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How anxious and avoidant attachment affect romantic relationship quality differently: A meta‐analytic review

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Adult attachment has been studied as an important predictor of romantic relationship quality in many empirical studies. This meta‐analysis quantitatively summarized the associations between the two insecure adult attachment dimensions, anxiety and avoidance, and cognitive, emotional, and behavioral indicators of romantic relationship quality based on 73 previous studies with 118 independent samples of 21 602 individuals. More importantly, we examined the different effects of anxiety and avoidance on relationship quality. We also tested the potential moderating effects of gender on the strength of these associations. Meta‐analytic results confirmed that both anxiety and avoidance were detrimental to the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral aspects of relationship quality. Compared with anxiety, avoidance was more negatively associated with general satisfaction, connectedness, and general support in relationships. In contrast, anxiety was more positively associated with general conflict in relationships. The moderating effect of gender was weak. However, supplementary analyses found that the type of couple interaction measures (self‐report versus observation) significantly moderated the relations between insecure attachments and the behavioral indicators of relationship quality. Our results integrate and extend previous findings about the dynamics of adult attachment and romantic relationship quality. Copyright © 2012 John Wiley & Sons, Ltd.

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... Different dimensions of attachment are based on the definition of the image of the self and the image of the other from childhood contributing to the development of the internal working models (Bowlby, 1969). These models are representations of the individual's attachment relationships that become more complex and differentiated during the course of development (Bowlby, 1969;Li & Chan, 2012;Taylor et al., 2014). Therefore, different attachment dimensions determine how one relates to another even in adulthood (Constant et al., 2021;Li & Chan, 2012). ...
... These models are representations of the individual's attachment relationships that become more complex and differentiated during the course of development (Bowlby, 1969;Li & Chan, 2012;Taylor et al., 2014). Therefore, different attachment dimensions determine how one relates to another even in adulthood (Constant et al., 2021;Li & Chan, 2012). Beginning with theories of attachment in childhood, different approaches have been proposed to characterize adult attachment dimensions. ...
... Anxious attachment characterizes individuals who desire a close relationship with others and worry about being abandoned, whereas avoidant attachment is typical of individuals who fear closeness and try to avoid depending on others. These aspects lead to different ways of connecting with others and difficulties in establishing stable and lasting relationships (Brennan et al., 1998;Fraley et al., 2015;Li & Chan, 2012;Mikulincer & Shaver, 2016). Studying adult attachment using this model has shown that both insecure dimensions of attachment are associated with diminished relationship quality and reduced psychological wellbeing. ...
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... Mnogobrojna su longitudinalna i transverzalna istraživanja posljednjih tridesetak godina pokazala da se i romantične veze mogu sagledati u kontekstu privrženosti (Candel i Turliuc, 2019;Li i Chan, 2012). Tako, primjerice, pojedinci sa sigurnom privrženošću izvješćuju o pozitivnijim iskustvima u romantičnim vezama nego pojedinci s anksioznom ili izbjegavajućom privrženošću (Hazan i Shaver, 1987). ...
... Općenito, sigurna je privrženost pozitivno povezana sa zadovoljstvom u vezi, dok su nesigurni stilovi privrženosti s njime negativno povezani (Pistole, 1989;Shaver i Mikulincer, 2002). Govoreći u terminima dimenzija privrženosti, visoki rezultati na anksioznosti i izbjegavanju, koji se nalaze u podlozi nesigurnih silova privrženosti, imaju negativne efekte na većinu aspekata kvalitete veze (Li i Chan, 2012). ...
... Neka istraživanja pokazuju da postoje razlike u negativnim efektima dimenzija anksioznosti i izbjegavanja (npr. Li i Chan, 2012). Naime, čini se da je dimenzija izbjegavanja snažnije negativno povezana s indikatorima kvalitete veze kao što su opće zadovoljstvo vezom, osjećaj povezanosti i podrška. ...
