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The present study sought to extend recent work by examining individual and relationship variables that predict the love-is-blind bias, that is, a tendency to perceive one's romantic partner as more attractive than oneself. A sample of 113 men and 143 women completed a battery of tests that included various demographic, individual difference, and relationship-related measures. Results provided support for a love-is-blind bias, in that both women and men rated their romantic partners as significantly more attractive than themselves on overall attractiveness and the attractiveness of various body components. Results also showed that the Big Five personality factor of Extraversion, self-esteem, relationship satisfaction, and romantic love were positively correlated with the love-is-blind bias, whereas relationship length and playful love were negatively correlated with the bias. The results of this study are considered in relation to previous work on positive partner illusions.
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Evaluating the Physical
Attractiveness of Oneself
and One’s Romantic Partner
Individual and Relationship Correlates
of the Love-Is-Blind Bias
Viren Swami1, Stefan Stieger2, Tanja Haubner3,
Martin Voracek3, and Adrian Furnham4
1Department of Psychology, University of Westminster, 2Core Unit for Medical Education, Medical
University of Vienna, Austria, 3Department of Basic Psychological Research, School of Psychology,
University of Vienna, Austria, 4Department of Psychology, University College London
Abstract. The present study sought to extend recent work by examining individual and relationship variables that predict the love-is-
blind bias, that is, a tendency to perceive one’s romantic partner as more attractive than oneself. A sample of 113 men and 143 women
completed a battery of tests that included various demographic, individual difference, and relationship-related measures. Results pro-
vided support for a love-is-blind bias, in that both women and men rated their romantic partners as significantly more attractive than
themselves on overall attractiveness and the attractiveness of various body components. Results also showed that the Big Five person-
ality factor of Extraversion, self-esteem, relationship satisfaction, and romantic love were positively correlated with the love-is-blind
bias, whereas relationship length and playful love were negatively correlated with the bias. The results of this study are considered in
relation to previous work on positive partner illusions.
Keywords: love-is-blind bias, positive illusions, self-rated attractiveness, physical attractiveness, partner perceptions
In the past several decades, psychologists have shown
that our everyday experiences of social interactions are
based, at least in part, on perceptions and cognitions that
deviate from reality (e.g., Alicke, 1985; Lipkus, Martz,
Panter, Drigotas, & Feaganes, 1993; Showers, 1992).
One such deviation is positive illusions – misconceptions
or misunderstandings (rather than “errors” in the strict
sense) that are self-enhancing in some way (Taylor &
Brown, 1988). Positive illusions may be protective for
the individual that possesses them because they act as
self-esteem buffers in the face of threats posed by nega-
tive information (see Taylor, Lerner, Sherman, Sage, &
McDowell, 2003). In the present paper, we examine one
specific type of positive illusion, namely the “love-is-
blind bias” in perceived physical attractiveness of a ro-
mantic partner, which refers to a tendency to view one’s
romantic partner as being more physically attractive than
oneself (Swami, Furnham, Georgiades, & Pang, 2007).
More specifically, we investigated whether there are any
individual and relationship correlates of the love-is-blind
bias.
Positive Illusions in Romantic Relationships
Although some research exists to show that individuals typ-
ically self-enhance in relation to others, positive illusions
may also serve to differentiate intimates from other persons
(Brown, 1986; Taylor, & Koivumaki, 1976). Thus, a num-
ber of studies have reported that individuals tend to evalu-
ate themselves more positively than they evaluate their in-
timates, and their intimates more positively than strangers
or the average person (Campbell, 1986; Hall & Taylor,
1976; Vallone, Griffin, Lin, & Ross, 1990; van Lange,
1991). In short, self-enhancement is less pronounced in
close relationships than in more distant relationships (Ken-
ny, 1994), possibly as a means of reducing partner deroga-
tion and associated negative effects on the self and the re-
lationship.
However, romantic relationships are extremely complex,
as they involve a range of perceptions of the self and partner,
as well as comparisons with others (e.g., Rusbult & Buunk,
1993; Rusbult, van Lange, Wildschut, Yovetich, & Verette,
2000; van Lange, Rusbult, Semin-Goossens, Gœrts, & Stal-
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pers, 1999). In general, individuals tend to hold a greater
number of positive beliefs and fewer negative beliefs about
their own relationships in comparison with others’ relation-
ships (Buunk & van Yperen, 1991; van Lange & Rusbult,
1995). For instance, surveys have reported that up to 80% of
spouses describe their marriages in very positive terms (Lee,
Seccombe, & Sheehan, 1991), while underestimating their
chances of divorce in comparison with other couples (Fow-
ers, Lyons, Montel, & Shaked, 2001).
