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Marriage information has always been an integral part of the knowledge base in any civilized society. Usually some agencies and other de-institutionalized sources become operative in producing and transferring great variety of matrimonial information. In recent time, online matrimony portals accelerate the opportunities of providing newer matrimony services for sharing matrimonial information more comfortably and selectively, though often criticized in terms of adequacy and authenticity of such information. This paper aims to present a brief account on marriage information systems and services with reference to India, thus provide glimpses of popular matrimony sites emerged in last two decades. It evaluates the usefulness and web-metrics as well as popularity of broad-spectrum matrimony portals; those have become accessible to diverse Indian communities, and beyond the geographical boundaries. It emphasizes on proper coordination and standardization among the service portals toward developing a comprehensive information system for potential marriage-information seekers in national, regional, and local level. New policy initiatives and technological capabilities might provide more effective platform is suggested to reveal a new matrimony space in India.
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International Research Journal of Library, Information and Archival Studies Vol. 1(4) pp. 126-135, November, 2011
Available online http://www.interesjournals.org/IRJLIAS
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Review on matrimonial information systems and services
an Indian perspective
Jiban K Pal
Library, Documentation & Information Science Division, Indian Statistical Institute,
203, B. T. Road, Kolkata - 700108, INDIA.
E-mail: jiban@isical.ac.in
Accepted 4 November, 2011
Marriage information has always been an integral part of the knowledge base in any civilized society.
Usually some agencies and other de-institutionalized sources become operative in producing and
transferring great variety of matrimonial information. In recent time, online matrimony portals
accelerate the opportunities of providing newer matrimony services for sharing matrimonial
information more comfortably and selectively, though often criticized in terms of adequacy and
authenticity of such information. This paper aims to present a brief account on marriage information
systems and services with reference to India, thus provide glimpses of popular matrimony sites
emerged in last two decades. It evaluates the usefulness and web-metrics as well as popularity of
broad-spectrum matrimony portals; those have become accessible to diverse Indian communities, and
beyond the geographical boundaries. It emphasizes on proper coordination and standardization
among the service portals toward developing a comprehensive information system for potential
marriage-information seekers in national, regional, and local level. New policy initiatives and
technological capabilities might provide more effective platform is suggested to reveal a new
matrimony space in India.
Keywords: Social services information system – India, social practice, online matrimony, web-metrics.
INTRODUCTION
India, a secular democratic republic consisting of 28
states and 7 union territories, has great diversity to an
extent perhaps incomparable to any other civilization of
the world. It is the second most populous country having
more than 1 billion people, 23 official languages with over
a thousand dialects, and rich cultures for much of its long
history (India, Ministry of I&B, 2009). Racial, ethnic,
cultural, linguistic, and religious differences are
remarkable where twenty religions flow together including
Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism, Christianity, and
Islam. Though all these communities speak different
languages, practice different cultures, and observe
different social customs, still they pride themselves on
being unlike members of the country (Singer & Cohn,
1968). Vast diversity in socioeconomic status pertaining
to educational attainment, social power, gender
inequality, urbanity, caste, etc. is also evident in India.
Landless laborers to billionaire industrialists, tribal
illiterates to high-class intellectuals, slum dwellers to NRI
and mediocre peoples has received equal attention
towards the formation of multifarious groups of the nation.
Several other circumstances comprehend the
complexities of Indian society over many decades (Singh,
1980). Above all, the India is a nation of unity in diversity.
In India, unlike developed countries, information has
become inevitable in every sphere of the human society.
In fact, any developmental issue to some extent depends
on the provision and accessibility of quality information.
Now it is being treated as like as marketable commodity.
However, phenomenal increase of information sources
demands for well-organized systems to make the
information accessible pin-pointedly and expeditiously.