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... Furthermore, most studies considered single indicators of relationship functioning rather than embracing a multidimensional view of relationship quality. It is known that attachment insecurities are associated with challenges in maintaining healthy couple bonds (Li & Chan, 2012), potentially heightening depression risk (Cortés-García et al., 2020;Dagan et al., 2018;Zhang et al., 2022). However, there is limited research on whether these associations are invariant across sex assigned at birth and sexual orientation . ...
... Couple relationship quality, understood as an individual's subjective evaluation of his/her relationship, is generally regarded as a multidimensional construct comprising positive and negative indicators (Li & Chan, 2012). As positive indicators, aspects such as emotional intimacy, trust, and satisfaction have been identified as key determinants of CRQ (Sprecher et al., 2015). ...
... Attachment insecurity and CRQ are closely connected (Li & Chan, 2012;Mikulincer & Shaver, 2016), given that IWMs shape how individuals process socio-emotional information and regulate emotions in intimate relationships. The deactivation of attachment needs observed in individuals high in attachment avoidance and the hyperactivation present in individuals high in attachment anxiety negatively affect CRQ (Li & Chan, 2012;Mikulincer & Shaver, 2016). ...
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Substantial evidence has established a connection between attachment insecurity and depressive symptoms. Although numerous mechanisms explain this relationship, the role of couple relationship quality as a mediator has received less attention, particularly within diverse cultural contexts. This study examined the direct and indirect associations between attachment insecurity and depressive symptoms through couple relationship quality, and the moderating effect of sex, and sexual orientation in Chilean adults involved in a couple relationship. 985 Chilean adults completed self-report measures of attachment insecurity, indicators of couple relationship quality (dyadic trust, emotional intimacy, positive sexuality, and relationship satisfaction), and depressive symptoms. Structural equation modelling analyses supported our proposed model, which explained 28% of the variance in depressive symptoms, and 32% of couple relationship quality. Attachment insecurity was associated with more depressive symptoms directly and indirectly, through lower couple relationship quality. The model was invariant across sex assigned at birth, and sexual orientation. This study suggests that one of the pathways through which attachment insecurity may contribute to poorer mental health is via lower couple relationship quality. For clinical practice, this study highlights that addressing attachment insecurity and couple relationship quality can be relevant in designing effective interventions for individuals with depressive symptoms.
... On the other hand, avoidant attachment, linked to deactivating strategies in romantic relationships, is associated with fear of intimacy and commitment, avoidance of dependency on others, low acceptance of the partner's faults, and holding a grandiose self (Berant et al., 2005;Hazan & Shaver, 1987;. In numerous studies, these insecure attachment styles are linked to lower romantic relationship satisfaction in adulthood (Candel & Turliuc, 2019;Hadden et al., 2014;Li & Chan, 2012;. ...
... However, the unique effects of both dimensions on relationships are investigated relatively less (Li & Chan, 2012). ...
... In addition, the current study can potentially offer further understanding of distinct insecure attachment dimensions in romantic relationships. Limited research showed that anxious and avoidant attachments affect romantic relationships differently (Li & Chan, 2012). The current study can provide more information regarding the possible differences and similarities of these attachment dimensions in the functioning of romantic relationships. ...
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This study aims to test a multiple-mediation model which examines mindfulness, relationship mindfulness, self-compassion, and cognitive defusion as possible mediators of the relationship between attachment insecurity and romantic relationship satisfaction. The sample consisted of 521 emerging adults in a romantic relationship for at least one month (70% female, 27% male, and 3% non-binary). Their ages ranged from 19 to 29 years old (M = 22.52, SD = 2.45). In data collection, Relationship Assessment Scale, Experiences in Close Relationships- Revised, Mindful Attention Awareness Scale, Relationship Mindfulness Measure, Self-Compassion Scale Short Form, Drexel Defusion Scale, and demographic information form developed by the researcher were used. To test the proposed model, structural equation modeling was used. Since the proposed model did not fit the data, insignificant paths and cognitive defusion variable were trimmed from the model. The trimmed model revealed a good model fit. Although self-compassion and trait mindfulness did not predict relationship satisfaction significantly, relationship mindfulness acted as a mediator in the relationship between attachment anxiety and relationship satisfaction. Discussions were made on the importance of context-specific relationship mindfulness measure as well as the distinct effects of attachment anxiety and avoidance in romantic relationships. Also, cognitive defusion was evaluated in the context of romantic relationships. Lastly, recommendations for future research and implications of the study were indicated.