The study of cognitive biases may be particularly informa-
tive in romantic relationships, as they are often based on pos-
itive illusions that help foster better relationships (Martz et
al., 1998; Murray & Holmes, 1997) and enhance the per-
ceived image of the other person in the relationship (Byrne,
1971; Murstein, 1972). For instance, one study showed that
individuals in dating and married relationships projected im-
ages of what they considered to be their ideal partner onto
their current partners, thus, imbuing them with all kinds of
idealized qualities (McNulty, O’Mara, & Karney, 2008; Mur-
ray, Holmes, & Griffin, 1996a). Even when confronted with
their partners’ faults, such as an attraction to someone else
(Simpson, Ickes, & Blackstone, 1995), individuals tend to
deny the importanceof those faults (Murray & Holmes, 1993,
1994). Such positive illusions may serve to enhance an indi-
vidual’s sense of security in the relationship and stabilize the
long-term pair bond (Murray, 1999). Indeed, previous work
has shown that positive illusions about a partnerare associat-
ed with greater relationship satisfaction and less conflict in
dating and marital relationships (Murray & Holmes, 1997).
Moreover, positive illusions concerning nonphysical partner
traits appear to have a positive effect on relationship satisfac-
tion both in the short- (Miller, Niehuis, & Huston, 2006) and
long-term (Murray & Holmes, 1997; see also Murray et al.,
1996a; Murray, Holmes, & Griffin, 1996b).
One particular form of positive partner illusions is what
has been termed the “love-is-blind bias” (see Swami & Furn-
ham, 2008a)in perceived partner physical attractiveness. Per-
haps because of the infancy of research in this area, the love-
is-blind bias has been operationalized in different ways (Ba-
relds-Dijkstra & Barelds, 2008; Swami et al., 2007), but in
general it refers to a tendency to perceive ones partner as
being more attractive than objective reality. This focus on
perceptions of physical attractiveness within romantic rela-
tionships is not misplaced: Physical attractiveness plays an
influential role both in the formation and maintenance of ro-
mantic relationships (see Swami & Furnham, 2008b). In
terms of the latter, for instance, studies have shown that per-
ceptions’ of partner physical attractiveness are associated
with relationship indicators such as commitment, intimacy,
satisfaction, and passion (Yela & Sangrador, 2001; see also
McNulty, Neff, & Karney, 2008).
The Present Study
In the present study, we sought to examine the love-is-blind
bias in ratings of partner physical attractiveness in compar-
ison with ratings of the self. This work stems from a study
by Swami et al. (2007), who asked participants to provide
ratings of overall physical attractiveness and the attractive-
ness of various body parts for themselves and their oppo-
site-sex romantic partners (Swami et al., 2007). Their re-
sults showed that both women and men rated their partners
as being significantly more attractive than themselves, a
finding that appears to be rather robust (Byrne, 1971; Mur-
stein, 1972) and generalizable (see Barelds-Dijkstra & Ba-
relds, 2008, who measured the love-is-blind bias as the dif-
ference between perceptions of one’s partner and the part-
ner’s self-ratings).
That the love-is-blind bias is held by both women and
men is important, as it suggests that the existence of cog-
nitive bias that is general to both sexes. As such, the defin-
ing characteristics of the love-is-blind bias may have little
to do with demographic factors such as sex, and more to
do with relationship variables such as satisfaction and love
(Swami et al., 2007). Moreover, both women and men
should be expected to hold the love-is-blind bias if it serves
some beneficial function. Indeed, recent work has suggest-
ed that the love-is-blind bias may buffer individuals against
negative appraisals while enhancing self-beliefs (Barelds-
Dijkstra & Barelds, 2008; Swami & Furnham, 2008a; Swa-
mi et al., 2007). That is, positive illusions about partner
physical attractiveness may initially serve to focus one’s
perceptions of a new partner on their positive qualities, thus
helping individuals navigate early romance (Swami &
Furnham, 2008a). In the long term, the love-is-blind bias
may serve to enhance commitment to the relationship,
which in turn results in improved relationship satisfaction
and self-esteem (see Taylor & Brown, 1988).
To date, however, research has not examined the indi-
vidual and relationship variables that might predict the
love-is-blind bias. Because self- and other evaluations are
grounded within specific socioindividual contexts (Kwan,
John, Kenny, Bond, & Robins, 2004), it is possible that
individual difference variables influence the direction or
strength of the love-is-blind bias. The present study, there-
fore, set out to replicate previous work documenting a love-
is-blind bias (operationalized as the difference between
partner perceptions and self-perceptions of physical attrac-
tiveness; see Gagné & Lydon, 2004), before examining var-
ious individual and relationship correlates of the bias. In
terms of individual difference variables, we examined the
relationship of the love-is-blind bias with an individual’s
Big Five personality factors (see Goldberg, 1993).
The Big Five framework is a hierarchical model of per-
sonality with five bipolar traits or factors (Agreeableness,
Conscientiousness, Neuroticism, Openness, and Extraver-
sion) representing personality at a broad level of abstrac-
tion (McCrae & Costa, 1997), and has recently been shown
to influence perceptions of the physical attractiveness of
potential partners (e.g., Swami, Furnham, Balakumar et al.,
2008, Swami, Furnham, Chamorro-Premuzic et al., 2008).
