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Friendships of Women and of Men

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This study examines the responses of four groups of persons as to their feelings about friendship and aloneness. The four groups are defined on the basis of gender and their Conventionality vs. Nonconventionality of values and attitudes toward life. It was found that the friendships of women are more personal and emotionally based than those of men. It is suggested that Nonconventional women and men may have more in common than do Conventional and Nonconventional women or men.

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... Similarly, the few studies that have investigated gender segregation in middleaged and older adults have found that while cross-gender friendships are more common in adulthood than at early stages of the lifespan, people still report more same-gender friends than cross-gender friends [6,50,63,70]. ...
... Quantitative research with college students has suggested that while cross-gender friendships are common, both men and women feel closer with and prefer their same-gender friends to their cross-gender friends [16,57]. Similarly, quantitative and qualitative research with older adults suggests that while cross-gender friendships exist, same-gender friendships are more common [6,50,70]. By suggesting that there is a preference for same gender friends in adults aged between 30-39, our research fills a gap in the gender segregation literature and also begins to provide some evidence to support the proposition that preference for same gender friends may be a lifespan phenomenon [46]. ...
... In the present study, women indicated that they felt as though they could explore deeper topics with their female friends in comparison to their male friends. That women felt freer to talk about intimate topics with their same-gender friends may reflect their greater comfort with same-gender friends [6]. It could also reflect that women have more experience with self-disclosure than men [54]. ...
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Gender segregation, the tendency to form social relationships with those of the same gender, is believed to contribute to gender-typing (Mehta and Strough in Sex Roles 63:251–263, 2010), sexism (Keener et al. in Gend Educ 25:818–833, 2013; Leaper in Childhood gender segregation: causes and consequences, Jossey-Bass, San Francisco, 1994) and beliefs that it is it is only appropriate to be friends with those of the same gender (Werking in We’re just good friends: women and men in nonromantic relationships, Guilford Press, New York, 1997). While gender segregation and its correlates have been widely studied in childhood, little research has investigated gender segregation in adulthood. In the present study, we qualitatively investigated gender segregation, potential contributors to gender segregation, and cross-gender friendships by interviewing a sample of eleven heterosexual adults (six female, five male) aged 30–39. Participants reported preferring and feeling closer to their same-gender friends than their cross-gender friends and having different interests and activity preferences than their cross-gender friends. Participants also reported that being in a heterosexual romantic relationship promoted both gender segregation and the formation of cross-gender friendships. Finally adults reported that they gained enjoyment and perspective from their cross-gender friendships. Taken together, this research suggests that while gender segregation continues to exist in adulthood, adults enjoy and recognize the benefits of having cross-gender friends.
... [Psychological] dispositional explanations of friendship patterns emphasize the effects of individ- ual characteristics such as personality, motives, and personal preferences" (Blieszner & Adams, 1992, p. 18-19). The two most influential structural variables of friendship are sex (Bell, 1981), our interest here, and age, as evident in stage of life course (e.g., par- enthood) and stage of psychosocial development (Fischer & Oliker, 1983). ...
... As already seen in Blieszner and Adam's (1992) model of friendship, hierarchy and solidarity are two aspects of the structure of friendship dyads. Both are components of the closeness or distance between people, with hierarchy referring to the vertical axis of power and control, and solidarity referring to the horizontal axis of emotional ties (McWilliams & ondary to the friendship itself, but appreciating its contribution (Bell, 1981;Rubin, 1985). A complex aspect of the sexual challenge is defining the sym- bolic meaning of physical acts such as a touch or hug (O'Meara, 1989). ...
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Current public debate about sexual correctness has exacerbated traditional anxieties about adult cross-sex friendship. In seeking a Christian understanding of such relationships, the nature of friendship is explored by distinguishing it from other personal relationships and by overviewing a model of friendship. Then, after describing the normative barriers to cross-sex friendship, O'Meara's four specific challenges are discussed in light of Scripture: (a) determining the type of emotional bond represented by the relationship, (b) contending with the issue of sexuality, (c) dealing with the barrier of inequality, and (d) presenting the relationship as authentic to relevant audiences. Finally, Christian recommendations for the practice of cross-sex friendship are presented.
... For example, women tend to show a greater preference for emotional sharing and conversation, whereas men tend to show a greater preference for shared activities (Caldwell & Peplau, 1982). In addition, weight, thinness, and physical appearance are of more concern for social and economic success for women than for men (Crandall, 1994;Rodin, Silberstein, & Striegel-Moore, 1984), However, physical activities and sports are typically more selfdefinitional for men than women (Bell, 1981;Constantinople, 1969). If similarity matching reflects these differences in group values, then we would expect that women (more than men) will assort into friendship on the basis of height and weight and that men (more than women) will assort on the basis of exercise and sports. ...
