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Nonverbal courtship patterns in women: Context and consequences

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There is a class of nonverbal facial expressions and gestures, exhibited by human females, that are commonly labeled “flirting behaviors.” I observed more than 200 randomly selected adult female subjects in order to construct a catalog of these nonverbal solicitation behaviors. Pertinent behaviors were operationally defined through the use of consequential data; these behaviors elicited male attention. Fifty-two behaviors were described using this method. Validation of the catalog was provided through the use of contextual data. Observations were conducted on 40 randomly selected female subjects in one of four contexts: a singles' bar, a university snack bar, a university library, and at university Women's Center meetings. The results indicated that women in “mate relevant” contexts exhibited higher average frequencies of nonverbal displays directed at males. Additionally, women who signaled often were also those who were most often approached by a man: and this relationship was not context specific.I suggest that the observation of women in field situations may provide clues to criteria used by females in the initial selection of male partners. As much of the work surrounding human attraction has involved laboratory studies or data collected from couples in established relationships, the observation of nonverbal behavior in field settings may provide a fruitful avenue for the exploration of human female choice in the preliminary stages of male-female interaction.
... In anthropological studies, a successful seduction leads to the establishment of a rapport, or intimate relationship, which also means that both parties can share information confidently, and this relationship also connects the two parties through intimate conversations (Moore, 1985). 16 This theory also applies to the matrilineal clan, the Mosuo. ...
... The same behaviors that are used to flirt are also used to indicate affiliation or agreement. For example, Moore [26] categorized flirting behaviors used by individuals in a bar. Some of the behaviors identified as flirting (e.g., smiling, nodding, laughing) have alternatively been characterized as behaviors indicating agreement and affiliation [27]. ...
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... Previous research has indicated that women use various nonverbal behavioral patterns, such as smiling, hair flipping, head tilting, and neck presentation, to show their interest and availability to men (Grammer, 1989;Moore, 1985;Wade et al., 2021). These patterns are known to attract men's attention and encourage them to approach women, and have been observed both in field settings (Moore & Butler, 1989) and laboratory settings (Grammer, 1990). ...
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The arching of the back, known as lordosis, is a common behavior exhibited by many female animals to signal their sexual receptivity (Beach, 1976). This behavior involves curving the lower spine toward the belly, which serves as a reliable signal of sexual readiness in many nonhuman species. Studies have shown that lordosis elicits increased attention and copulation attempts from males, making it an important behavior for successful mating in these species (Flanagan-Cato, 2011; Henley et al., 2011; Pfaus & Gorzalka, 1987). Recently, Pazhoohi et al. (2018) have suggested that the lordotic posture or arching of the back in women may be a mechanism that is conserved across various taxa and may also signal sexual receptivity/proceptivity to men.
... Human females display and signal their interest and availability to men using a number of nonverbal behavioral patterns such as smiling, hair flipping, head tilting, and neck presentation (Grammer, 1989;Moore, 1985;Wade et al., 2021). These behavioral patterns that attract men's attention and solicit their approach to women are observed both in the field (Moore & Butler, 1989) and in laboratory settings (Grammer, 1990). ...
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Objectives Human females may attract men and solicit their approach through different nonverbal displays and signals. In many non-human animals, a lordosis posture in a female is a reliable signal of sexual receptivity. Recently, it has been argued that this posture is linked to a similar signal between men and women. The current research across three investigations aimed to test the predictions arising from the sexual receptivity hypothesis of lordosis posture. Methods Using realistic 3D generated stimuli, both men and women viewed women’s arched back postures in standing, supine and quadruped poses (Studies 1 and 2) and were asked to rate them for perceived sexual receptivity. In Study 3, a male model was used. Results In Study 1 we tested whether the arched back posture in women is an indicator of sexual receptivity. Results showed that both men and women associated increases in the arch of the back with higher sexual receptivity in women. Study 2 predicted and confirmed that sexual receptivity is also perceived from non-standing postures, namely supine and quadruped poses. Study 3 tested the prediction that the perception of sexual receptivity is specific to the posture being adopted by women. Conclusion Collectively this research provides support for the sexual receptivity hypothesis of lordosis posture by showing that sexual receptivity is perceived by an increase in the arch of the back (Study 1), it is perceived as sexually receptive irrespective of the body posture (Study 2), and this is specific to women (Study 3).
... Women are also likely to rate women negatively on traits such as intelligence, friendliness, and attractiveness, if they consider rivals as a threat to their current relationship [35]. Women employ different behavioral strategies to indicate their sexual interests to men [36,37]. For example, recent research has for the first time proposed and shown that women who display increased lumbar curvature and arch their backs, i.e., lordosis behavior, are perceived to be sexually receptive and more attractive [38,39]. ...
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... As such, gender is a robust predictor of self-reported flirtation tactics, even after controlling for sexual orientation, gender ideologies, and gender role adherence (Clark et al., 2021). Specifically, men are more likely to approach women and initiate an interaction, and they are more likely to do so when a woman has invited his approach by smiling, engaging in frequent eye contact, and flipping her hair (Moore, 1985). ...
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