However, no previous work has assessed the Big Five
framework in relation to the love-is-blind bias, which the
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present study sought to rectify. Although this part of the
study was largely exploratory, possible hypotheses include
the suggestion that the love-is-blind bias will be positively
associated with Agreeableness (as agreeable individuals
are especially concerned with social harmony) or Extraver-
sion (extraverts may be more likely to form positive illu-
sions because of their higher engagement with the external
world).
In addition to the Big Five, we also measured an indi-
vidual’s self-esteem, which provides a relative and reliable
measure of perceived self-worth. It seems likely that self-
esteem should be positively correlated with the love-is-
blind bias, either because higher self-esteem leads to more
positive behavioral styles within romantic relationships, or
because positive illusions of partner physical attractiveness
serves to increase one’s own self-esteem. Finally, in terms
of individual difference correlates, we also examined the
association of the love-is-blind bias with participants’ so-
ciosexual orientation, which measures an individual’s pro-
pensity to engage in low-investment, transient sexual rela-
tionships. We expected that participants with a restricted
sociosexual orientation (that is, requiring high emotional
investment and prolonged courtship before engaging in
sexual relationships) would be more likely to hold positive
partner illusions than participants with an unrestricted so-
ciosexual orientation (that is, a willingness to engage in
sexual relations in the absence of commitment).
In terms of relationship variables, we examined the as-
sociation of the love-is-blind bias with relationship satis-
faction, love styles, and relationship length. Specifically,
we expected that the love-is-blind bias should be positively
associated with relationship satisfaction, either because
higher satisfaction may leads individuals to imbue their
partners with more positive qualities, or because more pos-
itive illusions increases the stability of relationships and,
hence, the satisfaction derived from those relationships. In
terms of love styles, we expected that the love-is-blind bias
would increase with positive love-styles (that is, romantic
love and friendship-based love), but decrease with negative
love styles (that is, ludic love). Finally, we predicted that
the love-is-blind bias would decrease with greater length
of the relationship, because individuals come to develop a
more accurate image of their partners. An alternative pos-
sibility is that the strength of the love-is-blind bias decreas-
es with relationship length because partners become less
attractive with age, and to test this possibility we also ex-
amined the bias in relation to partner age.
Method
Participants
The initial sample consisted of 266 individuals of, for the
most part, heterosexual orientation. Because of the very
small number of participants who reported being gay (n=
5) or unsure of their sexual orientation (n= 5), data from
these participants were not analyzed in the present study.
The final (exclusively heterosexual) sample, therefore,
consisted of 113 men and 143 women, with a mean age of
34.13 years (SD = 12.65). Data collection took place in Vi-
enna and its surrounding area (Eastern Austria), and repre-
sents a mixed community sample of volunteers from vari-
ous occupational and living backgrounds. Only participants
who were involved in a romantic relationship at the time
of the experiment were invited to take part in the study. The
majority of participants were Christians (85.9%) or of no
religious affiliation (10.2%). In terms of the civil status of
participants’ relationships, 50.0% were in a dating relation-
ship, 42.6% were married, and the remainder (7.4%) were
engaged to be married. In terms of highest educational
qualification, 22.4% had been educated to primary level,
33.5% to secondary level, 22.0% to an apprenticeship level,
6.2% to university level, and 15.9% to some other level.
Measures
All participants completed a six-page questionnaire, which
comprised a battery of scales presented in the following
order:
Relationship demographics. Participants were asked a
number of questions about the nature of their relation-
ships, including its sexual orientation and civil status.
Participants were also asked to state, in months, how
long they had been dating their current partner, and
where applicable, how long they had been married or
engaged (the two figures were computed as a single vari-
able relating to length of the relationship).
Relationship satisfaction. This was a novel nine-item
scale designed to assess multiple aspects of relationship
satisfaction. Participants rated, on 7-point scales, items
referring to overall satisfaction with the relationship, re-
lationship quality, self-partner similarity, consideration
of ending the relationship, and frequency of conflict. A
principal components analysis using Varimax (orthogo-
nal) rotation revealed a single factor onto which all items
loaded (eigenvalue = 5.12, 56.9% of the variance ex-
plained). All items had factor loadings higher than .55.
A single factor score for relationship satisfaction was,
therefore, computed by taking the average of responses
across the nine items ([Cronbach’s?]α= .89).
Revised Lovestyle Perceptions Survey (Grote & Frieze,
1994). Participants completed three scales designed to
measure (1) romantic love with deep intensity and inti-
macy (Eros-R, four items), (2) game-playing love with
little intensity or intimacy (Ludus-R, six items), and (3)
friendship-based love defined as an affectionate and
trusting love for a likable partner (FBL, nine items). All
items were rated on a 7-point scale, with lower scores
indicating greater disagreement with the item. Scores
were calculated by taking the average of responses asso-
ciated with each subscale, as delineated by Grote &
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Frieze (1994). [Cronbach’s?]αcoefficients for each
scale were .69 for Eros-R, .60 for Ludus-R, and .89 for
FBL, which are similar to previous reported coefficients
(Grote & Frieze, 1994).