... Similarly, male (more than female) students tended to assort on an activityexercise. This is also consistent with research showing that activities define male groups more than female groups (Bell, 1981). ...
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To investigate the extent members of social groups assort along dimensions valued by the group, the authors studied similarity among naturally occurring same-sex, same-race pairs on 3 university campuses. Each member of a pair was asked about height, weight, age, politics, and exercise. The authors hypothesized that people form friendships along the dimensions that they value and that these dimensions of value represent the "fault lines" around which the larger social group of which they are members divides itself. Women assort more on physical characteristics than men, reflecting the social value of women's physical appearance. Men are more likely to assort by activity than women, reflecting men's activity-based identities. Low levels of similarity were found among friendship pairs for Black participants at a predominantly White campus but high levels were found at a predominantly Black campus. Group similarity assortment is discussed as a subtle measure of group values and opportunity, based on the composition of the social ecological setting. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)
... Research suggests that women and men have different perspectives on friendships. Women tend to cultivate more personal and emotionally driven friendships, where they openly discuss anxieties and insecurities (Bell 1981). Conversely, men tend to view friendship as centered around shared activities and experiences. ...
... Previous studies also suggest that age and gender can be contributing factors in the variation of friendship characteristics. Men emphasize the importance of friendship and affiliation more than women (Smollar & Youniss, 1985) as men's friendships are more often characterized by how they relate to others and share activities with friends (Bell, 1981). However, women perceive friendship development more rapidly than men and focus more on intimacy and interpersonal support at an earlier age than men (Berndt, 1981;Bigelow & LaGaipa, 1980). ...
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... ). Kasih sayang dan sokongan dalam hubungan persahabatan terbukti berbeza mengikut jenis persahabatan, iaitu dalam hubungan persahabatan sama jantina dan hubungan persahabatan berbeza jantina. MenurutBell (1981) persahabatan sama jantina antara perempuan bersifat ekspresif dan dilihat lebih intim berbanding persahabatan sama jantina antara lelaki yang lebih bersifat instrumental dan kurang intim.Semasa kanak-kanak membesar mereka membentuk rasa diri dan kemampuan untuk berhubungan dengan orang lain serta berperanan dalam masyarakat. Sewaktu proses ini berlaku, mereka juga mengembangkan kepercayaan tentang peranan dan harapan yang dikaitkan dengan setiap kumpulan jantina, peranan gender dan identiti diri sebagai ahli dari satu kumpulan jantina atau identiti gender (Zevallos, 2014). ...
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Hubungan persahabatan merupakan salah satu hubungan interpersonal yang sangat penting dalam kehidupan seseorang. Persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina merupakan salah satu jenis persahabatan akrab. Sosialisasi gender dan agama mempunyai pengaruh yang signifikan terhadap individu yang mengamalkan persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina. Kajian ini adalah bertujuan untuk memahami makna persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina serta mengenal pasti pengaruh sosialisasi gender dan agama dalam persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina. Kajian ini hanya memfokuskan kepada informan Melayu yang beragama Islam dan merupakan pelajar Universiti Sains Malaysia. Pendekatan kualitatif digunakan dalam proses pengumpulan dan analisis data yang melibatkan kaedah temu bual secara mendalam bersama tujuh orang informan. Kajian ini mendapati bahawa makna persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina adalah sama dengan persahabatan akrab sama jantina tetapi berbeza dari perspektif batas pergaulan, emosi dan sensitiviti, rahsia dan kepercayaan serta persaingan. Malah, persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina bukan hanya bersifat platonik tetapi juga melibatkan hubungan romantik. Keluarga dan rakan sebaya merupakan agen sosialisasi utama dalam sosialisasi gender. Amalan gender dalam persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina dapat dilihat dalam konteks aktiviti dan minat serta gaya berkomunikasi. Manakala amalan intimasi dalam persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina dibincangkan dalam konteks keselesaan, sokongan tidak bersyarat dan ekspresi emosi. Berbeza dengan sosialisasi gender, keluarga dan sekolah merupakan agen sosialisasi utama dalam sosialisasi agama. Amalan agama dalam persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina dapat dilihat dalam konteks batasan pergaulan iaitu fizikal, batas perbualan dan batas aurat. Manakala, amalan intimasi dalam persahabatan akrab berlainan jantina dibincangkan dalam konteks fizikal, emosi dan spiritual.