... Among those factors, attachment determines the way of being in a relationship with the other, in terms of defining the image of self and the image of the other (Constant et al., 2021;Li and Chan, 2012). Particularly, the anxious attachment dimension characterises individuals who worry about being abandoned by their partners, while the avoidant dimension is typical of individuals who fear closeness and dependence on others (Li and Chan, 2012). ...
... Among those factors, attachment determines the way of being in a relationship with the other, in terms of defining the image of self and the image of the other (Constant et al., 2021;Li and Chan, 2012). Particularly, the anxious attachment dimension characterises individuals who worry about being abandoned by their partners, while the avoidant dimension is typical of individuals who fear closeness and dependence on others (Li and Chan, 2012). Both those insecure attachment dimensions have been negatively associated with the quality of romantic relationships (Siegel et al., 2019). ...
... It is well known both from theoretical framework and from several empirical studies that attachment plays a significant role in the quality of couple relationships (Mikulincer and Shaver, 2007). Several researchers have described a negative association between both anxious and avoidant attachment and dyadic adjustment (Noftle and Shaver, 2006;Li and Chan, 2012;Siegel et al., 2019). Particularly, in line with our findings, Noftle and Shaver (2006) found that avoidant attachment was negatively correlated with relationship quality, and it was found to predict relationship quality better than personality factors. ...
... Mutuality, Romance, and composite lovebird scores were also associated with less insecure attachment, demonstrating satisfactory discriminant validity [47]. The Disconnect subscale was positively associated with both insecure attachment dimensions. ...
... The Disconnect subscale was positively associated with both insecure attachment dimensions. This is not surprising, as we would expect individuals in lovebird couples to exhibit characteristics of secure attachment, such as engaging in constructive interactions (e.g., ability to discuss problems or insecurities), reporting greater feelings of connectedness, and experiencing less general conflict [47]. However, since we did not explicitly measure secure attachment in our study, more research is needed to confirm this. ...
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... For adult attachment measures that do not cleanly adopt the two-dimensional view of attachment, we transformed these to the two-dimensional form based on theoretical grounds and past practice. For example, the Attachment Style Questionnaire (Feeney et al., 1994) incorporates five subscales, out of which the discomfort with closeness subscale corresponds to the attachment avoidance that contrasts secure with avoidance, while the preoccupation with relationships subscale corresponds to attachment anxiety (Feeney, 1995;Li & Chan, 2012). The Relationship Questionnaire features four subscales (i.e., secure, preoccupied, dismissing, fearful) that are derived from the model of the self and other (Bartholomew, 1990), thus it is possible to transform the four subscales to the model of self (i.e., anxiety) by using secure + dismissingpreoccupiedfearful, and the model of other (i.e., avoidance) can be expressed as secure + preoccupieddismissingfearful. ...
... The Relationship Questionnaire features four subscales (i.e., secure, preoccupied, dismissing, fearful) that are derived from the model of the self and other (Bartholomew, 1990), thus it is possible to transform the four subscales to the model of self (i.e., anxiety) by using secure + dismissingpreoccupiedfearful, and the model of other (i.e., avoidance) can be expressed as secure + preoccupieddismissingfearful. The transformation formula can be found below (Li & Chan, 2012). Transformations were also conducted for the Adult Attachment Scale (AAS), which includes the depend, close, and anxiety subscales (Collins & Read, 1990). ...