Such a provision of access has become into reality with
the availability of database and network systems
exploiting efficient technologies (Simkins, 1983), which
have alleviated many ills of information handling
activities. Thus, a number of computer-based information
systems in different areas have been emerged in India for
many years (Literature review, 1990). However the
convergence of computer with Internet wrote a dramatic
change in accessing effective information, thereby offer
us a powerful means of managing information based
society (Cronin, 1986). Since last decade, growing
interest of social commons toward electronic services,
stimulated information-brokers for hosting a number of
online matrimony sites in India. Many of them are in
operation, and varying in their scope based on vast
diversity (viz. racial, ethnic, linguistic, cultural) in Indian
society.
Marriage Trends In India
Since the beginning of fourth century, India has a rich
tradition of arrange marriages that have been practiced
mainly to establish a sacred bond between two families
(Westermarck, 1894). Gradually it became into norms of
the Indian culture. By tradition, caste members are
expected to marry within the permissible community and
follow the caste rules, perhaps to avoid ritual pollutions as
well as to protect many other aspects of life
(Gangopadhyay, 1964). Other marriage trends prevailed
in India - such as child-marriage, baag-datta, sati-daha
(self-immolation of the widow), etc. These are started
since mediaeval times (Vidyasagara, 1976) and were
common practice in conservative society during pre-
liberalization period, but considered illegal today.
However every religion has it’s definite set of wedding
customs and each having unique way of celebration.
Therefore, Hindu marriage is different from marriages of
other religions in terms of rituals, customs, celebrations,
and cultural makeup. In fact, a variety of marriages is
shown within the same religion. Say, Hindu marriages
can be categorized into eight types (as per Manu Smriti)
viz. brahma, daiva, arsha, prajapatya, gandharva, asura,
rakshasa, and paishacha marriage (India Wedding
Planner). First-four of the above are religiously accepted
but rests were condemned by early society. Apart from
serious rituals and customs many other etiquettes or fun
filled events have been practiced in varying degrees viz.
engagement ring (sign of acceptance), wedding vows
(seven rounds around holy fire), etc (Kapadia, 1955).
Another common feature of weddings in India is
excitement and enthusiasm accompanied by huge
gathering of associates and relatives.
In recent time, marriages in India have undergone
tremendous change with the changing trends of India
society. Therefore, marriages are deviating mostly from
arranged to love-marriage, arranged-love to love-
arranged, intra-caste to inter-caste even inter-religion,
social-marriage to court-marriage and seldom living
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together (Henslin, 1985). Traditions and customs are
greatly affected by the attitudes and beliefs of
brides/grooms; ceremonies are not as long as they used
to be, certain numbers of rituals loosing their relevance,
unusual trend of marriages are evident, court marriages
are gaining importance (Reddy, 1978), etc. Practically,
global techno-culture is dominating on many social
events, thereby enforcing young peoples to cross the
boarders of social practices of Indian culture.
Vectors of Marriage Information
Social commons essentially seek for the matrimonial
information. Many potential vectors (read as
intermediaries) have become operative in transferring
such information, i.e. various modes of information
transfer take place. Here, vector is an agent used to carry
or transmit the information from one into another causing
marriage. Usually human-agents and other de-
institutionalized vectors transmit a great variety of
marriage related information to multifarious communities
of the Indian society. Besides conventional means,
certain class of peoples preferably uses printed or
electronic media as their causative agent of marriage for
faster dissemination to wider audience. Recently, online
matrimony portals accelerate the opportunities of
providing better matrimony services for sharing
matrimonial information more comfortably and selectively.
However, one can use a single or multiple vector(s)
simultaneously to share such information depending
upon the needs and desire of the individual concern. It is
being observed that aspiring brides and grooms often
interact among themselves (peer-to peer) in view of
sharing matrimonial information of their own, but without
any causative agent. In fact, gradual change of
intermediaries has been taking place over time to meet
up the changing requirements of marriage-information
seekers in Indian society, which can be discussed under
following sub-headings.