Abbreviated, 15-item Big Five Questionnaire (Furnham,
McManus, & Scott, 2003; McManus, Stubbings, & Mar-
tin, 2006). This is a brief scale for assessing the Big Five
personality traits, suitable for looking at population-level
correlations. Ratings were made on a 5-point scale (1 =
Strongly disagree,5=Strongly agree). The five person-
ality traits were arrived at by summing certain items, and
[Cronbach’s?]αcoefficients were as follows: Openness
(.61), Conscientiousness (.59), Extraversion (.56),
Agreeableness (.51), and Neuroticism (.55). These coef-
ficients are similar to what has been reported in earlier
studies (Furnham et al., 2003; McManus et al., 2006).
Estimating Physical Attractiveness Scale (EPA; Swami
et al., 2007). The EPA shows a normal distribution of
attractiveness ratings and titles against each score (M=
100, SD = 15). Thus, 55 was labeled Very unattractive,
70 Unattractive,85Low average, 100 Average,115High
average, 130 Attractive, 145 Very attractive. As a guide
against which to make their ratings, participants were
informed that there are some very attractive individuals,
but that most people are of average attractiveness (de-
picted as the normal or bell-shaped distribution of attrac-
tiveness ratings). When making their ratings, partici-
pants were informed that the labels acted as a guide and
that they could choose any number that they felt was
most appropriate. Based on the normal distribution fig-
ure, participants were asked to provide ratings for overall
physical attractiveness, overall facial attractiveness,
overall body weight or size, overall body shape or figure,
and overall height. This was followed by ratings for var-
ious individual attributes of human morphology (e.g.,
eyes, stomach, nose; see Table 1 for a full list of items
used in this study). Participants were requested to pro-
vide ratings for themselves and for their romantic part-
ners.
Revised Sociosexual Orientation Inventory (SOI-R; Pen-
ke & Asendorpf, in press). This is a nine-item question-
naire that assesses an individual’s propensity to engage
in low-investment, transient sexual relations. The origi-
nal SOI (Simpson & Gangestad, 1991) has been criti-
cized for being psychometrically problematic (Asen-
dorpf & Penke, 2005; Voracek, 2005) and we, therefore,
used a more recent revision of the SOI, which overcomes
some of the earlier problems (Penke & Asendorpf, in
press). Responses on all items were scored on 5-point
scales and were aggregated to form a composite SOI-R
score, ranging from 9 to 45. Those scoring low on the
inventory possess a restricted sociosexual orientation
(requiring high emotional investment and prolonged
courtship before engaging in sexual relations), while
those scoring high on the inventory possess an unrestrict-
ed sociosexual orientation (willing to engage in sexual
relations in the absence of commitment).
Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale (RSE; Rosenberg, 1965;
German translation: Von Collani & Herzberg, 2003). The
RSE is a brief, 10-item scale measuring self-worth, rated
on a 4-point scale (1 = Strongly disagree,4=Strongly
agree). Five items were reverse-coded prior to analysis,
and an overall RSE score was computed by taking the
average of responses to all items. The scale showed good
internal consistency ([Cronbach’s?]α= .74).
Demographics. Participants provided their demographic
details, including age, sex, ethnicity, and highest educa-
tional qualification.
Procedure
All participants were recruited opportunistically through a
snowball-sampling technique. A number of data collectors,
who were project collaborators, directly recruited partici-
pants through their personal contacts (that is, friends and,
relatives). Each paper-and-pencil questionnaire was placed
in a sealed envelope and inserted into a box which was then
shaken. Participants were informed that the data would be
prepared and analyzed by a different person in order to
maintain the highest possible anonymity. Unless otherwise
stated above, three researchers (TH, SS, MV) developed
German versions of the scales from their originals in Eng-
lish, using the parallel blind technique (Behling & Law,
2000). All participants provided informed consent and
were debriefed following the experiment.
Results
Descriptive Statistics
Ms and SDs for each item in the EPA are shown in Table
1, whereas those for all other scales are reported in Table
2. As can be seen from the latter, men scored significantly
higher than women on Ludus-R, Openness, and SOI-R. To
examine sex differences in ratings on the EPA, we comput-
ed a multivariate analysis of covariance (MANCOVA),
with participant sex as the classification factor, and with
Ludus-R, Openness, and SOI-R partialled out. Four sepa-
rate MANCOVAs were calculated: (1) self-ratings for
“overall” items (e.g., overall physical attractiveness, over-
all height) on the EPA, (2) self-ratings for low-level items
(e.g., eyes, nose), (3) partner ratings for overall items, and
(4) partner ratings for low-level items.
