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“My Best Friend Always Did and Still Does Betray Me Constantly”: Examining Relational and Physical Victimization Within a Dyadic Friendship Context

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This study was an investigation of the nature of victimization within the context of dyadic peer friendships. In particular, relational and physical victimization were examined to determine whether level of victimization by a friend varied as a function of sex or having a reciprocated friendship. Qualities of the friendship and satisfaction with the friendship were explored as predictors of both forms of victimization. The sample consisted of 384 children in Grades 4 to 6 (M = 10.5 years of age). Girls in relationally victimizing friendships described these relationships as high in both positive and negative friendship qualities, whereas both boys and girls in physically and physically plus relationally victimizing friendships described their relationships as more negative across all friendship quality variables. All children in victimizing relationships reported less satisfaction than those in nonvictimizing relationships. Using regression analyses, we were able to predict almost half of the variance in relational victimization and almost a third of the variance in physical victimization from friendship quality ratings. Some implications for prevention and intervention are discussed.

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... Furthermore, friendships can protect against feelings of low self-worth as children feel they are not alone, especially if they previously experienced discrimination (Fox & Boulton, 2006). Similarly, the lack of friendship and the presence of bullying and conflict may have an adverse effect on children's self-esteem (Daniels et al., 2010). ...
... The parents in this study highlighted young children's self-esteem, and sense of feeling good about themselves, which is crucial to their wellbeing. A range of research (Daniels et al., 2010;Gauze et al., 1996) attests to the reciprocal relationship between self-image and friendship, with one potentially having a positive impact on the other. ...
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... Although youth may not want the friendship to end, they also may not be particularly satisfied with the friendship. Daniels et al. (2010) found that youth victimized by their friends reported lower friendship satisfaction than nonvictims. In contrast, however, Wei and Jonson-Reid (2011) found that victimized youth reported higher liking of peers who were both aggressive and friends compared with non-friends (they did not compare with peers who were friends but not aggressive). ...
... There are conflicting findings regarding gender differences in aggression between friends. Some suggest that boys have higher rates of victimization by friends than do girls (Daniels et al., 2010), others find that girls have more victimization in friendship groups than do boys (at least for relational victimization; Closson & Watanabe, 2018), and still others find no gender differences in ANDREWS ET AL. | 195 aggression between friends (Brendgen et al., 2015;Goldstein, 2011;Waasdorp et al., 2010). In addition to these conflicting findings, like other individual-level studies, the gender of the friend(s) is unknown. ...
... When characterizing the friendships of dyads that involved aggression, our results indicated that the friendships were likely to continue, despite victimized youths' lower satisfaction with the relationships (though, note that mean levels of satisfaction were still fairly high). It is possible that victimized youth recognize that they are not satisfied in friendships with peers who target them (see Daniels et al., 2010), yet struggle to terminate the relationship ANDREWS ET AL. ...
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... Daniels et al. (2010) have suggested that victims might be dependent on an aggressor for other friendship needs, and this prevents them from leaving the relationship or retaliating against the aggressor. The implications associated with responses of this kind are disconcerting if relationships such as these become a prototype for victims in other relationships, including future romantic and adult relationships (Crick & Nelson, 2002;Daniels et al., 2010;Dodge & Coie, 1989). ...
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... Daniels et al. (2010) have suggested that victims might be dependent on an aggressor for other friendship needs, and this prevents them from leaving the relationship or retaliating against the aggressor. The implications associated with responses of this kind are disconcerting if relationships such as these become a prototype for victims in other relationships, including future romantic and adult relationships (Crick & Nelson, 2002;Daniels et al., 2010;Dodge & Coie, 1989). ...
... Our findings point to the complexity of social relationships and interactions with peers in the school environment, also noted by Daniels et al. (2010), and to the difficulty of disentangling the sources of harmful peer aggression. Differences in the harm reported by adolescents in different world locations point to the diversity of response and effect of peer aggression and the importance of context. ...
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... Thus, victimized children typically opt not to disclose the bullying when it is perpetrated by a friend (deLara, 2012;Mishna et al., 2008). Studies have also revealed that children and adolescents are likely to continue in victimizing friendships despite their suffering (Bouchard et al., 2018;Crick & Nelson, 2002;Daniels et al., 2010;Mishna et al., 2008). Yet, the complex reasons underlying this choice are still largely unknown. ...
