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Integrating Evolutionary and Social Exchange Perspectives on Relationships: Effects of Gender, Self-Appraisal, and Involvement Level on Mate Selection Criteria

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Two studies examined which traits males and females desire in partners at various levels of relationship development in an attempt to integrate evolutionary models (which emphasize sex differences) and social exchange models (which emphasize self-appraisals). In Study 1, male and female students specified their minimum criteria on 24 traits for a date, sexual partner, exclusive dating partner, marriage partner, and 1-night sexual liaison. They also rated themselves on the same dimensions. Sex differences were greatest for casual sexual liaisons, with men's criteria being consistently lower than women's. Men's self-ratings were generally less correlated with their criteria for a 1-night stand, as well. Study 2 replicated the findings of Study 1, adding several modifications, including a measure of Ss' sex typing. Sex typing had few effects. The advantages of combining social psychological and evolutionary perspectives are discussed.
... Women seem to be more discriminating on most criteria than are men, with the exception of attractiveness and youth (Buss, 1989). However, men are also highly selective, particularly when they are selecting a long-term partner (Kenrick, Groth, Trost, & Sadalla, 1993;Kenrick, Sadalia, Groth, & Trost, 1990). ...
... Men's ratings of these traits were also high, although significantly lower than women's. It is possible that the importance of these traits to both men and women may have been amplified, and sex differences minimized, by the instructions to consider only a long-term or marital partner rather than a short-term partner (see Kenrick et al., 1993;Kenrick et al., 1990). ...
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Men and women value different characteristics in potential partners. It was hypothesized that women feel they have less control over traits relevant to their desirability than men feel they have over traits related to male desirability. In Study 1, undergraduates (N = 150) completed questionnaires measuring (a) the importance they attributed to 64 characteristics when choosing a mate and (b) their perceived control over these traits. Men selected partners on the basis of traits that are relatively uncontrollable (e.g., youth, attractiveness), whereas women selected partners on the basis of traits that are more controllable (e.g., status, industriousness; d = 1.75). In Study 2, these findings were replicated in an older, representative community sample (N = 301; d = 1.03). Greater uncontrollability of traits relevant to female mate value may place women at elevated risk for negative affect, depression, low self-esteem, and body dissatisfaction.
... According to Buss and Schmitt (1993), women, as well as men, have different standards of attractiveness for short-term and long-term relationships (see also Buss, 2003;Schmitt, 2014). Data support this distinction showing that women are primarily focused on a men's masculine appearance when ovulating, choosing a short-term partner (Gangestad & Thornhill, 2008;Kenrick et al., 1993), while they find masculine men less attractive for long-term relationships (Buss & Schmitt, 1993;Gangestad & Simpson, 2000;Rhodes et al., 2005;Wiederman & Dubois, 1998). Generally, in the transition from short-term to long-term relationships women reduce the minimal standards of male attractiveness Fig. 1 Hypothetical distributions of attractiveness (full line) and unattractiveness (dashed line). ...
... The average size does not correspond with the highest attractiveness which is slightly shifted toward supernormal sizes (see the text for details, cf. Marković & Bulut, 2017a) from about the 70th to approximately 60th percentile (Kenrick et al., 1993;Regan, 1998). The period of the menstrual cycle also influences a woman's choice of partner and the preference for masculinity. ...
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In the present study, we investigated the differences in the experience of attractiveness and unattractiveness of human bodies. A total of 101 participants (55 females) were asked to create the most attractive and the most unattractive female and male figures using a computer animation. They performed this task by adjusting the size of six body parts: shoulders, breasts/chest, waist, hips, buttocks, and legs. Analyses indicated that attractive body parts were distributed normally with the peak shifted to moderately supernormal sizes, while unattractive body parts had mostly U-shaped or skewed distributions with extremes in super-supernormal and/or subnormal sizes. Generally, both male and female attractive bodies had prominent “sporty” look: supernormally wide shoulders and long legs. Gender differences showed that men prefer more supernomal masculine and feminine sizes, while women show an ambivalence toward both groups of traits. Principal components analysis revealed gender differences on the multitrait level: males focus on prominent masculine and feminine traits, while women focus on traits that make both male and female bodies more elongated and slender. Gender differences were in line with specific male and female positions in the partner selection process, while a certain tendency toward masculinization of the female body required the inclusion of social factors, such as the influence of the culture of a sporty and fit look.
... Overall, unexpectedly, men's preferences did not seem to correlate as strongly with their sociodemographic potential as women's preferences did, although women's higher preferences for status and resources in men are widely reported (e.g., Buss, 1989;Kenrick et al., 1993;Li, 2007). In other words, while women value men's status more than men value women's status in the mating context (Jonason et al., 2012), men with lower status indicators did not decrease their preferences (because of lower mate choice power) as much as women did. ...
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... Indeed, some studies find only perceived intelligence, but not actual intelligence, to be attractive (Driebe et al., 2021). Further, displaying social facility and warmth via humor production may be a useful mating strategy because those traits are highly valued by both sexes (Kenrick et al., 1993), particularly for long-term relationships (Didonato et al., 2012). Across several studies, Hall found stronger associations between humor production and warmth than with intelligence, assessed via data culled from Facebook profiles, grade point average, and ACT scores. ...
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This chapter summarizes the theories and research on the evolutionary bases of humor. We aim to explain the potential adaptive value of humor, what functions humor serves, and how a sense of humor can help increase fitness. We will focus our explanations on the two central mechanisms, natural selection and sexual selection, that are deeply rooted in our evolutionary history. Using these mechanisms, we will explore how production and appreciation of humor can contribute to survival and enhance mating success. Several evolutionary explanations have been offered over the years, starting with Charles Darwin’s view of humor as “tickling of the mind”. The theories vary in scope, with some focusing on a specific aspect of humor or laughter, while others are more comprehensive. Each theory illuminates important tenets of humor, but not all. We will critically review and evaluate the various evolutionary theories, highlighting the strengths and weakness of each, and suggest directions for future research – including exploring humor’s links to other uniquely human capacities like intelligence, creativity, and artistry. Humor is a multifaceted phenomenon, and understanding it requires insights from disparate academic fields. Only a multidisciplinary approach could provide a complete understanding of such a unique human experience.
... Given their physiological and psychological investment in offspring (Archer, 2015c;Archer et al., 2015;Buss, 2016a;Trivers, 1972), females face greater risk when mating with low-status males when pregnancy is possible. As such, theories of evolutionary fitness suggest that females tend to be more selective with respect to reproductive outcomes compared to males (Antfolk, 2017;Buss & Barnes, 1986;Buunk et al., 2002;Kenrick et al., 1993;Shoemake, 2007;Trivers, 1972). Our results are consistent with respect to heterosexual individuals, where females were more selective in the age of their ideal partners compared to heterosexual males, but not compared to gay and bisexual males (H2). ...
... For casual or short-term sexual liaisons, women desire strong, powerful and courageous men (or 'cads') who can provide them with genetic qualities that are likely to be passed on to offspring (Gangestad & Simpson, 2000). Traits indicative of the genetic quality that are prioritized when choosing a short-term mate include physical attractiveness (Kenrick et al., 1993) and a masculine physique (Little et al., 2007). Conversely, for long-term relationships, women place greater value on industriousness, relationship commitment and resource potential (Buss, 1989;Buss & Schmitt, 1993, 2019Li et al., 2002). ...
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... We read and studied numerous studies on mate selection criteria as well as items used in international personality inventories and well-referenced studies to develop the coding scheme for this study [23,24,[51][52][53][54]55]. ...
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