Kul-acharya
Since long back, a few elites of the Indian society used to
take up matchmaking as a profession called “kulacharya”,
namely Dhruvananda Mishra and Devivar Ghatak in
fifteenth century and Nulo Panchanan in eighteenth
century (Banglapedia, ©2006). They used to maintain
written records of family histories and received a great
deal of social prestige at their locality. Therefore, they
enjoyed an authoritative power and dictation to settle the
marriages of native peoples, by means of consulting the
record books. Such regarded peoples were treated as
causative agent of marriage information in early
Centuries.
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Ghatak
Literally it means one who makes things happen or a
middleman, who takes part in transferring marriage
related information between two parties. Usually they
perform more efficiently by their linkage and experience.
Some of them are purely professional and matchmaking
is their source of livelihood. Generally, they used to be
acknowledged from both the parties with attractive gifts
and fees. Ghataks are disappearing gradually perhaps
due to the changing requirements of marriage-information
seekers for accessing information via multiple sources.
Newspaper
Last few decades, use of daily or weekly newspapers
have become a poplar choice for transmitting matrimonial
information in the form of classified advertisement. Using
this vector, seekers can choose their desired matches
silently and sharing of information happens to be done
immediately (via phone or e-mail) investing optimum cost
and effort. Almost all leading newspapers in India have
their classified matrimonial column; even a common
platform for online classified booking service is available
(ReleaseMyAd, ©2007-2008).
Associates
Often close relatives, neighborhood natives, colleagues,
and friends reliably transfer matrimonial information to
settle the marriage among their aspiring young. Although
sometimes they fear to communicate such information
directly, as they feel, their help might be a lifelong
embarrassment to them later, if anything happens
unlikely. Still it is useful practice in finding a suitable
match for many sections of Indian society.
Marriage-bureau
Some mediating agencies take part in transferring
marriage information as demanded by localized peoples.
Usually such bureaus are equipped with professional
agents, consultants, counselors, and legal advisors. They
provide SDI based personalized services only on
payment basis to registered members using printed
match list (readily available) or using in-house database.
Marriage bureaus always hunt for new members to make
their business and seldom unreliably transmit the
information.
Online-matrimony
In recent times matrimony portals, social networking
sites, community specific chat rooms are prevailing on
the Internet. These can be treated as transmitting agent
of first hand matrimonial information and gaining
popularity with the increasing use of Internet in our
country. Such interactive platforms offer attractive
services to their registered members and facilities online
searching (free or fee based) instantly and more
comfortably.
Usefulness of Online Matrimony Service
Online matrimony service refers to the formation of a
community on the Internet, which facilitates the members
to interact and share marriage related information through
SDI (selective dissemination of information) based
personalized ways. This service provides a variety of new
ways for users to interact and share first hand
information, thus gained much popularity in twenty-first
century. Such platform brings the peoples together
having matrimonial interest. Therefore, interested
members can explore the interest of others. Current
matrimony service portals have their ability to set up and
customize a personal profile that enable the members to
use attractive services in the same way of social
networking practices (Pal, 2010). However, impact of
social networking in a linguistically and culturally rich
India is unique, though often criticized for degrading the
Indian culture (Mahajan, 2009). Similar types of sites
sometime mislead the peoples and seldom find
themselves as sex finder club. Almost all matrimony
service portals have their common attributes like free
registration, fee-based utilities (e-matchmaking, online
chatting, email/SMS alerts), personalize services,
community specific search, horoscope matching, etc.
