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The aim of this research is to determine the rank order of the strategies that students use in each type of relationship (friends, close friends, emotional friends, mother and father), and the second one is to determine the relationship type which is frequently used with each strategy (forcing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and collaborating).Random sampling was used. Total of 200 students from Faculty of Education, at three Departments namely Turkish Language (n=100), Social Studies (n=50) and Psychological Counseling and Guidance (n=50) at Eastern Mediterrenean University in North Cyprus. The Conflict Resolution Survey, was used. As for the analysis of data, Friedman Test and ANOVA with repeated measure was used.Results suggest that compromising is the most frequently used strategy for university students with friends, close friends, mothers and fathers; while collaborating strategy is used with emotional friends. Additionally, forcing, compromising, and collaborating strategies are mostly used with emotional friends and avoiding strategy with father.
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Determining the conflict resolution strategies of university students
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, Sibel Dincyürek
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,0üge %eido÷lu
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Near East University, Ataturk Faculty of Education,Nicosia,N. Cyprus
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Ataturk TeachersTraining Academy Nicosia,N. Cyprus
Received October 23, 2008; revised December 13, 2008; accepted January 3, 2009
Abstract
The aim of this research is to determine the rank order of the strategies that students use in each type of relationship (friends,
close friends, emotional friends, mother and father), and the second one is to determine the relationship type which is frequently
used with each strategy (forcing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and collaborating).
Random sampling was used. Total of 200 students from Faculty of Education, at three Departments namely Turkish Language
(n=100), Social Studies (n=50) and Psychological Counseling and Guidance (n=50) at Eastern Mediterrenean University in
North Cyprus. The Conflict Resolution Survey, was used. As for the analysis of data, Friedman Test and ANOVA with repeated
measure was used.
Results suggest that compromising is the most frequently used strategy for university students with friends, close friends, mothers
and fathers; while collaborating strategy is used with emotional friends. Additionally, forcing, compromising, and collaborating
strategies are mostly used with emotional friends and avoiding strategy with father.
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Keywords: Conflict; conflict resolution strategies; forcing; avoiding; accomodating; comporasing and colloborating.
1. Introduction
This study focuses on conflict resolution strategies of youth who experience rapid development in technical and
social areas of life along the way being mature individuals. According to Öner (1996:191) “conflict occurs when one
ore more people cannot agree on a subject. People generally experience conflicts when needs, instincts and desires
counteract. These different needs, instincts, points of view and perceptions cause conflicts. We all live through
occasional conflicts for thinking in a different way. This is a part of being human.”
Taútan (2002:1) emphasizes two factors causing interpersonal conflicts in people’s lives which are also the
underlying reasons for young people experience conflict. The reason for young individuals having interpersonal
conflicts is the worry to achieve what they wish for themselves, and the ways and diversity of the relationships they
have to pursue in order to get along with others. The assertive, self-sufficient, defensive attitude that emerges as a
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result when individuals act with the urge of satisfying their own needs, causes conflicts both within the individual
and between individuals (www.organizasyon.com).
According to Johnson (1981) conflicts are a normal segment of daily life. Yet, conflict is considered to be
negative, as it causes disagreements, stress, social chaos and violence, and moreover, the most significant indication
of a good relationship is accepted to be the absence of conflicts. However, conflict has positive aspect: it helps the
individual in knowing themselves, enhancing their awareness about others’ characteristics, noticing the relationship
problems that they need to solve, and encouraging change, increases energy and motivation for problem solving,
making life more interesting, and help find small problems that are perceived as big issues. After all, it is obvious
that conflict, can induce constructive results both for the conflicting person, and the person or the group that conflict
is about. It has been acknowledged for a long time that conflicts are inevitable features of relationships, and that
their resolutions determine whether a relationship is functional or not.
According to Johnson and Johnson’s (1996) Dual Concern Theory, it is assumed that parties in conflict have two
concerns: the concern of achieving personal targets and the concern of pursuing the relationship with the other party.
These two dimensions are referred as “relation” and “purpose”. As the result of the interaction of these two
dimensions, five conflict resolution styles emerged; forcing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and
collaborating (Johnson and Johnson, 1994). As Deutsch (1973) puts it, the conflict resolution styles used by the
individuals, determine whether the relationship is constructive or destructive.
Conflict resolution is defined by the following five behavioural patterns (Thomas,1976):
Forcing: The ambition of one party to dominate the other. In this case, people’s targets are more important than their
relationships. According to Karip (1999), this strategy to establish superiority over one another is used when either
of the parties value satisfaction of their own interests and needs, at the expense of the opposing party’s interests and
needs.
