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Finding Meaning in Difficult Family Experiences: Sense-Making and Interaction Processes During Joint Family Storytelling

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Narratives help individuals make sense of their experiences (Bochner, Ellis, " Tillmann-Healy, 1997; Weber, Harvey, " Stanley, 1987). This is particularly true for people trying to make sense of difficult or traumatic experiences. Joint storytelling, or collaborative narration, however, introduces elements not at work in individual tellings. In this study, we looked for evidence of sense-making in joint stories about difficult family experiences told by 12 families. Families' level of engagement, perspective-taking, turn-taking, and expressed interpretations all emerged as features relevant to the sense-making process. During the storytelling episode, families engaged in three forms of sense-making: (a) family-unit sense-making in which members actively engaged in the process of telling the story together and reached a shared conclusion concerning the meaning of the experience, (b) individual family member sense-making in which family members participated in the storytelling by sharing separate versions of the story and reached individual conclusions about the meaning of the story, and (c) incomplete sense-making in which one or more family members were not engaged in the storytelling and no clear understanding of the story's meaning emerged at either the family or the individual level. This study offers an approach to aid in identifying communication behaviors that accompany and help differentiate the sense-making process in jointly told family stories about difficult family experiences.

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Confronted with something as fundamental as a cancer diagnosis or death of one’s child, it is generally assumed that sharing the emotional impact of it, in the form of talking about it with the partner, is helpful and necessary in order to cope as an individual and as a couple. Undoubtedly, being able to talk to one another can be a way for connecting emotionally with the partner and supporting each other through difficult times. However, couple communication in the context of childhood oncology or grieving the loss of a child is often challenging. Moreover, contemporary research is far from consistent about the presumed beneficial effects of talking and social sharing about painful emotions. The overall aim of this doctoral research was to deepen the understanding of couple communication, talking and not talking, in the context of child cancer and the loss of a child. Therefore, we explored the experiences of bereaved couples and couples confronted with childhood cancer, including the meanings they gave for ‘not talking’ with one another about their emotions, or being silent in each other’s presence. In addition, we explored the experiences and views of professionals working with parents whose child is in cancer treatment. A qualitative research design was used to meet this overall aim. In qualitative research the starting point is usually not a specific hypothesis that needs to be tested empirically. Rather, the phenomenon under study is systematically explored, resulting in a rich description of the phenomenon that is grounded in the data. Such rich descriptions can then lead to fundamental reflections on conceptual issues. We conducted five studies, each presented in a chapter. Chapters 1, 2 and 4 relate to the exploration of couple communication of bereaved parents, while chapters 3 and 5 are conducted in the context of childhood cancer, including the views of professionals at a child oncology department (Chapter 5). First, we conducted an exploratory pilot study (Chapter 1) with a bereaved mother and her partner. Based on an in-depth interview, a book she wrote and a text of a presentation she gave, we did a thematic analysis. Following this, we did a narrative analysis where we focused on the evolution of this couple’s sharing and not sharing of grief experiences since the loss. The main storyline involved the need for silence and distance at several points in the process, to protect themselves and the relationship. At the same time, they stressed the necessary moments of connection between them, with or without words. This study introduced a view on couple communication which is dialectic, dialogic and dynamic in nature. Then we explored meanings related to ‘not talking’ in a second and third study. For our second study with bereaved parents (Chapter 2), we conducted and analyzed twenty in-depth interviews, with twenty-six parents, and did a thematic analysis based on grounded theory methodology. Our analyses revealed four main meanings related to ‘not talking’ about their grief with the partner: not talking (1) because of the inadequacy and pointlessness of words in grief, (2) to create some distance from the pain of grief, (3) as an expression of a personal, intimate process, and (4) because the partner has the same loss but a different grief process (with 4 subcategories: 4.1. Respect and not burden each other’s grieving process, 4.2. The uselessness of words, 4.3. Not enough distance from the pain of the partner, and 4.4. Different grieving styles or moments). For many bereaved parents, the complex process of talking and ‘not talking’ about the fear of death and loss of their child started from the moment of the cancer diagnosis. Therefore, we decided to broaden our group of research participants, and explored the same research topic with parents whose child was in cancer