis, 1985). ...
... It's been shown that when individuals have a capitalizing experience, they experience positive affect above and beyond the positive event itself (Gable & Gosnell, 2011), which expands the positive impact of that experience. Positive close relationships also aid in important areas of personal development, including the pursuit of the ideal self (represented as either clearly defined goals or a collection of aspirations and dreams) (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... It's been shown that when individuals have a capitalizing experience, they experience positive affect above and beyond the positive event itself (Gable & Gosnell, 2011), which expands the positive impact of that experience. Positive close relationships also aid in important areas of personal development, including the pursuit of the ideal self (represented as either clearly defined goals or a collection of aspirations and dreams) (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). It is in the safe territory of positive close relationships that individuals are able to explore and expand themselves, finding new and broader definitions of self. ...
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... Research supports the link between close relationships and physical health (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Some studies have linked social isolation with substantial increase in mortality risk, as well as poorer functioning cardiovascular, immune, and endocrine systems; in contrast, positive close relationships are associated with happiness and satisfaction with life (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... Research supports the link between close relationships and physical health (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Some studies have linked social isolation with substantial increase in mortality risk, as well as poorer functioning cardiovascular, immune, and endocrine systems; in contrast, positive close relationships are associated with happiness and satisfaction with life (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). One reason for this may be that people tend to mimic their friends, including their health habits, for better or for worse. ...
... When stressors are present, supportive connections can also serve as a buffer during stressful events and protect us from their negative effects, as long as our interpersonal resources are perceived to be available (Cohen & Wills, 1985). There is good evidence that social support can directly reduce the number of stressors in our lives and equip us to handle them better (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Social support is also generally associated with an increased sense of self-efficacy and personal goal fulfillment (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... Empirical studies show that spirituality is one thing that could give people this sense and feeling (King & Scollon, 1998). Another important part of the various definitions of meaning is that life feels significant beyond the moment (King et al., 2006), while other studies have shown that social relationships can help people feel that their lives matter (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). One important researcher of positive psychology, Christopher Peterson, stated that the field was about the realization that "other people matter" (Peterson, 2006). ...
... Another source of resilience when pursuing meaningful goals is to have strong relationships. In a technique called Active Constructing Responding (ACR), as presented by Shelly Gable (Gable & Gosnell, 2011), young people learn that responding with interest and making the other person feel important is a crucial relationship builder. Importantly, this research shows that relationships, like meaning, is strengthened not just after setbacks, but in good times as well. ...
... Any semester of the Freshman year. Source of the exercise: Gable and Gosnell (2011), video on ACR from: Gordon Lamb (available https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRORihbXMnA) Previous knowledge required for the instructor/ tutor: Teachers should be trained on ACR and use the wheel of life also as a source of information. ...
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... The primal need for love, attachment, and close relationships has been evolutionarily, biologically, psychologically and developmentally established, but there is also evidence of a PSYCH: A POSITIVE-PSYCHOLOGY-BASED, PEER-SUPPORTED SELF-CARE SERIES FOR THERAPIST WELLBEING 24 correlation between relationships and love and physical and psychological health and wellbeing across the lifespan (Fredrickson, 2013;Haidt, 2006;Park, Peterson, & Seligman, 2004;Peterson, 2006). The quantity and quality of one's relationships and connections have enormous impact on and relevance to wellbeing, happiness, positive emotions, and work and life meaning (Fredrickson, 2009;Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Peterson, 2006;Rath, 2015;Seligman, 2011). The words of positive psychology's cofounder, Christopher Peterson, "other people matter" (2006, p. 249), are foundational to wellbeing. ...
... Practicing the skill of actively and constructively responding to another's good news can significantly impact positive relationships. Supportively responding to another's good fortune has been found to be more important to relationship quality than responses in times of stress (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Even a simple "turning toward" versus "turning away" response to an individual's expressive "bid" is an example of relationship engagement, interest, connection, and support, and is associated with healthy relationships and wellbeing (Smith, 2014). ...