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Objectives: Self-compassion, the capacity to hold a compassionate attitude towards oneself without self-criticism when in distress, has been conceptualized to originate from receiving secure caregiving. Attachment theory offers a framework to explain self-compassion as effective coping with resources from healthy activation of the attachment system. Recent research has increasingly explored the connections between self-compassion and attachment security. Our meta-analysis seeks to consolidate existing evidence by statistically synthesizing findings on the relationship between self-compassion and the two dimensions of attachment: anxiety and avoidance. Methods: A systematic literature search was conducted, and based on the inclusion criteria, the authors found data from 46 studies with a total size of 17,650 participants. Inclusion criteria were peer-reviewed journals and dissertations published in English that used quantitative and validated methods to measure attachment and self-compassion in participants aged 16 years and older. Results: We found robust negative correlations between self-compassion and both attachment anxiety ( r = −.42) and avoidance ( r = −.32), with age significantly moderating the relationship between avoidance and self-compassion. Subscale analyses suggested that each of the six components of self-compassion is significantly associated with attachment insecurity. Conclusions: The results highlight the robust associations between self-compassion and adult attachment, as well as significant associations between the individual components of self-compassion and adult attachment. Additionally, age emerges as a potentially influential moderator. Future research should further examine the causal mechanism of these associations and include correlations for self-compassion’s individual dimensions.
... It entails the desire for affection and intimacy, while at the same time having negative feelings about oneself as undeserving of affection, characterizing individuals who worry that others do not care about them as much as they care about others (Baroncelli et al., 2023;Fossati et al., 2003;Grady et al., 2019;Karantzas et al., 2010). Preoccupation with Relationships is similar to anxious/ambivalent attachment (Hazan & Shaver, 1987), and is characterized by wanting to form emotional bonds with others, but at the same time feeling uncomfortable getting close to others because others are seen as untrustworthy and incapable of giving love and attention (Baroncelli et al., 2023;Grady et al., 2019;Li & Chan, 2012). Finally, Relationships as Secondary is similar to dismissing attachment (Bartholomew, 1990), and is characterized by a defensive attitude and an emphasis on independence, to protect oneself from vulnerability or harm (Baroncelli et al., 2023;Fossati et al., 2003;Karantzas et al., 2010). ...
... Although no specific hypotheses were formulated about Preoccupation with Relationships as a significant mediator in the relationships between the experience of childhood trauma and the three domains of psychopathy, we found a significant indirect effect of experiencing childhood trauma on both the Egocentricity and Antisocial domain, through Preoccupation with Relationships. Thus, individuals who seem to show more interpersonal manipulation and antagonism, characteristics of the Egocentricity domain, and more immoral, impulsive, and angry behavior, characteristics of the Antisocial domain (Brinkley et al., 2008), appear to have an attachment dimension characterized by a concomitant desire and fear of closeness, possibly due to traumatic experiences during childhood (Grady et al., 2019;Li & Chan, 2012). There is previous literature that builds a strong case for this idea. ...
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... The activation component of the model explains when the attachment system is activated and is relevant to our (later) theorizing concerning moderation, whereas the model's regulation component explains how regulating the attachment system affects relationship functioning and is relevant to our theorizing about mediation. Although avoidant and anxious attachment styles have both been found to undermine relationship functioning (e.g., Li & Chan, 2012), the model's regulatory component explains how they exert effects through different mechanisms (Main, 1990;. ...
... Consequently, the major implication of people utilizing hyperactivating strategies is that '…they tend to intensify the magnitude of their cognitions, emotions, and behaviors, both positive and negative ones, toward their partner' (Li & Chan, 2012, p. 409). That is, people with anxious attachment tend to perceive more negative experiences in their relationships but they are also likely to perceive relatively more positive experiences (compared with those with avoidant attachment) (Li & Chan, 2012). As a result, they are likely to have a more nuanced and conflicted view of the relationship, and not simply evaluate it in a negative fashion. ...