The results of the first MANCOVA showed no signifi-
cant sex difference, F(5, 247) = 1.43, p>.05. The second
MANCOVA returned a significant sex difference,
F(15, 237) = 1.99, p< .05, ηp2= .11; with the analyses of
covariance (ANCOVAs) showing that women rated them-
selves higher on eyes, F(1, 251) = 4.57, p< .05, ηp2= .02;
teeth, F(1, 251) = 5.24, p< .05, ηp2= .02; buttocks,
F(1, 251) = 6.73, p< .05, ηp2= .03; and legs, F(1, 251) =
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Table 1. Means and standard deviations for all variables in the Estimating Physical Attractiveness (EPA) Scale, and results
of self-partner comparisons (last column)
Item Self-ratings Partner-ratings ta
Women Men Women Men
M SD M SD M SD M SD
Overall physical attractiveness 103.05 13.47 105.90 16.78 111.37 15.93 114.38 15.46 –8.27
Overall facial attractiveness 105.44 14.11 105.97 16.70 112.10 15.75 115.32 16.88 –8.14
Overall body weight or size 97.50 21.30 100.34 20.24 107.82 17.17 107.57 18.02 –5.78
Overall body shape or figure 97.18 21.33 101.40 21.31 109.55 17.96 110.33 18.36 –7.06
Overall height 104.08 18.66 108.38 18.51 113.29 19.56 108.50 17.49 –4.23
Breasts/chest 102.33 18.09 100.27 13.96 107.71 16.00 112.83 17.28 –6.22
Eyes 113.25 17.15 109.35 16.52 116.40 17.90 116.46 16.41 –4.32
Mouth and lips 108.76 15.87 106.68 15.49 112.19 17.28 115.22 15.96 –5.60
Cheeks 102.99 13.21 102.05 15.60 106.47 15.15 110.65 15.37 –6.87
Voice 104.20 15.71 103.13 16.63 111.44 17.05 107.64 16.99 –5.13
Nose 101.13 17.58 99.36 15.21 105.99 18.11 109.67 17.56 –5.68
Teeth 100.87 18.68 97.42 14.36 103.16 19.42 108.59 17.45 –4.29
Waist 98.31 18.36 100.06 18.24 105.70 17.10 106.92 18.86 –5.73
Hips 96.24 18.09 99.45 15.91 106.78 16.08 106.15 16.88 –6.99
Stomach 92.73 18.44 94.96 20.00 103.22 19.40 104.95 17.71 –7.68
Hands 102.80 19.65 103.18 16.76 111.74 18.82 110.26 17.22 –6.70
Buttocks 97.62 20.52 105.29 19.65 115.97 16.92 111.94 19.20 –9.46
Legs 95.35 21.16 102.22 16.76 109.45 17.72 106.28 16.23 –6.78
Feet 99.02 16.84 101.65 14.20 104.17 17.46 105.55 14.38 –4.00
Skin 103.76 18.10 102.31 17.28 106.40 17.62 110.39 18.18 –4.01
Note. adf = 255, all results significant at the p< .001 level.
Table 2. Means, standard deviations and Fratios for sex differences on all scales used in the present study with the exception
of the Estimating Physical Attractiveness (EPA) Scale
Scale Overall Women Men Fa
M SD M SD M SD
Relationship length (months) 144.70 179.69 135.87 186.36 151.67 174.34 0.49
Relationship satisfaction 5.38 0.91 5.35 0.98 5.43 0.83 0.46
Eros-R 5.84 0.93 5.80 0.94 5.90 0.94 0.81
Ludus-R 2.46 1.03 2.32 0.97 2.64 1.07 6.21*
FBL 6.03 0.94 6.01 0.93 6.05 0.96 0.07
Conscientiousness 9.72 1.51 9.81 1.44 9.61 1.60 1.11
Extraversion 10.30 2.01 10.31 2.00 10.28 2.04 0.01
Neuroticism 8.42 2.28 8.59 2.34 8.20 2.19 1.80
Agreeableness 10.43 1.25 10.43 1.19 10.56 1.32 2.26
Openness 8.95 1.71 8.74 1.39 9.22 2.02 5.05*
SOI-R 21.93 3.56 21.10 3.15 22.96 3.78 18.45**
RSE 26.59 1.65 26.56 1.69 26.64 1.60 0.14
Note. *p< .05, **p< .001, adf = 1.255. Abbreviations: FBL = Friendship-Based Love; SOI-R = Revised Sociosexual Orientation Inventory;
RSE = Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale.
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5.24, p< .05, ηp2= .02. The third MANCOVA, for partner
ratings on overall items, showed a significant sex differ-
ence, F(5, 247) = 2.82, p< .05, ηp2= .02; and an inspection
of the ANCOVA results showed that women rated their
partners significantly higher than did men on overall
height, F(1, 251) = 4.04, p< .05, ηp2= .02. The final
MANCOVA also showed a significant sex difference,
F(15, 237) = 3.44, p< .001, ηp2= .18. The ANCOVA re-
sults showed that men rated their partners higher than did
women on breasts/chest, F(1, 251) = 7.00, p< .05, ηp2=
.03; cheeks, F(1, 251) = 5.04, p< .05, ηp2= .02; teeth,
F(1, 251) = 6.00, p< .05, ηp2= .02; and skin, F(1, 251) =
4.84, p< .05, ηp2= .02.