Some popular matrimony services of India featured in
Annexure-I. Free registration always attracts information
seekers to be a member of online matrimony. Obviously
paid members have greater level of access; they can
initiate meaningful contacts with other members,
successfully can use functional tools, and enjoy many
other value added services. Again, structural components
of these portals substantially make the difference in their
efficiency and use. Matrimony databases are usually
comprises of information components viz. basic
information, vital statistical information, religion and
family, education and career, behavior and culture, and
lifestyle information. None-the-less online matrimony sites
are increasingly being used to keep connected with
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Table 1. Indian matrimony sites and their web-metrics
(Source: Alexa.com Traffic Stats, December 4, 2009)
Matrimony Site
Traffic Rank
*
Traffic % from Countries
*
Daily
Pageviews
Per User
$
Time on
Site
#
Sites
Linking
+
Online
Since
@
India Global India USA Others
Shaadi.com 60 783 73.9 7.2 18.9 9.48 5:9 1231 1996 July
Jeevansathi.com 167 2312 85.7 2.1 12.2 5.38 5:8 532 1998 Dec
BharatMatrimony.com 197 2450 82.0 4.1 13.9 1.86 1:8 445 1999 Dec
SimplyMarry.com 488 10154 96.0 1.2 2.8 8.6 10:8 137 N/A
Secondshaadi.com 2788 37439 96.2 3.0 0.8 6.3 7:2 30 N/A
Vivahabandhan.com 9711 133323 91.3 1.8 6.9 3.5 5:2 85 2003 May
Matrimonialsindia.com 10479 94020 87.6 4.0 8.4 4.9 4:6 188 1997 Feb
Lifepartnerindia.com 15487 169707 86.5 0.5 13.0 3.9 2:8 74 2004 Aug
Vivah.com 24202 322426 95.8 0.7 3.5 4.5 4:6 25 2003 Apr
Merasathi.com 30293 440788 96.4 0.6 3.0 5.3 10:9 59 2003 Aug
Starmatrimonials.com 42490 255529 62.5 3.6 43.9 1.4 1:8 42 2001 Oct
Inmatri.com 67611 607154 100 0.0 0.0 5.9 2:7 78 2004 Feb
Hinduvivaha.com 81119 849387 100 0.0 0.0 4.6 4:0 11 N/A
Samyakonline.com 84935 670085 92.9 0.3 6.8 4.1 2:6 62 2002 May
Indiamatrimony.com 103446 1277198
100 0.0 0.0 4.5 4:4 150 2003 Jan
Makemymarriage.com 122247 824929 84.4 0.6 15.4 1.8 1:2 15 2006 Mar
Shubhlagan.in 253164 1358665
78.9 0.9 20.2 1.5 1:2 31 N/A
Imilap.com 256926 1598848
N/A N/A N/A 3.3 2:9 88 1999 Dec
Cooljodi.com 267692 2067939
N/A N/A N/A 1.2 1:9 18 N/A
Shubhbarat.com N/A 3605023
N/A N/A N/A 7.0 6:2 08 2004 Sept
Greatmatrimonial.com N/A 6040507
N/A N/A N/A 3.0 1:5 07 N/A
Nikahhelpline.com N/A 1125989
N/A N/A N/A 1.0 N/A 02 N/A
* Traffic Rank is a measure of website’s popularity. The rank is calculated using a
combination of average daily visitors and page-views over the past 3 months. Traffic rank in
a specific country can also be measured. Therefore, percentage of user comes from the
countries to visit the site has stated.
$
Average numbers of unique pages viewed per user per day by the visitors to the site.
Three months average has taken into account to determine the daily page-views per user.
+ Sites linking meant for website’s reputation. The number of sites on the Internet linking to
this site. Multiple links from the same site are only counted once.
# Daily average number of minutes per visit on the site and considered 90 days avg.
@
The date the domain was first registered.
- N/A = not available
prospective brides and grooms. Peoples of every sphere
of the society have begun to observe its usefulness on
various marital events. In India, online-matrimony market
reveals 12 million users and gaining prominence during
last few years (WATBlog.com). A recent study
(JuxtConsult, 2008) reports that market-size of online
matrimonial is worth Rs. 140 crore in 2008, which is a
remarkable jump from Rs 58 crore in 2006. About 48
percent visitors moving to the net for matrimony, while 50
percent members of the marriage portals live in the five
130 Int. Res. J. Libr. Inf. Arch. Stud.
Fig 1. Indian matrimony traffic comparison (Source: Alexa.com)
metro cities. In order to become more popular, Indian
matrimony service providers are implementing newer
matrimony tools to reap the benefits of web 2.0
technologies. Now members can share matrimonial
information more comfortably in an interactive
environment.