treatment in our third study. In this study (Chapter 3), we equally did a thematic analysis based on grounded theory methodology. The analysis was done on nine in-depth interviews with sixteen parents. In this study we were immediately confronted with the different context of these parents. Their primary focus during treatment period was the wellbeing and recovery of the child, in a life that was dominated and structured by treatment procedures and frequent hospitalizations. As parents, most of them felt supported by the partner, as a way of “being in this together”. However, they all talked very little with each other about their emotions and thoughts related to their child’s cancer during treatment. Our analysis revealed three main meanings: not talking (1) because of the hospital and treatment context, (2) for selfcare/self-protection and blocking of emotions, and (3) because of each other, (with 3 subcategories (3a) to spare one another, (3b) a different coping, and (3c) because no words are needed between them). These three studies showed that the parents in our interviews experienced their communication with each other as subject to a lot of complexities, representing both the value of talking and not talking. This led us to explore a dialectical approach to communication in a fourth study with a bereaved couple (Chapter 4). Aiming at a deeper understanding of the complexity of the dialectical process we meticulously investigated a metaphor used by one of the bereaved parents. We used multiple data collection for this study and conducted a thematic and metaphor analysis. This gave us the chance to examine the relational process more in depth. Indeed, the interplay of dialectics was also apparent in their dialogue with each other, on an interpersonal level. The concept of attunement showed extra value in connecting the intrapersonal and interpersonal level. With our fifth study we broadened our research topic to the communication between parents and professionals working at a child oncology department (Chapter 5). We specifically wondered about how attunement processes operated in this context. Therefore, four focus groups were organized with twenty professionals (psychologists and nurses), in addition to the nine in-depth interviews (study 3), now with a focus on the communication with the professionals. Thematic analyses were done separately on the transcripts of the focus groups and interviews. Both professionals and parents talked about an elevated tension in the partner relationship during oncology treatment of the child. However, explicit attention for the partner relationship in this context felt inappropriate to professionals and parents, as the child is their primary focus now. Furthermore, both professionals and parents emphasized the importance of the professional helpers’ openness for conversation and an attuned response to the parental couple relationship. Taken together, during our research process we found that the process of attunement is central in our understanding of how partners, confronted with the death or life-threatening illness of their child, talk with each other and leave certain things (temporarily) unspoken or in silence. This corresponds with a dialogical perspective on storytelling. Consequently, a model of attunement reflecting our findings is described. The process of attunement is a moment-to-moment interaction, which includes vertical and horizontal processes. These processes are inherently connected and part of one process, the one resting on the other. Based on these attunement processes some things are brought in the outer dialogue, while others or not (yet). The concept of attunement also brought us to a deeper and broader understanding of the relatedness of talking/not talking and connecting/not connection (or closeness/distance). We conclude this doctoral manuscript with a general discussion of our main findings and how they might contribute to the existing grief and psycho oncology literature. Finally, we discuss methodological issues with the limitations of our studies, future research and clinical implications.
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... Furthermore, storytelling may have contributed to improving less directly relevant outcome measures, including individual resilience, reduced PTSD symptoms and earthquake anxiety. This is because storytelling can support the release of emotions (D'Cruz et al., 2020), support making sense of traumatic experiences (Kellas and Trees, 2006;Park, 2010), authenticate collective memory (Ainslie, 2013), and rebuild shared, cultural identity (Aho, 2014;van de Ven, 2020). It is possible that the benefit of the narrative component of the intervention may be heightened in cultures oriented towards collectivism, where the self is perceived as an interdependent unit (Hofstede, 1980;Markus and Kitayama, 2010); this may foster cooperation and supportive networks (Triandis, 2000). ...
... Individuals may be guided by researchers and/or practitioners in identifying dominant MVBs in their own stories and thus the types of stories that they are telling. These might be shared with other family members as a means of connecting and building empathy through sharing stories of difficulty, especially when conflicting perspectives or meanings arise (Koenig Kellas & Trees, 2006, Trees & Koenig Kellas, 2009). Additionally, many participants noted that they had rarely been offered a space to share the stories of the deceased or to tell their own bereavement stories prior to their interviews despite the desire to, especially in the case of those telling Past stories. ...
