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Joint Decision Making in the Contemporary Sexually Based Primary Relationship

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A fundamental premise of this chapter is that commitment to negotiation is as vital as any other kinds of commitments made by the dyadic pair. We will elaborate the validity of that proposition first, by describing the basic elements of dyadic decision making; second, by describing the basic elements of the contemporary sexually based primary relationship; third, by analyzing the ways decision making assumes a pivotal role (driving force) within that type of relationship.

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... However, in dyadic decision making, the less dominant member of the dyad may simply go along with an alternative proposed by the more dominant member to preserve the relationship (Poole & Billingsley, 1989). However, even when reporting agreement, the less dominant member may disagree subjectively and hold feelings that the decision was unfair or that his or her wishes were not satisfied by the decision (Scanzoni, 1989). Given this possibility, it is hypothesized that the less dominant dyad member (the mother) would expect a less positive outcome of the decision and have greater feelings of regret than the more dominant member (the adult child, especially the son). ...
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