... Research from the 20th century on gender segregation at midlife suggests that although cross-gender friendships are more common in adulthood than in childhood, midlife adults still segregate by gender and report having more same-gender than cross-gender friends (Bell, 1981;Monsour, 1997;Sherman et al., 2000). A study of adults' friendships in a housing project found that 73% of the friends reported by participants were of the same gender (Nahemow & Lawton, 1975). ...
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We investigated gender segregation and its correlates in the friendships of U.S. adults aged 50–74 years (177 women; 52 men). Gender segregation existed in our midlife sample such that 74% of friend nominations were same gender. Similar to research on other periods of the adult lifespan we found that for women, gender segregation was negatively correlated with competitive activity orientation, positively correlated with beliefs about same-gender peers’ communicative responsiveness and negatively correlated with beliefs about other-gender peers’ communicative responsiveness. Women’s gender segregation was also negatively correlated with masculinity and positively correlated with gender-reference group identity. For men, gender segregation was negatively correlated with beliefs about other-gender peers’ communicative responsiveness and positively correlated with gender-reference group identity. Our results suggest that gender segregation continues to exist at midlife and that there is some continuity in the correlates of gender segregation across adulthood.
... Research that has investigated gender segregation in older adulthood has found that whereas cross-gender friendships are more common in older adulthood than in childhood, older adults tend to have more same-gender than cross-gender friends (Bell 1981;Monsour 1997;Sherman et al. 2000;Walker 2013). When asked to nominate a best friend, 100% of 29 single and 24 married older women and 90% of 23 married men nominated a best friend of the same gender (Jones and Vaughan 1990). ...
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We investigated whether gender segregation exists in established adulthood, the period from 30 to 45 years-old, and whether gender segregation is associated with the same correlates in adulthood with which it is associated in childhood and adolescence (i.e., cooperative and competitive activity orientation, perceived responsiveness of same- and other-gender peers, communion and agency, and gender reference group identity). National U.S. samples of adult women (n = 312) and men (n = 109) were recruited using Amazon’s MTurk. Fully 73% of peers nominated for “hanging out” by adult women and 71% of peers nominated by adult men were of the same gender. For women, gender segregation was associated with beliefs that same-gender peers were more responsive in conversation and with greater identification with same-gender others. For men, gender segregation was positively associated with preference for cooperative activities and negatively associated with communion. Our results suggest that gender segregation exists in adulthood and that there is some developmental continuity in the correlates of gender segregation across ages. By understanding the correlates of gender segregation, as well as the barriers to and benefits of cross-gender interactions, practitioners and activists can better support friendship and the reduction of gender-typing in established adults.
... Comparably, Bleske-Rechek et al. (2012) found that men experienced more attraction to their cross-sex friends than did women. While results from Bell's (1981) study suggested that participants desired a sexual component from their cross-sex friendship, 39% of women and 20% of men said that they abstained from sexual involvement with cross-sex friends out of fear that it would damage the friendship. Werking's (1997) study substantiated the concerns that emerged from Bell's research by indicating that 24% of terminated cross-sex friendships were due to one or both friends craving romance/sexual activity. ...
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This study investigated cross-sex best friendships in the experience and expression of jealousy within romantic relationships. Survey data (N = 346) revealed engaged-to-be-married individuals, compared to single, dating and married individuals, have the most negative attitudes regarding cross-sex best friendships. Results further indicated preventive jealousy experience is a predictor of rival-focused jealousy expression, and reactive jealousy experience is a predictor of both constructive and destructive jealousy expressions. Findings also suggest attitudes toward cross-sex best friendships can mediate the relationship between how jealousy is experienced and expressed in relation to reactive jealousy experience and destructive jealousy expression. Implications are discussed regarding how cross-sex best friendships can adversely affect romantic relationships.
... Interaction patterns pertaining to practical support (e.g., "If I need money, my friend will lend it to me"), doing activities together (e.g., "If I want to have fun, my friend will go out with me"), and spending time together (e.g., "If I just want to do nothing, my friend will be fine with that") were considered less indicative. 6 Other studies confirm that the meaning of friendship does not change substantially across the adult life course (e.g., Adams, Blieszner, & De Vries, 2000;Bell, 1981;Fehr, 1996;Fischer, 1982b;Hays, 1984;Weiss & Lowenthal, 1975). However, some age differences were found in a recent study conducted in Portugal. ...