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... This study also supports previous literature on grief, including death and dying (Bonanno, Wortman, & Nesse, 2004;Pangborn, 2019), job loss (Beck, 2016;Buzzanell & Turner, 2012), and compounded losses (Scheinfeld et al., 2021a). Themes consistent in grief literature were present across the sample, such as disenfranchisement (Doka, 1999), memorable messages (Lucas & Buzzanell, 2012), and storytelling (Koenig Kellas & Trees, 2006). Participants attempted to uphold traditional mourning rituals online in an attempt to craft normalcy, utilized humor in an attempt to apply alternative ways of thinking (i.e., Booth-Butterfield, Wanzer, Weil, & Krezmein, 2014), foregrounded productive action while legitimizing negative feelings (as consistent with Stroebe & Schut's, 1999 dual process model of bereavement), relied on communication networks for validation and support (i.e., Jakoby, 2014), and affirmed identity in the wake of disenfranchisement (i.e., Barney & Yoshimura, 2020). ...
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... Joint family life has advantages including old-age security (Vaidyanathan, 2007), help with child-care (Hungerford & Cox, 2006), shared household responsibilities (Coleman & Ganong, 1999), and more love and time for children (Koenig Kellas & Trees, 2006). However, (Ilies, Wilson, & Wagner, 2009), and more disputes and disagreements (Judge, Ilies, & Scott, 2006). ...
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This article describes three coding systems used to analyze systematically joint narratives told by 344 black and white newlywed couples about the `story of their relationship', as part of a program of study of the early years of marriage. The first coding system of these accounts captures the affects mentioned in the stories; the second assesses husband-wife interactions in telling the stories; and the third identifies styles and themes characterizing both the overall story and specific substories within the narratives. A summary of results based on these coding schemes is outlined. Several narrative measures were found to be related to marital quality over time. A number of these measures help clarify ways in which black couples (n = 176) in comparison to white couples (n = 167) are alike and ways in which they are different. We discuss the role of these coding schemes for capturing `meaning-making' in story construction. In addition, we illustrate the possibility for analyzing changes in narrative memory and its connection to affective development in people.
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Recent research indicates that the inclusion of emotional and casual/explanatory language in adults' narratives of stressful experiences is related to psychological well-being, but research with children is mixed. Based on research demonstrating the role of parental scaffolding on the content of children's developing autobiographical memories, we examined 27 mostly White mixed SES mother-child dyads discussing one chronic experience and one acutely stressful experience related to the child's asthma. Analyses of the content of these discussions suggested that the contribution of a mother to the discussion of each experience was highly related to the contribution of her child. However, these analyses also showed that the content of conversations about the acute experience differed from the content of conversations about the chronic experience. Most importantly, mothers who used more emotional and causal explanatory language when discussing the chronic stressor had children who showed better emotional well-being on the Child Behavior Checklist. Implications for the role of parent-guided narratives about stressful events for children's coping and well-being are discussed.
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One hundred eighty young adults completed measures of family cohesion and adaptability, communication expressiveness and clarity, and problem solving. The results of polynomial regression trend analyses yielded a linear relationship between cohesion and communication expressiveness, clarity, and problem solving whether cohesion was defined linearly as emotional bonding or curvilinearly as family togetherness. There also was a linear relationship between adaptability, defined linearly as flexibility to master family life cycle stage transitions and these facets of family communication. However, the relationship for communication clarity was curvilinear when adaptability was defined in a curvilinear way as the degree of power, control, and organization in the home. Overall, these results tend not to support Olson’s circumplex model of couples and family systems.
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The transition from adolescence to adulthood involves a relational renegotiation that, at least in part, is reflected in communication. This study describes the communication difficulties that older adolescents felt they had experienced with their parents and explored whether those communication problems or the perceived qualities of the problems are more strongly associated with relational satisfaction. Results indicated that the most frequent type of current communication problem involved personal criticism. Past problems were more likely to focus on parent-adolescent tensions related to behavioral restriction. There were few significant differences between very satisfied and dissatisfied adolescents in terms of the types of difficulties reported. However, older adolescents' attributions for their past and present communication problems significantly predicted their current satisfaction. Particularly notable is the finding that the specific type of problem experienced by adolescents may contribute substantially less to their satisfaction with parents than the ways they interpret the problems.