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... Attachment research also demonstrates attachment related differences in emotional responses to relational events (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2005). Evidence from close-relationship studies shows negative relationships of both insecure attachment orientations and indicators of romantic relationship quality (Hadden et al., 2014;Li & Chan, 2012;Rodriguez et al., 2021). Therefore, attachment orientations can also be seen as personal demands regarding relationships and relationship functioning. ...
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... However, there is little by way of research into how individual differences in people's cognitions and behaviors in romantic relationships may be associated with their evaluations of their partners against ideal standards, and in turn, the strategies used to evoke partner change. This is despite the fact that individual differences are known to play an important role in people's relationship evaluations in general as well as the communication strategies used in addressing relationship dissatisfaction (Domingue & Mollen, 2009;Li & Chan, 2012). In this paper, we investigate the association between adult attachment orientationsone of the most widely researched and theoretically relevant individual differences in the study of close relationships (Gillath et al., 2016;Mikulincer & Shaver, 2016), ideal-partner discrepancies, and partner regulation strategies. ...
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... Research has shown that people with attachment insecurity are more likely to be engaged in destructive communication (e.g., escalating conflict, attacking, criticizing), give less support (i.e., forgiveness and caregiving), and are involved in fewer constructive interactions (behaviors linked to successful conflict resolution such as cooperation and compromise; Li & Chan, 2012). In line with these outcomes, results from our study demonstrated that individuals who were higher in attachment anxiety experienced a stronger negative within-person association between daily relationship uncertainty and daily relationship talk (H4). ...
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... Existing research has revealed insecure attachment exerts a strong negative impact on romantic relationships. For example, both attachment anxiety and avoidance were negatively associated with relationship satisfaction (Candel & Turliuc, 2019), relationship stability (Hadden et al., 2014), and relationship quality (Li & Chan, 2012). ...
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... In fact, greater attachment avoidance has been found to correlate negatively with several aspects of relationship quality, including satisfaction, supportive behaviors, constructive communication (T. Li & Chan, 2012), and relationship disclosure (Tan et al., 2012). Attachment avoidance, but not anxiety, was found to distinguish distressed from nondistressed couples and was a strong predictor of marital dissatisfaction (Mondor et al., 2011). ...
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Processes that occur in romantic relationships can impact both relational and personal well-being. For example, relational hurts big and small are an unfortunate feature of all relationships, and some partners are better at moving on from these offenses than are others. In this study, we used an adult attachment framework to examine self-forgiveness and partner-forgiveness following relational transgressions as mediators between adult attachment and well-being outcomes. In a sample of U.S. adults in a romantic relationship of 1+ year (N = 302), we tested a hypothesized structural equation model in which a positive model of self (low attachment anxiety) predicted personal well-being directly and as mediated by intrapersonal (internal) aspects of self- and partner-forgiveness, and in which a positive model of others (low attachment avoidance) predicted relational well-being directly and as mediated by interpersonal (relational) aspects of self- and partner-forgiveness. Results supported these predictions but also suggested a path from a positive model of others to intrapersonal aspects of partner-forgiveness. Findings suggest that the ability to forgive oneself and one’s partner following relationship transgressions can explain part of the connection between attachment and well-being. Results further suggest the importance of examining both internal and relational aspects of self-forgiveness and partner-forgiveness.
... This finding is consistent with research showing that women are more likely to develop anxious attachment styles in general (Donges et al., 2015;Weber et al., 2022), with anxious attachment style having stronger associations with life outcomes among women (Reis & Grenyer, 2004;Weber et al., 2022). However, a meta-analysis of 118 independent samples showed that attachment avoidance had a greater negative impact on constructive interaction between partners for men compared to women (Li & Chan, 2012). Further investigation is required to determine the genderspecific role of attachment styles on relationship satisfaction for men and women. ...
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... Researchers proposed that caring and supportive parenting leads to developing a secure attachment style, which, in turn, is associated with a positive experience in romantic relationships. Insecure attachment styles were associated with emotional and behavioral difficulties in romantic relationships (Li & Chan, 2012;Shadach et al., 2018;Sun et al., 2010;Zagefka, 2022). ...
