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Inattentive and contented: Relationship commitment and attention to alternatives

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Commitment to a relationship is affected by the quality of one's alternatives to that partnership, but one must be aware of those alternatives in order for them to be influential. In a study of the links between attention to one's alternatives and relational outcomes, participants described their relationships, inspected slides of attractive opposite-sex targets, and, 2 months later, reported whether their relationships had ended. Satisfaction with, investment in, commitment to, and adjustment in a dating relationship were negatively correlated with reports of vigilance toward desirable alternatives to that relationship. In the lab, those who had earlier claimed to be attentive to alternatives really did spend more time inspecting pictures of attractive opposite-sex targets. Moreover, there was no better predictor of relationship failure than high attentiveness to alternatives. Inattentiveness may be a maintenance mechanism that helps to preserve and protect desirable relationships. Even if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, happy gardeners will be less likely to notice.

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... In contrast, this effect is diminished in coupled individuals, where other factors, such as potential kinship or friendship, may exert greater influence in facial judgments. Other studies have also found an effect of partnership status on perception of opposite-sex individuals, leading to the conclusion that coupled individuals seem to pay less attention to or derogate cues of sexual attractiveness in others compared to singles (Simpson et al., 1986; Miller, 1997; Maner et al., 2008; Lundström and Jones-Gotman, 2009; Karremans et al., 2011; Koranyi and Rothermund, 2012). As a result, coupled participants are likely to pay relatively more attention to cues of kinship or psychological similarity, of which facial self-resemblance might serve as a marker. ...
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... These novel findings are also consistent with extant research on exposure to attractive alternatives (e.g. Miller, 1997 ). Exposure to attractive alternatives is known to decrease commitment to relationships (Johnson & Rusbult, 1989 ) and attention to these alternatives can predict relationship dissolution (Miller, 1997). ...
... Miller, 1997 ). Exposure to attractive alternatives is known to decrease commitment to relationships (Johnson & Rusbult, 1989 ) and attention to these alternatives can predict relationship dissolution (Miller, 1997). Our new findings reveal the specific inputs activating relationship satisfaction mechanisms that undergird these attractive alternative effects. ...
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... One key behavior is paying attention to alternatives, or to those who could be a potential partner if the present relationship dissolved (Rusbult, 1983 ). A person in a committed relationship should devalue alternatives (Johnson & Rusbult, 1989) and should pay less attention to available alternatives (Miller, 1997). In the context of self-expansion, those who experience insuffi cient self-expansion should have greater motivation to seek out self-expansion opportunities and, consequently , should pay more attention to alternative partners. ...
... is supports the notion that those with less self-expanding relationships failed to devalue the alternative, and instead rated the alternative more favorably. In a follow-up study (VanderDrift et al., 2011, Study 2), undergraduates rated their current self-expansion and their attention to alternative partners (Miller, 1997). Participants also believed they had a chance to volunteer for a follow-up study that involved a " get to know you " activity with an opposite-sex partner who was currently single . ...
... Particularly diagnostic of a well-functioning relationship is how partners respond when self-interested impulses may not be compatible with the interest of the partner or the relationship. For example, a self-interested need may arise that is not compatible with the partner's needs (Van Lange et al., 1997), retaliatory impulses may arise during conflict or in the aftermath of conflict (Paleari, Regalia, & Fincham, 2005; Rusbult, Verette, Whitney, Slovik, & Lipkus, 1991), or a partner may be tempted by an attractive alternative (Miller, 1997; Simpson, Gangestad, & Lerma, 1990). Relationship satisfaction and stability for an important part hinges on partners' willingness and ability to transform such immediate self-interested impulses into a response that is based on broader concerns, such as the interest of the partner and the relationship—a process referred to as a transformation of motivation (Kelley & Thibaut, 1978; Rusbult & Van Lange, 2003). ...
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... These increases in investment level, in turn, strengthen commitment. As partners become increasingly committed through mutual investment, they engage in motivated cognitions and derogate relationship alternatives (e.g., other partners or singlehood) to promote quality and persistence (McNulty et al., 2018;Miller, 1997). ...
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... Men who are satisfied in their romantic relationships tend to show less attentional adhesion to attractive women (Miller 1997;Maner et al. 2008). By contrast, men who are less satisfied and men with a stronger short-term mating orientation demonstrate more attentional adhesion to attractive women (Maner et al. 2007). ...
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... Further, people who pay greater attention to alternative partners tend to be less committed to their existing partners (Miller, 1997), while low commitment is associated with greater risk of relationship dissolution (Drigotas & Rusbult, 1992). Thus, another reason that people may switch mates is because they identify a high-value alternative that seems worth the cost of a breakup. ...
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... Focusing on consonant cognitions and avoiding dissonant cognitions then aids in effective goal pursuit behavior (task performance). Another study revealed that for individuals in committed romantic relationships, attention to attractive alternative possible romantic partners predicts failure of the romantic relationship (Miller, 1997). In dissonance theory terms, attention to dissonant cognitions (the attractive alternative partner) predicts the less effective behavior of maintaining the original committed romantic relationship. ...
... In dissonance theory terms, these committed individuals were more likely to focus on consonant cognitions (committed goal) and ignore dissonant cognitions (alternative goal), and these cognitive processes were associated with more effective behavior (task performance). In addition, within committed romantic relationships, attention to attractive alternatives predicts relationship failure [21]. In this example, attention to dissonant cognitions (the attractive alternative) predicts less effective behavior with regard to the romantic relationship. ...
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... Men may also possess automatic attentional biases that serve to direct attention away from attractive others, especially those of higher mate value (Maner, Gailliot, & Miller, 2009), which, coupled with biases that devalue the attractiveness of those alternatives, help to minimize the likelihood of infidelity (McNulty, Meltzer, Makhanova, & Maner, 2018). In support of this, researchers have shown that those who reported attending more to sexual alternatives and who visually did so in a laboratory task were less satisfied in their current relationships and were more likely to have dissolved the relationship at twomonth follow-up (Miller, 1997). Disengaging attention from alternatives appears to be motivated by the desire to maintain the existing relationship (Maner, Rouby, & Gonzaga, 2008). ...
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