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Couple Counseling and Therapy for the Unfulfilled Desire for a Child — The Two-Step Approach of the "Heidelberg Infertility Consultation Service"

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... Kada govorimo o kovoditeljskom paru, članovi mogu biti istog ili sličnog iskustva, psihoterapijske orijentacije, mogu podeliti uloge tako da je jedan dominantan, a drugi više u svojstvu posmatrača/ pomagača ili pak nastupati ravnopravno. Ono što je preporučljivo za svaku grupu parova, a posebno kada se radi o grupi parova koji se suočavaju sa neplodnošću, gde muškarci i žene imaju različite strategije suočavanja sa ovim problemom (Donarelli et al., 2012), jeste da voditeljski par čine muškarac i žena (Wischmann et al., 2002). Naravno, jasno je da ovo nije uvek izvodljivo, pogotovo imajući u vidu činjenicu da je među psiholozima puno više pripadnica ženskog pola. ...
... Razlog tome je osećaj ovih parova da nisu sposobni da izađu iz rolerkostera koji se pokreće i da njegova brzina zapravo daje osećaj izostanka kontrole, što je slučaj i sa suočavanjem sa neplodnošću. Ovaj osećaj kod parova dovodi do emocionalne krize, za koju je važno da bude prepoznata od strane savetnika -voditelja programa (Wischmann et al., 2002). Tema vezana za emocionalne reakcije koje su se javljale tokom suočavanja podeljena je na dva susreta, pri čemu se na prvom od njih, kako je navedeno, bavimo onima koje su se javljale po saznanju o neplodnosti, dok je tema narednog susreta definisana kroz emocije, misli i ponašanja koja su se javljala u kasnijim fazama tokom suočavanja. ...
... Tema vezana za emocionalne reakcije koje su se javljale tokom suočavanja podeljena je na dva susreta, pri čemu se na prvom od njih, kako je navedeno, bavimo onima koje su se javljale po saznanju o neplodnosti, dok je tema narednog susreta definisana kroz emocije, misli i ponašanja koja su se javljala u kasnijim fazama tokom suočavanja. Važno je naglasiti da, dok god postoji želja za detetom, postoji i ovaj osećaj, i da parovi mogu da smanje brzinu, ali da ne mogu u potpunosti da savladaju rolerkoster (Wischmann et al., 2002). Upravo ova činjenica, kao i rezultati istraživanja koji ukazuju na to da su ženama razgovor i podrška u ovom domenu najpotrebniji , bili su razlog za ovu podelu i detaljnije bavljenje emocijama, mislima i strategijama kroz dva susreta 3PS programa. ...
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Neplodnost predstavlja ozbiljan problem savremenog čoveka koji osim pojedinca i para, pogađa i društvo u celini. Može se reći da je neplodnost globalni bio-psiho-socijalni problem, sa trendom porasta. Ozbiljnost i učestalost ovog problema ilustruje činjenica da Svetska zdravstvena organizacija (World health organisation – WHO) rangira neplodnost kao peti najveći uzročnik invaliditeta među svetskom populacijom mlađom od šezdeset godina. Svi statistički pokazatelji učestalosti neplodnosti različitih organizacija (WHO, UCLA Health, CDC, United Nations Population Fund)1 su u najmanju ruku zabrinjavajući. Uzroci neplodnosti su brojni, od čega najveći procenat pripada medicinskim uzrocima. Međutim, porast stope neplodnosti u najvećoj meri se dovodi u vezu sa odlaganjem roditeljstva i zasnivanjem porodice u poznijim godinama. Većina izveštaja o prosečnoj starosti žena na području Evrope i Amerike u trenutku rađanja prvog deteta pokazuje trend porasta i iznosi oko dvadeset devet godina (EUROSTAT, National Center for Family & Marriage Research, The Human Fertility Database). Ova pojava se dovodi u vezu sa značajnim demografskim i društvenim promenama poslednjih godina dvadesetog veka, koje su značajno izmenile stil života muškaraca i žena. Obrazovanje postaje dostupnije ženama, one ulaze na tržište rada, postaju finansijski samostalne, angažuju se na radnim pozicijama koje su do početka ovog veka isključivo bile dodeljivane muškarcima. Veća kvalifikovanost i radna kompetentnost žena uz dostupnost kontracepcije vode ka odlaganju roditeljstva, a samim tim i do povećanja reproduktivne disfunkcije povezane sa starenjem kod muškaraca i žena.