Matrimonial sites in india
Internet has become a universal source of information for
millions of peoples. The growth of Internet usage seems
incredibly fast. India had a total population of
1,156,897,766 people by the year 2009, out of which
81,000,000 people were using the Internet, which makes
7% penetration of the total population in India. Simply,
user growth is increased by 1500% (in 2009) when
compared to the Internet users (5,400,000 approx) of
2000 (Internet world stats, 2009). Now the country has
4.9% share of the total Internet users and ranked fourth
in the world. This share comes around 11% in terms of
Internet users from Asian countries. Again, matrimonial
sites are now the 13
th
most popular mainstream online
activity. Over 12 million Indians use online matrimony
(WATBlog.com), which started with the hosting of
shaadi.com (in 1996) and has now shifted to a new
culture. Today, hundreds of matrimony sites have
become operative in national and regional level to sustain
the pressure of marriage information seekers. These sites
provide interactive platform to communicate marriage
related information. Potential users can choose any of the
platforms, but they must evaluate these sites in terms of
accessibility, cost, credibility, ease of use, functional
tools, reliability, utility, visibility, presentation, etc. A list of
Indian matrimony sites along with their traffic ranks
(indicates popularity), amount of links (reputation), daily
page views, average stay on site and first registration
date of the domain (site age) has been presented in
Table-1. Few other sites just cross there infancy. Kolkata
based media group Ananda Bazar Patrika (ABP) has
explored possibilities of launching a matrimony portal,
which is expected to offer extraordinary facilities, as said
by Pramath Raj Sinha, MD & CEO of ABP (Mukherjee,
2007).
Let us have a close look at the daily traffic rank trends
(a measure of website’s popularity) of these matrimony
sites over a period of six month, as shown in Fig.1. Traffic
rank is calculated using a combination of average daily
visitors and page-views. The lesser the rank is of course
better for a site in terms of popularity. Trend graph
indicates daily traffic rank (charted over time), where
shaadi.com leads currently and is quite consistent but
simplymarry is having least popularity among these four.
Jeevansathi and bharatmatrimony have almost similar
trends (Alexa, 2009). Notably, shaadi seems to be the
site receiving most page-views (9.48 pages) with
optimum stay of visitors (5:9 minutes) on the site.
Surprisingly, it has the largest NRI audience (26.1%) and
maximum number of websites (1231) linking to this site.
Jeevansathi beats Bharatmatrimony in terms of traffic
rank (161), page-views, and number of users (85.7%) in
the country. However, simplymarry site is commending
over page-views (8.6 pages) and having maximum stay
(10:8 minutes) on the site per visit. (Fig.1)
Noteworthy is the fact that online-matrimony space is
predominantly occupied by four major players viz. Shaadi
(People Interactive), BharatMatrimony (Consim Info),
SimplyMarry (Times Group) and Jeevansathi (Infoedge).
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Fig 2. Major service portals in India
In no doubt, shaadi.com is a clear winner followed by
jeevansathi, bharatmatrimony, simplymarry and others.
Some of the popular matrimony sites of India featured in
the Annexure-I. These sites are driving their focus more
on newer technologies in order to increase the revenues.
Such matrimony sites have revealed a completely new
Indian culture in transforming matrimonial information.
Shaadi.Com
Shaadi.com, one of the India’s best-known brands and
the world’s largest matrimonial service was founded by
Anupam Mittal in 1996. The Peoples Interactive (I) Pvt
Ltd company pioneered this online matrimonial with an
objective to provide a superior matchmaking experience
by expanding the opportunities available to meet potential
life partners. It has established strong network deploying
400 employees across 250 centers in India and abroad.
