Independent Researcher
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Asked 1 May 2024
Why is adult sex information based on erotic fiction & male fantasies?
We’ve got this generation of boys growing up thinking that, you know, women practically faint at the sight of an erection, that women orgasm through penetration, that threesomes are normal. (Tracey Cox)
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Where are all the sites offering sex education? What do they talk about? Do they explain how women get more out of their sexual relationships? What suggestions do you have for how women enjoy sexual pleasure?
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University of Coimbra
The commercial factor is dominating Jane Elizabeth Thomas Serious approaches in sexual science are not welcome and generally marginalized.
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University of Coimbra
The commercial factor is dominating Jane Elizabeth Thomas Serious approaches in sexual science are not welcome and generally marginalized.
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That may be of interest:
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Independent Researcher
I agreed that sexologists seem to believe that erotic fiction equates to reality just as much as the rest of the population. But it is a young science, there is a chance that it could change. I have to hope for that anyway!
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University of Coimbra
Yes Jane Elizabeth Thomas . Imo, the chance of change implies the framework of allied health science, which refers to physical and mental health. In this sense, scientific progess in sexology is in the making.
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Independent Researcher
Thanks Stephen for commenting. I am not sure I understand what you are saying. I am being hugely optimistic about saying that sexology can change. So far, I have found it to be massively political with the male view of female sexuality dominating. That is natural, men dominate everywhere in society. But in defining female sexual response, women need to have the casting vote. That is not happening at the current time. It will take a long time to change entrenched beliefs and attitudes towards women's sexuality. But I am trying as one person - no one seems keen to join such a seemingly futile battle. I can only do my best...
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University of Coimbra
Imo, physical and mental health are the key to improve sexology. The commercial and political factors are dominant Jane Elizabeth Thomas , because ‚modern’ human society is still based on (the manipulation of) consumer behavior and social class reproduction ( ‚ant colony’). In this sense, you are doing your best to pose the right questions and to search for qualified answers by research.
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Consultancy of the World
You're right, Tracey Cox raises a good point. Erotic fiction does tend to focus on male pleasure and may not accurately reflect the full spectrum of female sexuality. Here's a breakdown of the issue:
- Media Bias: Erotic fiction and pornography are often produced for a male audience, leading to an overrepresentation of male desires.
- Focus on Physicality: These narratives can prioritize physical acts over emotional connection and communication, which are crucial for many women.
- Unrealistic Expectations: The portrayal of sex can be unrealistic and create skewed expectations for young men about female arousal and ease of orgasms.
Here are some alternative sources for a healthy understanding of sex:
- Sex Positive Resources: Look for websites and books that promote a positive and realistic view of sex, focusing on communication, consent, and mutual pleasure.
- Sexuality Education: Quality sex education programs can provide factual information about bodies, pleasure, and healthy relationships.
- Open Communication: Honest and open conversations with partners about desires and boundaries are essential for good sexual experiences.
It's important to remember that healthy adult sex is a lot more diverse than what erotic fiction portrays.
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