... At least the social surroundings might be negatively affected. As Wischmann and coworkers point out [19], social pressure can lead to a defensive approach so that neither friends nor parents are informed of the wish for a child or about the medical infertility treatment the couple is undergoing. As described by Wischmann and Thorn [18], psychosomatic research postulated for decades that women suffer considerably more from infertility than their male partners. ...
... On the basic mood scale, the self-assessments of men and women are very close together, whereas the partner images are positioned toward the carefreeness pole of the scale for the men (as seen by the women) and toward the depressive pole for the women (as seen by the men). As Van den Broeck and colleagues [6] point out, it can be helpful to visualize this polarization pattern (or "role allocation") [19] in couples counseling to normalize its occurrence and to "allow" more flexibility in the allocation of roles. Otherwise the woman may want to talk about her pain and sadness, whereas her partner may feel helpless and withdrawn, resulting in polarization and isolation of both partners at a time where both partners need each other most in their infertility crisis. ...
... As Wischmann et al. point out [19], it is necessary to consider both unconscious areas of the wish for a child (e.g., fantasies and dreams) and the consciously expressed motives and expectations of the couples. After years of infertility treatment, ambivalent feelings linked to the wish for a child or the medical treatment may barely be perceived by the couple as a consequence of their coping attempts. ...
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The experience of infertility and its medical treatment is for most couples an emotional challenging life crisis. For a successful coping with this crisis, it is essential to use only effective coping strategies. These are mainly active-confronting and meaning-based coping strategies, whereas avoidance coping strategies usually increase the personal and marital stress of both partners. In this chapter some typical issues in the relationship between health care professional and the infertile couples will be described. One important didactical goal will be to increase the knowledge on favorable coping strategies in infertility and how to address these coping strategies adequately as an Ob/Gyn-professional.
... Infertility is clinically described as a disease of the reproductive system defined by the failure to achieve a clinical pregnancy after 12 months or more of regular unprotected sexual intercourse [1], affecting 9-15% of couples worldwide [2]. Research widely recognized that infertility is a distressing experience [3][4][5] that may significantly affect perceived levels of quality of life (QoL) [6][7][8][9][10][11] and psychological health [12][13][14][15], and implies attempts of re-definition by searching for causes and meanings to re-establish personal control and satisfactory (QoL) [16][17][18]. ...
... Nevertheless, according to previous research on couple counseling and therapy with infertile patients [17], the couple's biographical background may also have a significant impact on the perception and definition of the current infertility experience at individual, relational and social level. Indeed, previous research highlighted that the adaptation process to an aversive event consists of appraisals of both primary control (i.e., appraisal of possibilities to modify the situation to reduce its negative impact) and secondary control (i.e., appraisals of possibilities to modify the appraisal of circumstances to promote adaptation to them). ...
... Infertility is clinically described as a disease of the reproductive system defined by the failure to achieve a clinical pregnancy after 12 months or more of regular unprotected sexual intercourse [1], affecting 9-15% of couples worldwide [2]. Research widely recognized that infertility is a distressing experience [3][4][5] that may significantly affect perceived levels of quality of life (QoL) [6][7][8][9][10][11] and psychological health [12][13][14][15], and implies attempts of re-definition by searching for causes and meanings to re-establish personal control and satisfactory (QoL) [16][17][18]. ...
... Nevertheless, according to previous research on couple counseling and therapy with infertile patients [17], the couple's biographical background may also have a significant impact on the perception and definition of the current infertility experience at individual, relational and social level. Indeed, previous research highlighted that the adaptation process to an aversive event consists of appraisals of both primary control (i.e., appraisal of possibilities to modify the situation to reduce its negative impact) and secondary control (i.e., appraisals of possibilities to modify the appraisal of circumstances to promote adaptation to them). ...