Avoiding: This strategy refers to avoiding the conflict environment. It is the indifference of one party to the
other’s wills. The individual does not confront the other and try for a solution, because it is hopeless. As Karip
(1999) states, in cases where the parties value each other’s interests and needs, the strategies of avoiding a conflict
or ignoring the conflict are used.
Accommodating: This strategy refers to forgoing one’s own needs. The basis of this conflict resolution strategy is
the sharing of differences. One party ignores their own desires in order to fulfil the other’s. According to Karip
(1999), accommodating is the case where one party gives up the satisfaction of his/her own interests and needs, in
consideration of the other party’s interests and needs.
Compromising: This strategy refers to the condition where either of the parties gives up parts of his/her desires in
order to satisfy the other’s. In this case, persons seek a third way. Karip (1999) states that, as long as both sides
accept mutual compromise as a strategy, parties give up certain issues in order to settle and achieve a solution.
Collaborating: Problem is solved by considering the needs of both parties. Both parties work together. According
to Karip (1999) “this strategy is used when the importance given to own and other’s interests and needs are high,
thereby achieving one’s goal and maintaining a high quality of relationship”.
Literature has involved studies where examined preferred conflict resolution strategies with relations to the type of
relationship people have. However, these studies mostly involved in educational administrators, teachers, business
environments. Yet, few studies have been conducted on youth to determine the preferred resolution strategies with
relations to the relationship types with contradicting results. Therefore, this research chooses to focus on “friendship,
emotional involvement and parental relationship” and to find out strategies preferred with respect to the types of
relationship. Additionally, this research also aims to collect data on which strategy is used with which relationship
types more frequently.
1.1. Aim of the research
Today, technology as well as social life is progressing and improving rapidly. People live through a long and
challenging transitional period from childhood into maturity. The contribution of learning conflict resolution skills
to the production of more constructive, happy and self sufficient individuals with insights cannot be denied.
The basic aim of this research is to determine the conflict resolution strategies which are used by university
students, in their interpersonal conflicts. There are two dimensions in this research: The first one is to determine the
rank order of the strategies that students use in each type of relationship (friends, close friends, emotional friends,
mother and father), and the second one is to determine the relationship type which is frequently used with each
strategy (forcing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and collaborating).
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1.2. Research questions
1.2.1. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
their conflicts with other people(friends, close friends, emotional friends, mother and father)?
1.2.2. Sub Problems
1. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their friends?
2. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their close friends?
3. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their emotional friends?
4. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their mothers?
5. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their fathers?
1.2.3. Are there any significant differences among relationship types in using conflict resolution strategies namely
f
orcing, avoiding, accommodating, collaborating, and compromising?
1.2.3.1. Sub question
1. Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using forcing strategy by university
students?
2. Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using avoiding strategy by university
students
3. Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using accommodating strategy by university
students
4. Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using compromising strategy by university
students
5. Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using collaborating strategy by university
students.
2. Method
2.1. Design of the research
This is a descriptive study which investigates the conflict resolution strategies that university students use.
2.1.1. Sampling
The sampling of the study is limited to the Faculty of Educational Sciences students studying during the 2007-
2008 academic year at Eastern Mediterrenean University in the Turkish Republic of Northern Cyprus (TRNC).
Subjects of this research are a total of 200 students from Faculty of Education, at three Departments namely Turkish
Language Teaching (n=100), Teaching in Social Studies (n=50), and Psychological Counseling and Guidance
(n=50). Random sampling was used.
2.1.2. Data collection instrument
The Conflict Resolution Survey, which was developed by Tezer (1986) and adapted by Beido÷lu (2001) was
used in this research. This survey consists of five sections. These are defined as friend, close friend, emotional
friend, mother and father. There are five definitions in each section, containing conflict resolution strategies defined
by Thomas (1976) as forcing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and collaborating strategies. Subjects were
asked to mark how frequently they used each strategy separately on a Likert scale. The scale involves Never (1),
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Seldom (2), Occasionally (3), Mostly (4), Always (5). Lowest and highest values are respectively (1) and (5). Higher
point denotes higher frequency of usage.
3. Reliability Study
Reliability of this Conflict Resolution Survey (CRS), was done by using test retest method by Tezer (1986),
and was stated to be .71 for forcing, .60 for avoiding, .69 for accommodating, .72 for compromising and .76 for
collaborating.