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... For instance, studies have found that individuals with an insecure attachment are more anxious and hostile than securely attached individuals (Kobak & Sceery, 1988) and more likely to feel lonely and to be perceived as less socially competent (Hazan & Shaver, 1987). In terms of romantic relationships, a meta-analysis by Li and Chan (2012) showed that both insecure attachment dimensions were negatively associated with romantic relationship satisfaction and felt partner support. ...
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... Moreover, anxious attachment and avoidant attachment have been found negatively connected with the quality of relationship and relationship satisfaction of an individual (19) . Another study found that avoidant attachment was negatively correlated with satisfaction and support in relationships while confrontation was correlated with anxious attachment (20). ...
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The present study was designed to investigate the cross-cultural anxiety, parental attachment, partner attachment and their correlation with the relationship satisfaction. In this study, the data were collected by voluntary sampling method and a total of 434 participants were recruited. One-way ANOVA analysis showed that Americans, Bangladeshi, and English reported higher levels of anxiety in their life than Thai nationalities which indicated that Thai have more relationship satisfaction than other nationalities. Further analysis showed that there is a significant positive correlation between anxiety and avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, mother avoidant, mother anxious, father avoidant, father anxious. In the analysis of attachment style, it was found that father avoidant and mother avoidant attachment was higher than father anxious and mother anxious attachment with their children. Dhaka Univ. J. Biol. Sci. 33(1): 23-31, 2024 (January)
... 19 On the other hand, individuals with insecure attachments usually tend to remain independent and avoid emotional connections. 20 They may inhibit emotional expression, avoid dependence on others, and be wary of making deep emotional connections. 21 Their subjective well-being may be negatively impacted by the lack of true emotional connection. ...
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... According to the attachment theory, attachment models in adulthood are relatively stable and guide individuals through close relationships (Crowell et al., 1999). Empirical research using both the self-report measures of adult attachment orientations (assessing attachmentrelated thoughts and feelings in current or recent close relationships) and interview-based measures of adult attachment representations (evaluating an individual's current state of mind with respect to their early experiences with caregivers) has established links between adult attachment and romantic relationship quality (e.g., Curran et al., 2005;Li & Chan, 2012). ...
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We examined couples’ dyadic trust profiles over the transition to parenthood and their associations with couples’ attachment representations, perceptions of partner’s caregiving, and parenting quality. We followed 125 couples from pregnancy to 24 months postpartum and applied the latent profile analysis (LPA) to examine whether distinct dyadic patterns of trust would emerge among couples. We then examined couples’ attachment representations and perceptions of partner’s caregiving as factors that might explain their trust profiles. Finally, we examined how couples’ trust profiles would be related to their parenting quality 24 months postpartum. The dyadic LPA yielded three trust profiles: a both high profile (N = 64), a mother high, father moderate profile (N = 42), and a mother moderate to low, father moderate profile (N = 19). Mothers with dismissing attachment were able to hold high-stable trust when their partner also held high trust toward them, whereas mothers with preoccupied attachment, in general, were likely to have low and declining trust over time. Mothers’ more positive perceptions of their husband’s caregiving quality were also related to their high-stable trust over time. Mothers’ high trust, in turn, was associated with their less emotionally disengaged and less role-reversed parenting. The findings highlight mothers’ important role in couples’ dyadic trust over the transition to parenthood. Implications of study findings are discussed.
... Paradoxically, these actions can then drive partners away creating the scenario that the individual was so fearful of in the first place. People prone to avoidant attachments are more distant and may at times appear cold, they often prefer to be independent so they do not have to rely on other people, even if this is something that they might actually desire (Li & Chan, 2012). Attachment theory has successfully informed approaches to psychotherapy and treatment for couples and individuals for decades (Daly & Mallinckrodt, 2009;Meyer & Pilkonis, 2001). ...