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Background: Research highlighted that Stressful Life Events have high incidence among infertile patients and significant impact on physical and medical parameters related to reproductive functions, but their potential role among factors influencing the infertile patients' perception of fertility-related Quality of Life (QoL) has not been explored. The present study aims to investigate the associations of Stressful Life Events (Stressful events in the family of origin, In family pre-existing pregnancy difficulties, Health problems in childhood) with perceived fertility-related QoL in women attending infertility treatments, examining the potential moderating role of adopted coping strategies and perceived couple's dyadic adjustment. Methods: A questionnaire consisting of Socio-demographics and Infertility-related characteristics, Stress-inducing events in the couples' lives Questionnaire (FLS), Coping Orientations to Problem Experienced (COPE), Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS), and Core and Treatment subscales of Fertility Quality of Life (FertiQoL) was administered to 266 women attending infertility treatments. A descriptive correlational design with cross-sectional comparison was used. Results Logistic Regression Analyses after adjusting for socio-demographic and infertility-related characteristics revealed that women who reported Stressful events in the family of origin and In family pre-existing pregnancy difficulties were more likely to report lower levels of perceived Core QoL, while women who reported Health problems in childhood were more likely to report lower levels of perceived Treatment QoL. Couple's dyadic adjustment and specific coping strategies were significantly associated with perceived Core and Treatment QoL and they also significantly moderated the associations between stressful life events and perceived QoL. Conclusions: Data provided original evidence on the strong association between stressful life events and perceived fertility-related QoL also highlighting individual and couples' resources to define counselling interventions with women attending infertility treatments.
... Infertility affects both men and women psychologically and emotionally, although they may respond differently (9)(10)(11). These psychological impacts may have a long or short-term effect on life satisfaction but it is evident that the diagnosis of infertility, treatment process, and acceptance has shown to have a major cause of loss in QoL (12)(13)(14)(15)(16). ...
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Introduction: FertiQoL questionnaire was developed and validated in 2011. It has been widely used and translated into many languages to measure QoL among infertile individuals. The use of translated psychometric tools is often subjected to cross-cultural variations. The objective of this study is to assess the psychometric properties of the Malaysian FertiQoL. Methods: A study was conducted among attendees of a public infertility clinic. Demographic details were collected and respondents answered the Malaysian FertiQoL. The questionnaire consists of 34 items. Factor analysis and internal consistency were analysed using SPSS v24. Results: Data from 175 respondents were analysed. Mean age is 32.1 ±3.8 SD with 56.6% female and 43.4% male. KMO index were 0.826 and significant Bartlett's test for sphericity. For Treatment domain, factor loadings for items T2 and T5 were < 0.32 but for all other items were acceptable between 0.32-0.80 with no cross loadings and Cronbach alpha for environment (0.717) and tolerability (0.660). For Core items, Q4, Q6 and Q14 loaded onto different domains and Q19 had poor factor loading. All other items were acceptable. Cronbach alpha for specific domains were emotional (0.788) mind-body (0.829), relational (0.639) and social (0.666). Cronbach alpha for emotional, relational, social improved to 0.857, 0.643 and 0.732 if Q4, Q6 and Q14 were omitted respectively. Conclusion: The study identified six items that affected the psychometric validity of the questionnaire and maybe explained by language or cross-cultural reasons. However, the Malaysian FertiQoL can still be useful to measure QoL in those with infertility.
... The subject matter addressed in infertility counseling has been widely discussed (Boivin & Kentenich, 2002;Covington & Burns, 2006;Van den Broeck et al., 2010;Wischmann, Stammer, Gerhard, & Verres, 2002). The following is an outline of typical elements: ...
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... In neueren psychologischen Ansätzen wird der Kinderwunsch als Zusammenfassung verschiedener mehr oder weniger bewusster Motive zu Schwangerschaft, Geburt und Elternschaft gekennzeichnet, welche durch biologische und intrapsychische Voraussetzungen der Person sowie durch Sozialisation und gesellschaftliche Normen determiniert werden (Mittag & Jagenow, 1985;Gloger-Tippelt et al., 1993;Beutel, 2002;Stammer et al., 2002). Vielfach wird davon ausgegangen, dass diese Aspekte sowohl bejahenden als auch verneinenden Charakter haben und der Kinderwunsch damit ambivalent ausgeprägt ist. ...
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