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Nonverbal courtship patterns in women: Context and consequences

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There is a class of nonverbal facial expressions and gestures, exhibited by human females, that are commonly labeled “flirting behaviors.” I observed more than 200 randomly selected adult female subjects in order to construct a catalog of these nonverbal solicitation behaviors. Pertinent behaviors were operationally defined through the use of consequential data; these behaviors elicited male attention. Fifty-two behaviors were described using this method. Validation of the catalog was provided through the use of contextual data. Observations were conducted on 40 randomly selected female subjects in one of four contexts: a singles' bar, a university snack bar, a university library, and at university Women's Center meetings. The results indicated that women in “mate relevant” contexts exhibited higher average frequencies of nonverbal displays directed at males. Additionally, women who signaled often were also those who were most often approached by a man: and this relationship was not context specific.I suggest that the observation of women in field situations may provide clues to criteria used by females in the initial selection of male partners. As much of the work surrounding human attraction has involved laboratory studies or data collected from couples in established relationships, the observation of nonverbal behavior in field settings may provide a fruitful avenue for the exploration of human female choice in the preliminary stages of male-female interaction.
... In the rst sociological work on face-to-face interaction, Goffman (1959) noted that strangers in public space may make brief eye contact, but will avoid prolonged gazing to maintain public order. Eye contact serves a broader range of functions in humans than establishing dominance, including promoting facial recognition (Farroni, Johnson, & Csibra, 2004) and comforting in infants (Lohaus, Keller, & Voelker, 2001), initiating interactions with potential romantic partners (Eibl-Eibesfelt, 1970;Guéguen, Fischer-Lokou, Lefebvre, & Lamy, 2008;Moore, 1985), and increasing liking and a raction among adults (Stass & Willis, 1967). ...
... Eibl-Eibesfelt (1970) documented women giving a "coy glance," combining a half smile and a brief lowering of the eyes, which was used to gain male a ention. Glancing behaviors are important in signaling a woman's initial interest, they are effective in gaining male a ention, and other behaviors reaffirm interest a er establishing initial contact (Moore, 1985). ...
... Understandably, the rates at which women make eye contact to solicit male romantic interest are context dependent. In the salient mating market context of a singles bar, female solicitations occurred at four times the rate of those in a university snack bar and seven times the rate of those in a university library (Moore, 1985). ...
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... More specifically, we often use eye-directed gaze to signal liking or attraction (Fullwood, 2007); vice-versa eye-contact affects likeability and attractiveness (Hietanen, 2018;Mason et al., 2005). Furthermore, eye-contact plays a role during courtship (e.g., for making someone approach you) (Apostolou & Christogorou, 2020;Moore, 1985;Walsh & Hewitt, 1985). Although strong evidence points toward eye-contact as a driving force behind signaling interest and choosing a potential mate, it is still unknown whether it influences mate choice. ...
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