... These positive interludes also provide opportunities for victimized individuals to minimize the problem or to rationalize the aggression as temporary or exceptional moments in the relationship. Similarly, previous research has noted that the intermittency of maltreatment alternating with closeness is a common characteristic of bullying that occurs within friendships, and Traumatic Bonding Theory suggests that this may actually reinforce the relationship bonds between the victim and friend who bullies (Bouchard et al., 2018;Crick & Nelson, 2002;Daniels et al., 2010;Mishna et al., 2008). ...
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... For example, Mishna, Wiener, and Pepler's exploratory (2008) work indicated that children are often confused or unaware that they had experienced bullying or whether their friend was just "joking around" and "doesn't really mean it." Daniels, Quigley, Menard, and Spence's (2010) and Crick and Nelson's (2002) quantitative work also found that many children continue in their friendships despite experiencing victimization. Findings from other research suggests that victimized youth may appear to do little to change the circumstances of their victimizing friendship and may paradoxically work to "show friendship" in response to being victimized (Bouchard, Forsberg, Smith, & Thornberg, 2018). ...
... The cycling nature of victimization that was reported in our data provides more evidence that victimizing friendships contain positive and reaffirming moments alongside other negative relationship processes, such as dominance and abuse. This is akin to what Daniels et al. (2010), found in their study, where their child-participants rated their victimizing friendship as both high and low in quality. Our results also indicated that young people victimized by their friend(s) found it challenging to respond in ways that did not disrupt the social order of the friendship(s), which was similarly found in another study on younger children's responses to bullying by a friend (Mishna et al., 2008). ...
... Victimization can occur within friendship groups or dyads, and it is possible that some of the buffering effect of friend support is due to a lack of dyadic victimization, although the sensitivity analysis showed it likely does not play a large role. Even within friendships that include dyadic victimization, both positive and negative friendship quality can be quite high (Daniels et al., 2010). Studies that include more information on perpetrators of victimization can shed more light on the associations between friendship quality, dyadic victimization, and other types of victimization. ...
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... Therefore, it is important that we understand more about what the role of LWS entails. Whilst the importance of children's friendships is becoming well established in the literature (Daniels et al., 2010;Hedges & Cooper, 2017;Peters, 2010;Brogaard-Clausen and Robson, 2019), to my knowledge there has been no research in relation to LWS since the 1990s and no studies focusing specifically on the role of the LWS in relation to children's friendships. This article therefore poses the question: How does the lunchtime welfare supervisor support children's friendships? ...
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... The second one refers to 'conflict'. There is some evidence that many children's perceptions of the concept of 'friendship' include both dimensions, for example, 'intimacy' and 'conflict' (Daniels, Quigley, Menard, & Spence, 2010). In a number of studies, it has been claimed that friendship and peer relationships are important in resolving conflicts and disputes (Corsaro, 1994;Evaldsson, 2003;Kyratzis & Guo, 2001;Martinez-Lozano, Sánchez-Medina, & Goudena, 2011;Poveda & Marcos, 2005). ...
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... Others examine cyberbullying (e.g., Mishna et al. 2008;Felmlee and Faris 2016), which, due to the nature of social media platforms, may be especially likely to occur between friends. Often these studies focus exclusively on friend aggression as a unique form and lack a comparison to aggression between others (e.g., Crick and Nelson 2002;Daniels et al. 2010;Closson and Watanabe 2016). To our knowledge, this is the first large-scale social network study to compare rates of aggression between friends, friends-of-friends, and others. ...
... It is also likely that victimization within friendships is a function of the joint (i.e., interactive) characteristics of the friendship dyad rather than only the victim's characteristics. Indeed, youth who are victimized by a close friend report poorer conflict resolution within the friendship and a higher desire for an exclusive relationship especially on the part of the victimizing friend (Daniels et al. 2010). As for potential extra-personal risk factors of victimization by friends, future studies might need to focus more on contextual-level variables outside the family. ...
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... However, alongside these studies there is also research evidence that indicates some young people may experience victimisation in close friendships that are important to them (Daniels, Quigley, Menard, & Spence, 2010;Kawabata, Crick, & Hamaguchi, 2010). While victimisation of this type is under-researched (Brendgen, Girard, Vitaro, Dionne, & Boivin, 2015) it is an area that requires investigation. ...
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... Several lines of research support these processes. One set of studies indicates that both social support and social aggression tend to happen in the context of "real world" friendships (Crick & Nelson, 2002;Daniels, Quigley, Menard, & Spence, 2010;Hodges, Boivin, Vitaro, & Bukowski, 1999;Mishna, Wiener, & Pepler, 2008). A second line of research indicates that in-person SS and PV affect people's psychological well-being, especially outcomes related to internalizing problems such as self-esteem, perceived stress, and depressive symptoms (Chu, Saucier, & Hafner, 2010;Hawker & Boulton, 2000;Reijntjes, Kamphuis, Prinzie, & Telch, 2010;Vitaro, Boivin, & Bukowski, 2009). ...