... Only responses that are active and constructive are associated with wellbeing, higher relationship quality, and feeling understood, validated, and cared for (Gable et al., 2006). Understanding that one can choose one's response style, that this response style has a direct effect on his/her relationships, and that positive or high-quality relationships and connections are the greatest determinants of happiness, health, and wellbeing and vice versa (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Peterson, 2006) adds even more reason to discuss and practice ACR within the context of fostering wellbeing. ...
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... Building strong, positive relationships between mother and child that are characterized by warmth and acceptance improves well-being for both, thereby reducing the risk for depression (Thapar et al., 2012). Positive relationships with children can be achieved by the intentional, direct action of investing in relationships through positively oriented communication, acceptance, sharing positive events, genuine concern for the concerns of children, and emotional availability (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... Positive personal relationships provide an opportunity for us to capitalize on positive life events through sharing of these events with those in our personal relationship network. This capitalization enhances our positive affect and overall sense of well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Additionally, these "capitalization interactions … cultivate closeness and intimacy" (Gable & Gosnell, 2011, p. 268). ...
... Additionally, these "capitalization interactions … cultivate closeness and intimacy" (Gable & Gosnell, 2011, p. 268). Close personal relationships can be especially important for working mothers as the stress of working outside the home can have negative effects on relationships with family members (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Strengthening of close personal relationships, especially intimate relationships, can offer protective benefits against the stress of daily life (Peterson, 2006). ...
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... When considering the role of social support, it is important to recognize that it has been defined differently in psychological literature, and most commonly appears under three major conceptualizations: structural support (number of social ties or their density), enacted or received support (actual support transactions in response to stressful events), and perceived support (perceived availability of support) (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Interestingly, even when support is not enacted, but only perceived, it is consistently associated with positive health and well-being outcomes, as well as reduced anxiety and depression during stressful times and more positive adjustment to diseases (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... When considering the role of social support, it is important to recognize that it has been defined differently in psychological literature, and most commonly appears under three major conceptualizations: structural support (number of social ties or their density), enacted or received support (actual support transactions in response to stressful events), and perceived support (perceived availability of support) (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Interestingly, even when support is not enacted, but only perceived, it is consistently associated with positive health and well-being outcomes, as well as reduced anxiety and depression during stressful times and more positive adjustment to diseases (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). There are multiple mechanisms through which relationships with others and social support can buffer against the negative effects of stressful events. ...
... There are multiple mechanisms through which relationships with others and social support can buffer against the negative effects of stressful events. One possibility is that supportive others can alter appraisal of events so they are not perceived as threats or stressors (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... Chances are, if a person's social network isn't happy, then he or she won't be, either (Fowler & Christakis, 2009). Social support really does matter, because it helps us believe in ourselves more, which in turn helps us to achieve our personal goals (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Interestingly, thinking we have support when we need it is actually better than receiving the support. ...
... Interestingly, thinking we have support when we need it is actually better than receiving the support. Perceived support means believing that another person cares for us and will be there for us if needed (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). We enjoy knowing we have support, but of course we don't ever want to have to ask for it. ...
... Still, we can allow ourselves to feel and show gratitude for our social network. This, too, helps us as individuals, since people are more likely to notice new positive qualities and feel more connected and satisfied when feeling gratitude (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... Wilson (2012) posits that human beings are biologically predisposed to seek out groups of people who share similar characteristics (Wilson, 2012). Gable and Gosnell (2011) found that humans benefitted from increased wellbeing when they possessed close relationships (either with a partner or with a group). These relationships allow the individual to benefit from the support of their partner/group when a stressor is encountered. ...
... These relationships allow the individual to benefit from the support of their partner/group when a stressor is encountered. Interestingly, a stressor need not be present to show correlation between the presence of strong social ties and greater wellbeing (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). This research illustrates the positive implications for working to increase social cohesion. ...
... They report that a closeby friend or group can increase wellbeing by 30% (Fowler & Christakis, 2009). Gable and Gosnell (2011) further advance sharing positive life events with those close to you can serve to increase wellbeing and self-esteem, while decreasing loneliness and depression (Gable & Gosnell, 2011), which has larger implications when applied to social cohesion beyond the parameters of group formation. ...