Self-Partner Differences in Ratings
To examine whether the present data provide evidence for
the love-is-blind bias, we computed a series of paired t-tests
for all variables on the EPA. The results of this analysis are
presented in the final column of Table 1. As can be seen,
participants rated their partners as significantly more at-
tractive than themselves on all variables of the EPA, which
provides very strong support for the love-is-blind bias.
Individual and Relationship Correlates
To examine the relationship between the love-is-blind bias
with our measured variables, we first computed the former
as the difference between ratings of partner overall attrac-
tiveness and self overall attractiveness. These difference
scores were then correlated with the various individual (Big
Five personality factors and self-esteem) and relationship
(love styles, relationship length, and relationship satisfac-
tion) measures. The results of this analysis are reported in
Table 3, and it can be seen that the love-is-blind bias was
significantly positively correlated with Extraversion, self-
esteem, relationship satisfaction, and Eros-R; and negative-
ly correlated with relationship length and Ludic-R.
To examine whether any of the variables statistically
predicted the love-is-blind bias, we conducted a hierarchi-
cal multiple regression with the love-is-blind difference
scores as the dependent variable and predictor variables
entered in two steps, namely individual difference variables
(Big Five personality factors, self-esteem, and sociosexual
orientation) and relationship variables (relationship length,
relationship satisfaction, love styles, partner age). Results
showed that the first step of the regression was not signif-
icant, F(7, 248) = 1.90, p>.05. In contrast, the second step
of the regression returned a significant result, F(13, 242) =
2.72, p< .001, Adj. R2= .08, with Ludus-R (β= –.19, t=
–2.65, p< .05), self-esteem (β= .15, t= 2.42, p< .05), and
Extraversion (β= .14, t= 2.11, p< .05) emerging as sig-
nificant predictors of the love-is-blind bias.
Discussion
The results of this study support previous work suggesting
that there exists a positive illusion in perceptions of partner
physical attractiveness. Specifically, individuals appear to
perceive their romantic partners as being significantly more
attractive than themselves on a range of bodily compo-
nents. Moreover, there appear to be few sex differences in
this pattern, with both women and men just as likely to hold
the love-is-blind bias. The results of the present study also
showed that the love-is-blind bias was significantly associ-
ated with love styles (negatively with playful love and pos-
itively with romantic love), Extraversion, self-esteem, re-
Table 3. Correlations between the love-is-blind bias and individual difference and relationship variables
2345678910 11 12 13 14
1. Love-is-blind bias .93 .15* –.04 –.01 .08 .15* –.01 –.14* .20** .17** –.20** .08 .12
2. Conscientiousness .19** .12 .14* .17** –.07 –.01 .06 –.06 .01 .09 –.03 .09
3. Extraversion –.04 .12 .18** .08 .20** –.19** .10 .12 .19** .07 –.20**
4. Neuroticism .06 .10 –.15* –.08 .05 –.21** –.11 .05 –.08 .07
5. Agreeableness .10 –.12 .07 .08 –.03 .04 .04 .08 .08
6. Openness –.04 .12 .05 –.05 –.06 .20** –.04 .05
7. Self-esteem –.02 –.08 .10 –.01 –.13* .03 –.10
8. Sociosexual orientation –.20** –.06 –.08 .29** –.08 –.17**
9. Relationship length –.22** –.04 –.07 –.01 .72**
10. Relationship satisfaction .70** –.30** .74** –.25**
11. Eros-R –.33** .76** –.24**
12. Ludus-R –.36** –.02
13. Friendship-Based Love –.06
14. Partner’s age
Note. *p< .05, **p< .001.
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lationship satisfaction, and relationship length. These re-
sults are considered in greater detail below.
First, to the extent that participants in the present study
rated their partners as more physically attractive than them-
selves, our results corroborate previous work in support of
the love-is-blind bias (Barelds-Dijkstra & Barelds, 2008;
Swami et al., 2007). It is, therefore, possible to conclude
that the love-is-blind bias is one instance in which partner
perceptions “trump” self-perceptions. This runs counter to
the relatively well-established finding that individuals of-
ten self-enhance in relation to others (e.g., on positive qual-
ities such as trustworthiness), including their intimate part-
ners (Brown, 1986; Taylor & Koivumaki, 1976). It would
appear that, where perceptions of physical attractiveness
are concerned, self-enhancement is less pronounced in re-
lation to intimate partners.
Swami and associates (Swami & Furnham, 2008a; Swa-
mi et al., 2007) have suggested a number of possibilities
that may explain the love-is-blind bias. First, it is possible
that partners in the present study really were better-looking
than the participants themselves. One way of testing this
hypothesis would be to include ratings of participants by a
nonaffiliated control group (e.g., using photographs of par-
ticipants). However, it seems unlikely that this will provide
a complete answer, as it is seems improbable that all part-
ners are more attractive than the self. Rather, the fact that
positive partner illusions are robust and widespread sug-
gests that these really are examples of partner idealism (van
Lange & Rusbult, 1995).
A more likely explanation is that the love-is-blind bias
is a normal part of maintaining relationship satisfaction and
commitment to the relationship (see Rusbult et al., 2000).