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For the past decade, an increasing number of studies have demonstrated that when individuals write about emotional experiences, significant physical and mental health improvements follow. The basic paradigm and findings are summarized along with some boundary conditions. Although a reduction in inhibition may contribute to the disclosure phenomenon, changes in basic cognitive and linguistic processes during writing predict better health. Implications for theory and treatment are discussed.
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Family stories work to construct family identity. Little research, however, has examined storytelling in families. This study examined storytelling content and process to assess the extent to which families jointly integrated or fragmented a shared sense of identity and how these discursive practices relate to family qualities. Results of a study involving 58 family triads indicate relationships between story theme (e.g., accomplishment vs. stress), person referencing practices (e.g., we-ness vs. separateness), and interactional storytelling behaviors (e.g., engagement, turn-taking). Moreover, story framing, perspective-taking, statements about selves-in-the-family, and identifying as a “storytelling family” emerged consistently as positive predictors of family satisfaction and functioning. The results offer a portrait of how families communicate identity and functioning in joint storytelling interactions and further position storytelling as a communication phenomenon worthy of consideration.
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Using Koerner and Fitzpatrick’s general theory of family communication, this study extends Olson’s circumplex model of family functioning by examining the degree to which three dimensions of family communication schemata (i.e., expressiveness, structural traditionalism, and conflict avoidance) facilitate family cohesion and adaptability. Participants included 426 young adults from first‐marriage families who completed a series of survey measures. Results indicated that family expressiveness was positively associated with family cohesion and adaptability, whereas structural traditionalism and conflict avoidance were inversely associated with both dimensions of family functioning. Collectively, all three dimensions of family schemata accounted for 51% of the variance in family cohesion, though expressiveness and avoidance emerged as the only significant predictors in the model. Likewise, all three dimensions of family schemata accounted for 53% of the variance in family adaptability, including an interaction effect of expressiveness and structural traditionalism. Finally, discriminant analyses revealed that family expressiveness was primarily responsible for distinguishing among different types of family systems.
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This chapter provides an overview and integration of what we know about human emotion and features of effective comforting messages in order to suggest how the two are linked. The first section of the chapter summarizes the results of several streams of research examining the features of more and less effective comforting messages. Next, we provide an extended discussion of appraisal theories of emotion, focusing particularly on how affective distress is conceptualized by appraisal theories. We then present a reformulation of the comforting process from the perspective of appraisal theory, specifying how supportive conversations can assist distressed persons in coping with their emotions. Finally, we describe how a variety of conversational behaviors and message strategies can help accomplish critical functions in constituting and conducting effective supportive interactions, detailing some of the mechanisms through which these behaviors and strategies may work. We conclude the chapter by elaborating some implications of our analysis for future empirical work examining the comforting process. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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examine what is known about the role of early experience in shaping people's perceptions of themselves and of what they can expect from relationships / show how the effects of both perceived support and supportive behavior can be better understood by studying them in the context of the ongoing relationships in which they occur (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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begins with an example of what narrative counseling looks like in practice / some of the key concepts are brought to life through the exploration of a series of interviews with a [12-yr-old] client, Peter, who developed a fear of seeing [and his parents] / concludes by describing narrative counseling as an attitude and a way of thinking about problems rather than merely a box of tricks or clever techniques (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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the study of accounts can be a relatively non-reactive process and it can be undertaken by examining both the written and the oral reports of respondents / specific examples of written material containing accounts include newspaper articles, musical lyrics, and diary entries role of accounts / memories and accounts / accounts have careers synthesis / story-telling and social validation / motivations for account-making / self-esteem / emotional purging / establishing a sense of control / search for closure / search for understanding / accounts as ends in themselves / utility of accounts account-gathering methods (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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Narrative therapy . . . is based on the idea that problems are manufactured in social, cultural, and political contexts. Each person produces the meaning of his or her own life from the stories that are available in these contexts. As "Narrative Therapy in Practice" demonstrates, it is the spirit of collaboration that guides clinicians who use this innovative approach. Together they work to help clients unearth competencies, talents, abilities, and resources and create a transformed "redescription" of themselves. The information presented is grounded in solid theories and research in learning, language, and cognitive behavior. Using practical examples, clinicians are shown how narrative therapy can be applied in a variety of situations such as treating alcoholics, group counseling, work with indigenous native communities, and treating male sexual abuse survivors. [This book] is the result of [a] collaboration of therapists, counselors, community and mental health workers, educators, and students who share a firm belief in the hopeful and cooperative style of this therapeutic process. The end result is a book that is . . . filled with illustrative examples that describe the nature of narrative therapy. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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Anyone who has ever entrusted a troubling secret to a journal, or mourned a broken heart with a friend, knows the feeling of relief that expressing painful emotions can bring. This book presents evidence that personal self-disclosure is not only good for our emotional health, but boosts our physical health as well. The author has conducted controlled clinical research that sheds light on the mind–body connection. This book interweaves his findings with case studies on secret-keeping, confession, and the hidden price of silence. "Opening Up" explains: How writing about your problems can improve your health; How long-buried trauma affects the immune system; Why it's never too late to heal old emotional wounds; and When self-disclosure may be risky—and how to know whom to trust. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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Evaluated reactions to the recent ending of a close relationship among 25 female and 15 male undergraduates (aged 20–33 yrs) who had in the last 8 mo terminated an exclusive, close, heterosexual relationship that had been maintained for at least 6 mo. Ss completed a questionnaire regarding their relationship break-up, reactions to the loss, themselves, and the ended relationship. Women were more likely than were men to confide in good friends to recover. Men were more likely to quickly begin dating others as a means of recovery. To the extent that Ss felt the relationship was psychologically over they felt better about the relationship ending. The more complete the Ss' accounts about why the relationship ended, the more they felt that the relationships were over and that they had control over their recovery processes. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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This . . . volume focuses on interdisciplinary approaches to understanding the process, structure, and function of communication in support and helping relationships. Researchers present diverse perspectives showing how support is co-constructed between providers and recipients. Unique in its approach, chapters examine functional and dysfunctional patterns involved in the communication of support, and offer both scholarly and applied audiences an understanding of social support as a communication process grounded in ongoing relationships. "Communication of Social Support" is [intended] for anyone studying or working in social support environments and a valuable text for courses in social psychology, social interaction, personal relationships, interpersonal communication, communication theory, and related areas. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
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Two main questions guided this research: (a) How do newlyweds' affective statements and interactive styles found in narratives told about their relation-ship help us understand the meaning they make of their marriages? (b) How does analysis of the affective statements and interactive styles of Black couples (n = 136) in comparison to White couples (n = 135) help us understand the differential meaning in these groups? The representative sample was inter-viewed from 5 to 8 months after marriage. The narrative procedure asked the couples to tell the story of their relationship. By and large, Black couples and White couples showed similar patterns of affective reactions: They were gener-ally positive, emphasizing individual rather than communal affects, many of which dealt with the external world rather than their own interpersonal lives. In comparison to White husbands, Black husbands are more often perceived as the focus of affective life in the relationship. White couples refer to the external world in their affective statements more frequently than Black couples. With regard to interactive styles in the storytelling, there were more Black-White differences. Although most couples' interactions were mainly collaborative, Blacks showed less cooperative styles of interaction and greater conflict than did Whites. Using the developmental, cultural variant, and cultural equiva-lent perspectives, the article presents interpretations of the similimilarities and differences found for Black and White couples' narratives. (Psychology; an-thropology)
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Addresses the lack of literature dealing with social and relational context in which stressors are experienced with a focus on communal coping in which both appraisals of the stressor and development of coping strategies are considered. The chapter goes beyond the small body of earlier work on the social aspects of coping to present a new framework that integrates the social dimension—communal coping. Communal coping applies not just to collective stressors such as natural disasters but also includes stressors that are usually defined as individual such as illness or job loss. Through a review of the coping literature and a variety of examples, the chapter clarifies how focus on the individual has limited understanding of the coping process and how the focus in the context of relationships can enrich understanding of that process. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)