Beido÷lu (2001) conducted the reliability study of Tezer’s CRS in the TRNC population where she adapted the
survey. The Cronbach Alpha results were as follows; .73 for forcing, .74 for avoiding, .82 for accommodating, .70
for compromising and .92 for collaborating.
The Cronbach Alpha results for the reliability study of this research, performed with 50 students, were .80 for
forcing, .70 for avoiding, .70 for accommodating, .85 for compromising, and .57 for collaborating.
2.1.3 Data Analysis
In this research, Friedman Test was used for the first research question to calculate the rank order of the conflict
resolution strategies separately for each relationship type. For the second research question, ANOVA with repeated
measure was used in order to determine the significant differences among relationship types for each resolution
strategy.
4. Findings
4.1. Results of the first research question
R
esearch Question 1 : Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by
university students in their conflicts with other people(friends, close friends, emotional friends, mother and father)?
R
esults and Interpretation of the First Sub- Question
Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in conflicts
with their friends
The Friedman Test results for the first sub-question are shown Table 4.1.
Table 4.1. Friedman Test results for the frequency of use of the resolution strategies with friends.
Conflict Resolution
Strategy
Mean
Rank
Forcing
2.81
Avoiding
2.45
Accommodating
2.44
Compromising 3.70
Strategies used in
conflicts with friends
Collaborating
3.54
F²: 65.880
df: 4
p: .000
As it is stated in Table 4.1, significant differences were found among the five conflict resolution strategies used
by university students in conflicts that they have with their friends; [F² (4)=65.880, p<.05]. Accordingly, university
students use compromising strategy most frequently, and accommodating least frequently, in conflicts with their
friends.
Results and Interpretation of the Second Sub-Question
Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their close friends?
The Friedman Test results for the second sub-question are shown Table 4.2.
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Table 4.2. Friedman Test results for the frequency of use of the resolution strategies with close friends.
Conflict Resolution
Strategy
Mean
Rank
Forcing 2.52
Avoiding 2.41
Accommodating 2.71
Strategies used with
Close Friends
Compromise
Collaborating
3.66
3.62
F²: 70.026
df: 4
p: .000
As it is stated in Table 4.2, there are significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by
university students, in conflicts with their close friends [F² (4)=70.026, p< .05]. Accordingly, university students use
compromising most frequently, and avoiding least frequently, in conflicts with their close friends.
Results and Interpretation of the Third Sub-Question
3. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their emotional friends.
The Friedman Test results for the second sub-question are shown Table 4.3.
Table 4.3. Friedman Test results for the frequency of use of the resolution strategies with emotional friends.
Conflict Resolution
Strategies
Mean
Rank
Forcing 2.73
Avoiding 2.43
Accommodating 2.46
Compromising 3.60
Strategies used in
conflicts with
emotional friends
Collaborating 3.69
F²: 72.496
df: 4
p: .000
As it is shown at Table 4.3, there are significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by
university students, in conflicts with their close friends [F² (4)=72.496, p< .05]. Accordingly university students use
collaborating most frequently, and avoiding least frequently, in conflicts with their emotional friends.
Results and Interpretation of the Fourth Sub-Question
4. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their mother?
The Friedman Test results for the second sub-question are shown Table 4.4.
Table 3.4 : Friedman Test results for the frequency of use of the resolution strategies with mother.
Conflict Resolution
Strategy
Mean
Rank
Forcing 2.50
Avoiding 2.43
Accommodation 3.16
Compromising 3.70
Strategies used with
Mothers
Collaborating 3.14
F²: 54.047
df: 4
p: .000
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As it is stated in Table 4.4, significant differences were found among the conflict resolution strategies used by
university students, in conflicts with their mothers [F² (4)=70.026, p< .05]. Accordingly university students use
compromising most frequently, and avoiding least frequently, in conflicts with their mothers.
Results and Interpretation of the Fifth Sub-Question
5. Are there any significant differences among the conflict resolution strategies used by university students in
conflicts with their fathers?
The Friedman Test results for the second sub-question are shown Table 4.5.
Table 4.5 : Friedman Test results for the frequency of use of the resolution strategies with father
Conflict Resolution
Strategy
Mean
Rank
Forcing 2.20
Avoiding 2.71
Accommodating 3.36
Compromising 3.44
Strategies used with
Fathers
Collaborating 3.21
F²: 53.804
df: 4
p: .013
As it is stated at Table 4.5, significant differences were found for the conflict resolution strategies used by
university students, in conflicts with their fathers [F² (4)=53.804, p< .05]. Accordingly university students use
compromising most frequently, and forcing least frequently, in conflicts with their fathers.