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... Brendgen et al. 2015;Waasdorp, Bagdi, and Bradshaw 2009;Wei and Jonson-Reid 2011). While the effects of friendship victimization may be similar to bullying from non-friends, it seems that many children continue in these relationships despite their suffering (Daniels et al. 2010;Mishna, Wiener, and Pepler 2008). Mishna et al. provide some indication of potentially distinguishing factors of victimization within friendship. ...
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... Alternatively, if children seek support from friends, discussing stressful experiences can be related to excessive rumination, which subsequently impacts on adjustment (Visconti & Troop-Gordon, 2010). Finally, friends of the victim, may not offer any protection from victimization as they may be the perpetrators of the aggression, or the friendship may be characterized as high conflict, and as such would provide no support (Daniels, Quigley, Menard, & Spence, 2010). ...
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... It may be that victims under these circumstances do not experience the negative internal consequences as significantly as those who are verbally or relationally harassed, which results in maladaptive psychosocial adjustment later in life (McCabe et al., 2010;Roth et al., 2002;Storch et al., 2004). There is little to no research specifically focusing on physical or property damage victimization and how it may affect later attachment quality, but some studies have found that individuals who experience physical victimization during childhood report that their friendships are more negative and less satisfying during the course of the year (Daniels, Quigley, Menard, & Spence, 2010). ...
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... The other one refers to the level of the conflict and the betrayal in this relationship. There is some evidence that many children's perceptions of the meaning of friendship include components from both of these dimensions, for example, proximity and skirmishes (Daniels, Quigley, Menard, & Spence, 2010). Hartup (1992b) described the functions that friendships provide children as follows: ...
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... When boys are physically victimised, and girls relationally victimised, there is a higher association with maladjustment problems including social anxiety, loneliness and psychological distress (Crick and Nelson 2002). However, whilst girls in relationally victimising relationships report negative friendship qualities, they also report that these friendships have positive features (Daniels, Quigley, Menard and Spence 2010). Conversely, both boys and girls who experience physical victimisation in relationships, or physical and relational victimisation, report high levels of negative qualities in these friendships. ...
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Given the detrimental short- and long-term effects of peer-victimisation (Hawker & Boulton, 2000), it is not surprising that bullying has become a central topic for multiple parties; including stake-holders, the media, educators, and researchers. In addition to examining the effect that peer-victimisation can have on a child, researchers have also focused on associated risk and protective factors (e.g., Ttofi & Farrington, 2012) that exacerbate or ameliorate the effects of peer-victimisation respectively. Over the last few decades a wide-range of risk and protective factors have been identified, including poor academic achievement (Spriggs, Iannotti, Nansel, & Haynie, 2007), mental health issues (Sourander, Helstelä, Helenius, & Piha, 2000; Yang, Kim, Kim, Shin, & Yoon, 2006), exposure to child abuse and domestic violence (Bowes et al., 2009) and lack of parental involvement (Shields & Cicchetti, 2001). The following chapter will focus on one protective factor that has received increasing attention: friendship. This chapter will begin by briefly presenting an overview as to the function of friendship in childhood before discussing evidence that suggests for some children, friendship can serve to protect against the experience of victimisation, and alleviate symptoms associated with peer-victimisation. In particular, the chapter will focus upon the different facets of friendship including: (1) the number of friends a child has, (2) the quality of these friendships, and (3) the individual characteristics of friends. The extent to which each of these three facets of friendship serve as a protective factor against peer-victimisation will be explored in turn. Paradoxically, friendship does not always function as a protective factor, but rather a child can be bullied by their friends. The ‘darker’ side of friendship will also be discussed, including why some children choose to stay friends with their perpetrator. Finally, this chapter will debate the effectiveness of peer support programs in schools and highlight areas that require further empirical focus.
... In addition, situations may occur in which friends are not able to escape the negative implications of such diverting views. Daniels et al. (2010) describe how power imbalances (e.g. in terms of social skills or status) in adolescents' friendships can lead to exploitation or victimisation and how claims of exclusivity by one party may put pressure on the other party. And whilst focusing on sibling relations rather than friendships, Voorpostel (2007) notes that solidarity in social ties may become too much, leading to loss of independence. ...
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