Shaadi.com has become most preferred matrimonial
website for Indians and over 10 million members with 1.3
million matches founds available currently. A recent study
has credited shaadi.com for being the most visited (by
Ranking.com) and most user-friendly (by JuxtConsult)
online matchmaking brand in India. Shaadi seems to be
the site where registration is pretty simple, an array of
regional options, and many other intelligent features (viz.
smart search, astro search, shaadi messenger, voice
SMS, shaadi ring tones) leads the way of matrimony
services to diverse communities in India. However, the
superior technologies empowered by Matrimony 2.0
enables rich interface applications, improved algorithms,
and nice privacy options to configure the user
preferences. Superior services can be accomplished by
e-Matchmaker, a sophisticated tool that runs
automatically for potential compatibility and ensures
higher degree of matrimonial success. This flagship
brand is now on television (via Dish-TV) with the
ShaadiActive service to find the perfect soulmate. It has
to be noted that Star-Vivaah is an innovative matrimonial
show and first of its’ kind on Indian Television solely
organized by shaadi.com, happened every Monday to
Friday at 2 PM only on STAR-Plus. Business Today
magazine has recognized shaadi.com as one of the
India’s top 10 marketers (Shaadi, 2009) (Fig.2).
Jeevansathi.Com
It is one of the leading matrimonial websites in India,
which was initiated in September 2004 keeping in view to
serve the north and western Indian communities. Now it
provides fairly comprehensive profiles of more than two
million potential grooms/brides seeking an alliance in the
country. It has advanced search functionalities for
intelligent matching specifying various attributes of
human life. Jeevansathi membership options include
eRishta and eValue with bold listing utility, where the
members can pay varied amount of fees based on the
facilities and duration of service he/she like to avail.
132 Int. Res. J. Libr. Inf. Arch. Stud.
Contacts can be made through telephone, e-mail, online
chat, and SMS. As per India Online 2008 Survey
(conducted by JuxtConsult) Jeevansathi has gained 3%
share of users to grow to 8% of the total market share.
JeevanSathi.com has been doing really well and they get
the sound traffic in India. Of course, there is scope for
further improvement (Jeevansathi, 2009) (Fig.2).
BharatMatrimony.Com
It is one of the trusted matrimony portals in India since
1997, founded by Murugavel Janankiraman. This platform
brings together all the young Indians living across the
globe and provides comprehensive solution for marriage
combining tradition and technology. It has setup a
consortium of 15 regional portals across 22 states and
over 100 major cities in India, thus committed to provide
best class services with trust and confidence.
BharatMatrimony has occupied an wide marketplace in
India perhaps due to it’s community specific regional
services in different fifteen languages viz. Bengali,
Assamese, Gujrati, Hindi, Kannada, Malayalee, Marathi,
Marwadi, Oriya, Parsi, Punjabi, Sindhi, Tamil, Telugu,
and Urdu. This successful portal has found a place in the
Limca Book of Records for facilitating a record number of
marriages and about one crore verified profiles found
available currently. It has been recognized as the best
matrimony website in 2007 (as reported by PC World)
and listed in the NASSCOM’s top 100 IT innovators.
BharatMatrimony goes beyond matchmaking services by
providing matrimony related services like wedding
directory, pre-marital counseling, matrimony-xpress
relationship blog as well as social initiatives like bharat
eye-bank and blood-bank (Bharatmatrimony, 2009)
(Fig.2).
SimplyMarry.Com
It is India’s premier matrimonial service portal, promoted
by the Time of India group. SimplyMarry offers one stop
platform for online matchmaking that allows prospective
Indian brides and grooms to meet and communicate
regarding matrimony. It uses the latest and most cutting
edge technologies available in online environment to
provide members with fast, relevant and best matching
results in strict confidence. Despite the user-friendly
interface and customer friendly tools, simplymarry has
strict abuse prevention and reporting systems for the
members accepted via screening system. However, the
chat messenger having popup facility via chat-N-marry
that enables contact instantly with online members those
are approved for chat. Duration of membership varies
from 3-12 months having multiple options via gold,
diamond, and platinum or print-online combo packages
By means of print advertisement in Times of India
newspaper. Benefits can be made through online
chat, personal messages, profile links, text link in home
page, highlighted profile in search results, and many
others. This largest media and entertainment
conglomerate has received a lot of criticism, but they are
in a great position to be eventual leaders if they can
utilize the newspaper matrimonial classifieds.