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... 238), indicating that he believes that relationships are the key ingredient to wellbeing. Positive relationships have been linked to a number of beneficial outcomes such as increased positive emotions, social skills, resource development, self-efficacy, vitality, resilience in times of stress, self-expansion, and capitalization on positive events (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Seligman, 2011;Stephens, Heaphy, & Dutton, 2011;Segrin & Taylor, 2007;Haidt, 2006). A companionate bond, where partners mutually meet each other's needs and influence each other's outcomes, is the hallmark of positive relationships (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
... Positive relationships have been linked to a number of beneficial outcomes such as increased positive emotions, social skills, resource development, self-efficacy, vitality, resilience in times of stress, self-expansion, and capitalization on positive events (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Seligman, 2011;Stephens, Heaphy, & Dutton, 2011;Segrin & Taylor, 2007;Haidt, 2006). A companionate bond, where partners mutually meet each other's needs and influence each other's outcomes, is the hallmark of positive relationships (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). These relationships are based on affection and commitment to those with whom we are interconnected and correlate to increased health, longevity, and well-being (Haidt, 2006). ...
... Successful high quality connections enhance energy, and create a positive emotional state between participants marked by a sense of mutuality (Stephens et al., 2011;Dutton, 2003). The increased positive energy, trust, and mutual regard that stems from these activities can help participants feel validated, cared for, and understood -hallmarks to positive relationships (Stephens et al., 2011;Gable & Gosnell, 2011). ...
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... It is well documented that our biological bodies are hardwired for close relationships and that the capacity to love and be loved is intrinsically human (Peterson, 2006). Additionally, Gable and Gosnell (2011) showed that close relationships are strongly linked to health as they build certain biological systems and buffer the negative impact of stress. Their research found that humans are endowed with separate brain networks for social thinking that work like a reflex. ...
... When good things happen in our lives, we often like to savor them with our close ones. Gable and Gosnell (2011) showed that when others respond in an active and constructive way, it builds trust, positive affect, and subjective well-being. The authors studied the impact of close relationships on positive processes like social support, capitalization and self-expansion. ...
... What then might be the consequences of a life of solitude? Poor quality relationships or a lack of social ties are associated with a substantial decrease in overall health (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Worse still, Durkheim demonstrated that people who have fewer social constraints, bonds and obligations were more likely to commit suicide (as cited in Haidt, 2006). ...
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... While we may live within the confines of the solitary mind, our souls thrive with connection. Life becomes worth living when we have close relationships that are strengthened over periods of time (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). It's when we sit on our grandfather's lap to listen to repeated stories after we have already grown up. ...
... Consequently, the lack of social connection (loneliness) represents one of the leading causes for people to seek therapy and counseling (Baumeister & Leary, 1995). As such, traditional psychological research has focused on uncovering poor-quality relationship processes and their outcomes (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Traditionally, psychology has devoted the majority of its attention on the disease model in order to understand, treat, and prevent human pathologies and psychological disorders (Peterson & Seligman, 2004). ...
... People who are happy have better social relationships, are healthier, and are more successful, and vice versa (Lyubomirsky, King, & Diener, 2005). We need to realize that in the pursuit of our ideal selves, we have to depend on our close relationships to help achieve our dreams (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). We need to suspend the belief that interdependence will be our undoing. ...
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... Relationships are the most important element of the PERMA model with significant implications for flourishing and wellbeing (3,158). High perceived social support is associated with improved wellbeing and positive health (159), and protects individuals from the negative impacts of stressful events (159). Relationships can be enhanced in educational settings by the incorporation of positive communication training (160), creating a supportive and psychologically safe environment (161), promoting teamwork through group activities and active debriefs (148), and providing respectful and supportive feedback (148). ...
... Relationships are the most important element of the PERMA model with significant implications for flourishing and wellbeing (3,158). High perceived social support is associated with improved wellbeing and positive health (159), and protects individuals from the negative impacts of stressful events (159). Relationships can be enhanced in educational settings by the incorporation of positive communication training (160), creating a supportive and psychologically safe environment (161), promoting teamwork through group activities and active debriefs (148), and providing respectful and supportive feedback (148). ...
