In this chapter, we posit the existence of another primary dimension of the human motivational system. This theory on motivation contends that people harbor wishes for oneness or merger with what was termed "the good mother of early childhood" (i.e., mother when she was experienced early in life as comforting, protective, and nurturing). Theorists averred that some form of gratification of these wishes in the patient's experience of the analytical relationship often leads to a better outcome. We conceptualize this motive as a drive to become part of, at one with, or belong to, a larger whole. We call it the
oneness motive (or oneness fantasies). (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)