(SimplyMarry, 2009) (Fig.2).
SecondShaadi.Com
It is highly focused matrimonial service exclusively for the
individuals (divorced or widowed) seeking a new life
through remarriage. Remarriage has always been a
hidden and neglected issue in Indian society. This site
attempts to eliminate all such biases and provides
effective platform for individuals seeking contacts for
remarriage. It has setup a strong network of like-minded
peoples that allows in finding a perfect partner based on
selected eighteen parameters. This remarriage service
portal enables valuable features like online chat,
discussion forum, counselling services, multiple photo
upload, horoscope generation, etc. Duration of
membership can be for fifteen days up to lifetime
depends on the fees paid by the member
(SecondShaadi, 2009).
LifepartnerIndia.Com
This is one of the best-in-class matrimonial services in
India that provides multiple facilities for aspiring members
of the country. Facilities include LPI account,
personalized messages, saved searches, online chat,
album creation, photo club, and many more.
‘eMatchFinder’ is an automated sophisticated tool for
identifying best match based on partner expectations or
preferences. Bold-listing highlights a profile with different
background and bold texts, which gets special
importance for perfect match. Privacy options are
significant in this matrimony portal (LifepartnerIndia,
2009).
Vivah.Com
Identified as the most ambitious matrimonial website in
India, which blends the Indian tradition with latest
technology. It was established in 2001 with a domain
name eMilanOnline.com and redesigned version
appeared as ShaadiKaro.com in 2002. In 2004,
significant modifications have been made with a new
domain entitled as Vivah.com. However, the open beta
version of vivah.com has launched in November 2008.
Naturally, it has gone through several steps of evolution
to develop this unique platform towards fulfilling the social
mission. Now it has strong network with trust among
millions of peoples. This service portal is featured by
secure email account using vivahmail, live conferencing,
automatic blocking, privacy control, verified chat account,
etc. (Vivah, 2009)
NikahHelpline.Com
This is widest Muslim matrimony in India. It brings a
special focus on NRI/ NRPS worldwide and provids
matrimonial services in different three languages viz.
English, Arabic, and French. Primarily the profiles
undergo for an approval and subsequently confirmed via
email and phone call. Here registered members can avail
many advance utilities like favorite watch, eNikahMaker
notification, detailed profile statistics, wali supervision tool
for women members, accept or decline interests, profile
highlighting or hiding, etc. Favourite watch tool enable the
members to become aware about the profiles favourite
for them. Confirmed members can also have a look on
the weekly report received by email using eNikahMaker
notification tool. However, wali supervision is a great tool
specially designed for women members to send a copy of
all their correspondences to their ‘Wali in order to
supervise the proposals. Wali is the represention or
protecter or mediator or guardian for women seeking
marriage. Notably, this service portal supports the
members by extending prominent legal advises relating to
their marriage in no cost (NikahHelpline, 2009).
CONCLUSION
Marriage information has always been an integral part of
our society. Since last decade, matrimony service
providers have been striving with stupendous efforts for
the sustainable development of online marriage
information systems and services in India. The impact of
online matrimony so far has been encouraging. Four
matrimony portals viz. shaadi, jeevansathi,
bharatmatrimony, and simplymarry have been playing a
significant role in satisfying the objectivity of marriage
information seekers in the country. Matrimony service
providers have started vigorous marketing efforts
announcing the availability of reliable information against
nominal fees. Even such agencies are now adopting
user-orientation approach in disseminating marriage
information via their portals. Reversibly online-matrimony
has faced criticism with reference to adequacy and
quality of information. Efficacy of an information system
depends on the correct assessment of data requirements
based on the demands made by individual users and on
the methodologies adopted in the collection of data for
dissemination (Nicholas, 1996). Therefore, information
accumulation in any matrimonial database should be
specified pertaining to the users consisting grooms and
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brides of complementary nature, but not by the choice of
service provider alone. Practically there would have some
duplication of cost and effort in creating/accessing such
databases unless there is a central coordinating agency
to take care of these initiatives. Perhaps the complexity
and vast diversity (racial, ethnic, cultural, and linguistic.)
in Indian society creates a formidable hurdle towards
developing a common platform for accessing the
matrimonial information in an integrated manner.