Results of this research suggest that compromising is the most frequently used strategy for university students
when they get into conflicts with friends, close friends, mothers and fathers; while collaborating strategy is used
with emotional friends. The least frequently used strategy is avoiding with close friend and mother; accommodating
strategy is with friends; and forcing strategy is with father.
In Tezer’s (1996) research, people’s attitudes towards their spouses and superiors in Turkey are investigated.
According to the research findings, different relationship types do not create a change in the resolution. Both women
and men prefer compromising in conflict resolution. They use avoiding, accomodating, collaborating at medium
level competing (forcing) strategies less frequently. Tezer’s findings show that there is no difference between
conflict resolution strategies used for different types of relationships.
Lung’s (1999) research results on parent-adolescent conflicts, have contributed to the family conflicts and
resolutions literature. According to this research, students coming from Chinese American families mostly use
avoiding strategy, while students from white American families use accommodating strategy.
4.2 Results and Interpretation of the Second Research Question
Research Question 2 : Are there any significant differences among relationship types in using conflict resolution
strategies namely forcing, avoiding, accommodating, collaborating, and compromising?
Results and Interpretation of the First Sub-Question
1. Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using forcing strategy by university
students?
Table 4.6 indicates the result of ANOVA with repeated measure with relation to the use of forcing strategy.
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Table 4.6 : Results of One way analysis of variance with repeated measure of the forcing strategy in different relationships.
Source of the
Variance
Sum of
squares
SS Mean Square F P Meaningful
Difference
Within test
subject
62.178 99 0.628
Testing 20.328 4 5.082 5.218 .000 1-5
3-5
4-5
Error 385.672 396 .974
Total 468.178 499
As it is stated at Table 4.6, there are significant differences among four types of relationship (friend, emotional
friend, mother and father) [F
(1,99 )
= 5.218, p<.05]. Emotional friend mean point ( X = 2.99); is found to be greater
than friend mean score (
X = 2.75); mother mean score ( X = 2.65) and father mean score ( X = 2.38). This finding
indicates that the students use forcing strategy significantly more in conflicts with emotional friends then mother and
father. No significant difference was found for close friend.
Results and Interpretation of the Second Sub-Question
Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using avoiding strategy by university
students?
Table 4.7 refers to the result of ANOVA with repeated measure with relation to the use of avoiding strategy.
Table 4.7 : Results of One way analysis of variance with repeated measure of the avoiding strategy in different relationships.
Source of Variance Sum of
Squares
SS Mean Square F P Meaningful
Difference
Within test subject 68.310 99 .690
Testing 9.232 4 2.308 2.426 .048
Error
376.768 396 .951
Total 454.31 499
1-5
2-5
As it is indicated at Table 4.7, there are significant differences among relationship types (friend, close friend, and
father) [F
(1,99 )
= 2.426, p<.05] with respect to the use of avoiding strategy. Father mean score ( X = 2.88); is found
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to be greater than friend mean score ( X = 2.54); and close friend mean score ( X = 2.50) . This finding indicates
that, the students use avoiding strategy mostly in conflicts with their fathers. No significant difference was found for
emotional friend and mother.
Results and Interpretation of the Third Sub-Question
Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using accommodating strategy by university
students?
Results of ANOVA with repeated measure did not prevail any significant differences among relationship types
(friend, close friend, emotional friend, mother and father) [F
(1,99 )
= 1,233, p< .05], for accommodating strategy.
Results and Interpretation of the Fourth Sub-Question
Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using compromising strategy by university
students?
Table 4.8 refers to the result of ANOVA with repeated measure with relation to the use of compromising strategy
Table 4.8.. Results of One way analysis of variance with repeated measure of the compromising strategy in different relationships.
Source of Variance Sum of
Squares
SS Mean Square F P Meaningful
Difference
Within test subject 50.322 99 .523
Testing 12.232 4 3.398 3.559 .005
Error 371.747 396 .921
Total 433.511 499
1-5
2-5
3-5
As it is indicated at Table 4.8, significant differences have been found among four types of relationship (friend,
emotional friend, mother and father), [F
(1,99 )
= 3.559, p<.05] with respect to the use of compromising strategy.
Emotional friend mean score (
X = 3.68) is found to be greater than friend mean point ( X = 3.67); mother mean
score (
X = 3.64) and father mean score ( X = 3.45). This finding indicates that the students use compromising
strategy mostly in conflicts with emotional friends. No significant difference was found for close friend.