... These personality traits are themselves be related to relationship outcomes (Malouff et al., 2010;Weidmann et al., 2017). Anxious and avoidant attachment styles were likewise included as covariates, as attachment style is a consistent predictor of both perceived support provision (Moreira et al., 2003) and relationship quality (Candel & Turliuc, 2019;Li & Chan, 2012). ...
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A limited willpower belief describes the belief that one’s willpower is depletable and that mental exertion results in a diminished self-control capacity. Limited willpower beliefs have been associated with detrimental personal outcomes (such as poorer goal progress) and may even be related to a lower quality of one’s romantic relationship. With dyadic survey data from 745 couples across 14 days, we investigated how willpower beliefs of both partners were associated with their provision and receipt of social support, as well as their relationship satisfaction. We also examined whether partners with more similar willpower beliefs tended to have higher relationship satisfaction. A limited willpower belief was indeed associated with less provision of both instrumental and emotional support, according to both partners’ perspectives, and was also associated with a lower likelihood of receiving instrumental support. A limited willpower belief negatively correlated with one’s own relationship satisfaction, but partner effects were not significant. While couples’ willpower beliefs were more similar to each other than would be expected by chance, degree of similarity in willpower beliefs was not related to relationship satisfaction. Future research should examine the mechanisms via which willpower beliefs are involved in romantic relationships, potentially through impacting the exchange of support.
... While the Inconsistent-Low profile could also be related to personality, attachment style seems as though it would be more strongly correlated with such consistently low PRS ratings. Individuals who are avoidantly attached tend to be fearful of becoming close to and depending on others, which is negatively associated with connectedness and overall satisfaction in romantic relationships (Li & Chan, 2012) and could be a contributing factor for those perceiving themselves as single while partnered. Relationship withdrawal has also been studied as a terror management strategy used by avoidantly attached men for whom the mere thought of marriage leads to existential dread and mortality salience (Seagel et al., 2020), which further supports the possibility that attachment may be related to PRS. ...
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... Our data support that as stress increases, the feeling of personal distress becomes more demanding (and/or less manageable) and therefore more strongly relates to social avoidance behaviors. Such behaviors were previously found to increase depressive symptoms (Holahan et al., 2005), sabotage relationship satisfaction (Li and Chan, 2012), and increase parental exhaustion (Mikolajczak et al., 2018). ...
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Introduction Empathy is a complex, multifaceted ability allowing for the most basic forms of social communication and plays a prominent role in multiple aspects of everyday lives. In this intensive longitudinal study, we assessed how empathy interacts with stress to predict central domains of psychosocial functioning: mental health, romantic relationships, and parenting. Methods Fluctuations and individual differences in empathy were assessed across eight time points, where participants from the general population (N = 566) self-reported their empathy, stress, depressive symptoms, romantic satisfaction, and parental functioning. Results Both trait and state aspects of empathy were associated with all psychosocial outcomes, with state empathy showing a stronger effect. Additionally, empathy components interacted with stress—emotional empathy better-predicted outcomes under high stress, while cognitive empathy under low stress. Discussion Our findings advance the theoretical understanding of empathy, emphasizing the effects of state-dependent empathy fluctuations on our everyday mental and social lives.
... Attachment, specifically insecure attachment (anxiety and avoidance), has been found to predict presenting problems in mental health (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2012) and poor relationship outcomes Mohr et al., 2013;Parker et al., 2013). Attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance differ in their interactions with their partners, resulting in a variety of relationship outcomes (Li & Chan, 2012). However, the consistent finding in the research is that low relationship satisfaction is associated with attachment insecurity, due to the difficulty in meeting attachment needs (Kobak et al., 1994;Mikulincer & Shaver, 2018). ...
