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Sex Differences in Jealousy: Evolution, Physiology, and Psychology

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In species with internal female fertilization, males risk both lowered paternity probability and investment in rival gametes if their mates have sexual contact with other males. Females of such species do not risk lowered maternity probability through partner infidelity, but they do risk the diversion of their mates' commitment and resources to rival females. Three studies tested the hypothesis that sex differences in jealousy emerged in humans as solutions to the respective adaptive problems faced by each sex. In Study 1, men and women selected which event would upset them more—a partner's sexual infidelity or emotional infidelity. Study 2 recorded physiological responses (heart rate, electrodermal response, corrugator supercilii contraction) while subjects imagined separately the two types of partner infidelity. Study 3 tested the effect of being in a committed sexual relationship on the activation of jealousy. All studies showed large sex differences, confirming hypothesized sex linkages in jealousy activation.
... From an evolutionary perspective, sexual jealousy is understood as an emotion that motivates the protection of a valued relationship from rivals (Buunk, 1997;Symons, 1979;White, 1984). In the context of romantic relationships, jealousy appears as an emotion designed to protect the romantic pair-bond (Fernandez, 2017;Fletcher et al., 2015) preventing the diversion of reproductively relevant resources toward interlopers (Buss et al., 1992). Jealousy is a complex emotion (Buunk, 1997), which involves multiple affective reactions such as anger, sadness, and fear, and it is also very similar to the flight stress response (Buss, 2013;Fernandez & Palestini, 2010;Shackelford et al., 2000). ...
... Jealousy is a complex emotion (Buunk, 1997), which involves multiple affective reactions such as anger, sadness, and fear, and it is also very similar to the flight stress response (Buss, 2013;Fernandez & Palestini, 2010;Shackelford et al., 2000). Importantly, both sexes appear to have evolved a particular psychology of jealousy, sensible to the situations or cues that activate its behavioral expression (Buss, 2018;Buss et al., 1992;Sagarin et al., 2012). ...
... Reacting with jealousy when there is a suspicion of losing a partner is less costly than actually losing a valued reproductive partner or their resources (Buss & Haselton, 2005;Foster et al., 2014;Schmitt & Buss, 2001). Hence, Symons (1979) and Buss et al. (1992) hypothesized that sexual selection favored cognitive biases to dissuade a possible betrayal from a partner and increase the protection of the mating bond. With SDJ emerging as the result of sexual asymmetries in the allocation of resources for reproduction between the members of the romantic couple (Trivers, 1972). ...
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... The studies conducted have revealed that there are differences between genders in terms of reported jealousy status, level, type, reactions to jealousy and coping mechanisms (Mathes and Severa 1981, White 1981a, Hansen 1982, Pines and Aronson 1983, Peretti and Pudowski 1997. Consequently, while men tend to find partner behavior towards sexual infidelity more disturbing than emotional infidelity, the opposite is true for women (Buss et al. 1992, Geary et al. 1995, Buunk et al. 1996, Hupka and Bank 1996, Pines and Friedman 1998, Wiederman and LaMar 1998, Cann et al. 2001, Cramer et al. 2001, Demirtas 2004, Edlund and Sagarin 2017, Pavela Banai et al. 2022. ...
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