... While these ties can facilitate resource sharing and decision-making, their hallmark characteristics include high degrees of trust and companionship that enable employees to share personal or sensitive information that they may not disclose with other individuals (Gibbons, 2004). Friendship ties are maintained through strong emotional bonds and goodwill that foster altruistic behavior among the employees who share them (Bell, 1981;McAllister, 1995). ...
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We examine the relationships between employee friendship and advice network centrality and organizational citizenship behavior (OCB). Using social exchange theory as a basis, we argue that centrality within the workplace friendship network will be positively and linearly related to employee OCB. Further, we draw on conservation of resources theory and role theory to predict a curvilinear (inverse U) relationship between employees’ advice network centrality and OCB such that employees will engage in higher levels of OCB at moderate levels of advice centrality than at low and high levels. We test the theoretical model in an academic setting (using other reports of network ties and employee ratings of OCB) and a US-based organization (using other reports of network ties and supervisor ratings of OCB). The results support the idea of a curvilinear relationship between advice network centrality and OCB in both studies and a linear relationship between friendship centrality and OCB in Study 2. Practical implications and directions for future research are addressed.
... For the Iranian students having higher similarity implies greater intimacy and understandings. According to Bell (1981) and Rubin (1985), similarity plays a significant role in making friends. During the interview, the participants focused on best friend as a very special person. ...
... 298). A number of researchers also have explored what lay people have in mind when they this term (e.g., Adams, Blieszner, & De Vries, 2000;Bell, 1981;Fischer, 1982b;Hays, 1984;Weiss & Lowenthal, 1975;see Fehr, 1996, for a review). For instance, Crawford (1977) asked middle-aged people living in Britain to define close friends by asking them to complete the sentence, "A close friend is someone…" The responses in order of frequency were: I can trust I can call on for help I can go out with I see often who comes into my home I've known for a long time whose company I enjoy In a study along the same lines, Sapadin (1988) asked professionals in three major U.S. cities to complete the sentence, "A friend is someone…" . ...
... Either of these factors might lead these individuals to secretly seek to reignite the romantic relationship should their current relationship end. Bell (1981) found that 66% of women were either friends with or attracted to an ex-partner. Consistent findings are echoed by Foley and Fraser (1998) who found that 13% of ex-partners were sexually involved, and 22% reported that they wished to include sexual intercourse as part of their postdating relationship with their ex-partner. ...
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This research investigates individual and contextual differences underlying postdissolution friendships by considering communication with former romantic partners among individuals in new romantic relationships. Two studies demonstrate the prevalence, determinants, and implications of former partner communication for the current relationship. Study 1 showed that approximately 40% of individuals in relationships communicate with a former partner and highlighted differences between those who communicate and those who do not. Study 2 factor analyzed reasons why people communicate with former partners and examined how the reasons are differentially associated with current relationship functioning. In general, results support the notion that under certain circumstances and for certain individuals, communication with former partners can have deleterious influences on one's current relationship.
... 166). They are unique, enduring, chosen voluntarily, and have a sense of equity and mutuality of affection and interest (Bell, 1981; Friedman, 1993). Close friends, a distinction more often made by women, possess the attributes of friends to a greater depth and are more likely to be confided in and relied upon (Fehr, 1996). ...
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This study examined the close friendships of women student affairs professionals and explored the influences of career mobility on those relationships. Data were collected in individual interviews. Participants included 14 women ages 27 to 45 (8 single, 6 partnered; 4 Black or African American, 10 White or Caucasian; 4 lesbian, 10 heterosexual) All had a master's degree (from 6 institutions in 4 states) in student affairs, 4 had a doctorate (from 2 universities in 2 states). The women were living in five states and working at 10 colleges and universities in the West, South, and Midwest. Two were working at community colleges, 5 at small private colleges, and 7 at large four-year universities. Primary responsibilities were in six different functional areas. Participants defined close friendship and described the challenges of making professional and personal transitions. Implications for the student affairs profession are considered.
... However, defining it can be difficult. Bell (1981) and Fischer (1982) claimed that the meaning for the word friendship is subjective in different cultures. For many of us, friendship is a tangible concept that is experienced throughout our lifetime. ...
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... Wright (1984) mentioned that friendship can be differentiate from the other types of relationships by looking into the nature of the interaction. When people meet someone new and become friends, people treat each other as a person with meaning and not just an occupant within a certain role (Bell, 1981). In the west, friendship varies from short-term superficial ones to long-term committed ones (Matthews, 1986). ...