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... Relationships are a key component of human well-being and are heavily studied in the field of positive psychology, as relationships can affect subjective well-being or one's perception of life satisfaction and emotions. Our relationships contribute highly to our well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Our first relationships are formed with our caregiver and can inform our relationships in adult life through our attachment style. ...
... Having friends that live in proximity of less than a mile has been shown to be beneficial for well-being and happiness (Fowler & Christakis, 2008). Positive relationships can be enhanced when we capitalize on positive news with active engagement and enthusiasm (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Relationships are an important, and if not the most important part, of life satisfaction and well-being. ...
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... Furrer & Skinner, 2003;Langston, 1994;Blatt & Camden, 2007). In addition to health, social support reduces current stressors and protects people from future stressors (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). The absence of connection, as seen in loneliness and isolation, comes with its own risks to both wellbeing and physical health (e.g. ...
... The absence of connection, as seen in loneliness and isolation, comes with its own risks to both wellbeing and physical health (e.g. Berkman & Syme, 1979;Uchino, Cacioppo, & Kiecolt-Glaser, 1996;Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Intentionally structuring workshops so that they can increase the probability of connection through mattering and belonging is important because, based on the research discussed below, such workshops can benefit physical and psychological well-being. ...
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This Capstone explores how well-being can be increased through creating conditions for connection in workshop experiences. It begins with an overview of workshops followed by a literature review of the general field of positive psychology and two specific elements of social connection: belonging and mattering as well as short-term positive connections. It details these areas as well as their corresponding benefits for well-being both generally and inside of workshops, specifically. Finally, the Appendix: Fostering Connection in Workshops to Increase Well-Being, outlines research-based suggestions workshop facilitators can use to put this information into action. These resources are provided with the intention of fostering well-being in workshops through creating opportunities for participants to connect in the moment as well as arming participants with tools to use in their own workshops and lives. This translation of research into practical suggestions for workshop facilitators should elevate facilitators’ practice by both giving them new ideas to incorporate as well as by backing their existing practices with research.
... iors, but less is known "about how couples respond to each other's triumphs […] and examining them having fun and laughing together" (p. 104; see also Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Since then, there has been growing interest in the study of positively valued traits and constructs in the domain of romantic life (e.g., Boiman-Meshita & Littman-Ovadia, 2022;Körner et al., 2022;Purol & Chopik, 2023;Weber & Ruch, 2012) including studies investigating how partners laugh together (e.g., Brauer & Proyer, 2018;Kurtz & Algoe, 2015). ...
... The ability to love and be loved, belong, and matter -these words express what it means to be human. Supported by empirical data, shared experience as well as forming and maintaining positive close relationships is crucial for health and well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Yet, not just any relationships, but relationships of rapport built on connection and mattering. ...
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... Part of what alchemizes stories into medicine is the chance to share them with others and find common humanity. Some researchers believe that only from a place of secure attachment in a safe community could individuals work on self-expansion and find flourishing (Bowlby, 1969;Gable & Gosnell, 2011). This can be the challenging part of storytelling. ...
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... Human beings are made for relationships, as demonstrated by the negative response of our system when these are not functional, and by the positive/protective response of our system when these are of a good quality. When we are in a social context, where the relationship is active, our system releases oxytocin, a hormone whose discharge promotes relationships through a sense of affiliation, trust and motivation [58]. Positive relationships also show beneficial physiological effects through: (1) interaction with the cardiovascular system, measured in terms of heart rate during the day, evening, and sleep, as well as blood pressure during relationships and connections; (2) a stronger response of the immune system when under stress; and (3) influence on the hormonal release of oxytocin and cortisol by the neuroendocrine system [59]. ...