For instance, positive partner illusions may serve to buffer
self-esteem and create better relationships (see Taylor &
Brown, 1988), particularly during the initial stages of a ro-
mance. Initial attraction to a potential partner may involve
composite images of idealized romance, but it nevertheless
remains the case that positive illusions may enhance per-
ceptions of the relationship, and in turn enhance self-per-
ceptions (Brehm, Miller, Perlman, & Campbell, 2002;
Flannagan, Marsh, & Fuhrman, 2005). In the long term,
such positive illusions may have a beneficial effect on the
relationship (e.g., prolonging feelings of love) as well as
on individual health and well-being.
In the present study, we also found that the love-is-blind
bias was significantly associated with a number of individ-
ual and relationship variables. In terms of individual differ-
ence variables, the bias was positively correlated with the
Big Five personality factor of Extraversion, which may be
related to the fact that extraverts are oriented toward ob-
taining external gratification, particularly from human in-
teractions. That is, more extraverted individuals may be
more likely to hold positive illusions because such doing
so may promote social interactions, particularly within ro-
mantic relationships. Our results also showed that self-es-
teem was correlated with the love-is-blind bias, and as sug-
gested above, this could either be because higher self-es-
teem results in more positive behavioral styles in relation
to the partner or because holding positive illusions serves
to enhance one’s own self-worth (that is, believing that the
partner is more attractive than the self may serve to improve
self-perceptions; Swami et al., 2007).
Our results also showed that positive illusions in partner
physical attractiveness were stronger when individuals
were high in romantic love (that is, intimate, intense, and
affectionate love for one’s partner) and low in playful love
(game-playing love with little intensity or intimacy). Being
intimately in love with someone may be a particularly
strong buffer against negative partner perceptions, either
because it serves to imbue the partner with various positive
qualities that do not exist in reality (see McNulty et al.,
2008[McNulty, Neff et al., or McNulty, O’Mara et al.?];
Murray et al., 1996a,1996b), or because it ensures that the
individual turns a blind eye toward existing weaknesses
(see Murray & Holmes, 1993, 1994; Simpson et al., 1995).
Our results also corroborated previous work showing that
positive illusions of a partner are associated with greater
relationship satisfaction (e.g., Miller et al., 2006; Murray
& Holmes, 1997; Murray et al., 1996a,b).
Finally, length of the relationship was negatively corre-
lated the love-is-blind bias, suggesting that, as the relation-
ship progresses and an individual gets to know her or his
partner better (or possibly with decreasing satisfaction de-
rived from the relationship), the love-is-blind bias may de-
crease in strength. Moreover, we were able to rule out the
possibility that this effect was the result of an objective
decrease in the partner’s physical attractiveness with age,
as our results showed that partner age was not significantly
correlated with the love-is-blind bias. These results suggest
that reality may be damaging for an individual’s confi-
dence, and in turn, for the relationship itself (Murray &
Holmes, 1997), suggesting that the love-is-blind illusion
may be strongest during the initial part of a relationship.
In terms of limitations, the exploratory nature of this
study should be acknowledged. Although our results sup-
ported a number of our predictions, there are a wide range
of other individual difference variables that may predict
ratings of self- and partner physical attractiveness, such as
inaccurate worldviews, illusions of control, optimism, and
subjective happiness or contentment. In addition, the rela-
tively low [Cronbach’s?]αcoefficients for some scales
could have caused the lack of significance for some vari-
ables. Future work would do well, therefore, to include a
wider range of scales that demonstrate better validity and
reliability. Future work may also wish to examine the love-
is-blind bias in different cultural contexts, particularly be-
tween collectivist and individualist cultures (see Heine &
Hamamura, 2007), or among nonheterosexual samples.
The latter is important because our reliance on a heterosex-
ual sample means that we cannot rule out the possibility
that the love-is-blind bias in the present instance was
caused by participants finding members of the opposite sex
more attractive than members of their own sex. Future stud-
ies could begin the task of overcoming this concern by ex-
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amining the love-is-blind bias among gay and lesbian par-
ticipants, or by altering the EPA to assess broader percep-
tions of attractiveness rather than simply assessing partner
perceptions.
In conclusion, the present study adds to recent work doc-
umenting a love-is-blind bias in perceptions of romantic
partner physical attractiveness. Both women and men ap-
pear to believe that their significant others are more phys-
ically attractive than themselves, which may have benefi-
cial effects both on the relationship and on the self. More-
over, there appear to be a number of individual and
relationship correlates of the love-is-blind bias, notably
love styles, self-esteem, and the Big Five personality facet
of Extraversion. More generally, our findings corroborate
existing work suggesting that experiences of social inter-
actions may not be entirely accurate, but are, rather, based
on illusory ideals.
Acknowledgments
Tanja Haubner is supported by a Young Researcher Mini
Grant from the Dean’s Office of the School of Psychology,
University of Vienna.