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... When looking at individual stress within romantic relationships, Powers, Pietromonaco, Gunlicks, and Sayer (2006) found that individuals with insecure attachments showed higher levels of stress responses when compared to individuals with secure attachments. In a meta-analysis on the literature on insecure attachment and relationship quality, Li and Chan (2012) found there was evidence that insecure attachment (both anxious and avoidant) is detrimental to cognitive, behavioural, and emotional aspects of romantic relationship quality. Avoidance was negatively correlated with feelings of connection and support in relationships and anxiety was positively correlated to relationship conflict. ...
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... post-traumatic stress disorder, positive and negative psychosis symptoms), compared to insecure attachment styles (Carr et al., 2018;Woodhouse et al., 2015). Similarly, meta-analyses of dimensional attachment styles have shown that although both insecure dimensions are negatively associated with general relationship satisfaction, anxious attachment is associated with more relationship conflict (Li & Chan, 2012), whereas avoidant attachment is associated with poorer perceptions of support and connectedness (Candel & Turliuc, 2019). Insecure attachment dimensions, particularly anxious attachment, have also been associated with greater prevalence of internalizing symptoms and borderline personality traits (Dagan et al., 2019(Dagan et al., , 2020Smith & South, 2020). ...
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... Так, в качестве факторов удовлетворенности отношениями рассматриваются психологическая гибкость (Twiselton, Stanton, Gillanders & Bottomley, 2020), эмпатия и эмпатическая точность (Ickes & Hodges, 2013), степень согласованности идеального представления об отношениях и их реального воплощения (Fletcher, 2000). Также большая роль отводится таким переменным, как преданность, сексуальность, страсть, совладающее поведение (в том числе и диадическое) (Shaver & Miculincer, 2002;Li & Chan, 2012). ...
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... Stoga su prisutne inhibicija emocija, teškoće u povjeravanju i otvaranju spram drugih, pretjerana neovisnost, ali i odbijanje pomoći i emocionalne podrške. Sukladno tome, za pojedince koji imaju razvijen taj stil privrženosti manje je vjerojatno da će uspostaviti privrženu romantičnu vezu i vjerojatnije je da će izbjegavati nove veze nakon prekida (Brassard i sur., 2007;Li i Chan, 2012). Pepping i suradnici (2018) daju shematski prikaz i objašnjenje dugotrajnog samaštva u kontekstu izbjegavajućeg stila privrženosti. ...
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... Attachment is a key variable that explains relationship satisfaction; however, meta-analytics studies (e.g., Candel & Turliuc, 2019;Li & Chan, 2012) have observed that the dimension of avoidance exerts a stronger detrimental impact on relationship satisfaction. Candel and Turliuc (2019) analyzed gender differences in the link between avoidant attachment and relationship satisfaction but focused only on a moderation effect, finding that the link of such attachment orientation with relationship satisfaction was weaker in Asian individuals compared to counterparts from North America and Europe. ...
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... There is substantial evidence that attachment can be measured along the two dimensions of anxiety and avoidance (Brennan et al., 1998;Fraley et al., 2015;Fraley & Spieker, 2003), with securely attached individuals scoring low on both. Individual differences in attachment dimensions are linked to relationship functioning (Feeney, 2008;Li & Chan, 2012) and other aspects of mental health. Both attachment anxiety and avoidance are associated with a broad range of mental health problems such as depression (e.g., Cortes-Garcia et al., 2020), anxiety disorders (e.g., Doron et al., 2012), or personality disorders (e.g., Crawford et al., 2007). ...
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... In the international literature examining attachment patterns, romantic attachment has been categorized into two continuous dimensions: avoidance (characterized by the minimization of attachment needs and an individual's discomfort in close relationships) and anxiety (characterized by the hyperactivation of the attachment system) [8,9], which are strictly associated with relationship quality and satisfaction in both heterosexuals and LG people [10,11]. Evidence of the links between attachment patterns and romantic relationship quality and satisfaction in same-sex couples has been found by several researchers [12][13][14][15][16][17][18], generally indicating a significant positive association between high levels of attachmentrelated anxiety and avoidance and low levels of relationship satisfaction. ...
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