Results and Interpretation of the Fifth Sub-Question
Are there any significant differences among the relationship types in using collaborating strategy by university
students?
Table 4.9 refers to the result of ANOVA with repeated measure with relation to the use of collaborating strategy
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Table 4.9 . Results of One way analysis of variance with repeated measure of the collaborating strategy in different relationships.
Variance
Source
Sum of
Squares
SS Mean of
Squares
F P Meaningful
Difference
Within test
subject
70.360 99 .711
Testing 15.388 4 3.847 3.559 .002 3-5
Error 349.012 396 .881
Total 434.76 499
As it is indicated at Table 4.9, significant differences have been found among two types of relationship
(emotional friend and father), [F
(1,99 )
= 3.559, p<.05] with respect to the use of collaborating strategy. Emotional
friend mean score (
X = 3.73); is found to be greater than father mean score ( X = 3.27) . This finding shows that
students use collaborating strategy mostly in conflicts with their emotional friends. No significant difference was
found for friends, close friends and mother.
Overall results of the second research question suggest that forcing, compromising, and collaborating strategies
are mostly used with emotional friends and avoiding strategy with father. No significant difference was found for
compromising strategy with respect to relationship type. In their research, Laursen, Hartuh, Koplas (1996) found
that teenagers and young adults use compromising more with their friends, and in their relationships with peers, and
they use less forcing with the peers who are not family or friend.
5. Conclusion and Recommendations
This research had two aims: One was to determine the rank order of strategies university students use in their
conflicts with friends, close friends, partners, mother and father. The results of this study revealed that the most
frequently used strategy university students used with friends, close friends, mother, and father is compromising;
and the most frequently used strategy with emotional friend was collaborating. With relation to the second aim of
this research which was to determine the significant differences among the resolution strategies of the university
students used in different relationship types, the results revealed that forcing, compromising, and collaborating
strategies were significantly used with partner and avoiding strategy with father.
The question whether or not adolescents use different conflict resolution strategies depending upon the type of
relationship they have, involves in conflicting results in the literature. Haar (1999), Laursen & Collins (1994) and
Laursen, Hartup, & Koplas (1996) point out that adolescents’ use of conflict strategies changes in terms of type of
relationship. Consistent with this argument, Kelley et. al. (1983) points out that those different types of
relationships also have their own variables such as intimacy, power, and statue, which form the interdependence of
the relationship. Additionally, literature on dyadic behaviour (Kenny, Mohr, & Levesque, 2001) emphasizes that,
“consistencies of individual behaviour with various partners are moderate but the amount of variance due to the
interaction between the person and the partners can be considerable. This is particularly true if the relationship with
the different partners varies a great deal, as with family members versus friends” (cited in Black, 2002, p. 6).
On the one hand, in consistent with the above argument, Black (2002) found that adolescents exhibited
significantly less withdrawal with their mothers than with their best friends. In other words, adolescents avoided the
problem discussion more with their best friends than with their mothers. Tezer and Demir (2001) found that males
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reported more competitive behaviour toward same-sex peers than toward opposite-sex peers, and more avoiding
behavior toward opposite-sex peers than toward same-sex peers. Furthermore, Laursen (1993) found high level of
submission and disengagement, and low level of compromise in parent-adolescent conflict yet considerable
compromise and little disengagements with close friend. Similarly, in the study of Laursen, Hartup, and Koplas,
(1996) adolescent reported more compromising with friends than with family members and non friends in disputes.
Studies carried out in North Cyprus indicated that the most frequently used strategy was avoiding and compromising
toward father whereas collaborating/accommodating toward close friend for high school students (KÕralp, 2003).
Another study conducted in North Cyprus by Dinçyürek (2003) indicated that avoiding/compromising were mainly
used toward father, forcing toward friend, and accommodating toward partner for college students.
On the other hand, contradicting results in the literature also exist with relation to the above argument. For
example, Tezer and Demir (2001) found that females did not differ in preferences regarding conflict behaviors
toward same-sex and opposite-sex peers. In another study, no differences between the conflict behaviors of
individuals toward their spouses and supervisors were found (Tezer, 1996). Similarly, no significant differences
were found among conflict strategies with respect to close friend and mother (Dinçyürek, 2003); and friend, mother,
and teacher (KÕralp, 2003).
In conclusion, qualitative research designs could provide better possibilities for elaborating the concerns of
subjects when they prefer certain resolution strategies with respect to different relationship types.
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