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... Bei verheirateten Paaren wurde auch der Effekt einer anderen Wahrnehmungsverzerrung beobachtet. Menschen, die ihren Partner/ihre Partnerin attraktiver wahrnehmen als die Partnerin/der Partner sich selbst, haben -so der Fachjargon -‚positive Illusionen' (Barelds-Dijkstra und Barelds 2008;Swami et al. 2009Swami et al. , 2010. Je größer diese ‚Illusionen' waren, desto höher bewerteten Menschen (die seit durchschnittlich 22 Jahren verheiratet waren) die Qualität ihrer Paarbeziehung (Barelds und Dijkstra 2009). ...
... Das Love-is-blind-Bias ) konnte also nachgewiesen werden. Dies gilt auch für den Positive-Illusionen-Effekt (Barelds-Dijkstra und Barelds 2008;Swami et al. 2009Swami et al. , 2010. Die Männer haben ihre Partnerinnen um 1,0 Skalenpunkt attraktiver wahrgenommen als sie sich selbst. ...
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... We tested three hypotheses derived from the above-reviewed literature in each of three studies. First, based on prior findings Swami et al., 2009;, we hypothesized that, overall, participants would engage in stronger partner-enhancement in an earlier than later relationship stage (H1). Second, consistent with the narcissism-in-relationships literature Rohmann et al., 2011;Tortoriello et al., 2017), we hypothesized that high narcissists would engage in weaker partner-enhancement than low narcissists (i.e., narcissism predicts reduced partner-enhancement; H2). ...
... The findings pertinent to H1 raise the possibility that partnerenhancement at an earlier relationships stage, identified in prior work Swami et al., 2009Swami et al., , 2010, is mostly due to low narcissists. Yet, in Study 3, relationship duration negatively predicted partner-enhancement among men, but not among women. ...
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... Ma-Kellams et al. (2017) found across four studies that more attractive physically people tend to have higher likelihood of having briefer relationships, decrease engagement in relationship maintenance processes, and can experience lower relationship satisfaction. Swami et al. (2009) suggests that, in fact, there is a difference between what the partner believes the individual to be in relation to what the individual really is. This dissonance, better known as the "love is blind" phenomenon, is positively related to relationship satisfaction, self-esteem and romantic love, while it is negatively related to relationship duration and playful love (Swami et al., 2009). ...
... Swami et al. (2009) suggests that, in fact, there is a difference between what the partner believes the individual to be in relation to what the individual really is. This dissonance, better known as the "love is blind" phenomenon, is positively related to relationship satisfaction, self-esteem and romantic love, while it is negatively related to relationship duration and playful love (Swami et al., 2009). ...
... This seems logical, given that mating success is more commonly associated with higher mate value individuals (Rhodes et al., 2005). However, we should note that the subjective assessment of one's partner is subject to cognitive biases sometimes referred to as the love is blind bias (Swami et al., 2009). There may be a causal relationship between such a cognitive bias and sexual desire or sexual activity. ...
... This seems logical, SEXUAL ACTIVITY AND ROMANTIC LOVE given that mating success is more commonly associated with higher mate value individuals (Rhodes et al., 2005). However, we should note that the subjective assessment of one's partner is subject to cognitive biases sometimes referred to as the love is blind bias (Swami et al., 2009). There may be a causal relationship between such a cognitive bias and sexual desire or sexual activity. ...
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Common conceptions of romantic love suggest that romantic love is associated with increased sexual activity with more frequent sex in the earlier stages of a romantic relationship. To our knowledge, no studies have investigated individual-level factors and sexual frequency using a validated measure of romantic love. This study tested a number of hypotheses about the factors associated with sexual frequency among 720 sexually active young adults experiencing romantic love from the Romantic Love Survey 2022. We hypothesized that relationship duration, the intensity of romantic love and obsessive thinking about a loved one, commitment, and elevated mood would be associated with sexual frequency. Using hierarchical linear regression, controlling for known covariates, we found no significant associations between any of our variables of interest and the frequency of sexual activity. The findings are surprising and highlight how little is currently known about sexual activity and sexual desire among individuals experiencing romantic love.
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The chapter explains how the concepts of physical and sexual attraction differ from each other. The materials of the chapter describe the ideas and research on beauty and physical attractiveness. The chapter demonstrates how attractive physical appearance influences overall interpersonal attraction. Evolutionary, ecological, social, cultural, and psychological perspectives show that the values and notions of physical attractiveness depend on many of these contextual factors. The studies reviewed in the chapter have demonstrated variability in preferences for physical appearances across cultures. The chapter presents research findings that reveal the effects of familiarity, imprinting, and exposure on the impressions of how physically attractive a person looks. The features of physical attractiveness are sexually polymorphic and differ between genders. The sections of this chapter provide an overview of the qualities of physical appearance that make a person attractive, as well as multisensory qualities of attractive appearance, including visual, auditory, tactile-kinesthetic, olfactory, and gustatory modalities of sensation and perception. The chapter describes in detail how people experience and express physical and sexual attraction. The last section of the chapter presents varieties of sexual attraction in love that depend on sexual identities, sexual orientations, and factors influencing diversity in sexual attraction.
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