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This study aims at evaluating the psychometric properties of a new scale to measure experienced happiness—the Measure of Happiness (MH)—in a nonclinical sample composed of Italian adults from the general population. The MH was developed not only to provide a global measure of happiness, but also and more importantly to identify the specific areas of the individual’s life that are related to the experienced happiness. A total of 787 adults filled the MH and other self-report questionnaires, in order to assess the factor structure, reliability and external validity of the measure. The factorial analysis identified the following five dimensions: Psychophysics Status, Financial Status, Relational Private Sphere, Socio-Relational Sphere, and Life Perspective. The scale so defined was administered to a second independent group of 421 participants for the (multigroup) confirmatory factor analysis (CFA). A multigroup factor analysis based on gender confirmed the MH structure. The convergent validity of the MH was assessed by comparing the MH scores with a previously validated test of happiness and quality of life, as well as with dispositional constructs with which happiness is known to be negatively correlated, namely, anxiety and depression. The MH showed satisfactory psychometric properties and a strong significant positive relationship between the two measures of happiness, and a substantial negative association with the measures of anxiety and depression, supporting the validity of the MH to assess the construct of experienced happiness. The implications and possible applications of the MH are then discussed.
... Rooted in positive psychology, these social experiences allow for building trust among organizational members and is shaped by the organizational culture. Research has shown that there is a strong link to health and close relationships as they build certain biological systems (such as brain networks for social thinking) and reduces the negative impact of stress (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). The outbreak of the coronavirus, COVID-19, has quickly become the most revolutionary 'shock' or 'black swan' that organizations are facing. ...
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... In a landmark meta-analysis of 148 studies, researchers demonstrated social relationships were at least as influential on mortality as smoking, alcohol consumption, physical activity, and obesity (Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010). Alternately, social isolation studies link the lack of social ties to substantial increases in all-cause mortality risk (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Likewise, societies characterized by excessive self-sufficiency and individualism possess high suicide rates (Smith, 2017). ...
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... Social influence scholars have identified the basic human need for affiliation as a driving force behind our desire to be liked and to help others whom we like (e.g., Cialdini & Goldstein, 2004). This stream of research on the power of likeability overlaps significantly with positive psychology constructs relating to the causes and consequences of positive relationships, such as high-quality connections (Dutton, 2003), active-constructive responding to good news (Gable, Gonzaga, & Strachman, 2006;Gable & Gosnell, 2011), interpersonal mattering (Jung, 2015), the relatedness need under self-determination theory (Deci & Ryan, 2000), leader-member exchange (Graves & Luciano, 2013), and sense of belonging (Cockshaw et al., 2014), to name a few. ...
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... Similarly, athletes who received encouragement, guidance and emotional support from others including former teammates, family, friends, coaches, sports psychologists, and others had smoother transitions (Fuller, 2014). Well-being models such as self-determination theory and PERMA , point to the importance of relationships and research shows that positive relationships are linked to health and well-being (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Character strengths can be used to enhance social support. ...
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... Haidt, Seder, and Kesebir (2008) claim that we often derive fulfillment from the collective identity that forms out of community belonging. Likewise, Baumeister and Leary (1995) maintain that the human condition cannot be understood without comprehending close relationships (as cited in Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Interestingly, the study of relationships was, at first, omitted from the consideration of positive psychology. ...
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... Positive relationships. Research tells us that they are linked to better health, well-being, happiness and more satisfaction with life (Diener & Seligman, 2002;Gable & Gosnell, 2011). In addition, Chris Peterson (2006), is famous for saying that all of positive psychology can be summed up in 3 words, "other people matter" (p. ...
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... We all need to feel connected, relate, and feel that we belong (Haidt, 2006;Haidt, Seder, & Kesebir, 2008;Gable & Gosnell, 2011). Those at the center of a large social circle of happy individuals are more likely to have a future filled with happiness (Christakis & Fowler, 2012;Fowler & Christakis, 2009). ...
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... Fostering AHC and cultivating one's sense of community within macro-level communities presents immense opportunities for social support that is essential in the face of personal challenge or stress (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). It is possible AHC and sense of community add to our personal well-being in part because they shift our focus off ourselves, to those around us. ...