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For the past few years, Asian universities have been trying to position themselves as a venue for study abroad opportunities. This is also quite true in Taiwan, wherein universities are exerting much effort in the recruitment of international students. Within the paradigm of internationalization, having international students in Taiwan is a way to promote communication, understanding, and friendship between other countries around the world. Moreover, it is hypothesized that successful internationalization is built upon the friendships that are form between student exchanges. In addition, with the current increased emphasis in student exchanges with mainland China, it would be quite important to determine the various concepts on friendship within these students. Therefore, the current study seeks to analyze the different insights between the Chinese and local Taiwan students’ concepts on friendship. Using a mixed-method paradigm, 6 groups of volunteer students enrolled in a technical and vocational university in Taiwan participated in a series of focus group discussions. Afterwards, a survey was designed from the focus group interview results. The survey was then administered to 200 volunteer mainland Chinese and local Taiwan students. Statistical results show that there are both similarities and differences within the concepts on friendship. Local students are eager to make friends with their international peers, while majority of them thought primarily of the opportunity to understand a new culture. In addition, survey results also show that the highest factor is the social results; wherein the students’ goal is to expand their world view and gain interpersonal relationship.
... Quality is conceptualized as a subjective feeling of closeness to the other person, as well as a more objective assessment of the degree to which various aspects of friendship are achieved in the relationship. Important aspects of friendship have been identified by several researchers (Bell, 1981; Davis & Todd, 1985; La Gaipa, 1979; Wright, 1969) and include enjoyment, mutual trust, intimacy, shared activities, frequency of contact, and the provision of assistance. Quality and Sex-Role Orientation. ...
... Females are more emotionally attached to their friends in many aspects, whereas males are only attached to enjoyable activities, but are not proactive in sharing problems with friends. 72 The overall scores for UniSZA in the SSSP domain were comparable to an equivalent Irish study, 10 but were slightly higher than scores generated in a study in Kuwait. 65 Malaysia is a multi-ethnic country with a multi-cultural society; in fact, the UniSZA social environment was perceived to be well-balanced between Malay, Chinese, and Indian students. ...
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... Zumeist wird dabei betont, dass Freundschaften auf Freiwilligkeit, emotionaler Verbundenheit und R eziprozität gründen (vgl. Bell, 1981;Kolip, 1994: 22;Wolf, 1996: 21), was auch die Möglichkeit mit umfasst, Verwandte als Freunde zu haben (vgl. Schneider, 1969: 7). ...
... Wright (1984) mentioned that friendship can be differentiate from the other types of relationships by looking into the nature of the interaction. When people meet someone new and become friends, people treat each other as a person with meaning and not just an occupant within a certain role (Bell, 1981). In the west, friendship varies from short-term superficial ones to long-term committed ones (Matthews, 1986). ...
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... More women than men appear to qualify their experience in a friends with benefits as important. But they also do not want to go back to have it in higher numbers than men (Bell, 1981;Owen an Fincham, 2011 b;Lewis,et al., 2012). Women seem to have less positive emotional reactions compared to men (Fincham & Owen 2011a, b;Lewis et al., 2012); women also feel more uncomfortable and guilty than men. ...
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... In some cases, respondents decided not to pursue a romantic relationship at the expense of their friendship. This finding supports research that proposes sexual involvement between friends may be seen as a threat to the friendship (Bell, 1981;Sapadin, 1988) and friends will not act upon their romantic attraction for fear it will ruin or change the friendship (Furman, 1986). ...
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... This procedure was based on Reeder's (2003) open-ended friend nomination measure. Reeder allowed participants to list up to eight friends because research (Bell 1981;Parker and de Vries 1993) has suggested that women and men tend to have six to seven close friends on average. Consistent with prior research (Davis and Todd 1982;Hodges et al. 1999), close friendships were defined for participants as "people you like, feel close to, or enjoy spending time with." ...
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... Close friend also plays a role as a resource for coping with stressful events (Weimer, Kerns, & Oldenburg, 2004). Friendships also help meet cognitive needs, including stimulation and pleasure (Bell, 1981;Tesch, 1983;Rubin, 1986;Berzoff, 1989). Being involved in close friendship has a variety of consequences for the participants. ...
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... Previous work has noted that women report feeling extremely close to their female friends and here we show that women walk more slowly together even than they do with their Partner. Conversely, men report that they do not feel extremely close or intimate with their male friends and thus here walk more quickly than they do alone [28,29]. ...
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