Therefore, more attention needs to be taken to develop
a comprehensive system in order to improve the reliability
and coverage of matrimonial information. Joint initiative of
matrimony service providers for building strong
information network could bring a reasonable solution in
providing effective marriage information services in India.
Further assessment of matrimony sites in terms of
visibility, relative importance as well as authenticity and
commitment towards matrimonial information is always
necessary. New policy initiatives should be taken care off
in local, regional and national level. So web content
analysis, web-metrics analysis, link analysis, cluster
analysis, web impact factor (WIF), rich interface
applications, improved search algorithms, web 2.0
compatibility, consortia based access mechanism would
be a great frontier of marriage information research in the
forcible future.
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ANNEXURE – I
(Quick Look on Popular Matrimony Portals in India)
Service Portal Membership plans & contact Special features and tools
- Free registration
- Platinum – INR 401 per month
- Diamond – INR 551 per month
- Gold – INR 734 per month
Ph. 1860-500-3456 (Toll free)
- ISO 9001:2000 compliant
- Live on chat & bold listing
- Matrimony 2.0 enabled
- ShaadiActive service
- e-Matchmaking tool
- Shaadi Messanger
- Free mobile service
- Astro search facility
- Free registration.
- Classic – INR 1990 for 3M
- Classic Plus – INR 2590 for 3M
- Classic Super- INR 2890 for 3M
Ph. 1800-3000-1234(Toll free)
- Personal Matchmaker tool
- Fast Track assistance
- Accept/ decline interests
- Personalized services
- Verified phone no’s
- Horoscope matching
- Free registration
- eRishta – INR 1295 for 2M
- eValue – INR 1700 for 2M
Ph. 1800-419-6299 (Toll free)
- Online chat, Bold listing
- Astro compatibility service
- Expert profile writers
- Intelligent matching
- Album creation, etc.
- Free registration
- Gold – INR 1500 for 3M
- Diamond – INR 2200 for 6M
- Platinum – INR 3500 for 12M
Ph. 1860-500-5500 (Local
charge)
- Picture/featured profile link
- Abuse prevention systems
- Print & online combo pack
- Highlighted search result
- Chat-n-Marry messenger
- Text link on home page
- SimplyMarryZine tool
- Free registration
- Bronze – INR 999 for 15 days
- Silver – INR 1999 for 3M
- Gold – INR 2999 for lifetime
Ph. 012-4409-1157
- Remarriage portal
- Horoscope matching
- Counselling services
- Online chat & SMS alerts
- Multiple photo upload
- Discussion forum
- Highlighted listing
- Free registration
- Premium – INR 750 for 3M
- Premium – INR 1250 for 6M
- Premium – INR 1950 for 12M
Ph. 0-93410-41821 (10AM -
6PM)
- eMatchFinder tools enable
- Personalized messages
- Free LPI chat & video clip
- Free album creation
- Bold listing facility
- Free registration
- Other options not traced
Ph. 022-3291-5044 (1 to 6 PM)
- Live video conferencing
- Own e-mail service
- Privacy control mechanism
- Verified phone/email ID
- Auto-block facility
Free registration
Silver/ Gold – INR 1000 for 12M
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- Muslim matrimonial service
- Special focus on NRI/NRPs
- eNikahMaker reporting tool
- Wali supervision tool
- Favourite watch facility
- Profile statistics visible
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Reddy VNK (1978). Marriages in India: a psychosociological study, Academic Press, Gurgaon, New Delhi.