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In a world that is more virtually connected than ever before, social connection is waning at an alarming rate. Extensive research has demonstrated the importance of individuals’ connection to others, and community, as central for holistic well-being. In this paper, I build a bridge between positive psychology and community psychology. I introduce a recipe for authentic human connection (AHC) and present a 3x3x3 conceptual model that explores how AHC shows up at three levels of community: micro-communities of dyads and families, meso-communities of workplaces and schools, and macro-communities of neighborhoods, cities, and countries. For each level of community, I identify facilitating factors for AHC. These include eye contact, listening, virtue, psychological safety, psychological capital, play, social capital, ritual, and sense of place. I also explore inhibiting factors for AHC such as unconscious bias, fear, social and cultural norms, power structures, competition, instability, inequality, mistrust, and physical environment. Drawing on the rich resource of positive psychology, I close my paper by presenting three strategies for individuals to cultivate authentic human connection across all levels of community.
... Being entirely absorbed in a task, losing track of time, and experiencing that you are one with the environment captures the essence of Engagement (Csikszintmihalyi, 1990;Seligman, 2011). When people are asked what makes their lives meaningful, the most cited response is personal Relationships (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Lambert et al., 2013). Meaning can be thought of as connecting to and serving something that is larger than the self. ...
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With the world of work becoming increasingly complex and uncertain, career services at colleges and universities is having a hard time keeping up. The delivery of career services has typically evolved in reaction to shifts in societal and economic norms; however, this paper suggests that the theories and research of positive psychology – the study of what makes life worth living – can offer career services a proactive approach to improve upon the current delivery model and its impact on student well-being. While it is clear that occupational well-being is central to the satisfaction of college students with 86% citing job placement as a determining factor for their college selection, we are seeing a dramatic uptick in anxiety, stress, loneliness and hopelessness on college campuses. The career center of the future must consider well-being to address this tension, as well as to more effectively prepare students to navigate the changing employment landscape with confidence and clarity. This capstone project proposes a career services-sponsored group coaching intervention to both scale the traditional model of career services and provide structured opportunities for students to increase belonging and connection while exploring their career development with one another.
... Humans thrive in positive relationships. Multiple studies have shown that a life of seclusion causes poor cardiovascular, immune and endocrine health at best and increases our risk of early death at worst (Gable & Gosnell, 2011). We need love, attachment, and bonding from the beginning. ...
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Actors often describe their vocation as a passion, a calling, or even a purpose. However, the very nature of a career as an actor is rife with rejection, a lack of agency, and income instability. Such strong identification with their vocation may threaten an actor’s self-concept in the face of so much adversity. Many actors become frustrated, sometimes to the point of giving up, because the gatekeepers (agents, casting directors, network executives, etc.) decide whether they get to exercise their passion or fulfill their purpose by actually working in their chosen profession. While the body of research on resilience is robust, there have been virtually no studies on the application of resilience training to this particular ‘at risk’ population. Based on the theory, research, and practice of positive psychology, this paper proposes a resilience model for actors incorporating 1) a resilience mindset and toolkit, 2) self-compassion, 3) community, and 4) using one’s talent in service to others. It is hypothesized that this combination will enhance resilience, build a strong community, bolster actors’ well-being, and provide a volitional pathway to exercise one’s passion and purpose without sacrificing vulnerability. is is the foundation of The Resilience Compass.
... Paper II documented how perceived importance of relations had the largest explaining power on the QoL domains-domains that all, on average, were scored lower by the clinical sample than the non-clinical sample. This finding is consistent with studies that have demonstrated links between relationships, health and wellbeing ( Gable & Gosnell, 2011 experiences are linked to identity development ( Arseth et al., 2009). One can therefore cautiously assume that if professionals can contribute to the patient increasing his or her perception of relations as an important aspect of life, this would cause a gain in well-being and contentedness and perhaps move the individual towards the more beneficial identity achieved or moratorium identity statuses. ...
... From the early 1970s with popular books like Open Marriage (O'Neill & O'Neill, 1972) to recent articles in peer-reviewed journals (Finkel, Hui, Carswell, & Larson, 2014), this misinterpretation unfortunately persists. Maslow would probably have also rejected the recent concept of the "Michelangelo phenomenon" (Gable & Gosnell, 2011;Rusbult, Finkel, & Kumashiro, 2009), at least in its extreme form, that marriages should be based on each spouse's effort to promote the other's growth. For one thing, Maslow viewed child rearing as an essential aspect of married life and as a mutual, and ideally synergic, activity between spouses. ...
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